In this episode, I talk with Dr. Bellandra Foster, P.E., about finding one's passion and purpose in engineering and making career decisions based on those factors. She also shares insights on coaching, the overlooked costs of being a boss, and the importance of family and self-time.



***The video version of this episode can be viewed here.***

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Here Are Some of the Questions I Ask Bellandra:



Can you share insights about the secret place of importance and its role in your life?

Has mastering the art of active listening, including the challenges of silence, played a significant role in guiding your path in both professional and personal aspects?

How would you advise someone to discover their passion and purpose, particularly in the field of engineering?

How has recognizing your passion and purpose influenced your career decisions and achievements?

Can you briefly discuss the importance of coaching from both the perspective of being a coach and having a coach?

How does playing for the home team apply to you professionally and personally, considering the secret place aspect you mentioned?

What are some frequently overlooked costs associated with being in a leadership position?

Why are family time and personal time important?

What last piece of advice would you offer to those striving for success in both their professional and personal lives?



Here Are Some Key Points Discussed in This Episode About Unlocking Potential by Finding Passion in Engineering:





Growing up in a religious setting, Bellandra stresses the importance of finding a quiet, spiritual space for guidance. Initially discussed in her success book, it has evolved into listening to God for direction. This space became crucial during her parents' passing and early business success, helping her make decisions in home, marriage, and business. Bellandra highlights the value of silent reflection in navigating life's challenges with spiritual guidance.

In business, discernment and prayer guide decision-making. Recognizing not every client or opportunity aligns, setbacks are seen as potential blessings for others, leading to active referrals to better-suited companies. The core principle is doing for others what one would want in return, encapsulating a thoughtful approach to business.

Bellandra's journey in engineering reflects a commitment to passion and purpose, navigating challenges and embracing joy in program management. Retirement isn't a priority as long as the work remains enjoyable. Recent recognition, including being named the Michigan State University distinguished Alumni in 2022, validates Bellandra's chosen path, affirming she is on the right track.

Knowing your passion and purpose is crucial for fulfilling your unique destiny. Trust that your path is guided by a higher purpose, enabling you to mentor and coach others by setting an example. Leading with honesty and integrity, acknowledging imperfections while striving to be a positive influence. If you're exploring coaching, remember that commitment is vital. Coaching involves personal action steps and a shared plan.

In your professional journey, mentors can play a vital role, even if you don't realize it. While coaching is an option, especially in areas like small business and life transitions, success depends on your commitment and effort. Coaching works best when you value your goals more than anyone else does.

To strike a balance between work and family life, consider delving into entrepreneurship, drawing inspiration from your professional network's insights into diverse industries. Optimize efficiency and family time by maintaining a home office. Juggling business growth and family priorities means playing for your home team,