When Survival Looks Like Success

If you haven't yet, go back and listen to Episode 7, which is Part 1 of our 2 Parter!  You don't have to, but this is such a special topic, I highly recommend it.  Joining me is Krystal Marie and Anaya La'Shell from Breathe: Bodywork and Beautification aka my spa!  These amazing practitioners have 2 very different sides of the spectrum when it comes to unconventional grief and listening to this episode may help you feel better about your situation or understand a friend or family member better!  You can find Anaya and Krystal on Instagram at:instagram.com/glowmybodyspainstagram.com/massged_by_krystalYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

Joining me in the studio is 2 independent contractors from Breathe: Bodywork and Beautification, Anaya of Glow my Body Spa and Krystal of Massaged by Krystal.We have a discussion about disenfranchised grief or unconventional grief-grief that isn't commonly recognized by society and can often be overlooked or invalidated from peers, coworkers, family, or friends.But we ALL experience it!It's a very important episode that SO many people will relate to.Loss of a pet.Not having a parent.Losing a job.Struggling with identity. The list could go on and on.Share with us your story of grief.We'd love to hear from you.You can connect with Anaya at: http://instagram.com/glowmybodyspa and with Krystal at: http://instagram.com/massged_by_krystalYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

When you are the person that everybody else goes to when they are in trouble, who do you go to?Join us for an emotional episode with Erica Owens of Frugal on the Fly as she guides us through a traumatic event that happened in her life-what she did, who she asked for help, what DID help and what DIDN'T......Don't forget to follow Erica in all of her adventures and travels at:https://instagram.com/frugalontheflyhttps://facebook.com/frugalontheflyYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

In Episode 5, we do an unscripted conversation with Erica Owens, the founder of Frugal on the Fly in Detroit.  Philanthropy is such an important thing to me, my business, and my ethics so meeting Erica to discuss her overwhelming impact in the city in such a short amount of time was truly a blessing.You can find out more about her endeavors, events, and how you can help the cause at:http://instagram.com/frugalontheflyhttp://facebook.com/frugalontheflyYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

It was hard enough to make friends as a kid, but at least the teacher shoved your desks together every once in a while and there was a glimmer of a chance that friendship would blossom.  Oftentimes, our friendship needs and dynamics change and we begin craving new friendships.  This can lead to a host of different scenarios and emotions.Join a fellow communication expert, Jacob Sidock from Cracked Lens Media, as we discuss our personal friendship exploits and our main tips and nuggets of wisdom regarding the complex world of adult friendships.You can follow Jacob on Instagram at:http://instagram.com/jsidock45http://instagram.com/jthephotographer45And on Facebook at:http://facebook.comm/clmedia45http://facebook.com/jacob.sidock.7Let us know your friendship experiences-the good, the bad, and the wtf.  We love to connect!Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

Welcome to our first guest of the season, Jacob Sidock of Cracked Lens Media!  I started working with Jacob in the fall and now we have been doing a lot together.  Photoshoots, public speaking, and he shot our killer intro and outro video for this podcast!This episode is about trying to identify what survival mode is, when you are in it, and how to get out of it.  We go into our backgrounds, hustling, and just trying to survive, to make something out of nothing.This is such a great episode to listen to if you feel like you never get a helping hand or struggle with attempting to start something.To follow and connect with Jacob(which he loves!) you can do so at:facebook.com/jacob.sidock.7facebook.com/clmedia45instagram.com/jsidock45instagram.com/jthephotographer45Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

In Episode 2, I talk a little bit about ghosting.I am no stranger to it and it's a pattern that has repeated throughout my life.One incidence is a struggle.But after so many, it can take a pretty severe toll on your ability to trust, to connect, and to move forward with friendships.Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and comment!Tell us about your "ghost stories"!  We want to hear from you!Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

We have a new video option for anyone interested!Subscribe and rate our brand new channel: When Survival Looks Like Success - YouTubeWelcome to Episode 1, where I give you a brief update on where I'm at since Season 1-and a lot was going on when I filmed this episode.  We don't always start projects when we're at our peak.  If we had to wait till we were at our best, we might never do these things we set out to do.Join me where I'm at and wherever you are at in your journey.Let's navigate this together.And I want to hear from you!  What's going on in your life?  Share your story in the comments below and don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share our podcast.You can also follow us on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess and Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessTake care, my friends.Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

I think that people think that once you succeed, that's it.  That is the narrative you're given and then we don't realize how it all can come crashing down for a multitude of factors.  So, in that case....what do you do?  How do you move forward?Karen Kahn from the former Nosh Pit Detroit is here to answer that question.She was the guest I wanted since before Day 1 and finally having her on for a tell all (and this could have been a 6-hour episode, let me tell you!) was a narrative I wanted to play out, I wanted to tell.Success comes at a price, oftentimes.So, if you're on the road to success, have bounced back and forth up and down, or are just starting out, give this episode a listen and SHARE.  You can follow Karen's next exploits at https://www.facebook.com/messofwires Thank you for an incredible Season 1.  All of the links will be updated, SO much content is coming on Social Media, FB group is coming, YouTube is coming.Follow us and hang on.Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

