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Two guys, from different worlds havin’ a yarn to break down the barriers created from centuries of battles. Let’s put down our body armour, tools & weapons, and focus on what’s important, to open up space and time for real discussions.

The conversations of men from all walks & generations are changing, and now is the time to speak up and leave the ego behind because our dialogue needs to change.

This show is about having the discussions the world says needs to be had, but no one is willing to start. Dwayne and Andrew fearlessly go where no man has been before, with a few laughs, a couple of tears and a jolly good dose of wisdom.

It is time for the Secret’s to be shared, because sometimes it’s the Secrets we keep, that does us the most harm.

Join us in your search for a better understanding, with Secret Men’s Business.

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And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0
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Season 1 Wrap Up

Season 1 Wrap Up

2020-11-1052:30

Wow, what a year it has been. A crazy, crazy year. But these types of years are necessary for the need for self reflection to become apparent. For some the year has been tough, for some a boom, but for most people it has been a year of questions, few answers and lots of unknown paths ahead of us. Check in with Dwayne and Andrew one last time for 2020, as we debrief on the year and close out season 1 of Secret Men's Business. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Podcast 35 Healing Through Understanding So many of us need to heal but don’t know where to start. So many of us want to help others heal, but don’t know where to start either. Whether it is our own healing or someone else’s it always comes from the same place, it always starts with understanding. Understanding ourselves, understanding others or understanding more about the world and how it all works.  Without understanding we cannot see what we cannot see, and only through understanding can we see the perspectives needed to free us from the perspectives that cause us to suffer. Don’t forget to catch Dwayne and Andrew as they go deep in helping you better understand what is really going on within.   Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review..   Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com   Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com   Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au   Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.  
 And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
There is one thing that a lot of men have trouble with, it is also the one thing that if left unchecked can be our most self destructive behaviour, and that is our self judgement. Most men give themselves a really hard time, with unrealistic expectations, of themselves, their relationships and what they can or cannot achieve.  But there is a way out of that toxic self generated cycle, and in todays episode we revisit the discussion Dwayne and Andrew had around Self Forgiveness as they take it further, to a deeper level in probably one of their best episodes to date. So grab a cold drink, sit back and relax and have a listen, who knows, it may just change your life.   Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Raising Teenagers

Raising Teenagers

2020-10-2056:53

In our next installment of our Fatherhood series Dwayne and Andrew look at the next stage of the development cycle and that is the grumpy, zombie like teenagers, who like dark rooms, clothes on the floor and if your lucky, a grunt or too each day. But they are not all that bad, once you learn their language, and how not to trip over a floor full of stuff in the dark. Teenagers need love too, and they also need a Dad more than ever as the boys seek to understand what being a man is really like, and girls learn to hide what’s really going on behind the sweetness of Daddy’s little girl. It’s time for a real talk, about what is really going on. Listen to Andrew and Dwayne’s yarn today if you are brave and ready to know the truth. Teenagers aren’t really the devil, they just act like it. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Superpowers are considered to be part of stories, and the myth that is portrayed about them is that they are not real and that they are only available to the special chosen few. But both Dwayne and Andrew see it different. In fact there is one Superpower that is available to everyone and it is really easy to use. Listen to Andrew and Dwayne’s yarn today if you are brave and ready to know the truth. Remember you cannot unhear the truth once it has been heard and once you know about this Superpower, you will not only kick yourself for ignoring it but you will start to see it everywhere. In everyone. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It’s not your fault

