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Send us a text In many parts of the world, women are still fighting for equal opportunity – but Nigerian women are fighting on a different level. Whether in bustling cities or remote villages, Nigerian women have learned to carve out a niche for themselves, even as the odds are often stacked against them. As the International Women's Day is celebrated today, we are looking into the lives of some Nigerian women who dare to be different.
Send us a text In Nigeria, ritual killings and practices involving human sacrifice are not new. These acts, commonly linked to witchcraft, black magic, and greed, have been happening for years. But over time, there seems to be a consistent pattern in which women are predominantly the victims. Why is this the case? What makes women the most vulnerable targets? Let’s unpack this. Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text There’s no denying the appeal of cupping therapy’s mainstream success. It’s accessible, often marketed as a way to treat multiple ailments at once. But the practice of Hausa Kaho is unique. It’s embedded in a deep understanding of the local context and personalized treatment. But, with the global spotlight now on cupping therapy – is this new trend slowly overshadowing the rich, traditional Kaho practice? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text Facial mark is a long-standing history in Northern Nigeria, particularly in Hausaland. However, this ancient tradition is disappearing, as it is now rare to find people practicing it. In this episode of The Bearing, we will examine the tradition and the reasons behind its decline.
Send us a text In the past, weddings among Hausa speaking communities were celebrated over a period of at least seven days, starting with kamu, followed by sa-lalle, yinin biki, zaman ajo, budar kai and, finally, sayen baki. However, these customs have been gradually fading away. What is the reason for this change? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text The desire for male children as against female children continues to dominate the thoughts of people; sometimes, this even leads to clear discrimination. In some communities, having a male child is considered a source of pride and indicates the continued survival of the family. Why do some people prefer having male children to having female children? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text Teaching has always been regarded as a noble profession – teachers shape the future, impact lives, and play a vital role in the development of any nation. But in many Nigerian communities, teaching is no longer viewed as a prestigious profession. Why is this the case? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text Many people will remember the days when wearing facemasks was mandatory. Years later, many women are still holding onto the facemask as a constant companion. Join us on this episode of The Bearing as we look beneath the mask to find out why.
Send us a text The Hausa people, one of West Africa's largest ethnic groups, have a rich tradition of naming children. These names carry meanings that often reflect a connection to family, character, or nature. But recently, there's been a noticeable shift with some parents giving their children Arabic sounding names that often betray a lack of clear understanding of the meaning behind them. Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out when the trend started, why and how?
Send us a text In this age, many women sell an idealized version of themselves – from their physical appearance to the emotional availability they offer in a relationship. Dating apps have commodified human connection, where swiping right or left is an exchange, and the promise of “love” is the ultimate prize. Why is this happening? Why do women sell their love, attention, and affection? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text Why does the person you used to call and chat with no more pick your calls or seldom do? Why does the person you used to know now talks and acts differently, sometimes with arrogance and sometimes with a behavioral pattern that suggests you need favour from them? Why does the person you used to know and relate with freely now seem a bit or fully withdrawn after assuming a position of authority? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text Christmas, a season of joy and sharing, feels different this year as soaring prices of goods like chicken, rice, and tomatoes strain the pockets of Nigerians. Markets, once buzzing with festive excitement, now groan under the harsh economic reality. Will this Christmas be as fun as previous years or overshadowed by financial struggles? In this episode of The Bearing, we visit some markets to feel the pulse as Nigerians attempt to shop for the season.
Send us a text There are growing concerns that Nigerians are more loyal to their ethnic groups than the country. How true is this? What could be the cause, and how could it be solved? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text For the first time in Ghana’s electoral history, a Muslim is on the ballot as the candidate of one of the major parties. It is also the first time the two major political parties – NDC and NPP – are fielding candidates from the country's North. What do these firsts mean for the country, for its people and for its democracy? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text In the past, marriages seemed to last longer, even though if contract was usually entered into without prolonged courtship. On the contrary, the wedding nowadays is preceded by a lot of expressions of love and prolonged courtship. In this episode of The Bearing we are looking into the factors that sustained marriages of the past and the lessons those of today can learn therefrom.
Send us a text Young boys, barefoot, roaming the streets, begging to survive—these are the faces of a system crying out for reform. And governments at different levels have, at different times, attempted to reform the ‘tsangaya’ education system but have failed to succeed. Stay with us on this week's episode of The Bearing as we uncover the reasons for a system in crisis and chart the path forward.
Send us a text In Northern Nigeria, the sight of young children roaming the streets, begging for food, is all too familiar. What was once an esteemed educational journey has turned into a cycle of poverty, vulnerability, and stigma. What went wrong? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text In the past, the ‘Almajiri system’ was a respected method of education, a way for young boys to gain both religious and practical knowledge under the care of Islamic scholars. But today, the image of the ‘almajiri’ has changed – we see children roaming the streets, hungry and without the hope that this system once promised. How did we get here? How did the system work and what were its successes? Join us on this week's episode of The Bearing, the first of a series, as...
