Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage

Join Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, as she dives deep into relationship challenges posted on the Reddit relationship advice forum. In this insightful episode, Kimberly addresses complex situations with practical advice, focusing on the importance of understanding and support over ultimatums in a marriage. Discover how to handle marital issues with compassion and teamwork, and why seeing your spouse as your ally is crucial for a healthy relationship.Kimberly provides expert advice on navigating these sensitive issues. Learn why supporting a spouse through depression is more constructive than issuing demands and how mutual respect is the cornerstone of any strong relationship. Whether you're facing similar challenges or seeking to strengthen your marriage, this video offers valuable insights and actionable tips.Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Are you paralyzed by fear in your marriage? Feeling helpless, hopeless, and confused about how to fix things?Relationship expert Dr. Joe Beam understands the destructive power of fear and how it can sabotage even the most well-intentioned efforts to save a marriage.In this eye-opening video, Dr. Joe Beam discusses:- How fear prevents you from taking action to improve your relationship.- Why the things you think will help may actually be making things worse.- The simple yet powerful "push pull" principle that can transform your marriage.Dr. Beam has helped thousands of couples worldwide overcome their challenges and create stronger, more fulfilling relationships. He shares his wisdom and insights gained from 30 years of experience to help you:Replace fear with confidence.Learn how to influence positive change in your spouse.Break free from destructive patterns.If you're ready to take control of your life and your marriage, click the link below to connect with one of Dr. Joe Beam's intake specialists and discover the best path forward for your unique situation.Remember, you are not alone. Hope and help are within reach. Take the first step towards a happier, healthier marriage today!Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Is physical attraction essential for a lasting marriage?  The answer might surprise you! In this video, viewers will explore the role of physical attraction alongside the four areas of attraction from Marriage Helper: physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual (PIES).While physical attraction often sparks initial interest, it's the other forms of attraction that truly sustain a marriage. This video discusses:- How to become the most attractive version of yourself- The importance of shared interests, emotional connection, and aligned values- What to do if you're currently not physically attracted to your spouse- Strategies for focusing on the other aspects of attractionRemember, becoming our best selves benefits not only our marriage but all our relationships.🎧 Click here to subscribe to the It Starts With Attraction Podcast!https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/it-starts-with-attraction/id1510016468Click here to subscribe to Kimberly Beam Holmes on YouTube!https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmesClick here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Is your marriage suffering from silent treatment and misunderstandings? Communication problems are common, but don't despair!  Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, shares how to rebuild connection and bring back intimacy in marriage with 3 essential tips. In this video, you'll discover:The Friendship Fix: Rekindle the spark with marriage communication exercises that build closeness and trust.Open and Honest: Learn to address those unspoken needs for less resentment and a happy marriage.Empathy Over Arguments: Transform conflict with communication in marriage strategies that prioritize love and understanding.Whether you're facing small disconnects or major communication breakdowns, these tips are your roadmap to healing. Get ready to find your voice, strengthen your bond, and rediscover the joy of intimacy in marriage.Want 25% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership?Click the link and apply code "YOUTUBE" at checkout!🔥 https://bit.ly/3OOUONQ 🔥Marriage Helper Couples Workshop - Over 70% Success Rate:http://bit.ly/3Vjpad9Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Explore the "PIES of Attraction" with Kimberly Beam Holmes in this enlightening video. As the CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly delves into the four pillars of attraction: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual. Learn how each aspect contributes to a strong, vibrant relationship with your spouse. She emphasizes the often-overlooked role of intellectual and spiritual attraction, providing practical tips to nurture these areas in your marriage. This video is perfect for couples seeking to understand and improve their mutual attraction, leading to a more fulfilling and loving partnership.Kimberly's Podcast: apple.co/3O4JiONKimberly Beam Holmes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmesClick here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

