The 12kyle Podcast

In this episode, 12Kyle explores the question of whether social media is bad for our health. He discusses the rise of social media platforms and their impact on our lives. 12Kyle also examines the views of New York City Mayor Eric Adams, who declared social media a public health hazard. The age at which children should start using social media is debated, and 12Kyle shares his own experiences with his children. The amount of time spent on social media each week is discussed, as well as the potential adverse effects on mental health. The episode concludes by emphasizing the need for awareness and moderation in social media use. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background 03:27 - Is Social Media Bad for Your Health? 05:37 - At What Age Should a Child Begin to Use Social Media? 10:59 - On Average, How Much Do You Use Social Media Each Week? 23:29 - Do Kids Use Social Media to Connect with Other Kids? 25:54 - How Long Could You Go Without Being on Social Media? 28:52 - Conclusion AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle MERCH https://www.teepublic.com/user/the-12kyle-podcast YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/h3bn-ZvSJGo

On this bonus edition of the 12Kyle Podcast, 12Kyle tells the story of two historical events in football: the Miracle at the Meadowlands and the tradition of the Gatorade bath.  The Miracle at the Meadowlands refers to a game in 1978 where the New York Giants lost to the Philadelphia Eagles due to a fumble on the last play of the game. This event led to the creation of the "Victory Formation" in football. The Gatorade bath tradition started in 1984 when a player on the Giants, Jim Burt, dumped Gatorade on coach Bill Parcells after a victory. The tradition was carried on by "The Godfather of the Gatorade Bath", Harry Carson...12Kyle's uncle. Dousing the winning coach with Gatorade became a symbol of victory in sports. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Setting the Stage 04:40- The Birth of the Victory Formation 12:21- The Gatorade Bath Tradition AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle MERCH https://www.teepublic.com/user/the-12kyle-podcast YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/9LKRWWMpibM

In this episode, 12Kyle reflects on the impact of COVID-19 and the global pandemic, acknowledging the personal losses and the ways in which it affected individuals mentally, physically, and psychologically. The conversation explores the transition to remote work and the adjustments made in various aspects of life, including entertainment and virtual events. The lack of leadership and conflicting information from authorities is discussed, along with the debates surrounding masks and vaccines. The host emphasizes the importance of not blaming the victims and cherishing the moments and lessons learned during this time. The conversation concludes with a call to appreciate the present and work towards a better future. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Reflection on COVID-19 02:04 - Personal Loss and Impact of COVID-19 06:24 - Transition to Remote Work and Adjustments 10:17 - Impact on Entertainment and Virtual Events 12:44 - Sports Shutdown and Lack of Leadership 21:46 - Blaming the Victims and Loss of Life 23:24 - Life Before and After COVID-19 26:20 - Lessons Learned and Moving Forward 30:30 - Conclusion and Call to Action AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle MERCH https://www.teepublic.com/user/the-12kyle-podcast YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/NSqGjOboYrM

In this episode, 12Kyle and King Jerm discuss the intertwining of sports and gambling, focusing on the NFL ,MLB, and NBA. They explore the NFL's relationship with Las Vegas and the increasing presence of sports betting in the league. They also discuss their personal experiences with gambling and the thrill of winning and losing. The conversation then shifts to the recent scandal involving Shohei Otani in Major League Baseball and the potential for games to be rigged in the NFL and NBA. In this conversation, 12Kyle and King Jerm discuss the impact of gambling on sports and the potential risks it poses to the integrity of the game. They explore the influence of betting on player performance, the role of referees, and the consequences of missed calls. They also touch on the challenges of betting on games involving their favorite teams and the emotional conflict it creates. The conversation highlights the need for transparency and accuracy in officiating and the potential consequences of gambling-related scandals in sports. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and the NFL's Relationship with Las Vegas 03:03 - The Thrill of Gambling and the Love of the Game 08:03 - The Shohei Otani Scandal and the Integrity of Baseball 22:57 - The Influence of Referees in NBA and College Basketball 31:04 - The Impact of Gambling on Player Performance and Game Integrity 32:04 - The Role of Referees and the Consequences of Missed Calls 33:02 - The Influence of Betting on Favorite Teams and Emotional Conflict 46:16 - The Need for Transparency and Accuracy in Officiating 52:36 - The Potential Consequences of Gambling-Related Scandals in Sports AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle MERCH https://www.teepublic.com/user/the-12kyle-podcast YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/wtmSTrit5iE