Send us a text In Nigeria, marriage is a deeply rooted cultural union that extends beyond two individuals. However, rising costs of living are making it increasingly difficult for men to fulfill the marriage requirements, be they “lefe” in the Northwest, 'Owo ori' in the Southwest, or 'Ihu Isi Nwanyi' in the Southeast. This episode of The Bearing will explore perspectives from different strata of society on how these marriage costs are affecting Nigerians today.
Send us a text In Nigeria, communal solidarity is deeply embedded in cultural values. One of the most visible expressions of this is charitable giving, where compassionate individuals share food, clothing, and resources with those in need. Another widespread form of support, known as “black tax,” places the financial burden on family members with stable incomes, who often assist extended family members struggling to make ends meet. In this episode of The Bearing, we examine how both giver...
Send us a text The saying, “Parents are always right” has been passed down through generations, deeply woven into cultural and societal fabric. But in today’s world, is this long-standing notion still valid? While parents often have their children’s best interests at heart, does that guarantee they are always right? Join us in this week’s episode of The Bearing as we dive into this thought-provoking topic and explore different perspectives!
Send us a text Traditionally, Nigerian culture holds elders in high esteem, valuing their wisdom and leadership in maintaining family order and passing down cultural values. However, as society progresses and modernizes, the authority of elders is increasingly being questioned by younger generations. This development begs the question: have elders lost their voice in the family, or is this a natural evolution in family dynamics? In this episode of The Bearing, we will find out ...
Send us a text Living debt-free in Nigeria may appear like an elusive goal for many due to the country’s economic challenges. Rising inflation, unemployment, fluctuating exchange rates, and the increasing cost of living have pushed many Nigerians toward borrowing. Whether it’s securing loans for education, medical bills, or just making ends meet, debt has become a part of daily life for most. But is it possible to live debt-free in Nigeria? Join us on this episode ...
Send us a text The idea of the “soft life” has ignited a wave of conversations, challenging how we traditionally define success, hard work, and personal fulfillment. In an era dominated by hustle culture, more people are turning toward a lifestyle that prioritizes comfort, mental well-being, and balance. Soft life is often seen as a break from the grind, an intentional shift toward a more relaxed and fulfilling way of living. But beyond the Instagram-worthy vacations and luxury aesthet...
Send us a text Hustle culture refers to the mentality that glorifies constant work, where productivity and financial success are seen as the ultimate goals. It’s the “no-days-off” mindset that encourages individuals to always be working on something, whether it’s a side business, a freelance gig, or a new venture. In this episode of The Bearing, we look at the hustle culture in Nigeria and work smart mechanisms Nigerians need to adopt.
Send us a text Being a firstborn child is a unique role, one that is often laced with both pride and pressure. Across different cultures, firstborns are expected to be natural leaders, responsible caretakers, and, at times, trailblazers for their younger siblings. Ultimately, being a firstborn, whether in Nigeria or elsewhere, is a role shaped by expectations, responsibilities, and cultural values. Join us on this episode of our weekly podcast as we look at what it means to be a first born.
Send us a text In a time when globalization threatens cultural identities and indigenous languages are fading away, the Hausa language remains a powerful symbol of resilience. Spoken by millions, Hausa is more than just a language; it connects diverse communities across West Africa, carrying with it the rich history, identity, and traditions of its speakers. But what makes this language so enduring, even in the face of modernity? Tune in to this week’s podcast as we explore the secrets beh...
Send us a text “Use your common sense!” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around in everyday conversations, scoldings, and bits of advice across Nigeria, implying that there’s a shared, obvious understanding everyone should have. But here’s the question: Is common sense really that common? Tune in to today’s episode of our weekly podcast as we dig deep into what “common sense” truly means and why it might not be as universal as we’ve always believed.
Send us a text In a world where connections are often fleeting, the timeless dance of dating and courting holds a unique allure. It's a period filled with excitement, anticipation, and the intoxicating thrill of discovering another person experiencing their quirks, shared dreams, and the chemistry that draws two people together. Gone are the days when a simple walk in the park or a shared soda at a local diner sufficed as a date. In modern times, dating often entails dinner at upscale restau...
Send us a text Sibling rivalry is a natural part of family life, but when left unchecked, it can have serious consequences for both individuals and the family as a whole. It manifests as competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and sisters, often beginning in childhood and sometimes extending into adulthood. While some level of rivalry is natural, it can have profound effects on family dynamics, individual well-being, and long-term relationships. Join us in this ep...
Send us a text Being a 20-something can be both exciting and daunting. Because you would only be 20 something once. The twenties are a time of freedom, a period where you begin to become independent, take steps in the working world, and look for the partner you’ll have for a lifetime. It’s the time where you define how the rest of your life will be. Join us in this episode of the Bearing as we look at realistic expectations from people in their 20s
Send us a text Nigerian tertiary institutions are bustling hubs of academic pursuit, social interactions, and, of course, food choices. Such food choices aren't just about jollof rice and suya – it’s a survival dance with the wallets and the hustle of lecture halls and the bellies. It’s safe to say that the cost of living in Naija has turned feeding patterns into a Nollywood drama. Join us in this episode of the bearing as we look at ways Nigerian students can enjoy sumptuous a...
