You’re Absorbing Everyone’s Energy - Here’s How to Come Back to Yourself
Description
In this episode of Your Yes Filled Life, I’m pulling back the curtain and getting very real with you.
If you’ve been feeling anxious, scattered, or unsure - and maybe even wondering if there’s something wrong with you - I want you to know this: you’re likely not overwhelmed, you’re overloaded. You’re carrying energy that doesn’t belong to you, and it’s burying your intuition and your peace.
I share candidly about the past two years in my business and life - the failed launches, the chronic over-giving, the hard pivots, and how I’m making different choices now. You’ll also hear what I’m changing in my work, why I’m closing Your Yes Filled Life group program, and how I’m creating spaces like The Reset Retreat for intuitive, empathic leaders who want to stop absorbing everything and start trusting themselves again.
If you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive,” if you feel everything, or if you’ve silently wondered why things still feel so hard even when you’re “doing the work” - this one is for you.
🌟 In this episode, I talk about:
Why you’re not actually overwhelmed - you’re energetically overloaded
How carrying other people’s emotions and expectations buries your intuition
The difference between anxiety and intuition in the body
Signs you might be a highly sensitive person (and why that’s not a problem)
What happens when we energetically merge with loved ones and clients
Why journaling, meditating more, and “waiting for a sign” won’t give you clarity
The reality of my past two years: failed launches, chronic over-giving, and hard truths
How my mentors and support systems helped me re-align my offers and business
Why I’m closing Your Yes Filled Life and simplifying everything
Who The Reset Retreat is for (and why I designed it specifically for spiritual entrepreneurs building to $0–15k months)
Why your gifts are not “too much” - they just need the right container
🔗 Links & Resources
Apply for The Reset Retreat (March 2026):
https://brendawinkle.com/resetretreatJoin The Spiritual Entrepreneur Collective:
https://www.brendawinkle.com/membershipGet the Free Energy Audit:
https://www.brendawinkle.com/auditPsychic Clarity Sessions (1:1 readings):
https://www.brendawinkle.com/claritysession OR https://calendly.com/brendawinkle/mini-reading
⏱ Episode Timestamps (Approximate)
00:01 – Welcome and how this episode is different (no edits, full transparency)
02:40 – “Share from the scar, not the wound” and why I’m challenging that
05:10 – Overwhelmed vs overloaded: what you’re actually carrying
07:30 – How energetic overload shorts out your system and buries intuition
08:40 – Anxiety vs intuition: speed, urgency, and how each feels in the body
10:30 – Energetic merging: making decisions through someone else’s lens
11:25 – Being highly sensitive: what it actually means (and doesn’t mean)
13:50 – “Is this mine?” and how to work with emotions and physical sensations
14:50 – The Zip Up method and why you need it twice a day
16:00 – Overstimulation, protocols, and why clarity doesn’t come from thinking
19:30 – The truth about my offers, failed launches, and over-giving
22:15 – What I’ve been trying to “ignore the evidence” about
24:30 – What has worked: the program length, transformation, and structure I’m keeping
25:45 – Introducing The Reset Retreat and who it’s designed for
28:10 – How I spent September listening to entrepreneurs and what you told me
29:20 – Energy vs structure: why it isn’t “just your energy”
30:20 – Mentors, support, and ethical leadership in business
33:40 – Painting the picture: oceanfront retreat in Lincoln City
35:00 – Who The Reset Retreat is really for (0–15k/month spiritual entrepreneurs)
36:50 – Why I’m more committed than ever to this work
38:05 – Closing Your Yes Filled Life and what’s coming next
39:25 – A request for ratings/reviews and an invitation for honest feedback
Keywords: Brenda Winkle, Your Yes Filled Life, energetic leadership guide, psychic medium, somatic coach, spiritual entrepreneurs, conscious creators, empathic artists, highly sensitive people, feeling overwhelmed, anxiety, intuition, emotional overload, sharing from the scar, energetic sovereignty, nervous system regulation, personal development, emotional reactivity, collective energy, self-care practices, journaling, meditation, breathwork, reiki, clarity, decision-making, energetic boundaries, zip up method, sensory input, healing process, business challenges, program launches, mentorship, Marie Forleo, Tiffany Carter, marketing strategies, neuro-linguistic programming, Reset Retreat, Lincoln City, Oregon, healing, practical strategies, community connection, intimate retreat, application process, sensitive entrepreneurs, personal growth, transformative experience, feedback, podcast ratings, yes-filled life.






