DiscoverThe Modern Leadership Coaching PodcastWhere Coaching Confidence Really Comes From | Truth #6
Where Coaching Confidence Really Comes From | Truth #6

Where Coaching Confidence Really Comes From | Truth #6

Update: 2025-09-10
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Ever wonder why some coaches still lack confidence despite consuming endless trainings, videos, and courses? The answer is deceptively simple yet profound – confidence isn't built through passive learning but through active application.

We dive deep into the fundamental truth that coaching confidence comes from doing, not just knowing. Real growth happens when you take action, reflect on your experience, and incorporate feedback to elevate your practice. This cycle of practice, reflection, and improvement creates the foundation for authentic coaching confidence that no course alone can provide.

Our discussion explores the critical distinction between confidence and self-confidence. While confidence comes from previous experience, self-confidence emerges when you trust yourself regardless of external validation. When you embrace the mindset that every coaching session leads to either success or valuable learning, you'll find the courage to take "messy action" despite uncertainty.

We also examine why many coaches hesitate to take action in the first place. Your brain naturally tries to protect you from discomfort, making it essential to develop mind management skills that allow you to push beyond your comfort zone. This same skill becomes invaluable when helping clients navigate their own resistance to change.

Whether you're a new coach seeking initial confidence or an experienced practitioner looking to reach new levels of mastery, this episode provides practical insights for your development journey. Remember: you don't get better by consuming – you get better by acting, reflecting, and continuously elevating your coaching practice.

Ready to develop as a fully confident coach? Reach out to discuss how our supportive community and feedback-rich environment can accelerate your growth. And don't miss our next episode where we tackle the controversial question: "Do I need a certification to coach?" The answer might surprise you!

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Where Coaching Confidence Really Comes From | Truth #6

Where Coaching Confidence Really Comes From | Truth #6

Marc & Teresa Hildebrand