The Modern Masculine™

Mentoring Men is a registered Australian charity providing free life mentoring programs for adult men in the community.  The brain child of Ian Westmoreland who had the idea to provide a service to  to help adult men experiencing distress.  When Ian found himself at a crossroads, he was unable to find a place to connect to other men for mentoring  or a new sense of direction.  This set him on a mission to create this incredible free one on one “life” mentoring service, providing valuable, solid assistance to help men to adjust and transition through difficult times to a better and normal quality of life.Joining the conversation is Shay Hare, a mentor at the non-profit organisation and the inspiring creator of The 25twoZERO Movement.  Shay himself faced a huge shift in his own life and was moved to take action after the suicide of a co-worker.After a period of hard questions and seeking his own truth through vulnerability,  Shay set up the 25twoZERO Movement and has set himself the goal to run 2,520 km this year. Each kilometre ran will represent every male that loses their battle each year.  Shay’s campaign goal is to increase awareness, change the way males talk about their mental health and raise funds to help reduce the number of men in crisis from over 2,500 to ZERO.It is my pleasure to hold this conversation with these 2 inspiring men, providing such valuable services for men in distress.You can find them here:https://mentoringmen.org.au/https://www.25twozero.org.au/ 

If you have a family member suffering from depression and you are worried, or friends you know are not doing so well, this chat with Jamie Gray is a must listen.  Jamie's candid discussion around suicide and mental health is both personal and moving, after the loss of a close friend 4 years ago,  Jamie and his community was devastated to think they didn't have the skills to help him.  So over the last few years Jamie has immersed himself in the Mental Health and Suicide Prevention Spaces to find out what we really should know about this important social crisis and indeed - How do we help someone who is suffering with mental health issues? Jamie is currently working on an education program titled Scratch the Surface, shining a light on these important topics, hoping to reach as many people as he can to help them understand and maybe, hopefully, save a life.  

It is such a pleasure to share with you the wisdom of Henry Johnstone.  Henry is a Rapid Change Therapist from the UK, who overcame a 15 year journey of alcohol addiction which almost took his life.  Sobering up after 15 years he underwent an amazing transformation into the man he is today.  Henry's incredible ability to share and his deep and moving insights into the role of the hero and "being manly" are such food for thought.   When Henry shares his view on hope during this episode, it felt profound.  His gentle advice and deep non-judgemental compassion is really something to hear, he is certainly an inspiration.Henry can be reached through the link below:https://www.henryjohnstone.uk/

This week I chat to Mark Guay, an amazing Performance & Meditation Coach from San Diego, California. Mark's incredible ability to bring meditation into the everyday is inspiring.  Connecting the dots between performing at your best and focusing the mind, Mark discusses the raw truth of how to create a more mindful response to life.  Sharing his extensive knowledge and experience with such ease, he removes the mystique and false impression of what meditation needs to look like.⁠ Ending this episode with a short, powerful mediation for listeners to try, it's easy to see why Mark is a popular contributor to the Global App "Insight Timer".  ⁠I absolutely loved this conversation, it's was really fun to hear Mark's clear and realistic approach to this beneficial practice, look him up, he's amazing!⁠ Link for Mark's profile:  https://insighttimer.com/markguay--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

In this episode I am thrilled to share the wisdom and experience of Andrew Lines, the amazing mind and creator behind "The Rite Journey", an incredible resource offered to schools to "Transform Todays Teens".  Andrew discusses some of the many issues faced by parents, acknowledging the immense impact of the internet, social media and the difference this has made to what our children face on a day to day basis.  Andrew chats about how his program addresses the communication between girls and boys, how to embrace important conversations and discuss emotions, how to talk about the "uncomfortable" things and how to connect in a world bombarded by screens.Established in 1997, Andrew's mission has never been more needed than it is today.  The Rite Journey provides unique educational programs in schools and organisations designed to support the development of self-aware, responsible, respectful, resilient and resourceful adults.It is my pleasure to have had this conversation, I so enjoyed it and I am sure you will too.https://theritejourney.comhttps://theritejourney.com/resources/feelingcards/--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

