Hotwife Diaries Podcast — Real Diary Stories from Real Hotwives

Welcome back to The Hotwife Diaries, where real-life stories meet unapologetic sexuality. Your hosts Aussie Cate and Mrs. Milford share candid adventures in the non-monogamous lifestyle, celebrating connection, pleasure, and the thrill of the unexpected.

Today’s Diary: Two Hotwives Answer Your Questions

This one exists because you asked for it. After a huge 2025 (nearly 400k downloads!), Cate and Milford dig into real listener questions — the honest, practical stuff couples talk about at home: safety, trust, STI concerns, vetting, flaking, and what actually works when you’re finding and meeting new partners in the wild.

Episode Highlights

- Big 2025 milestone — 393k downloads + 281k listeners (you beautiful perverts)

- Travel updates — Toronto NYE, solo Jamaica energy, Cate heading to Bangkok

- Safety beyond condoms — public first meets, location sharing, FaceTime/video checks

- Vetting red flags — disrespectful language, coming in too rough too fast, “daytime-only” cheater vibes

- First play-date rules — you book the hotel, you control the space, don’t go to his house

- STI talk — testing, swabs vs blood/urine, sharing results, informed consent

- Bareback conversations — transparency, risk, and what info actually matters

- Flake-proofing dates — same-day confirmation before the everything shower

- Apps vs websites — totally geographic, and why “the best app” isn’t universal

- Teaser for 2026 — men vs women masturbating (full episode coming)

Contact & Links

Aussie Cate — www.aussiecate.com

Mrs. Milford — www.mrsmilford.com

Swingers Dating Site Links

SDC - A USA + global swingers website and app, we're both on here!

Kasidie - West Coast USA (California, Las Vegas etc)

RedHotPie - Great for our Australian listeners 

FEELD - The mobile app we mention 

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