In this episode, 12Kyle reminisces about historical events and shares where he was when they happened. He discusses events such as the Space Shuttle Challenger explosion, September 11th, the COVID-19 pandemic and many more in between. These events shaped his perspective on life and taught him to appreciate each moment. Chapters 00:00 - Space Shuttle Challenger Explosion 09:39 - Michael Jordan's First NBA Title 11:39 - The LA Riots 16:05 - The O.J. Simpson Chase 21:07 - September 11th, 2001 28:00 - The Election of Barack Obama 31:55 - The Killing of Osama Bin Laden 33:22 - The Atlanta Falcons' Loss in the Super Bowl 36:31 - The COVID-19 Pandemic You can find the episode here or wherever you listen to podcasts… where were YOU when it happened... AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/znJZNSYZZaU

In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the soundtrack to the movie 'Above the Rim' released 30 years ago. He highlights the significance of soundtracks and the popularity of black movie soundtracks in the 90s. He provides an overview of the movie and its star-studded cast, including Tupac Shakur. 12Kyle then delves into each track on the album, sharing his thoughts and memories associated with each song. He praises the producers and artists involved, particularly highlighting the standout tracks like 'Regulate' and 'Afro Puffs'. He concludes with a review and rating of the album. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background 00:35 - The Significance of Soundtracks 02:27 - The Artists and Producers Involved 07:41 - Track 1: 'Anything' (All-Star Remix) by SWV 09:09 - Track 2: 'Old Time's Sake' by Sweet Sable 09:50 - Track 3: 'Part-Time Lover' by H-Town 11:41 - Track 4: 'Big Pimpin'' by The Dogg Pound 13:07 - Track 5: 'Didn't Mean to Turn You On' by Second to None and DJ Quik 14:42 - Track 6: 'Doggy Style' by DJ Rogers 15:40 - Track 7: 'Regulate' by Nate Dogg and Warren G 16:39 - Track 8: 'Pour Out a Little Liquor' by Tupac and Thug Life 20:34 - Track 10: 'Afro Puffs' by The Lady of Rage 21:02 - Track 11: 'Just So You Know' by C.P.O. Boss Hogg 22:01 - Track 12: 'Hoochies Need Love Too' by Paradise 22:30 - Track 13: 'I'm Still In Love With You' by Al B. Sure 23:26 - Track 14: 'Crack 'Em' by OFTB 25:20 - Track 18: 'Dog Pound for Life' by The Dogg Pound 26:18 - Favorite Song: 'Pain' by Tupac 28:56 - Album Review and Rating 32:24 - Conclusion You can find the episode here or wherever you listen to podcasts… Above the Rim Soundtrack - 30 Years Later AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/sR0GVNvx3eY

In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the decline of customer service in the post-pandemic era. He shares personal examples of poor customer service, including incorrect orders and unhelpful phone representatives. He also explores the expectations and frustrations of tipping, as well as the impact of social media influencers on businesses. 12Kyle concludes by emphasizing the importance of treating every customer well and the power of the black dollar. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: The Decline of Customer Service 00:28 - Customer Service in the Post-Pandemic Era 01:26 - Expectations in a Business Transaction 03:21 - The Importance of Getting Orders Correct 04:21 - The Frustration of Incorrect Orders 05:20 - The Impact of Short Staffing on Customer Service 06:15 - Different Expectations for Different Restaurants 07:31 - The Myth of 'The Customer is Always Right' 08:00 - The Importance of Understanding Your Bill 09:26 - The Dangers of Arguing with Customer Service 10:25 - The Dilemma of Tipping 12:21 - To Tip or Not to Tip for Takeout Orders 14:04 - A Disappointing Dining Experience 19:29 - The Impact of Bad Reviews on Businesses 21:07 - The Importance of Treating Every Customer Well 25:25 - Dealing with Language Barriers in Customer Service 28:50 - A Disappointing Experience with Fashion Snob 37:07 - The Disappearance of Fashion Snob 46:03 - The Power of the Black Dollar 49:22 - Conclusion AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/44G4FEgHYuo

