Defining love is more important than most people realize. In this episode, Kevin and Alan share how their understanding of love has evolved—from trauma bonds and chasing significance to building healthy, growth-oriented relationships grounded in safety and support. Through honest stories and thought-provoking questions, they invite you to reflect on your own definition of love—because clarity can transform your relationships forever.

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Show notes:
(2:02 ) From attention-seeking to self-worth
(4:10 ) Wanting to be chased
(5:02 ) Trauma bonds and early love
(7:14 ) Shifting personal paradigms
(10:08 ) Love as growth and vision
(13:29 ) At NLU, your success matters. Join our Monthly Meet-up—first Thursdays at 5 PM! https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/monthly-meetups/
(14:24 ) Safety, warmth, and acceptance
(16:01 ) From needing love to choosing it
(22:44 ) How clarity creates connection
(24:15 ) Want Vs. need in relationships
(25:05 ) Outro

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