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Why Women Say “I’m Fine” at Work: The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression

Why Women Say “I’m Fine” at Work: The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression

Update: 2025-12-14
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Many women learn early in their careers to say “I’m fine” at work—even when they’re not. This video explores why women suppress emotions in professional settings, how workplace norms and gender bias shape emotional expression, and what research shows about the long-term cost of emotional suppression on well-being, credibility, and burnout.

Drawing on evidence from social psychology and emotion regulation research, we unpack concepts like emotional labor, the double bind, the likability tax, and role incongruity in leadership. You’ll learn why workplaces are not emotionally neutral, how women often carry the burden of emotional management, and why chronic suppression can increase stress, rumination, and exhaustion.

Most importantly, this video offers practical, professional strategies to respond with clarity and confidence—without oversharing or minimizing yourself. You’ll hear real-world scripts to replace “I’m fine,” tools like cognitive reappraisal, and examples of how to protect your credibility while honoring your emotional experience.

If you’re a professional woman, leader, or physician who feels pressure to stay composed at all costs, this video will help you understand what’s happening—and give you language you can use immediately.

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Grab my free leadership workbook, 5 Steps to Communicate with Calm, Clarity, and Confidence at Power of Peacefulness.com

 Until next time, take a deep breath. Embrace the present moment, and keep walking your path to peace. 


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Why Women Say “I’m Fine” at Work: The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression

Why Women Say “I’m Fine” at Work: The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression

Sharon T McLaughlin MD FACS