Send us a text The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), a scheme established to foster unity and development, brings together young graduates from diverse backgrounds to serve in different parts of Nigeria. While the experience is often enriching, there are many things corps members are not told before they embark on their journey. What are the things they wish they knew before their NYSC journey, especially when it comes to serving in Abuja? Join us in this episode of The Bearing a...
Send us a text Whether it’s putting off a project, delaying a personal goal, or simply avoiding a tough conversation, procrastination can be a major roadblock to achieving your dreams. But how does it specifically impact people in Nigeria, and what strategies can be used to overcome it? Join us on this week’s episode of The Bearing to find out.
Send us a text In Nigeria, turning 18 is a significant milestone. It's an age when many young adults start to explore their independence, often stepping out into the world on their own. The lessons learned during this period can be critical in shaping their future. But where do these lessons come from? Join us on this week’s episode of The Bearing as we explore this intriguing question.
Send us a text Traditionally, many cultures have valued the role of the full housewife, but the world is changing, with women chasing careers full time. Would you rather marry a career woman or a full time housewife? Join us on The Bearing this week as we look at this important decision.
Send us a text The trend of doing what it takes to have a figure 8 body shape has become rampant in the country. In this episode of the Bearing, we find out why women are doing what it takes to achieve this Hour glass or Figure 8 body shape.
Send us a text In today's fast-paced world, should Nigerians prefer having a degree or a skill? Given today’s job market, which holds more value? In this episode of The Bearing, we seek to find out which the Nigerian of today should pay more attention to.
Send us a text At least 1.5 million Muslims from all over the world have gathered on the plains of Arafah in Saudi Arabia for one of the most important Hajj rites today. Among these are 65,000 Nigerians who, despite the grueling economic situation at home, flew to the Holy Land for this once-in-a-lifetime experience. This episode of The Bearing seeks to discover how they feel about being there and what it means.
Send us a text Marriage is a significant milestone, and preparing for it financially and emotionally is crucial for its success. But how much exactly should a man have before he can get married? Does taking this big step require financial readiness? Join us on Today's Weekly podcast to find out.
Send us a text Trauma experienced when losing someone, often referred to as grief, involves intense emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical distress in response to the death of a loved one. How do people deal with the trauma of losing someone? Why is it difficult for someone to overcome this trauma? In this episode of The Bearing, we listen to the personal story of Hassana with the hope of finding answers to these questions.
Send us a text The days where one needed a friend to connect with a host of other friends are fast becoming obsolete- A little tap on the net does the magic!. In this episode of The Bearing, we uncover the truth and dynamics of online dating.
Send us a text Aisha is a 24-year-old lady who is heavily pregnant. Like many expectant mothers, she dreams of delivering a healthy baby safe and sound. But, unlike many, she faces severe economic challenges that make even the most basic antenatal care and preparations for her baby's arrival seem out of reach. Join us on The Bearing to hear her story.
Send us a text What would you do if, as a student, you discover that you could make a lot of money on social media, especially if you struggle to find food to eat? What would you do if, as a parent, your child decides to drop out to make money online? Join us on The Bearing to find out what some students and parents did when faced with the same dilemma.
Send us a text As they grow older, many people look back on their life and regret certain actions or inactions; missed opportunities or unfulfilled goals. In this episode of The Bearing, we will be at the most common of these regrets and how to avoid them. Are you young? Join us as you may learn some lessons you will never regret in future.
Send us a text Marriage is a new experience for couples, especially young girls. Hence the need to teach a bride-to-be the things to expect and how to manage them, because how they are approached can make or mar the marriage. What are those things and why do parents shy away from telling their children about them? In this episode of The Bearing, we try to find out how ignorance of those things can and does lead to a high rate of divorce in northern Nigeria.
Send us a text A spec is a list of qualities that a person wants in a potential wife or husband. Do you have one? How do you craft a spec for a successful marriage? In this episode of The Bearing, young men and women share with us how discovering their spec led to a successful marriage.
Send us a text There is never an end to getting to know someone especially when it involves marriage Is it okay to live with your partner, or fiancé before marriage? Join us on this episode of our weekly podcast as we find out,
Send us a text The final of the 34th AFCON edition is set. Nigeria will play hosts Ivory Coast on Sunday, in what promises to be a nail-biter. The Super Eagles are in the final for the first time since 2013 after beating South Africa in the semi-final on penalties. And are gunning for their fourth win in the history of AFCON Do they have what it takes? Join us on this episode of our weekly podcast, as we find out
Send us a text Marriage is built on the promise of loyalty and fidelity to one’s spouse. But what happens when that promise is broken? Cheating is a complex and controversial issue that affects many couples in different ways. Some people may consider cheating as any form of emotional or physical intimacy outside the marriage, while others may have more flexible boundaries. But the question remains: should cheaters confess their infidelity to their partners, or keep it a secret? ...
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