Truckstop Trysts and Bushwacked Behinds with Trixie and Katya
Digest
This episode of the podcast features Trixie Mattel discussing the importance of setting boundaries in intimate relationships, particularly when it comes to topping. She shares humorous anecdotes about her experiences, emphasizing the need for preparation and the importance of being able to handle the situation gracefully and with maturity. Trixie also talks about the challenges of topping, including the possibility of accidents and the importance of setting boundaries to protect yourself from being taken advantage of or hurt. The episode concludes with a discussion about the importance of communication and respect in relationships, and the need to be mindful of the other person's needs and feelings.
Outlines
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Trixie Motel Season 2
This Chapter is about Trixie Mattel's new season of Trixie Motel, which is out on Max. She talks about the season's content, including her relationship with David and their renovation of their dream home in Hollywood.
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Drag Queens and Unwanted Attention
This Chapter discusses Trixie's experiences with unwanted attention from straight people when she's in drag. She talks about how she handles these situations and how she feels about being objectified.
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Trixie's Dating Preferences
This Chapter delves into Trixie's dating preferences, including her love for facial hair and her aversion to certain types of underwear. She shares her thoughts on the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and how she handles unwanted advances.
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Pick Me Girls and Gay Roles
This Chapter explores the concept of "pick me girls" and how it applies to the gay community. Trixie discusses the different types of gay men and how she identifies with certain groups.
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Trixie's Drag Era
This Chapter focuses on Trixie's current drag era and her love for lip syncing, bad brunch jokes, and feather boas. She talks about her desire to get back to lip syncing and her struggles with finding music that she enjoys.
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Competition in the Drag World
This Chapter discusses the competitive nature of the drag world and how Trixie feels about the competition she faces in Los Angeles. She talks about the different types of drag queens and how she sees herself as unique.
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Topping and Boundaries
This Chapter discusses the importance of setting boundaries in intimate relationships, particularly when it comes to topping. Trixie shares humorous anecdotes about her experiences, emphasizing the need for preparation and the importance of being able to handle the situation gracefully and with maturity.
Keywords
Trixie Mattel
Trixie Mattel is an American drag queen, singer, songwriter, comedian, and television personality. She is known for her appearances on RuPaul's Drag Race and her successful music career. Trixie is known for her comedic style, her unique brand of drag, and her outspoken personality.
Drag
Drag is a form of performance art in which people dress up in the clothing and adopt the mannerisms of a gender other than their own. Drag is often used as a form of entertainment, but it can also be a powerful tool for social commentary and self-expression.
Dating
Dating is the process of meeting people romantically with the goal of forming a relationship. It can involve going on dates, getting to know each other, and deciding whether or not to pursue a romantic relationship.
Boundaries
Boundaries are limits that you set in your relationships to protect yourself from being taken advantage of or hurt. They are important for maintaining healthy relationships and for ensuring that your needs are met.
Pick Me Girl
A "pick me girl" is a term used to describe a woman who tries to gain attention from men by putting down other women. This behavior is often seen as toxic and harmful to female relationships.
Gay Roles
Gay roles refer to the different ways that gay people are perceived and treated in society. These roles can be based on stereotypes, assumptions, and expectations.
Lip Syncing
Lip syncing is the act of performing a song without actually singing it. It is often used in drag performances and music videos.
Feather Boas
Feather boas are long, decorative scarves made of feathers. They are often used in drag performances and costumes.
Topping
Topping is a sexual term that refers to the person who is on top during sexual intercourse. It can also refer to the act of taking the dominant role in a sexual encounter.
Bottoming
Bottoming is a sexual term that refers to the person who is on the bottom during sexual intercourse. It can also refer to the act of taking the receptive role in a sexual encounter.
Q&A
How does Trixie Mattel handle unwanted attention from straight people when she's in drag?
Trixie says she's not into talking to people in the lobby at hotels when she's in drag and that she's not on stage, so she doesn't feel obligated to engage with them. She emphasizes that drag is not consent and that she's not obligated to interact with people who are just curious about drag.
What are some of Trixie Mattel's dating preferences?
Trixie loves men with facial hair, especially thick, quick-growing facial hair. She also has a thing for men with beards that are a similar length to their hair and that continue around the ear. She's not a fan of certain types of underwear, including jog straps, and prefers thongs.
What does Trixie Mattel think about the concept of "pick me girls" and how it applies to the gay community?
Trixie believes that the concept of "pick me girls" exists in the gay community as well, and that it's often seen in men who try to downplay their gayness or who try to appeal to straight men.
What are some of Trixie Mattel's thoughts on relationships and the importance of setting boundaries?
Trixie believes that it's important to take time to get to know someone before making commitments. She also emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, both romantic and platonic, to protect yourself from being taken advantage of or hurt.
What are some of Trixie Mattel's experiences with topping and the challenges it can present?
Trixie talks about the challenges of topping, including the possibility of accidents and the importance of setting boundaries. She also shares her humorous take on the importance of being able to handle the situation gracefully and with maturity.
What are some of Trixie Mattel's tips for preparing for a sexual encounter, particularly when it comes to topping?
Trixie emphasizes the importance of preparation, suggesting that people should have a plan in place, including having a designated area for the encounter and taking steps to protect their belongings. She also advises people to be mindful of the potential for accidents and to take precautions to avoid them.
What does Trixie Mattel think about the importance of communication and respect in relationships?
Trixie emphasizes the importance of communication and respect in relationships, particularly when it comes to sexual encounters. She suggests that people should be open and honest with their partners about their needs and desires, and that they should be respectful of each other's boundaries.
Show Notes
It was a steamy mid-August night outside of Bismarck, North Dakota. My cherry-red 1987 Yugo got a flat on Route 94 and I had to hoof it through the darkness to a truckstop. It was the kind of place that was stuck in time, like your Uncle's wood-paneled fishing cabin in Minnesota. After a quick meal of a lifeless burger on a soggy bun and even soggier fries, I made my way to the parking lot to see if I could hitch a ride to a local garage. While wandering the rows of trucks that sat beneath the parking lot lights like mighty sentinels at rest, I stumbled upon a bearded trucker listening to Hank Williams on his CB radio. Our eyes met, and he waved me over to his rig. Sitting high above me like a hairy demi-god behind his chrome steering wheel, his eyes just barely peeping out from beneath his Pennzoil baseball cap, he pointed to the back of his cab. Without exchanging a single word, we engaged in hours upon hours of amorous congress, our bodies slick with the moisture from the summer dew outside. When the sky began to brighten and the fireworks of our worlds colliding finally ceased, we nodded our heads, kissing deeply one last time. His breath was tinged with the hoppy aroma of Budweiser and his 5 o'clock shadow gently scraped my cheek as our lips parted. The ending of our brief, but memorable time together hit me like a ton of bricks. As I walked away into the dawn of a new day, I looked back, pumped my arm, and was greeted with a loud honk from his strong, hard semi-truck horn, startling me in a gentle manner, and forever bestowing upon me the gift of connecting that marvelous truck horn with one of the most wonderful, tawdry, and gloriously filthy nights of my life. Happy Pride, everyone.
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