Everyone Dies (Every1Dies)

The death of your sibling may receive little social acknowledgement, but the can affect you in many ways. Learn why it can have a profound and unique impact.This podcast is dedicated to Russell, the baby brother of Robert.In this Episode:00:00 – Intro and Dedication04:33 – Recipe of the Week: Two Brothers’ Chocolate Gobs07:20 – Our Construct of the Afterlife and How it Consoles Us13:23 – Why is the Death of a Sibling so Different?32:29 – “12 Things I Learned from Losing My Brother”39:41 – OutroThe death of a family member can have a profound and long-lasting impact on the entire family. However, there is one member of the mourning family that is often forgotten or ignored as being a grieving person and that is the siblings of the deceased. Siblings grieve each other in some different ways than they grieve other family member’s deaths. The death of your sibling may receive little social acknowledgement, but the death can affect you in many ways. This stems from the special roles’ siblings play in our development and the need to cope with the ambivalence that marks most sibling relationships at some point in their history.Follow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Inflammation can be a killer – how do we combat it?Together, diseases related to chronic inflammation account for 50% of deaths worldwide. The relation among obesity, inflammation, and metabolic syndrome is an interrelated mesh that can lead to an early death if we do not learn how to manage chronic inflammation.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro02:30 – Discussion of Terri Schiavo Documentary09:10 – History of the Funeral Pall16:13 – What is Inflammation?37:31- Foods to Help with Inflammation47:25 – Recipe of the Week: whole grain bread loafFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Grief groceries are a meaningful and practical way to extend support to those navigating the challenging path of grief. The next time a loved one is going through a difficult time, skip the “let me know what I can do” offer and drop off grief groceries instead. Provide comfort and emotional support that is needed with a simple, yet meaningful and practical gesture. Listen to learn some great ideas on what to include in your "care package." In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro02:02 - Recipe of the Week: Homemade Slow-Cooker Bread03:03 - "Let People Eat"10:26 - Show You Care with Grief Groceries24:20 - The Value of Holding Hands32:43 - OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

In 2020, firearms became the leading cause of death for American children and teens in the United States, overtaking motor vehicle accidents. Firearm violence - which includes accidental death related to firearms, suicide, mass shootings, and homicides - has become a health crisis. Many of these deaths are preventable with a few safety steps...learn what you can do in this episode. We are not providing opinions about owning firearms, but rather to promote health and safety. In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro03:48 – Recipe of the Week, Jimmy Carter Cake05:50 – The Crisis of Firearm Violence19:47 – Tips to Promote Firearm Safety24:42 – Shakespeare’s 29th Sonnet26:08 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Parental death in midlife may result in lingering feelings of loneliness, feeling alone on the earth for the first time in their lives. Their death can bring back memories of former losses, unresolved conflicts, and doubts about life’s purpose. Knowing that we are not alone as we struggle with this change in our life can help adjust to a world without our parents.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro06:10 – Recipe of the Week, Ding Dong Cake08:11 – Palm Beach’s Pet Cemetery10:22 – Interview: Coping with the Death of a Complicated Parent43:54 – OutroUnpacking the Aftermath of a Parent’s DeathNoelle cared for her mom while on hospice. We visited her a few months after her mother’s death as she discussed the challenges, emotions and positive coping techniques she uses.Follow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