In this bonus episode, 12Kyle shares a list of things he is not a fan of. From loud music and social media tags to gossipy men in sports and pictures of plates, he vents about the things that annoy him. He also expresses his dislike for bedwear in public, cats, long videos, loud exhaust pipes, and arguing the question. Despite his dislikes, 12Kyle encourages listeners to subscribe to the podcast and provide feedback. not a fan of... AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/X9HnjPYcNWs

In this episode, 12Kyle discusses Usher's album 'Confessions' 20 years after its release. He provides background information on the album and its significance in Usher's career. 12Kyle also explores the album's production, the personal backstory behind it, and its commercial success. He goes through the track listing and shares his thoughts on each song. Finally, 12Kyle reflects on the album's legacy and its impact on Usher's discography. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background 05:49 - Album Release and Reception 12:31 - Track Listing and Analysis 26:42 - Conclusion and Closing AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/qS-b0n3OaXo

In this bonus episode, 12Kyle responds to his fellow podcaster, Baylor the Great, who issued a challenge to him. The challenge was for 12Kyle to do a podcast on the 10 hip hop songs that he "cruises" to.  12Kyle accepts the challenge and provides a backstory for each song.  Here's a link to Baylor's episode... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cruisin-down-the-street/id1272451586?i=1000648434255 AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/bKcOQJHoy2c

In this episode, 12Kyle interviews Katrina Brown Bankins, an HBCU alum, about her experience at Hampton University. Katrina shares why she chose Hampton and how she felt at home on campus. She discusses her initial major in broadcast journalism and her eventual switch to speech pathology. Katrina reflects on her career choices and the moments of doubt she has had. She also highlights the nurturing environment and mentorship she received at Hampton. The episode emphasizes the importance of networking and relationships at HBCUs. In this conversation, Katrina shares her experiences and reflections on attending Howard University to complete her doctoral studies. She discussed how she got accepted into Howard University through a phone call from her mentor. Although both schools are rivals, Katrina compares her love for both Hampton University and Howard University, emphasizing the unique opportunities and experiences she had at each institution. She also discusses her involvement in cheerleading at Hampton and joining Delta Sigma Theta sorority. Lastly, Katrina expresses the special feeling of homecoming and the lasting impact of her HBCU experiences. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Purpose of Highlighting HBCUs 01:21 - Choosing Hampton University 05:06 - Choosing a College that Feels Like Home 06:07 - No Other HBCU Considered 07:19 - Transitioning to College Life 08:12 - Switching Majors to Speech Pathology 10:07 - Reflecting on Career Choices 11:03 - Considering Alternate Career Paths 12:09 - Struggles with Biology and Statistics 13:09 - Nurturing Environment at HBCUs 14:19 - Post-Graduation Reflections 16:01 - The Care and Mentoring at HBCUs 20:13 - Seeking Guidance from Professors 21:38 - Choosing Ohio State and Feeling Uncertain 22:08 - Red Flags at Ohio State 23:14 - Lack of Support at Ohio State 24:14 - Getting Accepted to Howard University 25:26 - Comparing Hampton University and Howard University 26:34 - The Love for Both Hampton and Howard 30:18 - Cheerleading at Hampton University 31:20 - Joining Delta Sigma Theta Sorority 32:19 - The Feeling of Homecoming 38:11 - Choosing South Carolina State University 39:03 - The Lasting Impact of HBCU Experiences AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/kMVzTP6THlo