During the 1960s and 1970s, a notorious paedophile ring preyed on children in the regional Victorian city of Ballarat, my guest today, Peter Blenkiron was abused by one of these Christian Brothers when he was 11 years old.In this conversation we chat about the affects not just on Peter, but on the community as a whole.  Ballarat has an increased suicide rate of 30% over the rest of Australia and unfortunately the news that another man has taken their life is way too familiar.  This conversation is grounded, honest and moving.  Honouring the depth of mental health and the traits that can cover it, Peter shares how it was nearly 30 years before he allowed the truth to come forward and how it felt when many many others came bravely forward to share the truth that it had happened to them too.Peter became the voice of his community during the Royal Commission, even flying over to Rome to stand on the steps of the Vatican to be heard and seek justice.  Much love to this community.Should you feel affected either by this podcast or any other challenges at this time, please reach out knowing that you matter.Lifeline Australia: 13 11 14Beyond Blue: 1300 224 636Mensline: 1300 78 99 78--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

Daniel Hayes is a Real Estate success story, his successful business HayesWinckle is a testament to the tireless hours and energy he invested - but to what cost?  In this revealing chat Daniel talks about what it's like to "play a big game" his wins his loses and of course the grief when the losses are personal.Daniels latest passion is his YouTube Channel "Million Dollar Bogan".  After finding solace and joy in long haul motorbike riding, he began to vlog his experiences on some of the most enduring and risky trips.  During this process, he unravels how he feels and shares that in a vulnerable and real way that is an important step in allowing others to do the same.  Making a decision to "Live in his own skin" without any distractions or addictions, this chat highlights what that really looks and feels like when the  Ferrari no longer makes you feel good.Here's the link to Daniels YouTube Channel  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQP8xYYN_pPF5Jfd4vB534AIf you would like to get in touch with me, please do at Connect@helenglover.com.au --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

Born and raised in South Africa, Marius Van Der Nist is an incredible force in the male empowerment space.  His message of "become more vulnerable, love deeper & become a better you" is even more amazing when you listen to how his journey began.Experiencing the traumatic loss of his mother suddenly at age 4, Marius had extraordinary circumstances to manoeuvre.  Clinically depressed for half his life, Marius turned to professional rugby union, became a 10 X Ironman finisher, aspiring magazine publisher of Triathlete & 220 Triathlon magazines, owner of American Golf Gear and now he has stepped out as author of, 'It's All About You'.  After all this Marius states that his BEST achievement by far, is being father to Joshua & Luke.His story is a true testament that ANYONE can overcome pain & obstacles and achieve greatness, but ONLY IF YOU choose to. Contact Marius @ http://mariusvandernist.com/If you would like to speak with me I would be honoured to hear from you:  Connect@helenglover.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

Rod Gordon brings such deep knowledge to the table in this candid chat, I would encourage EVERYONE, man or woman to listen to his insightful advice on how to build and consistently deepen a long lasting and fulfilling intimate relationship.  Rod takes us on a journey to understand how we can be both present and available for our partner while staying true to our own emotional needs.  Explaining the key qualities and clearly pointing out specific tools that can be used in this space, Rod really does give us a modern road map into the possibility of a partnership that assists each of us to blossom within it.I was so inspired and enlightened by Rod in this interview, I look forward to having his expertise on The Modern Masculine again soon.https://rodgordon.com/ - Intimacy and Embodiment CoachIf you have any questions or would like to reach out, I would be honoured to hear from you at connect@helenglover.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

Kenny’s incredible life journey has taken him from refugee camps, through overcoming OCD and mental health issues, to working with Mother Teresa and taking part in danger sports all over the world. Turning around his own traumas and dramas has enabled him to meet men where they are and facilitate life-changing shifts in perspective and life.Passionate to make space for the voices of men to be heard, by self and others, towards a more authentic, loving, conscious and sharing world, Kenny is “The Man Whisperer" (Newsweek) and helps men achieve their life, relationship and career goals.  Founder of MenSpeak men's groups, Kenny facilitates workshops, works privately with individuals and partners, has held men’s groups for seventeen years and trains men, women, therapists, coaches - anyone who wants to communicate better with men, to hold safe, conscious spaces to allow men to be heard and turn around their lives.Try Kenny's Personal Discovery Questionaire - at this link: https://www.kennydcruz.com/work-with-me/If you would like to contact me, Helen Glover, I would be honoured to hear from you at connect@helenglover.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

