Dating Intelligence the Podcast

Dating coach Christopher Louis, from the highly acclaimed Dating Intelligence, is on stage for his very first live event "Stay In Your Dating Lane". Join him as he talks about how to navigate the dating space by figuring out what type of dater you are and shuffling through the usual suspects of people we all have dated. To narrowing down your checklist and really getting an understanding on how to find someone that you feel will be the most compatible for you and who shares similar goals and interests as yourself. You'll realize how excited and motivated you feel from his unique blend of passion and intuition. He will help you continue the deep dive into becoming the best you possible. A "You" someone out there will definitely take notice of.  This Episode is sponsored by Flure: Flure is a sex-positive dating app that prioritizes women's desires. We want our users to openly share their desires and fantasies and find like-minded individuals to explore them with, whether it's for one-night stands, friends with benefits, sexting, no-strings-attached encounters, or long-term relationships. There are no forbidden desires—only mandatory respect and consent. But most importantly, it's about the pleasure of intimacy, the passion between people, and the desire to try something new. Flure App - Pleasure Awaits. So go to Flure.com for all the details and download the app today. 

Join Christopher and his guest cohost, Allison Goldberg, a talented comedian, writer, and actor, as they delve into the tricky world of breaking up. In this episode, Allison shares insights from her experience creating a dating/comedy show that offers a unique perspective on navigating relationships. They explore the familiar struggle of contemplating breakups yet finding it challenging to pull the trigger. Tune in as Christopher and Allison discuss the dos and don'ts of ending relationships, offering practical advice and humorous anecdotes along the way. From proper communication strategies to navigating the emotional minefield, they provide listeners with valuable insights into the art of breaking up. Whether you're contemplating the end of a relationship or simply curious about the process, this episode offers a fresh and entertaining perspective on a universal experience. Don't forget to check out our amazing sponsor for this episode, Factor, one of the top meal based delivery services in the nation that really knows how to meet you dietary needs.  And get 50% off your first order when you use the code DATEINTEL at www.factor.com

In this episode, Christopher is joined by guest cohost, certified Confidence Therapist, Dating Strategist, and Image Expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Together, they unravel the secrets to maintaining momentum and kindling the flame when you first start dating someone special. From practical steps to insightful measures, learn how to keep the spark alive and avoid the dreaded fizzle-out. Grab your pen and paper as Christopher and Kimmy share their wit and comedy, offering answers to ensure your newfound connection stays ablaze. Don't miss out on this engaging conversation! Sponsor brought to you by: Factor Meals.  Don't miss out on getting 50% off of your initial order.  Factormeals.com/dating50 and use code dating50.  

In this eye-opening episode, Christopher delves into the fascinating world of the porn industry, a billion-dollar business that has long been shrouded in taboo. Whether you're a fan or a curious observer, join us as we sit down with the industry icon, Richelle Ryan, who shares her remarkable journey in an industry notorious for its swift rise and fall. Richelle, one of the industry's biggest names, provides an insider's perspective on how the porn industry became a global phenomenon, especially during the early 2000s when it infiltrated mainstream media. With her extensive experience and expertise, Richelle sheds light on the industry's stylized evolution and how it catapulted many stars to fame. Christopher and his cohost take a deep dive into Richelle's career, unraveling the secrets behind her success, and exploring the challenges faced by performers in an industry known for its intensity. As they navigate this candid conversation, listeners gain valuable insights into the inner workings of an often misunderstood profession. Buckle up and get ready to explore the real story behind the glitz and glam of the porn industry. Join us as we peel back the layers and discover the resilience, determination, and business acumen that drive individuals like Richelle Ryan to thrive in this billion-dollar world. Don't miss this thought-provoking episode that challenges perceptions and offers a unique perspective on an industry that has shaped the modern entertainment landscape.  

