Discover"Modern Relationships"What Makes a Relationship Inevitable? | Sasha Chapin & Cate Hall
What Makes a Relationship Inevitable? | Sasha Chapin & Cate Hall

What Makes a Relationship Inevitable? | Sasha Chapin & Cate Hall

Update: 2025-02-21
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Sasha Chapin and Cate Hall have been together for three years. Sasha is a writer and co-founder of a perfume company, while Cate is a former pro poker player and CEO of a foundation. They talk about radical honesty in relationships, why the Enneagram can help bridge extreme personalities, and commitment over connection.


Modern Relationships is a podcast from Turpentine. Learn more: www.turpentine.co

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TIMESTAMPS:

(00:00 ) Preview and Intro

(02:26 ) How They Met

(05:15 ) Initial Incompatibility vs Sense of Inevitability

(11:41 ) Complementary Extremes

(14:37 ) The Reverse Honeymoon Period

(15:05 ) Sponsor: Relationship Hero

(17:57 ) Reversed Gender Roles

(24:51 ) Radical Honesty

(29:02 ) Levels of Woo

(29:38 ) Spiritual Alignment

(31:41 ) The Enneagram as Relationship Tool

(45:02 ) Relationship Advice: Marriage Timing and Commitment

(51:47 ) Puzzle Difficulty vs Slush Difficulty

(57:58 ) Commitment Before Connection

(1:00:12 ) Reverse Catfishing

(1:02:00 ) Wrap

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What Makes a Relationship Inevitable? | Sasha Chapin & Cate Hall

What Makes a Relationship Inevitable? | Sasha Chapin & Cate Hall

Erik Torenberg, Turpentine