When we plan for our inevitable death, we can make our end of life easier for our loved ones.Life is hard, loss is hard, grief is hard. A final gift we can offer those who love us is to have our paperwork in order so they do not have to expend their energy on these details. Learn what kinds of things you can put in your advance care planning so healthcare decisions and your last wishes are honored.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro05:23 – Overlooked No More: "Rockin' Granny" Cordell Jackson12:14 – Recipe of the Week – Lemon Cloud Cookies13:20 – Are You Prepared to Die32:30 – Advance Care Planning – An Example from a FriendFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Implantable cardioverter-defibrillators (ICD) are a technology that many people have, especially if they survived cardiac arrest or have a heart condition that causes dangerous heart rhythms.ICDs are a great technology, but at some point a decision may need to be made about continued use or turning it off. This show will help you understand the issues involved and five considerations for making this decision. In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro02:03 – Richard Lewis in “Curb Your Enthusiasm”05:31 – “Much Ado About Dying” Documentary Review08:48 – Recipe of the Week: Charleston Chewies11:35 – Overlooked No More: Beatrix Potter16:50 – ICDs and End of Life35:53 – “This Confusion” – a poem37:49 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Learn Healthy Strategies to Deal with a Person with Anger IssuesAre you overwhelmed by the political climate, difficult people in healthcare, or even the person riding your bumper on the roadway? We take a look at WWII to learn why you can’t appease an aggressor, but also explore techniques to better navigate situations with someone who has anger issues.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro02:24 – Nazi Concentration Camps on British Soil07:56 – History: Why You Can’t Appease an Aggressor18:32 – Strategies to Navigate an Aggressive Situation27:36 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Find connection and community through digital preservation and memorializationPeople are more frequently choosing cremation over burial and in doing so, raises the question of memorialization. Digital memorials are the current answer to how to keep our memory alive without a gravesite to visit. The available options seem only to be limited by our imagination and the current technology available.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro03:52 – John Green’s Paper Towns09:18 – Recipe of the Week: Southern Fried Cabbage11:02 – Interview: Digital Memorials44:51 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Indigenous Americans have higher rates of cancer, dementia, and diabetes compared to other US populations. How is this related to their historical experiences? We talk about an understandable distrust of the healthcare system and how it continues to impact tribes. https://bit.ly/49zPMy2In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro04:50 – Recipe of the Week: Pawpaw Cookies08:19 – Exploring Native American Health Disparities25:16 – Interview: Dr. Jeanna Ford on COVID impacts for tribes46:05 – Outro#nativeamerican #indigenous #tribalcustoms #healthcaredisparities #everyonedies #deathpositive #palliativecare #everydayisagift #grief #pawpaw #genocide #healthcaredisparities #historicaltrauma #restitution #COVID #indianschools Follow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Learn all about stomach cancer treatment, symptom management, and end-stage disease.In Part 1 we talked about risk factors, symptoms, diagnosis, staging, and survival estimates. This week for Part 2 of our discussion we review treatment options, symptom management, end-stage disease, and how you can support someone with stomach cancer.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro02:18 – How to Lower Your Risk for Stomach Cancer09:50 – Recipe of the Week: Popcorn Balls12:39 – Stomach Cancer Treatment21:01 – Stomach Cancer Symptom Management33:14 – End-Stage Stomach Cancer41:49 – How to Support Someone with Stomach Cancer50:24 – Greg’s Journal: The Loneliness of Caring for Someone with Alzheimer’s Disease54:00- OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

 Learn all about stomach cancer risk factors, symptoms & diagnosis Toby Keith died this month, 28 months after his stomach cancer diagnosis. Stomach cancer is the 5th most common cancer in the world, and anyone can get it. This is part one of a two-part review where we talk about risk factors, symptoms, diagnosis, staging, and survival estimates. We also celebrate the life and poetry of Toby Keith.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone 00:20 – Intro 05:59 - Remembering Toby Keith 17:16 - How to make Toby's Fried Bologna Sandwich 18:19 - All About Stomach Cancer, Part 1: risk factors, symptoms, diagnosis, staging, and survival estimates 47:21 - Don't Let the Old Man In 52:47 - OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Learn about the hidden, cumulative effects of tackle football on the brain, especially for children, and how you can minimize the risk.Playing tackle football as a child can impact health and quality of life as an adult. Simply put, lifestyle impacts health. So, what do you do when your child brings home the permission form to play football when every year there are new studies documenting the negative long-term effects linking football and brain disease? This week’s show focus can help you answer this question and help you protect your child’s developing brainIn this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro04:23 – Honoring our Fallen Soldiers05:53 – Super Bowl07:09 – Recipe of the Week: Pig Candy11:09 – Traumatic Brain Encephalitis35:56 – Funeral Theater: “Concussion”44:20 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