If you want to know what a toxic relationship is, or how to deal with it, we’re here to help. We want to give you some guidelines to think about and provide you with truth, hope, and plan going forward. To start, we’ll cover these two questions: 1. What do people say about toxic relationships? 2. What is a toxic relationship clinically? “Toxic Relationships” are a difficult topic to approach because there are many varying opinions and experiences surrounding it. It seems like everyone has a different definition of what a toxic relationship is. For example, people will say a relationship is toxic when "you can't agree on things." Or, there’s “passive aggressive behavior." Maybe they "can't resolve conflict," or, "avoid conflict because they can't solve it." It could also be that "one person doesn't give any effort to the relationship." Now hear me out- these definitions are not healthy for a relationship, but they aren't toxic. They aren't great, but they can be fixed.  You see, toxic literally means poisonous. Eating or ingesting something that is toxic will kill you. It’s not just that you don’t like the taste. No. Toxic is poisonous. From a professional point of view, toxic relationships are abusive relationships physically, verbally or emotionally.  If you are in a situation where you’re experiencing abuse physically, verbally, or emotionally, feel unsafe/scared, or your rights/freedoms are taken away from you, please get help IMMEDIATELY. The Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ helps you understand what abuse is and how to get help and get safe. I don't know your situation, but I'm giving you guidelines to think about. If you feel like your relationship is abusive or harmful to you, find someone to help you get safe. After you get safe, only then can you start thinking about the relationship. After this, if there is any way we can help, we would be honored to. Like we said before, there is a difference between how some people define toxic relationships. If you're in a relationship where you're fighting, can't compromise or you stopped putting effort in, while it's not a good situation, there is help for that! And we have worked with thousands of couples to grow, fix, and rebuild their marriage. However, if you’re in a truly toxic and abusive relationship (physically, emotionally, or verbally) please get help. You can start here: https://www.thehotline.org/  We really do care about you.For more information about courses and workshops, visit marriagehelper.com.Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

If feeling emotionally or sexually rejected has stolen your joy and made you feel like less of a person, then you're not crazy and you're not alone.You're wanting to try and turn your marriage around, but you don't know how.In this video, Kimberly Holmes (CEO Of Marriage Helper) is going to share with you the next steps that you can take to feel like yourself again. by going through these steps, we hope you find that you DO have worth, you DO have value and you CAN turn your relationship around.We have helped thousands and thousands of marriages in situations just like this, where there is a spouse like you, who feels like you are being ignored emotionally or sexually.We have an amazing success rate at working with these marriages and creating a stronger marriage than ever before.Visit marriagehelper.com for more information for your marriage situation.Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

So your spouse said they’re in love with someone else? Here are 3 things you can do to get them to fall in love with you again & restore trust in the relationship.See how to avoid accidentally pushing your spouse further into the arms of this other person, and how you can react in a way that will make them attracted to you instead.Visit marriagehelper.com for more resources that apply to your situation.Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

You've been betrayed by your husband. Maybe they they hid an addiction from you. Maybe they have been living a lifestyle that you didn't even know about. Or worse, they had an affair with another woman and you just found out about it.It could be that your husband knows that you know, but maybe they don't. You may be contemplating how you plan to approach him about it. But before you do anything, you need to understand a few things.In today's episode of Quick Tips, Kimberly Beam Holmes talks about what to do when you find out that your husband has betrayed you. Kimberly will explain the two different types of betrayals and where they stem from, as well as give you helpful advice on how to heal the pain and work through it with your husband.There's still hope for your marriage, and rebuilding trust is definitely possible. Sign up for our FREE online course designed to teach you what to do in order to get your spouse back: https://bit.ly/3AgW8C1Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

It's scary to feel alone. From birth, we are wired for connection. We strive to feel seen, loved and heard. When you first got married, you likely felt as though your partner was your best friend. Over the years, you have drifted apart. What once felt like a deep longing for one another has now turned into a numbness to the relationship. Because of this, you feel more alone now than you did before you got married.Although you may feel like you are completely by yourself in your marriage, we have good news for you.You are not alone.In this episode of Marriage Helper Quick Tips, Kimberly Beam Holmes gives you 3 practical tips on how to regain connection with your spouse if you are starting to feel like there is no hope for the future. You don't want to miss it.Sign up for our FREE online course designed to teach you what to do in order to get your spouse back: https://bit.ly/3AgW8C1Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

If you feel as though you are no longer a priority in your husbands life, then this is for you. It’s important that we define what type of neglect we are referring to. For this episode, we are talking about being neglected in the form of intimacy, lack of sex, or feeling like you are no longer a priority.If you are being neglected in the form of feeling unsafe, not provided for, not fed, or abused then you need to call the National Domestic Abuse Hotline at this phone number: 800-799-7233But if you are like one of the millions of women who feel as though your husband doesn’t love you anymore, and you’re desperately trying to get his attention in order to rebuild intimacy, passion and have a great marriage, then you need to take notes.Learn how to get your husband to fall back in love with you with our FREE mini course:https://bit.ly/3pAVpGAClick here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Your marriage is about to end.  At least, it feels that way.You've desperately searched for answers, but you're worried that anything you do might only make the situation worse.You want things to go back to the way they were before this crisis happened, but you don't know how to get there. It seems like if you don't do something now, that all hope will be lost.Well, we are here to tell you that there IS hope.In today's episode, Kimberly Beam Holmes shares 3 ways to REVERSE the bad things that have happened in your marriage and gives you practical tips that will help you to begin rebuilding the love that has been lost.You won't want to miss this episode.As a gift to you for listening t this podcast, we would like to give you access to this free course:Click here to access our mini-course to learn HOW to get your spouse back.Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Jealousy happens when we are insecure. It comes from the insecurity about not being good enough, attractive enough, or intelligent enough. And we all know that jealousy is the thief of joy. And it will steal the joy in your marriage, too. Why? Because it keeps you focused on what is not enough, how you are not enough, and how your relationship is not good enough. And if you are struggling with your relationship, then you're not alone. But jealousy will wreak havoc, and it probably already has in your marriage. Here's what you need to know about jealousy.Click here to access your free mini-course!Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Not all counselors believe that you should stay married. This statement may surprise you, but you should consider that not all counselors are pro-marriage. And sometimes, they may say something that goes against what you want. You know this though, because to your shock, your counselor has said that you should divorce. So what now? At Marriage Helper, we still believe that you can save your marriage. Here's what you need to know if your counselor is saying that your marriage is over.Click here to get your free mini-course today!Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