Wolfgang Wildgrace... a powerful name for a powerful guy, in this podcast I had the privilege to hear his story.  Finding praise and acceptance through violence, Wolfgang spent a number of years in the agony of this space, disconnected, behaving in a way he still feels some shame for even today.  Finding solace through Mens Work circles, Wolfgang began to learn new things, replacing violence with a different type of ego - but an ego all the same....Wolfgang speaks candidly about the journey he took to grow past his violent youth, the darkness of trained behaviour, the perceived change vs actually walking the "talk" applying it in truth into his life behind the scenes of "Mens Work".  This truely is an open, raw serve of "Are you REALLY practising emotional fitness"?...  ask yourself honestly, "Are you just talking about it?"...https://www.j2hm.com.au/about/https://www.efptaustralia.com/If you would like to contact me, your host Helen Glover, please feel free to do so at Connect@helenglover.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

In this episode I speak to Gideon MZembe, who is an absolute light in an often dark landscape.  Listen in to be inspired with this man’s journey from Mallawi to the shores of Australia, arriving with refugee status as a young boy in the 90’s, Gideon brings a breath of fresh air with his perspective and reflection.  With his moto of “You are more than what you have become, you are more than what happens to you” he inspires as he goes.  We chat about his quest for manhood, raised by a single mother he admires so much, Gideon went through his late teens and early 20’s following a role he felt was the path of “the man”, with great success, only to discover something within was missing, a part of his soul.Gideon shares how he integrated finding the vulnerability inside, and learned to express that as powerfully as his strength on the football field.You will find Gideon at Studio 99 Fitness Centre 12 Edmondstone St, South Brisbane.Here is the link to Gideon's new lifestyle motivational channel:  https://youtu.be/9J-fdkil_n8If you would like to connect with me please do at connect@helenglover.com.au --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

Daryl served as an Infantry Officer in the US Marines for 13 Years and after the devastating loss of 25 of his friends and colleagues, found a way to take his experiences to inspire and serve in the civilian space.Daryl Hill is now the creator and CEO of Alchemy Enterprises, a creator of www.MagneticMeditations.com, and other programmes which allow his clients to breakthrough the $100K to $500K Per Year Income levels, simply by retuning their brain waves he takes their businesses from 6 to 7-Figures. In this interview Daryl speaks about his journey from Military Service through to rediscovering his skills to help entrepreneurs.  His stories will resonate with so many I'm sure, please check out his inspirational projects on "The Truth about PTSD" and also "The War on Suicide, Daryl is an inspiration.www.DarylHill.comTheTruthAboutPTSD.nethttps://thewaronsuicide.com/trailer https://www.instagram.com/dhillusmc/If you would like to contact me, please get in touch at connect@helenglover.com.au --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

As a musician, teacher and father, Matiu Te Huki is a powerful facilitator of Masculine & Feminine workshops.  A proud Maori man, Matiu travels extensively around the world bringing the unique healing power of the Haka to awaken the warrior within us.In this conversation we discuss some of the challenges Matiu faced in learning to relate to women.  Coming from a predominantly masculine background, we chat about recognising the balance between our feminine and masculine and how that can assist us in our relationships.Matiu is inspirational as a healthy masculine teacher, I would ask everyone to settle in to hear what he shares here, his advice is key in this area of Men's wellbeing and belonging, conscious sex, self respect and personal responsibility.You can follow Matiu and his amazing work here: https://rainbowwarrior.nz/To reach out to me, please email me at: connect@helenglover.com.au--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

In this episode Michael Banks joins me to discuss the journey to deep love and connection.  Exploring spirituality before "it was a thing" Michael always searched for the deeper meaning in life's experiences.  Bringing a spiritual energy to all his undertakings, through success to bankruptcy, from rebuilding to a health crisis that nearly took his life.  This story takes us on the path to the beautiful end of finding love.  I was honoured to share this conversation with Michael, his observations at the end of this chat will linger long after the conversation ends.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

How can Eastern philosophy assist men to stay in control of emotions? In this fascinating chat with Chris Parker we discuss how Chris went from sporting success to "Hopeless drunk", turning to the learning of yin and yang energy.Chris is currently training in for the 2024 Olympics in Judo and is an inspiration to anyone who has struggled to find their way.  Enjoy!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

A candid chat with Bobby Hunter, we discuss masculinity at different ages, the crisis of compassion and stressful pressure of financial status in one of the fastest most famous cities in the world. Enjoy... I did!--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/helen-glover1/message

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