How do I help a Native American friend who is sick or grieving?It may be awkward when someone has a different culture to know what to do. Each tribe, person and family can be different. Dr. Jeanna Ford joins us again to talk about her experiences in her culture and as a medical professional and to give us advice and help to understand. This is especially important for anyone in a healthcare profession or caregiving role.We celebrate the role of family with fry bread, a favorite food that is made and eaten together and its history.  We finish off with a beautiful essay about the sacred connection with the sun.In this Episode:00:00 – Our Sponsor: Tree of Life Memorials and Digital & Stone00:20 – Intro03:01 – Recipe of the Week: Indian Taco03:36 – The History of Indian Fry Bread08:32 – Marianne’s Powwow Experiences12:27 – Oklahoma in the Oil Boom Era20:05 – Guest Dr. Jeanna Ford on Native American Families30:21 – A Sacred Connection to the Sun, by Joy Harjo33:40 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Does choosing hospice mean the end? President Jimmy Carter and his wife Rosalyn courageously allowed us to see their frailty and openly shared their journey near the end of life, including decisions for hospice so they could spend as much time as possible together. The Carters have shown us hospice is about holding hands, eating favorite foods, and living your best life, even while dying.Former First Lady Rosalynn Carter died on November 19, 2023, two days after the Carter Center announced she would be entering hospice with a diagnosis of end stage dementia. The Carters demonstrate that hospice support can last a couple of days, or in the case of Mr. Carter, 11 months and still counting. This week we explore the lessons we can learn from the Carter family regarding aging, illness, and loving.In this Episode:02:16 – Recipe: Rosalyn Carter’s Cheese Ring02:38 – Rosalyn Carter’s Advocacy for Caregivers06:51 – Jimmy Carter’s Hospice Decision08:59 – How Some Patients Live Longer on Hospice11:09 – The Realities of Hospice…is Home the Best Place to Die for Everyone?18:07 – How the Carters Modeled How to Die24:59 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Learn this week about Native American views on death and funeral practices. Our guest who is indigenous herself shares how you can best support a friend from another culture.While each Native American Tribe has unique funeral practices, there is a lot of commonality in their beliefs about death and how the body should be treated afterwards. Understanding these beliefs is important to honor the deceased and support the bereaved. In This Episode:05:17 – Food and Native American Life08:05 – Recipe – Scalloped Corn Casserole09:43 – Death in Indigenous American Communities; Interview with Dr. Jeanna Ford19:59 – Witness to a Native American Funeral28:38 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

We want our loved ones to be able to make their own decisions as long as they are able, but what do you do when they are making bad decisions? Learn about decision-making capacity and the differences between ability, capacity and competency. Listen and get resources: https://bit.ly/48u4DcB#decisions #advancedirective #takingcareofmom #dementia #caregiver #healthcareproxy #everyonedies #everydayisagiftIn this Show:01:27 – Recipe: Peanut Butter Cake Mix Cookies03:39 – Connections with Loved Ones After Death17:22 – Decision-Making Ability, Capacity, and Competency1:04:12 – Encouragement for Caregivers from a Hospice Nurse1:07:59 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Did you know a two-second diversion is all it takes to double your risk of a car accident? Learn facts and several tips to help you and others stay safe on the road.  We also talk about two people's long journey to burial and a wife's dilemma when her husband asked him to help him find a way to kill himself to avoid dementia.In this Episode:01:21 – Recipe of the Week: Bliss Balls02:21 – Long Journeys to Burial11:03 – How to Avoid a Car Accident39:28 – Ask the Ethicist: “My Husband Is Facing Dementia. Can I Help Him End His Life?”51:11 – OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

Traumatic or Complicated Grief is difficult to work through on your own.  We give you tips on how to find the right therapist and share our original season one podcast on the special circumstances that make this type of grief so hard.In this Episode: 00:00 - Finding a Therapist04:57 - Intro to S1E07 Rebroadcast about Traumatic Grief06:02 - Recipe of the Week: Chocolate Éclair Cake08:26 - Traumatic Bereavement32:39 - Caught in the Act46:03 - OutroFollow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!

The holidays can trigger emotions - good and bad - about family members that are no longer with us. This week is all about fathers. We share an interview with Mike Ward, a Detroit-based singer and songwriter who writes about coming to terms with aging, loss, and death. This week Mike shared about a song he wrote for his father called "Wrestling with Ghosts."We also rebroadcast an episode where we talk about why the death of a father can affect us differently and strategies to help you deal with the death of your father, especially if it was a complicated or non-existent relationship. Follow us on Facebook | Instagram | Email us at mail@every1dies.orgClick on this link to Rate and Review our podcast!