In this bonus episode, 12Kyle discusses the topic of men telling lies to get women in bed. He came across an article that listed some of the most common lies men tell, and he shares his thoughts on each lie.  12Kyle emphasizes that while these lies may sometimes work, it is important to remember that a woman knows if she wants to sleep with a man long before any lies are told. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: Telling Lies 01:20 - Men Telling Lies to Get Women in Bed 04:16 - Lies About Feelings 04:59 - Lies About Relationship Status 05:11 - Lies About Height 06:05 - Lies About Age 07:04 - Lies About Mommy Issues 08:02 - Lies About Parents' Occupation 08:36 -Lies About Love 09:43 -Lies About Dating a Co-worker 10:41 - Lies About What Could Be 11:19 - Lies About Jobs 12:21 - Lies About Experience 12:48 - Lies About Backstory 13:35 - Lies About Attractiveness 15:06 - Lies About Giving Pleasure 15:48 - Lies About Lying 17:37 - Conclusion: The Truth About Lies AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/b18nmQcNFiE

In this episode, 12Kyle discusses imposter syndrome, a feeling of unworthiness or incompetence despite achieving accomplishments and success. He shares a conversation he had with his wife, Sherice, who expressed feeling like an imposter in her new position at work. 12Kyle emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's achievements and self-worth, and encourages listeners to celebrate their successes. He also explores the influence of upbringing and personal confidence in overcoming imposter syndrome. The episode concludes with a reminder that everyone deserves recognition and should not spend a day feeling undeserving. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: Imposter Syndrome 00:50 - Conversation with Sherice 03:17 - Sherice's Background and Accomplishments 04:12 - Feeling Like an Imposter 05:12 - Personal Confidence and Self-Belief 06:08 - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome 10:32 - Imposter Syndrome in Families 11:26 - Imposter Syndrome Statistics 12:25 - Personal Confidence and Background 13:53 - The Influence of Upbringing 15:03 - Kendrick Lamar's 'Black Boy Fly' 18:24 - Signs of Imposter Syndrome 18:55 - Accepting Praise and Apologizing 20:36 - Confidence and Shyness 22:05 - Holding High Standards 23:43 - Fear of Failure 25:14 - Confidence and Perception 25:44 - Lack of Confidence 26:36 - Importance of Focus 27:02 - Learning Yourself and the Facts 28:31 - Celebrating Successes 29:37 - Letting Go of Perfectionism 30:06 - Sharing Feelings and Acceptance 31:37 - Conclusion: You Deserve It AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/vmLtb178qqU

In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the concept of turbulence and how it relates to both air travel and life on the ground. He shares his personal experiences with turbulence and explores how to handle it in different situations. He emphasizes the importance of preparation, maintaining a positive mindset, and finding focus in chaotic times. 12Kyle also highlights the resilience and strength needed to survive turbulence and encourages listeners to view it as a temporary challenge. Overall, the episode provides insights and strategies for navigating turbulent times in life. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: Turbulence in the Air and on the Ground 03:23 - Chapter 1: Are You Prepared for Turbulence? 06:44 - Chapter 2: Handling Turbulence on the Ground 10:14 - Chapter 3: Putting a Positive Spin on Turbulence 11:22 - Chapter 4: How Do You Handle Turbulence? 13:31 - Chapter 5: Finding Focus in Chaos 16:54 - Chapter 6: Surviving Turbulence 18:17 - Chapter 7: What Comes After Turbulence? 20:41 - Conclusion: Viewing and Handling Turbulence 24:28 - Closing Remarks AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/jL_82ywP6Bk

In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the topic of black man affection. He shares a humorous story about a debate over giving a Valentine's Day card to a 13-year-old boy. This leads to a conversation about the expression of affection in his own life, including the love shown by his father and uncles. He reflects on the importance of expressing love and affection to the next generation and the unique ways that black men connect with each other. Ultimately, 12Kyle emphasizes the need for black men to show love and support for one another. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: Black Man Affection 02:02 - The Valentine's Day Card Debate 04:29 - Roasting King Jerm 07:10 - Expressing Affection as a Child 10:02 - Affection from Uncles and Grandfathers 12:52 - Affection in the 80s and 90s 14:43 - Affection in the Current Generation 19:01 - Connecting as Black Men 24:40 - Teaching the Next Generation 26:36 - Conclusion: Valentine's Day Card Debate 27:06 - Closing Remarks AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/xTbaZUwqalA