It’s not your fault

2020-10-0657:27

Today is the day to reset some home truths. We must all accept the fact that we have been lied to. For our entire life. Being confused, not knowing the truth and building your life based on these lies is not your fault. Neither are the consequences you continue to face. But in listening to this episode you will finally know the truth and in turn you will be, from this point on, not only responsible for your life and your choices but you will also be responsible for the consequences they create. Listen to Andrew and Dwayne’s yarn today if you are brave and ready to know the truth. Remember you cannot unhear the truth once it has been heard. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We said this needed more, and people asked for it, so here it is. Our next discussion on Redefining Masculinity, and why it is so important in today’s day and age. This is not about shaming Men, or even about them engaging with their feminine side. This is about looking at what Men have become, looking at what works and simple what doesn’t. Dwayne and Andrew talk about this with a raw candor, that you must hear to connect with. Men have a lot to offer this great work, and if we changed our way ever so gently it will make all the difference, not only to the world, but also to our own lives. You don’t want to miss this. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.   And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We have all been there. Tough times. A breakup, bad health, as arsehole boss. We have all had a story of suffering through hardship that we want to tell others, to get them to engage with it, with us. Some of us use these stories as a way of connecting with others, I know I have. But what I didn’t know at the time is that it was slowly poisoning me. Slowly turning people away, and in fact stopping the connection with the relationships which were healthy for me. Dwayne and Andrew talk this week about our melodrama, and why it is poisoning us and more importantly what we can do about it, when we are stuck with that drama running amok in our own heads. When you break free from your own melodrama, you will find a freedom from it, that will truly change your life.   Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review..  Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com  Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au  Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In case you haven’t noticed there is a new cool in town. It isn’t based on strength or even being right all the time. It is what is much needed at this time and it is compassionate and heart felt. Being Kind is the new cool, and it carries with it no judgement, but it offers itself, and anything it can do, to others who need it. There is no greater time in the world than right now, where compassion and understanding is needed the most, and Dwayne and Andrew talk about why Men need to be kind, to themselves, to each other, well in fact, to everyone. Being Kind is easy, when you know how.   Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review..   Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com   Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com   Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au   Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.   And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We all have a lens. We see the world through it and it filters our reality. Every person has one and it is as unique as we are. But what a lot of people don’t realise is that this lens not only changes what we see, but we also project our thoughts and feelings through it and it changes them as well. If you are unhappy in life, it all comes down to this lens. But not all hope is lost, as this lens can be changed, altered or even replaced with a completely new lens, and if you are unhappy with how your life has panned out, then I suggest you listen to this episode as Dwayne and Andrew talk about the lens, how it impacts your life experience, but also how it can also change your life forever. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com   Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com  Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au  Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.   And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nothing is more powerful than a good story, and no episode was more popular than our first discussion about story and why it is just so powerful. In fact it is so powerful we really needed to talk more about it,  Dwayne and Andrew get real about the Power of Story in an episode you really don't want to miss. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.   And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Changing your mindset will change your life. We know this, the mindset greats of the world have proven it, but it is worth nothing to you if your body falls apart in the process. Some of the greatest minds in the world have been stopped in their tracks because they forgot one essential ingredient. Their Body, their Health.  Dwayne and Andrew get real about why it is so important to work holistically, on the Mind, the Body and the Spirit when changing yourself, your life and your relationships. Don’t miss out on this important episode, as it may just save your life one day.   Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review..   Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com   Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com   Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au   Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.   And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Every now and then we come up with a bright idea to sort ourselves out. To address our shortfalls and reinvent ourself. This moment is an important intuitive point for us to take action, but we often don’t. The question is why? Mostly it is because we don’t know what to do next. Well it is time for that to stop and for you to start. Don’t miss this weeks episode where Dwayne and Andrew talk about everything you need to know to get started today. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Fear of Providing

The Fear of Providing

2020-08-1157:29

Today’s episode covers a big issue, and one Men live with most of their lives. It sits in our stomach, like a lead weight, slowly poisoning us. It is our own doing, a big obligation we all feel, and one that is easily forgiven when we do eventually speak to our partners.  All men have felt it at one point, that Fear of Providing. Can I provide for my family? For my partner, for my kids? It is felt in the cities and the outback, but for very different reasons. Today, it is time for it to stop. It is time to allow the discussion to heal and to show the world that you are not alone, not on this one.  Dwayne and Andrew have both felt it, in a raw and open discussion, that is essential to have. Join us today, as we work together to put this one to bed once and for all. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com  Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au  Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions.  And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The first time Dwayne and Andrew talked about Bridging the Divide it set the world on fire. The deep discussion really got people thinking about how we would feel if everything changed and the wrongs were righted and our world was reset.  Well now their at it again to take things to the next level. Strap yourself in because you don’t want to miss this one.  Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Raising Kids

Raising Kids

2020-07-2857:48

The next installment of our Fatherhood series, where you may have had your kids and they are getting a little older and more independent, but they are not quiet teenagers, and thank God for that. Dwayne and Andrew give an honest and funny breakdown about fatherhood, in an episode too good to miss. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
There is one question that separates them all. One that opens up possibilities as much as it can destroy us. Asking the question can give clarity, it can also distract you from your objective. The one thing we must answer, is ‘is it a question of definition or a question of ultimate creation.’ Join Dwayne and Andrew as they give the ancient philosophers a run for their money, in answering the ultimate question. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Misogyny in today’s world is a big issued, ingrained in all aspect of the modern world. Some cultures are based on it, some countries a built upon it.. But this weeks show isn’t about standing up for women. It is about the simple fact that a real man doesn’t need to put them down in the first place.  A Real Man Stands Up Against Misogyny, even when our mates feel the need to put women down, dominate them or bully them. It is time for this to end once and for all. Are you a Real Man? Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review..  Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com  Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com  Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au  Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Too many people nowadays, think that it is ok to judge someone, slam someone for behaving differently. We are taught to judge, in fact we are often judged when we don’t judge someone else. The fact is, everyone’s behaviour is their own, it represents them, including your own judgement of their behaviour. Is your behaviour perfect? Maybe, to you, to your ego it is. But I guarantee you, to someone else it isn’t. You need to stop what we are doing and listen to this powerful episode, and we collectively need to change what we are doing because it is sending society as a whole down the wrong path. Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Finding Your Truth

Finding Your Truth

2020-06-3053:47

There is your truth, my truth and even Dwayne's truth. The truth is out there and through constructive respectful discussion we can help each other find our own truth. But what does that even mean. In  today's episode Dwayne and Andrew have the discussion that needs to be had, in the hope it will help you find your own truth, whatever that means to you. Tune in today for this not to miss episode.  Don’t forget to subscribe and please leave a review.. Send us an email info@secretmensbiz.com   Explore Dwayne’s Cultural Awareness offering https://ngaranaboriginalculture.com Explore Andrew’s offering https://andrewhackett.com.au Connect with us through Facebook and Instagram send us a message if you have any questions. And a big thanks to Scott Darlow for the use of Solid Rock for the Podcast theme, and Shane Howard for being the legend who originally released it. Find the full version here - https://music.apple.com/au/album/solid-rock-feat-shane-howard/1074541227?i=1074541228 and the Youtube version here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbAMtQQYcZ0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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