Handing the Shame Back

Meet Tess Gonzales - Part 1Christian. Survivor. Advocate.Tess not only suffered prolonged Incest by mother but was drugged throughout as well. Her brother, 41/2 years older than her, was also abused by her mother. Unfortunately he then chose to sexually abuse Tess ensuring home was never a safe place for her. Watching this story will not leave you unmoved.You can find Tess: https://www.facebook.com/tessa.gonzales.7773?mibextid=ZbWKwLHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Scott Beard at NZ PoliceHe is a Detective Inspector with the New Zealand Police, leading several teams including: the child protection team, the child exploitation team, the child sex offender management team and the adult sexual assault team in Auckland city. His insights and knowledge help support survivors and children everywhere within NZ, so this feature interview is a must see!.You can reach out to Detective Inspector Scott Beard at NZ Police by calling 09 302 6788.Please note: We acknowledge the source of the image from Ricky Wilson at Stuff.HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Mike Chapman - Part 2From the age of 3, he was abused by his father and then trafficked to others.Through research and dedication Mike was able to find a 12 step group which he found helpful, as well as using the arts which access right brain neural pathways. Dealing with shame and guilt were some big challenges for him as is common in most survivors, but he was able to master those. For inspiration, watch his courageous story here. You can reach Mike on: - https://www.facebook.com/PolarLifeConsulting, email - PolarLifeConsulting@gmail.com Linktree - https://linktr.ee/polarlifeconsulting (all podcast/media appearances) Website - https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/ Podcast - Healing for Male Survivors - https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/podcast (also on most platforms) Santa Website - https://www.SantaMikeENC.com/ HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Mike Chapman - Part 1From the age of 3, he was abused by his father who had other victims as well. His mother had never wanted children, his father convinced her to, and up until Mike was 8 the abuse continued. Mike believes he was conceived for this father's purpose of abuse,  until he aged out, at which point his father left the family. You can reach Mike on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/PolarLifeConsulting email - PolarLifeConsulting@gmail.com Linktree - https://linktr.ee/polarlifeconsulting (all podcast/media appearances) Website - https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/ Podcast - Healing for Male Survivors - https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/podcast (also on most platforms) Santa Website - https://www.SantaMikeENC.com/ HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsMethodist minister groomed him and the memories he had  repressed until 30 years of age emerged. He was beyond confused, questioned his sexuality among other things. You can reach Mike on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/PolarLifeConsulting email - PolarLifeConsulting@gmail.com Linktree - https://linktr.ee/polarlifeconsulting (all podcast/media appearances) Website - https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/ Podcast - Healing for Male Survivors - https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com/podcast (also on most platforms) Santa Website - https://www.SantaMikeENC.com/ HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Cathy O'Brien - Part 2Healed and vocal survivor of CIA MK Ultra mind control. Cathy's story all began with being born into a multi generational incest based family. Both parents were sexually abused as children. As an adult recovering from this trauma, and at times being overwhelmed by the pervasiveness of child sex trafficking, Cathy found that releasing onto paper tapped into the logical part of the brain, as did finding a 'soulution' - watch here to discover how this works.You can reach Cathy at: www.trance-formation.com and www.trance.moviehttps://tranceformationofamerica.locals.com/@RealCathyOBrien on X, CloutHub, TruthSocialHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Cathy O'BrienHealed and vocal survivor of CIA MK Ultra mind control. Cathy's story all began with being born into a multi generational incest based family. Both parents were sexually abused as children. From the age of six years old, Cathy was used on a white house pentagon level among influential, and self appointed leaders. You can reach Cathy at: www.trance-formation.com and www.trance.moviehttps://tranceformationofamerica.locals.com/@RealCathyOBrien on X, CloutHub, TruthSocialHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Donald Cribbs - Part 2Trauma survivor. Author. Licensed professional counsellor specialising in trauma.By the time he was 6 years old his parents had divorced, and he started being abused by his mother's partner over a six month period. Two year s later court there was a court case, and he was made to face his abuser pre trial  (wearing his prison orange jumpsuit) to see if he was lying and could cope. The failure of the 'justice' system was beyond tragic.You can reach Don on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gdcribbsTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/gdcribbsFB Author Page: https://www.facebook.com/gdonaldcribbsauthorHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Donald Cribbs - Part 1Trauma survivor. Author. Licensed professional counsellor specialising in trauma.By the time he was 6 years old his parents had divorced, and he started being abused by his mother's partner over a six month period. To deal with it, his mother sent him to live with his father’s parents out of state and 2 years later there was a court case.You can reach Don on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gdcribbsTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/gdcribbsFB Author Page: https://www.facebook.com/gdonaldcribbsauthorInstagram: HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Cheryl Hunter - Part 2Author and Media Expert who helps others share, Cheryl shares her very powerful and public story and her linking of Wabi-Sabi (which encourages us to recognise the beauty in simplicity, authenticity and imperfection), to herself.You can reach Cheryl on Instagram: @HunterCheryl Facebook: @CherylHunter Twitter: @HunterCherylHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Cheryl Hunter - Part 1Author and Media Expert who helps others share, Cheryl was raped as a teenager at 14, then kidnapped at 18 years of age and reveals, for the first time publicly, what happened when she was a small child of 6. She has a very powerful and real breakthrough, which has the potential to help survivors everywhere. Respect.You can reach Cheryl on Instagram: @HunterCheryl Facebook: @CherylHunter Twitter: @HunterCherylHELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Paul HutchinsonExecutive Producer of The Sound of Freedom movie and founder of Liberating Humanity.Paul shares his personal experience of being involved in over 70 rescue missions across 15 countries of child sex trafficked children.What he has seen and done, plus the powerful impact this movie has had across the world is incredible. You can find Paul on:https://instagram.com/liberating.humanity?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==https://www.facebook.com/liberating.humanity?mibextid=LQQJ4dhttps://www.tiktok.com/@liberating.humanity?_t=8eI8HqtjuhO&_r=1https://www.linkedin.com/company/childliberationfoundation/HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Meet Paul HutchinsonExecutive Producer of the Sound of Freedom movie and founder of Liberating Humanity.Paul shares his personal experience of being involved in over 70 rescue missions across 15 countries of child sex trafficked children.What he has seen and done, plus the powerful impact this movie has had across the world is incredible. You can find Paul on:https://instagram.com/liberating.humanity?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA==https://www.facebook.com/liberating.humanity?mibextid=LQQJ4dhttps://www.tiktok.com/@liberating.humanity?_t=8eI8HqtjuhO&_r=1https://www.linkedin.com/company/childliberationfoundation/HELPNZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuseUK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuseAUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.OTHERTo get some more resources from us, please go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them. #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors#ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