In this captivating "on the fly" episode, join us as David Fishchuk, a true advocate of the philosophy "Free Your Mind, Master Your Body, and Self-Discipline," takes the reins as a guest cohost alongside Christopher. Jamie Villamor might be on a globe-trotting vacation, but the wisdom shared here is worth its weight in gold. David Fishchuk is more than just a fitness guru and nutrition expert; he's a life strategist who believes in the power of resilience, discipline, and the right mindset to shape your destiny. As these two remarkable men swap stories, you'll gain insights into what it takes to conquer life's challenges and emerge victorious. Discover the secrets to overcoming adversity, cultivating unwavering work ethic, and molding your mindset to create the life you desire. Whether you're in need of a motivational boost or seeking practical strategies for personal growth, this episode is a treasure trove of inspiration and actionable advice. Tune in as David Fishchuk and Christopher delve into the depths of self-discovery, harnessing your potential, and ascending to the pinnacle of success. Don't miss this empowering conversation that will leave you ready to take charge of your own destiny.

Feeling exhausted by the endless swiping and dating app disappointment? Look no further! In this episode, we have an exclusive conversation with Kellie Ammerman, the dynamic CEO of Tawkify, the #1 rated dating service that's transforming the dating game. Tawkify takes a refreshing approach to modern dating by pairing members through expert matchmakers who identify common interests and values. Join us as Kellie Ammerman reveals the secrets behind Tawkify's success, including the fusion of technology and data-driven insights that have propelled the company to new heights. In this lively discussion, we dive deep into what sets Tawkify apart from other matchmaking services and explore the remarkable success rate of matchmaking compared to traditional dating apps. Kellie's forward-thinking mindset and wealth of expertise have helped Tawkify redefine the dating universe, and you won't want to miss her insights. We'd also like to give a special shoutout to Curated Wines in Los Angeles, where this episode was recorded live. Be sure to check out the accompanying YouTube video to get a glimpse of all the excitement at this stunning location. If you're ready to rekindle your romance with dating, join us for an eye-opening conversation with Kellie Ammerman, and discover why Tawkify might just be the solution you've been waiting for.  

Welcome to a captivating episode of "Navigating Love," where Jamie takes the lead alongside her dynamic cohost Harmony Shay. In this special edition, Christopher is out, but Jamie and Harmony have a fantastic lineup of guests, including Shantal Monique and Lynnie Marie from the popular podcast "Coffee and Cleavage." Tune in as these four vibrant personalities dive deep into the world of modern dating, sharing laughter, insights, and personal experiences that make this episode an absolute delight. Jamie and Harmony's chemistry is infectious as they explore the often unpredictable landscape of dating with wit, candor, and a touch of irreverence. From awkward first encounters to memorable romantic gestures, our hosts and guests reflect on their own dating journeys, providing relatable anecdotes that will have you nodding in agreement and laughing out loud. Drawing from their diverse backgrounds, the group unpacks the top 11 dating rules that can help you navigate the twists and turns of the dating sphere with grace and authenticity. Shantal Monique and Lynnie Marie bring a fresh perspective to the conversation, drawing from their own podcast's experience of discussing life's real moments. Their genuine insights and unfiltered stories create an engaging dialogue that touches on everything from setting boundaries to embracing vulnerability. Whether you're a seasoned dater looking for a chuckle or someone new to the dating scene seeking sage advice, this episode offers a rich blend of entertainment and wisdom. Discover how to make your dating experiences more enjoyable and meaningful, all while being reminded that love and connection are best pursued with a healthy dose of humor and a willingness to learn. So, join Jamie, Harmony, Shantal Monique, and Lynnie Marie as they share laughs, lessons, and a few secrets from the trenches of modern dating. Get ready for an episode filled with camaraderie, candid discussions, and the reminder that sometimes the best way to navigate love is by embracing the journey – rules, laughter, and all.

  From breaking up, to cheating to just disappering, in this episode, your hosts Christopher and Jamie take you on a fascinating journey through the latest and most updated dating lingo. Ever wondered what "cookie jarring" or "orbiting" might be? We've got you covered. From deciphering these intriguing terms to understanding the nuances of contemporary dating, you'll gain valuable insights to enhance your dating prowess. But here's the twist: Sometimes, without even realizing it, you might be the unwitting antagonist in someone else's dating narrative. Brace yourself for a candid exploration of the roles we unintentionally play in others' dating lives. Prepare for an episode filled with witty anecdotes, relatable experiences, and aha moments. Don't miss out on this opportunity to unravel the mysteries of modern dating, one term at a time. Tune in to discover how to navigate the dating frontier armed with knowledge, humor, and a fresh perspective. Whether you're new to the dating scene or a seasoned explorer, you're bound to be entertained and enlightened by the intriguing situations we discuss. Join us on this episode as we decode the complexities, expose the truths, and share a few laughs along the way. Your journey through the uncharted territories of dating is about to get a whole lot more exciting.