"My husband won't do anything. He is so lazy. Everything ends up on my plate, and I’m drowning in responsibility. I can't keep living like this." Does this sound like you? If your spouse seems like they don’t want to do anything or don’t care about anything, it can be hard to know where to start in turning things around.If you're struggling with a husband who doesn't seem to invest in or care about helping you out in your day-to-day relationship, I totally get how frustrating this can be. My own marriage faced this struggle at one point, and I can help you talk to your spouse about what’s going on and how things can change. Visit marriagehelper.com for more info on workshops!Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

I just don't know how to get past what has happened. I can't get the images out of my head of who he has been with and the things that he has done.I've had so many women who have been divorced and even some that are in a second marriage happily married say to me, "I wish I would have made my first marriage work." If you feel like you don't know how to do that, we can help.Does this sound like you? If you are struggling with feeling attracted to your husband after he has cheated on you, then that is what we are going to talk about in this episode of Quick TipsFind out more at marriagehelper.comClick here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Is your husband pulling away from you, and you don't know why? The one quote you need to remember when trying to understand why your husband is pulling away is that people don't leave what they have unless they believe what they are going to is better. This can mean that it's time to do some self-reflection.What are some reasons why men pull away? Things like work, addictions, stress, experiencing any loss or going through grief, or it could even be another person. So what are the things that may push your husband away? Feeling controlled, disrespected, ignored, and even feeling unloved. So, how can you bring your husband back to you?Click here to access your Free Mini-Course!Click here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Have you ever been hurt by somebody that you loved or trusted? The feeling of betrayal might not stem from just one incident, but instead, many different times that your trust was violated where now you don’t feel like you can trust anyone. You might begin to close yourself off because you expect to be hurt. So, how can you rebuild trust in a relationship once it’s lost?As deep as your mistrust might be right now, you can rebuild trust in a relationship. At Marriage Helper, we’ve worked with thousands upon thousands of couples and helped them rebuild trust in each other. We use a term we call PIES to describe our physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual well-being. These same principles can be applied when understanding trust. Honesty, sensitivity, and accountability can rebuild trust. It will take patience and might be uncomfortable at some points, but you can do it.Get the FREE COURSE mentioned in this episode here:https://bit.ly/3AhlelSClick here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Everyone has insecurities of some sort. Most of the time, they stem from something that happened in childhood or perhaps from a traumatic event that occurred later in life. These insecurities can present themselves in many ways, both emotionally and physically.The American Psychological Association reports that insecurity is multifaceted. It pertains to an overall sense of uncertainty or anxiety about your worth, abilities, skills, and value as a person conveying the message that you're at risk or in danger of losing something or someone. It has a negative impact on your physical, mental, and emotional state. And without that security you're looking for, it makes you feel like you can't live up to your fullest potential.Insecurity can present itself in behaviors that are either others-focused or others-avoidant. Read further to find out how you can deal with your husband’s insecurities and help him overcome them.Build confidence in yourself and in your spouse with our FREE mini-course:  https://bit.ly/3bq5t1CClick here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper

Have you ever felt the excitement of new love? When love begins, it’s exciting, and you think about the person often. But is this genuine love, or is it infatuation? Infatuation refers to the early stages of a relationship when the adrenaline is pumping and chemicals are produced in your brain that make it exciting and euphoric. But can infatuation truly be a form of love?In the social sciences, we study love in different ways. Many models have been made of the various types of love, and infatuation is indeed part of love. The upside is that it feels fantastic. The downside is that it doesn’t last that long. Therefore, if you want a longer-lasting relationship, you can’t stop with the infatuation. You need to work on all three of Dr. Robert Sternberg’s essential components for a long-lasting relationship - intimacy, passion, and commitment.How To Get Your Spouse Back Free Mini Course:https://your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-courseClick here to get in contact with someone on our team at Marriage Helper