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Why Suffering in Silence Needlessly Ruins Relationships

Why Suffering in Silence Needlessly Ruins Relationships

Update: 2019-09-01
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Don't kid yourself! Your "silences" speak volumes!


I work with people whose relationships are in crisis for so long, and their hope that not speaking up about things that are bothering them mostly does more damage than anything.


Suffering in silence can be the exact opposite of healthy living. It's a poor--and often highly toxic--approach to relationship issues.


It's possible that folks who button up and bottle up recall prior negative experiences associated with speaking out. Things just didn't go well, or the result crushed them. Now, they don't want to risk their self-esteem, or the relationship.


Here's a HUGE, glaring mistake, too: Too many people talk to their kids about their frustrations with their partners. I'll talk about this more in the episode. But, know that here's the rule: DON'T DO THIS...unless your kids are fully functioning adults with enough relationship experience to have a healthy conversation.


Why do quiet, seemingly nice people kill their spouses? One reason is that they "suffered in silence" until they really needed to say something or burst. They burst! Don't let that be you!

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HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • why it is not wise to bottle things up
  • how resentment builds and rationality reduces
  • where you may have got the idea that suffering in silence is in any way wise
  • why it is imperative not to include your children in conversation about your partner
  • why getting help is a sign of strength: getting help does not mean you've failed


You'll find that in many other episodes of this podcast, and on my YouTube channel, too.

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Big hugs,

Rhoberta


Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,

The Relationship Help Doctor

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Why Suffering in Silence Needlessly Ruins Relationships

Why Suffering in Silence Needlessly Ruins Relationships