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Why (the F*ck) Don’t I Feel Like Me Anymore? | Perimenopause Rage, Roles, Rewiring, Relationships and Reinvention

Why (the F*ck) Don’t I Feel Like Me Anymore? | Perimenopause Rage, Roles, Rewiring, Relationships and Reinvention

Update: 2025-09-07
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This episode of Rage Against the Vagine is for anyone who has ever looked in the mirror and thought, “Why don’t I feel like myself anymore?”


Host Em Rusciano sits down with leading experts to unpack the hormonal and neurobiological chaos of perimenopause, from brain fog and emotional outbursts, to the slow unravelling of old identities and coping strategies.


Together they explore the hidden pressures that leave so many women and AFAB people feeling flat, ragey or lost, and how relationships and roles can shift under the weight of midlife change. At the same time, this upheaval can open the door to boundaries, authenticity and reinvention.


This conversation validates the lived experience of perimenopause, including identity loss, relationship strain and the breakdown of old coping mechanisms, while also offering hope for a more authentic and discerning you on the other side.




The Voices You’ll Hear  


Leanne Mulheron | Registered Psychologist, Founder Affinity Psychology, @affinity_psychology 


A/Prof Caroline Gurvich | Clinical Neuropsychologist, Associate Professor (Research), HER Centre Australia and Head of Cognition and Hormones Group, Monash University, @hercentreaustralia  


Kirstin Bouse | Clinical and Forensic Psychologist, Founder All About Her @the_midlife_psychologist @allabouthercentre


Dr Fatima Kahn | Woman's Health Doctor & Hormone Expert, @drfatimakhan_ 


Dr Hannah Chapman | PMDD & Perimenopause expert @dr_hannah_chapman 


Dr Yvonne McCartney | GP and Co-Founder Menopause Health Geelong, @menopause_health_geelong


Myf Warhurst |  Presenter, Broadcaster, Journalist, Writer, @myfwarhurst


Wil Stracke | Assistant Secretary of Victorian Trades Hall Council, @wilstracke


Dr Nicole Higgins | Practice Principal (Health on Central, Mackay), GP and former President of  RACGP


Dr Kelly Teagle | GP, Founder and Principal Clinician of WellFemme, @wellfemme


A/Prof Nellie Torkamani | Associate Professor at the University of Melbourne, Endocrinologist at Austin Health, @nilou_far123




Resources, References & Rabbit Holes 


Affinity Psychology | 


Perimenopause Survival Guide 


Resources and Education


All About Her Centre | 


Perimenopause Symptoms Checklist 


Journal Prompts for Perimenopause 


Perimenopause, Mental Health and Self-Sovereignty


Want: A 6-Session Mini-Program for Midlife Women




Reminder


This episode of "Rage Against the Vagine" discusses mental health and suicide. It is not a substitute for medical advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, you can reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 at any time. Your story deserves to be heard and validated by a healthcare professional who understands this stage of life.


Lifeline | 13 11 14 | Text 0477 13 11 14 (24/7) | lifeline.org.au 


13 YARN | 13 92 76 | 13yarn.org.au Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander service available 24/7


Suicide Call Back Service | 1300 659 467 | suicidecallbackservice.org.au 


Beyond Blue | 1300 224 636 | beyondblue.org.au/forums 


StandBy Support After Suicide | 1300 727 247


QLife | 1800 184 527 | qlife.org.au | LGBTIQ+ service available 3pm – midnight




NEXT: Ep 5 - How (The F*ck) Do I Get Help? drops Monday 15 September 




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Why (the F*ck) Don’t I Feel Like Me Anymore? | Perimenopause Rage, Roles, Rewiring, Relationships and Reinvention

Why (the F*ck) Don’t I Feel Like Me Anymore? | Perimenopause Rage, Roles, Rewiring, Relationships and Reinvention

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