In this episode, we explore the intricacies of establishing a balanced and healthy relationship between men and women. Our special guest, Ricki Lynne, the visionary behind Warrior Women's International, joins Christopher and Jamie to shed light on the merits of cultivating a relationship free from dominance. Throughout the conversation, we delve into the common dynamics where men tend to exert control, while women seek safety and assertiveness in their partnerships, and vice versa. The key to making any relationship thrive lies in the foundations of honesty, trust, respect, and open communication between partners. It's a shared effort that calls for compromise and dedication from both individuals involved. We break down the importance of creating an environment where power is not imbalanced. Mutual respect fosters an atmosphere where partners feel secure in expressing their independence and making decisions without fear of retribution or retaliation. Decision-making becomes a joint venture, strengthening the bond between couples. Join us as we navigate the complexities of modern relationships and learn valuable insights from Ricki Lynne's wealth of experience. Discover how embracing cooperation and understanding can lead to the kind of connection that stands the test of time. Whether you're in a relationship or seeking one, this episode offers indispensable guidance on finding the equilibrium for a truly fulfilling partnership.  

In this episode, we are joined by the insightful and candid Kawa Mawlayee, who shares his recent journey of love and self-discovery. Join hosts Christopher and Jamie as they sit down with Kawa, who bravely opens up about his struggles to navigate a relationship that seemed destined for success. In this emotionally charged conversation, Kawa unveils the challenges he faced when his partner failed to reciprocate the effort he invested in the relationship. Love can often be a blinding force, leading us to pour our hearts and souls into making a connection work, even when the other person appears unresponsive or unwilling to communicate. In "Blinded By Love," we explore the reasons behind our persistent efforts to salvage relationships, even in the face of apparent imbalance. Through Kawa's poignant story, we discover the toll that unrequited efforts can take on one's emotional well-being and how this can lead to a profound search for understanding and personal growth. In this candid conversation, we delve into the complexities of relationships, examining the importance of communication, empathy, and shared problem-solving. Our guest, Kawa Mawlayee, helps shed light on the value of recognizing when it's time to step back and reassess the dynamics of a relationship. So, join us in this compelling episode as we explore the intricacies of love, effort, and self-discovery. Whether you've experienced similar challenges in your own relationships or are curious about the human experience of navigating love's twists and turns, this episode is sure to captivate your heart and mind. Tune in for an honest and raw conversation that will leave you reflecting on the power of love and the importance of finding balance in every relationship.  

In this episode, hosts Christopher and Jamie dive deep into the realities of life, acknowledging that it's not always a fairytale. Life presents us with various challenges, both physical and emotional, that we must confront and overcome in our daily lives. Joining them is Disney princess, Tawny, who brings a unique perspective to the discussion. This guest, who has experienced the enchanting world of princesses firsthand, sheds light on the power of self-expression through dressing up and embracing one's true self. Together, they explore the significance of authenticity and self-acceptance, even in the face of life's inevitable trials. Throughout the episode, Christopher, Jamie, and their guest engage in heartfelt conversations, sharing personal anecdotes and insights. They emphasize the importance of staying true to oneself and finding joy in life's offerings, despite its lack of fairytale perfection. They discuss the value of resilience and determination, highlighting how these qualities can empower individuals to navigate life's ups and downs with grace and strength. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and find solace in the knowledge that life's imperfections are what make it beautiful. The episode concludes with an uplifting message, reminding everyone that while life may not always resemble a fairytale, they have the power to create their own unique and fulfilling story. Tune in to this thought-provoking and inspiring episode of "Life's No Fairytale" to discover how embracing reality and being true to oneself can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life.