It's not your fault!For some survivors, they still carry a feeling that what happened to them was their fault.No! It was never your fault.The adult who abused you knew exactly how to groom you: threaten, bribe, manipulate and target. The fault 100% belongs to them.Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

The 3 R'sRegulateRelateReasonIf you are self regulated; calm and centred, you are then able to relate to a person or idea in a more measured way. If not,  you wont! You will then be able to reason logically and clearly with others. Just know you have to have mastered that whole concept of regulation or self regulation and not be in a triggered or reactive state, in order to do so.Makes sense!!Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Your VoiceLots of survivors have had their voice robbed many times over, maybe initially as a child, and then again as an adult, when sharing your story.It may be that someone looks at you in a strange way or challenges you.... The tip is that your voice is very important, and here's some ways to hold onto it. Responding with 'why would you ask me that?' can be a start, another is to not discuss your story unless you have someone with you who has your back.A final tip would be using silence as a response, your detractors won't know how to cope with that. Sometimes silence can be the most powerful thing you can do!Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Being CaptiveThis term often takes people to visions of being trapped physically. Although this does happen, what is far more common and likely to happen is us doing this to ourselves!! By that I refer to being held captive by our minds and thoughts.  We can break this cycle with some dedicated focus and practical tips to follow. This is a game changer!Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids takes people to visions of being trapped physically. Although this does happen, what is far more common and likely to happen is us doing this to ourelves!! By that I refer to being held captive by our minds and thoughts.  We can break this cycle with some dedicated focus and practical tips to follow. This is a game changer!Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Breaking the ChainThis is linked to Paul Hutchinson's interview held earlier this week, and listed across social media platforms.Survivors, when you are feeling triggered, anxious, or unsafe, stop what you are doing and give it attention. Find a way to release it, so you don't stay trapped and stuck.It may be as simple as texting a friend, or reaching out for a hug from your loved one.Breaking the Chain means you won't stay trapped, and you can move on with your life!Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Your LegacyThis is linked to Kristi McVee's interviews held earlier this week, and listed across social media platforms.Survivors, you can end up working in environments doing the EXACT work you wish had been done when you were suffering through the worst of the abuse.Legacy's can creep in unbidden: EG One survivor not being aware she had been abused, had spent her working life involved in the investigation of children suffering sexual abuse. In a nutshell her legacy found her: Sometimes our legacy will find us!!Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Being BelievedThis is linked to Donna Bulatowicz interviews held earlier this week, and listed across social media platforms.This is one of the most powerful, if not the most powerful experience a survivor can have. Being Believed helps to reduce the trauma because you feel vindicated and validated. It also helps decrease the shame, and encourages further disclosure, which leads to wanting to heal more fully and feel more confident about doing that.We should all be believed, it is a basic human right.Honour how you need to feel with this, and notice the impact should someone say they believe you!Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok

Admitting AbuseThis is linked to Stuart Lord's interviews held earlier this week, and listed across social media platforms.When an abuser admits what they did, the reaction you have may surprise you. Initially you just need to breathe, as you will be in shock: understandable, as you were conditioned to never speak of it.Please allow yourself to feel what you need to: This could be anger, sadness, relief, among others. Honour how you need to feel and be gentle with yourself. Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ #handingtheshameback #handsign4kids #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback #handsign4kidsTo learn more reach out to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback We are on all Social Media PlatformsTwitterFBLinkedInYouTubeInstaGramTikTok