Saying 'Yes' and 'No' in Social Dancing

In this episode, Gui and I tackle the highly sensitive and personal topic of social dance invitations. We confront the biggest anxiety for many dancers: when to say 'yes' and when to say 'no' without feeling guilt.

We explain that there is no universal "right" or "wrong" answer. Instead, we encourage dancers to tune into their internal "battery," noting that the decision has more to do with the energy and vibe of a potential partner than their skill level.

The episode offers practical advice on navigating these social situations:

• The "Yes/No" Dilemma: We admit that saying 'no' is often difficult, but we share personal protocols to manage the situation, like saying, "I'll dance later" to avoid making someone feel singled out.

• The Power of Conversation: I share a powerful story of how a conversation off the dance floor completely transformed a challenging dynamic with a partner. We argue that building a connection through conversation is a valuable tool.

• The Small Town Mentality: We encourage dancers to adopt a "small town" mentality, where every action has an impact. We remind listeners that a single dance can make the difference between someone staying in the community or leaving it.

Ultimately, this episode is a plea for empathy and awareness. We urge dancers to be kind to one another, use their words to connect, and seek to help those who are struggling.

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When do you feel most comfortable or uncomfortable saying 'yes' or 'no' on the dance floor?

What do you believe is the most difficult aspect of this social dilemma?

Share your thoughts and join the conversation!