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Worried about your baby suffering? Listen to this | TFMR grief support

Worried about your baby suffering? Listen to this | TFMR grief support

Update: 2025-10-07
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“Will my baby suffer?" This question haunts so many of us through the TFMR baby loss process - whether we're facing the decision right now or wrestling with it months or years later. It's the question that keeps you up at 2am, the one that makes your chest tight, the one nobody else seems to understand why it matters so very deeply.

In this tender solo episode, I share how my daughter Clara came to me in a dream when I asked her this exact question. I talk about how we're STILL parenting our babies through the veil, how ending suffering was an act of protection, and how peace became possible when I was finally seen as the mother I am. If you're asking yourself "will they suffer" or "did they suffer," this episode is for you.


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Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
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Worried about your baby suffering? Listen to this | TFMR grief support

Worried about your baby suffering? Listen to this | TFMR grief support

Sabrina Fletcher | Pregnancy Loss Doula supporting grieving parents