FETLOSOPHY

Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, You know how they say that external beauty is less important than the inner one. The lady I am talking to today is blessed with both. Imagine an absolute goddess in shiny latex, heels and sensual lips, not a hair out of place. Now you have the image of Gwendoline. Talking to her has revealed that her elegance originates from within. Such a lovely person to get to know!We talk about all sort of things, concept of femininity and gender in general, latex care and presentation, and we dedicate a huge portion of our conversation to a hobbie we have in common, anal play. I am absolutely certain you are going to enjoy this episode! 

Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, Today’s episode is a bit of a public service one. KinkyDruid whom we met previously and based on your downloads, liked very much, is raising an issue that is all too common and discussed often, but to my knowledge has never been addressed with the intention to offer solutions. That issue is: unwillingness of seasoned dominants to play with new submissives. The only ones, we are led to believe, who seek out new submissives to play with are predatory dominants, who aim at abusing the said newbies, or taking advantage of them in some way. KinkyDruid offers an alternative way of looking at this situation and even offers some practical advice to both new submissives and people who wish to play with them, to bridge the gap of experience and understanding. My apologies, I usually do everything I can to produce excellent sound, however in this episode there are a few instances of passing trains, which were unavoidable when you live close to a trainline. I decided to keep these sections, because the content is definitely worth it.  And finally, if you like this podcast, please give it 5 starts on Apple podcasts and Spotify, and please visit www.fetlosophy.com for all your questions, comments and for an opportunity to share your story. And now, let’s jump in and welcome KinkyDruid for another excellent instalment!  

Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, Wow, do I have a treat for you today. Allow me to introduce Honey. She is as multifaceted as they come. She is an BBW adult industry award winning porn star, sex and kink educator, professional dominant and lifestyle switch and she hosts a very popular podcast entitled My mum is a porn star! Here is the blurb: Mother/Daughter team bringing sex education with a humorous bogan twist. The sex talks your parents "should have had" with you. Only thing is -Maz has conservative views and her mum is a PORNSTAR! Discover all the things you didn't realise you didn't know, while Miss Honey shares the stories no one wants to hear about their parents. If you like this podcast, please give it 5 starts on Apple podcasts and Spotify, it really helps with the charts. Thank you! Please visit www.fetlosophy.com for all your questions, comments and for an opportunity to share your story.  And now, please welcome the indefatigable Honey! 

Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY, Just a quick update, you’ve been asking me for a while now how can you support me and I really do need your support to keep going. So finally FETLOSOPHY joined the rest of the podcasting community and created a patreon page! But it isn’t all about me, you will get so many rewards by joining the community there. You will get my book Transcendental kink – Exploration for free, an original episode, at least once a month, with the first one already waiting for you there, about the never-ending conundrum of understanding and dealing with Brats. And last but not least, videos which give the context to creating all this content for you (which may or may not include some bunny onesies)! So go ahead and click on the link  https://www.patreon.com/fetlosophy I promise you won’t regret it!  And now let me tell you a bit about my guest today:It’s so lovely to make a new connection and immediately feel like you’ve known that person forever. This is exactly how I felt talking to Miri. Miri is an extraordinary young lady. She is an adorable little, but also a big Joy FM radio personality, and a podcaster. There is even a possibility that she will interview me in the future. Can’t wait! We talk about her life and background, challenges and insights and a lot of introspection and acceptance. We talk about her expression as a little and about power in the many forms it takes. If you like this podcast, please give it 5 starts on Apple podcasts and Spotify, it really helps with the charts. Thank you! Please visit www.fetlosophy.com for all your questions, comments and for an opportunity to share your story.  So without further ado, please join me in a conversation with Miri!   

Hello lovely people and welcome to FETLOSOPHY (formerly known as Transcendental Kink.This is the first episode of season 3 and a new beginning for this podcast. To find out more about me and what I do please visit fetlosophy.com

Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink,Now, I know that I said that there will be no break between seasons this time, but alas so much is happening over here in Transcendental Kink land. All very good, but a lot! So I might take a little breather and start the third season properly on the 14 of April. In the meantime, I’d like to present the topic for season 3 and to invite you all to start considering these questions. If you have a few answers, please do reach out, I’d love to have a chat and perhaps record an episode with you. If you have ideas for different questions, please also reach out. This is a big and ambitious topic and I’d like to treat it properly. Your input is invaluable! There is a private and secret group on Facebook called Transcendental Kink – friends with benefits, where we come to think together and plan our future. It is still very young, but I hope more of you will join us so we can have even more interesting discussions. The benefits include special offers, like free TK candles to anyone who can provide photos of them used for my website, and much more. So I am looking forward to seeing you there. https://www.transcendentalkink.com/

Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, Unexpectedly, but totally delightfully, here’s an extra episode that will in fact close season two of Transcendental Kink. It was just too good not to post in this season. This isn’t the last time Abaddon will feature on Transcendental Kink. We only managed to tackle one subject in his rich and amazing life, that of polyamory. He is extraordinarily insightful and articulate, and I couldn’t find a better person to reflect on this complicated topic, I’ve been trying to address in this season. Abaddon has graciously agreed to provide us with at least one more chat on the topic of power exchange, which I am eagerly anticipating appearing in season 3. I am absolutely fascinated by his original thought processes, as you will hear throughout our conversation. If you haven’t yet, please rate this podcast on apple podcasts and on Spotify. Spotify actually introduced an option of rating recently and I would really appreciate you giving Transcendental Kink a five stars rating. It would really help more people to find it.  So without further ado, please join me a conversation with Abaddon! www.transcendentalkink.com 

Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with the lovely KinkyDruid. This was intended to be the final episode for season two, but I happened to have a great conversation with another person, whom I’ll introduce next week, which had to be included in this season. So this isn’t the last episode, but it is fantastic, if I may say so myself. This episode is a chat between two friends that live very similar lives. We chat about our experiences and thoughts about multiple partner relationships, as they interweave through our normal lives; you know the lives that have work, shopping, cleaning etc. www.transcendentalkink.com 

Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, This is the eleventh and the final solo episode of this season. Next week, I will release the last episode for season 2, a conversation with the lovely KinkyDruid, in which we chat about our own experiences and thoughts about multiple partner relationships, as a way to summarise this season and move to season 3. You can find out more about KinkyDruid in episode 14 of season 1, in which he talks about his journey of self-development and growth, entry into the Melbourne scene, his search for a mentor, and much more. Please visit transcendentalkink.com to download a copy of Transcendental Kink - Exploration, grab some wax play candles and to keep up to date with all the latest from Transcendental Kink.

Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink,And now, I am delighted to share a conversation with Hawthorn, whom I met a few years ago and bumped into again in the FB group The Melbourne Salon - Over 50s Ethical Non-Monogamy. Hawthorn practices spiritual work under the umbrella of neo-paganism, or earth ritual and I am totally nerding out on the similarities between their practice with my own shamanic work. In this interview I skipped over the history of their sexual discovery, which is well covered in an interview they did with the sex stories podcast. https://www.sexstoriespodcast.com/podcast/episode/2b4c068f/146-or-dominant-women-are-sexy-hawthorns-sex-stories And here are some books we mention: I had so much fun connecting with Hawthorn and I hope our delight comes across when you listen. So without further ado let’s jump in and meet Hawthorn.  https://www.amazon.com/Masturbation-Tantra-Self-Margo-Woods/dp/0917320158Wilhelm Reich https://www.theguardian.com/books/2021/apr/17/wilhelm-reich-the-strange-prescient-sexologist-who-sought-to-set-us-free 

Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental Kink, This is the first episode of the new segment that I have provisionally named Q&A. Your suggestions for naming would be greatly appreciated! Each episode of this segment I will take a listener's question and offer some suggestions. Please send your questions and I'll endeavour to provide my insights. Enjoy :)

Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental Kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with Scott, whom I met through a FB group I enjoy very much: The Melbourne Salon - Over 50s Ethical Non-Monogamy. Although this group isn’t focused on kink, there are many people there who are interested in and practice kink and also ENM, or Ethical Non-Monogamy. Scott brings an original perspective on a topic I’ve been pondering for a while. Namely how the desire to possess within a power exchange relationship can coexist with ethical non-monogamy. His original approach to this conundrum, as well as to many other situations, reminds me that it is useful to step out occasionally from our very specialised kink community. We are all thoughtful people but keeping ourselves to ourselves we often recycle the same ideas making very little progress. Seeing other approaches from people who either occupy a different space or combine various interests in a unique way, gives us the opportunity to question our beliefs that we hold perhaps too tightly. I learnt a lot from this conversation and I am delighted to share it with you all.  

Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental Kink,This episode looks at power exchange dynamic in the context of multiple partner relationships. If you haven’t visited my brand new and beautiful (if I may say so myself) website, please go ahead and click on the link below:transcendentalkink.com

Hello lovely people and welcome to Transcendental kink, It is my absolute pleasure to share a conversation with TheShadowSelf in which we talk about hypnosis, among other things. But before we do that, I have some exciting news! Finally, after almost 2 years of podcasting, Transcendental Kink has a website! It’s been a long time coming, but finally it’s here! So what will you find when you head over to Transcendental Kink.com you ask? Amazing things! First, and most importantly you will find the first book of Transcendental Kink, subtitled – Exploration! Written and narrated by me and available in PDF and EPUB formats for people who like to read and in AUDIO for the ones who prefer listening. This book is for people who are awakening to their full potential, regardless of their level of experience or practice. It is based on the subjects raised in the first season, but it has been developing over my entire life of learning, writing, and teaching. It is about the human condition and how to make the best of it. It is about understanding and loving ourselves as a whole person, with every little part included. It is about developing curiosity, playfulness and joy. And ultimately transcendence from the drudgery of everyday life. Kink is the vehicle that moves the book from chapter to chapter, but it isn’t its main subject. There are many resources that address the ‘how to’, as in how and where to hit, how and where to bind and how to negotiate a play scene. Transcendental Kink – Exploration looks at larger questions: why do think the way we do, what drives us, why do we want certain things and not others and why do we act in certain patterns. It examines the thought processes that causes our actions and offers ways of looking at ourselves in ways that bring more happiness in the long run.  I am exceptionally proud of this book and want to get it into as many hands as possible, so I chose to publish it myself to keep the price as affordable as possible. So head over to Transcendental Kink.com and grab yourself a copy!  What else will you find on the website? TK wax play candles of course! Apologies to my international listeners, but they are initially only available in Australia. If all goes well it will become available worldwide. There are currently 16 colours available for purchase and there are many more in the planning. TK candles are manufactured in my kitchen from the best materials. They are soft on the skin and not too hot, so anyone can use them. And of course, all the materials used in the pouring process and in the packaging and shipping are sustainable, because our planet maters. There are also all the social links in one place and ‘send a message’ button. Please utilise it 😊 I love hearing from you! So, yes, it’s been a mammoth effort to get it all done, so head over to Transcendental Kink.com to get all these goodies!  And now, without further a due, let’s hear from the lovely TheShadowSelf.  

Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, I am delighted to share a conversation with kink medic who, as the name implies, is predominantly a medical player, but not exclusively. Ever wondered why a pin prick, while being uncomfortable, also creates a ripple of pleasure? Imagine this feeling repeating 20, 50 a hundred times. We talk about what it’s like for the bottom and the top. We talk about space and transcendence and also the brain chemistry that creates this wonderful feeling. We talk about the pandemic and how medical players had an advantage in knowing how to protect themselves and others. We talk about relationships, and much much more. Please welcome Kink medic!   

Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental kink, This is the ninth solo episode of this season and part three of looking at attachment theory, how it manifests in our relationships and most importantly what we can do to change it. 

Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental kink, This is the eighth solo episode of this season and part two of looking at attachment theory, how it manifests in our relationships and most importantly what we can do to change it. 

Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental kink, This is the seventh solo episode of this season and part one of looking at attachment theory, how it manifests in our relationships and most importantly how we can use it to improve them. 

Hello lovely people and welcome to season 2 of Transcendental kink, To continue from the previous interview, please welcome Evie_Peasy, the delightful submissive of Flyguy. This conversation is especially interesting because both Evie and Flyguy are relative newcomers to the community who are still exploring the world around them and have insights which might be helpful to the listeners who are at the same point in their lives. We talk about discovering one’s limits, making friends and adjusting to the lifestyle, which is exciting and overwhelming at the same time. Please welcome Evie_Peasy!   

Hello lovely people and welcome to season two of Transcendental Kink, This is the sixth solo episode of this season in which I ask why some people arrive at BDSM lifestyle with the ambition for Multiple Partner Relationships. Why some people and not others, what drives this ambition and how it is ameliorated (or not) by the contact with other.