People need to stop maintaining connections that aren’t there. There are so many people who are in relationships or have friendships that are over due for throwing away. We as humans take so long to notice that a friend or significant other in our lives is no good nor brings any good into our lives but want to keep them around because most of us feed off of the negative instead of the positive. If you’re someone who likes to see the good in people you will struggle with this. You will like the potential you see in the person trying to paint them as a good person, but that will stop you from seeing the real person behind that false person you have painted them as. Your time is borrowed, imagine borrowing something and still wasting it. It’s a lot of people now a days wasting their own time and those peoples time who they think has a ‘connection’ with them. If you can’t even be your authentic self around your friend or partner, why would you want to maintain something like that? You’re blocking your own blessings by maintaining an imaginary ‘connection’.