In this conversation, 12Kyle and eclectik share their experiences and reflections on living in Atlanta and Washington DC, respectively. This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Chapters 00:00 Kickin It 12:20 - Enjoying Life and Friendship 25:39 - Expectations and Disappointments 26.32 - Chillin 28:00 - Scary Encounters 33:08 - Misunderstandings and Awkward Situations 36:18 - Overrated and Underrated Food Spots 39:25 - Favorite Restaurants and Bars 42:31 - Online Communities and Social Media 46:48 - Atlanta Food Scene 49:01 - Finding Love and Relationships 50:06 - The Birth of Online Communities 52:43 - The Rise of Twitter 57:03 - The Early Days of Social Media 59:49 - The Changing Landscape of Social Media 1:01:05 - Podcasting and Personalities 01:02:46 - Future Plans and Wrap-up AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle

In this conversation, 12Kyle and eclectik share their experiences and reflections on their 20s while living in Atlanta and Washington DC, respectively. This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Background 03:06 - Moving to Virginia 12:17 - Navigating the DC Area 17:17 - Nightlife in DC 20:51 - Living in Virginia 27:26 - Dating and Relationships 31:14 - Attending Weddings and Funerals 01:01:31 - Being Single and Content AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle

In this podcast episode, 12Kyle reflects on the concept of success and how it evolves over time. He shares his own experiences and observations, discussing what success looked like for him at different stages of his life.  12Kyle emphasizes the importance of defining success for oneself and not letting society's standards dictate one's sense of achievement. He also highlights the role of relationships and personal growth in shaping one's perception of success. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Questioning Success 02:17 - Success at Age 20 06:06 - Changing Definitions of Success 10:59 - Success Now 15:53 - Success and Relationships 17:19 - Success and Society 20:42 - Conclusion AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/fa_1EpReksI

In this episode, 12Kyle discusses the concept of doomscrolling, which refers to the excessive consumption of negative news and its adverse effects on mental health. He shares personal experiences of being consumed by COVID-related news during a trip to Los Angeles.  12Kyle emphasizes the need to be mindful of the information consumed on social media platforms and the impact of who we follow. He highlights the brain's tendency to process negative thoughts more intensely and the importance of protecting mental peace. 12Kyle also discusses the negative effects of starting the day with bad news and provides strategies for finding balance in staying informed. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: What is Doomscrolling? 01:27 - The Negative Effects of Consuming Bad News 03:24 - Personal Experience with Doomscrolling 05:16 - Social Media and Information Consumption 07:13 - The Influence of Who You Follow on Social Media 09:30 - The Brain's Response to Negative Thoughts 10:29 - The Impact of Local News on Mental Health 13:14 - The Importance of Starting the Day with Positive News 15:12 - The Dangers of Overconsumption for Depressed Individuals 17:37 - The Insanity of Seeking Bad News 20:30 - Navigating Political Talking Points 23:56 - Finding Balance in Staying Informed 27:48 - Taking Control of Information Consumption 28:17 - Conclusion and Call to Action AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/O-iuLRPITyE

In this episode, 12Kyle plays a game called 'You Can Only Pick Five' where he has to choose five TV shows to watch for the rest of his life. He shares the list of 31 TV shows and discusses the ones that didn't make the cut. 12Kyle then reveals his top five TV shows. He provides personal insights and reasons for choosing each show. 12Kyle's choices are influenced by personal preferences, nostalgia, and the impact the shows had on his life. The discussion highlights the importance of representation and diverse storytelling in TV shows. you can only pick 5 Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 00:32 - The Game: You Can Only Pick Five 04:06 - Reading the List of TV Shows 05:44 - TV Shows That Didn't Make the Cut 08:10 - TV Show #1 09:21 - TV Show #2 11:43 - TV Show #3 13:45 - TV Show #4 17:27 - TV Show #5 20:23 - Conclusion AUDIO https://linktr.ee/12kyle YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/FWm2zOmPxeU