In this eye-opening episode, join hosts Christopher and Jamie as they engage in a thought-provoking conversation with esteemed therapist Jamie Lynn, aimed at debunking the widely discussed Red Pill theory. Together, they shed light on the harmful effects this ideology has on women and society as a whole. The Red Pill theory has evolved into a set of beliefs that perpetuates toxic masculinity and fosters a damaging worldview. Throughout the podcast, Jamie Lynn brings her expertise as a therapist to the table, unraveling the underlying misconceptions and highlighting the negative consequences that stem from embracing the Red Pill ideology. With compassion and insight, they explore the various tenets of the Red Pill theory and dissect its impact on relationships, gender dynamics, and personal growth. They challenge the notion that men should strive for dominance and control, while women should conform to traditional roles and expectations. Drawing upon real-life examples and psychological research, this episode serves as a powerful counterargument to the Red Pill philosophy. Together, the hosts and Jamie Lynn dismantle the myth of inherent gender superiority and emphasize the importance of fostering healthy, equal partnerships built on mutual respect, communication, and shared decision-making. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the insidious ways in which the Red Pill theory influences society, perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes and undermining women's rights and autonomy. The podcast aims to empower women by exposing the fallacies of this ideology and encouraging individuals to critically examine and challenge prevailing societal norms. Tune in as Christopher, Jamie, and Jamie Lynn dismantle the Red Pill theory, shatter its harmful narratives, and offer a fresh perspective that promotes equality, compassion, and the flourishing of both women and men in today's ever-evolving world. Don't miss this enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to question and reshape their beliefs for the betterment of society.

Welcome to the Pride Month special of our podcast! Join us as we dive into the exciting world of LGBTQ+ dating with a groundbreaking new app. In this exclusive episode, our host Christopher sits down with Michael Kay, the Director of Brand Marketing and Communications, who shares the inside scoop on the highly anticipated launch of OK Cupid's latest venture: Archer. Archer is not your typical dating app; it's a "social first" experience specifically designed for gay, bisexual, and queer men. Michael, an influential figure in the LGBTQ+ community, discusses the inspiration behind Archer and how it aims to revolutionize the way people connect and build meaningful relationships. But this conversation goes beyond just the app. Michael opens up about his personal journey as a gay man, sharing his experiences, challenges, and triumphs along the way. As someone who now represents two of Match Group's biggest dating apps, he offers unique insights into the evolving landscape of online dating and the importance of LGBTQ+ inclusivity. Join us as we celebrate Pride Month and delve into the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ dating, exploring the stories and experiences that shape our community. This one-on-one interview promises to be an enlightening and inspiring conversation that you won't want to miss. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the app that's set to make waves in the LGBTQ+ dating scene and to hear from an influential voice championing love, acceptance, and connection for all.

In this uproarious episode, Christopher and Jamie invite the audaciously funny Lana Chairez, a no-nonsense comedian, to shed light on the exhilarating journey of overcoming fear and embracing new experiences. "Have you ever wanted to do something but you've always been too afraid to try?" Lana fearlessly tackles this common predicament with her signature comedic flair, sharing anecdotes and insights that leave listeners in stitches. Get ready for laughter, inspiration, and a newfound enthusiasm for embracing the uncomfortable in this comedy-infused podcast episode.

Making plans in your relationship to be financially secure and independently wealthy for your family and future should be a focal point in our lives. How we get there is another story. Writer and content creator, Sahil Bloom, joins the show to discuss family and investing for your future. He also, goes deep with Christopher and Jamie on where love language matches up with family and friends.

We've all heard the saying, "If you had to bury a dead body who would you trust"? Eight time off road champion, BJ Baldwin, joins the show to discuss his life on and off the track with stories ranging from his infamous dad, his In and Out shoot and his go to that he relies on when things get tough. Also, Christopher and Jamie share their stories about who they trust when things are out of their control. So who do you trust when you need to get out of that jam or whose your confidant when you need a shoulder to cry on?

We all have a different point of view in how we see things. But does this mean we all just can’t get along? Christopher and Jamie jump right into a debate on a few subject matters that we don’t see eye to eye on but in the end we both agree that not one way is necessarily the right way. Producer George weighs in on this one to mediate and share his POV. So let's get this party started! I feel this is probably one of the best solo episodes to date! We’d love to hear what you have to say in the comments below.

How important is having a sense of humor to you in your relationship?  Top model, turned actress and comedian, Eugenia Kuzmina has had a stellar career in the fashion industry.  She joins the show to share her stories from her high end modeling days to marriage and kids with Christopher and Jamie.   Eugenia doesn't miss a beat in this fun filled episode full of laughter and joy.