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Patricia, once a New Jersey Girl, and Judy, an almost lifelong Minnesotan come together to talk about sex! Why? To normalize and discover our own awareness in this crazy U.S. culture we live in. (Yes, we really CAN talk about sex in Minnesota!)
We are looking to, by our conversations, encourage and facilitate positive, healthy, authentic shifts in our relationship with sex. Topics inspired by what is on our mind, in the news or YOU! We love listener questions and topic suggestions.
So many of us could use a little help figuring out how to think, how to talk about and uncover our own true thoughts, feelings, fears. finding our sexual, authentic self… well, it is a process. And, it’s always fun to talk about sex!
Join us!
We are looking to, by our conversations, encourage and facilitate positive, healthy, authentic shifts in our relationship with sex. Topics inspired by what is on our mind, in the news or YOU! We love listener questions and topic suggestions.
So many of us could use a little help figuring out how to think, how to talk about and uncover our own true thoughts, feelings, fears. finding our sexual, authentic self… well, it is a process. And, it’s always fun to talk about sex!
Join us!
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We start with a listener question…“Are ball gags meant to make you gag?”(Inspired by episode 52)Some about ball gags… purpose and safety. Stormy Daniel’s warning on the safe word that is NOT “safe” with a ball gag. Our relationship to... Read moreEpisode 54 – Mind, Body, Spirit – Our Relationship to Sex – A Chat. – And a Bit About Ball Gags
Judy and Patricia came to this conversation with VERY different directions. The what. the why. the ego? Why do you ask to have sex with your ex? Why do you say yes if asked? What do you get out of... Read moreEpisode 53 – Sex With an Ex
A conversation Patricia had about gagging during a blow job sparked some interesting conversations… SO, we continued the conversation here… Take a listen and chime in. Hear the responses and where people weighed in… and our added conversation. We’d love... Read moreEpisode 52 – To Gag or Not To Gag… That is A Question!
Today we explore…. Patricia’s inspiration… The Way off the Superior Man. Patricia pulled out an intriguing section in said book… Tolerating her leads to resentment. (Written in 1997… this is the 20 year anniversary addition.) The whys… the hows. We... Read moreEpisode 51 – Why you should not tolerate “your women’s” bitchy, moody and complaining ways… and how
IT IS OUT!!! So is Episode 50 And so it is Patricia’s 50th Birthday! Half way to being a centurion! YOU GO GIRL! CELEBRATE WITH US! And hear more about WHO should get “Embrace Your Sexual Energy”… Patricia’s new book.... Read moreEpisode 50 – Patricia’s 50th B-Day – and Book Release – A BIG DAY!
Check THIS out!… (Oh Patricia… ya big tease!) Patricia treats us to a sneak peak read of the introduction of her new book Embrace Your Sexual Energy. It is a lovely invitation and explanation of the book’s inspiration and her... Read moreEpisode 49 – Patricia Teases Us With Her Upcoming Book
Judy and Patricia are taking a bit of a sabbatical from releasing podcast episodes as we both make some huge life shifts, focus on additional projects, education, regrouping and opening the door to possibilities. Please feel free to continue sending... Read moreEpisode 48 – Judy and Patricia Pause for an Experimental Phase
It is summer and there are a lot of shift and changes for everyone it seems. They are also happening for Patricia and Judy. Good changes! We want to share one with you now! Patricia has broadened her work and... Read moreEpisode 47 – Patricia Engelking – Relationship Doula through Sexual Authenticity – An Updated Throwback
Mark is a 68 year old, healthy man who has a high sex drive. His wife is choosing the grandmother role over that of his sex partner and intimate connection. They have been married for over 40 years. He still... Read moreEpisode 46 – Listener Question – What Do I Do When My Wife Chooses Grandmother Role Over Intimate Lover
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This week we are sharing a full and uncut episode Judy did 1 year ago, May of 2019, from the Wellness Renaissance Podcast Archives. This is the full recording of that podcast. It was a fantastic interview and we wanted... Read moreEpisode 44 – Emily Nagoski – Best Selling Author and Sex Educator – A Wellness Ren CrossOver
NOTE… no, we are sorry… Chris Collingwood of Fountains of Wayne/Stacy’s Mom fame is alive and well! Sadly, however, the base player… and famous for MANY other cool things, Adam Schlesinger, did die on April 1st from complications of Covid-19.... Read moreEpisode 43 – A Late Mothers Day Tribute – Explorations of MILFS and GILFS
A listener dropped us a note with a question”44″“Can my boyfriend know that I’ve made love with another guy after making love with him?” We explore the physical and biological aspects of this question… as opposed to the ethical conundrum.... Read moreEpisode 42 – Listener Question – Will My Partner Know I Have Had Sex with Another Person After Sex with Him
Inspired by the UFO sightings in Duluth. https://mix108.com/there-have-been-two-ufo-sightings-in-the-duluth-area-in-2020/(OK, it was on the list but it rose to the top due to the articles Judy read about recent sightings in Duluth, MN.) Lots to explore here… this is what we touched... Read moreEpisode 41 – Alien Sex Fantasies
After listening to our penis episodes we thought a few things maybe came out NOT as we had intended…. This week was kinda the conversation we were going to have last week… NEXT week… Alien sex…. But, listen to this... Read moreEpisode 40 – A Penis Episode Follow Up… Why Can’t We All Just Get Along
Patricia and I had a lovely conversation. We went in with a topic that we never quite got to… I present to you, the finished product. Enjoy our philosophical therapy session. Here is what we talked about STUFF LOTS of... Read moreEpisode 39 – A Paisley Journey – Sex in a Box, Bliss, Tea-gasms, Communication and Connecting
Patricia shares her research for this episode. Thank you for your help Leo! Challenges with larger penis sizes. Is bigger better? Condoms and Birth control (Bigger is no reason for lack of preparedness) What do guys do with their large... Read moreEpisode 38 – The Positive Side – and the Drawbacks – to a Larger Penis Size
Smaller penis sizes – benefits, challenges and awarenesses What do we talk about? Small and micro penises and what are the definitions of each? Should one disclose if they have a smaller… or larger… penis pre getting naked? How frequent... Read moreEpisode 37 – The Positive Side – and the Drawbacks – to a Smaller Penis Size
Patricia and Judy are NOT doctors, nurses or medical professionals. Not to mention, information changes as time goes. So, please do your research if you have questions. Thank you! Many of us are choosing to be isolated at home or... Read moreEpisode 36 – Surviving and Thriving During Covid-19 Quarantine
Pet Names… are they a safe form of affection in this time of social distancing? Patricia LOVES pet names! For partners… or PARTS of partners… and her parts. Do you use them? Like them? Like when people use nicknames/pet names... Read moreEpisode 35 – Pet Names – Safe in this Time of Social Distancing
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