What do a mistaken tea purchase and a 100-degree South Texas day have to do with grief? Everything. In this reflective episode, Ray unpacks how life, unlike a supermarket, doesn’t offer exchanges or refunds—and how we must keep moving forward through the world grief leaves us in. Guided by the poems of Theodore Roethke and Jane Hirshfield, we discover that taking our waking slow, learning as we go, and finding deep resilience is how we begin to heal. Pour yourself something cold (check the label), and join us on a poetic, personal journey of strength, sorrow, and survival.

5 Salient Points from the Episode:

• Life isn’t like a supermarket: You can’t return the parts you didn’t want—grief stays with you.
• Theodore Roethke’s poem “The Waking” offers a gentle mantra: “We learn by going where we have to go.”
• The importance of movement: Both literal and emotional—“mobility is movement” applies to healing, too.
• Jane Hirshfield’s poem “Optimism” reminds us of the inherent resilience in all living things, including ourselves.
• Even in grief, growth is possible: Slowly, painfully, and beautifully—we unpeel layers, step by step, toward life.