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When Nobody Asks How You Are

When Nobody Asks How You Are

Update: 2025-10-22
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Being invisible isn’t always about being alone. Sometimes it’s about being around people who never really see you. What happens when nobody asks how you are?

This episode dives into the kind of loneliness that hides in plain sight; when you’re surrounded by people but still feel invisible. Through real stories from Reddit, we explore how neglect, silence, and emotional invisibility shape people with BPD, and why being unseen can hurt more than being left.


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00:00 Intro

01:02 None of my friends checked up on me.. https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/hdfqfi/none_of_my_friends_checked_up_on_me/

05:17 I don’t think anyone sees me, it makes me feel lost. https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/1374g8c/i_dont_think_anyone_sees_me_it_makes_me_feel_lost/

05:56 Everyone always leaves. https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/1gq22rz/everyone_always_leaves/

08:23 Can you survive BPD without a support system https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/1irwxyz/can_you_survive_bpd_without_a_support_system/

12:58 You CAN support someone with borderline personality disorder (BPD) in a healthy way. https://www.reddit.com/r/BorderlinePDisorder/comments/a717fp/you_can_support_someone_with_borderline/

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When Nobody Asks How You Are

When Nobody Asks How You Are

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