This is the first unscripted episode I've done.It just felt right and even though I thought I was going to be an emotional hot mess, I wasn't.I told the story.I think a lot of people are going to jive with this episode because so many people don't nail sobriety the first time around and feel like a failure.But it's not a failure.Never let anyone tell you that.Some sh!t just takes more practice.Feel free to contact me with any questions you might have about going sober.  I highly encourage it.Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

It's back to an emotional storytelling solo episode for me.This episode is all about my journey leading up to sobriety.There is such a vast spectrum of alcohol and alcohol related problems, yet society is hyper focused on the only one they care to count-alcoholism.This episode is about the signs, my past, and what led up to my decision(s) to quit drinking.XOXOYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

I've heard many times that being an entrepreneur requires you to think differently.You are different.You're hard wired different.You challenge authority.You build a better mousetrap.So our guest Ken, and I talk about how we felt growing up, how we feel now, and all the beautiful content that comes from feeling kind of outcast and isolated.You can follow him online at https://www.instagram.com/iamspiritualkThanks for all the support!Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

Yes, it's a song by Jewel.But never has it been truer than in this day and age.Join Ken, a young spiritual online influencer, and I as we discuss budding spirituality, developing a career involved in the spiritual arts, and following a path that feeds your soul and not just capitalism.You can find Ken online at https://www.instagram.com/iamspiritualkYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

This is a very sensitive episode that can be triggering for some individuals.In it, we discuss the challenges surrounding pregnancy and becoming pregnant.Our featured guest is Brianna from B. Rooted Wellness, and she shares both her expertise and her personal experiences.This emotional episode is powerful and speaks volumes.I hope this opens up dialogue for women to speak more frankly about their experiences, challenges, and hardships in this matter.We are here for you.You can find Brianna online at https://www.facebook.com/brootedwellnessYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

My massage specialty is in prenatal, I am super passionate about taking care of the developing mother and have my own course, prenatal pain management.  I was over the moon to find another passionate soul, Brianna from B. Rooted Wellness, a Detroit based doula and lactation consultant.  In this episode, we discuss the options not often given to mothers, education and resources, and some discrimination.It's an informational and eye-opening episode, especially if you are considering becoming pregnant, are pregnant, or had some struggles during your pregnancy.We are here for you and to answer all of your questions!You can find Brianna at https://www.facebook.com/brootedwellnessYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

Join Me and Rachelle, from Aloe and Alchemy and Love Bomb Weddings while we discuss attracting money, appreciating money, counting your blessings, recognizing wealth, and thinking differently about currency.  If you listened to the last episode, you'll definitely want to listen to this one too!We have so many different approaches when it comes to wealth and money in this country.Hopefully, this episode will spark the creativity and insight to find what works for you and start actually getting comfortable with finances.Because it's not easy.And her concept of the financial orgasm has stuck in my head for years.Find her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/aloe_and_alchemyYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

In Episode 15 we talk about something I've spent a lifetime dealing with.  Money.Money fear.Money problems.Money psychology.Money hell.And I did a financial coaching/human design reading with Rachelle, from Aloe and Alchemy and Love Bomb Weddings that helped me so much.It just gave me permission to know myself better when it came to money.To understand why I approach finances in a certain way.And to drop the good/bad labels.If you need to, pause this episode and jot down some notes.  We all could use some help in this department and there are some nuggets of gold in this one.You can follow her on her awesome Instagram at www.instagram.com/aloe_and_alchemyYour numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

In Episode 14, we get into the somewhat ugly side of the career of being a social media influencer and digital content creator.  Sunny Jo aka Katiann Jo dives in with me as we talk insults, letting things brush off, internet trolls, people being jerks, and how to preserve your mental health and privacy when living so publicly.I hope you enjoy this episode as I feel it's full of valuable content to consider when leveling up your social media game!You can find Sunny on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/katiannjoThanks to everyone who voted in Hour Detroit Magazine Best of Detroit 2022!Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

Episode 13 features my spabassador, Katiann Jo aka Sunny!  This model/dancer/vegan activist/brand ambassador/influencer does it all and breaks it down for us.I think we are all a little bit curious about how it would feel to have that many people following you on social media and what it entails, because the work that goes into it is more than what most people think.For people in this industry, it's a full time job.If you or your teen have been glamorizing that life, this is such a good episode for you to listen to you, check in with yourself and relay valuable information pertaining to this ever-popular career.  You won't be sorry!You can follow Sunny on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/katiannjoHappy International Women's Day!Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!

If you haven't listened to Episode 11, I highly recommend going back and giving it a listen so you can understand why Ericka Murria is the PERFECT person to do this episode with me.This one is all about that info that may slip through the cracks, the stuff that isn't taught in school, or maybe you just forgot about with all the joys of parenting going on.These are relevant tidbits from our personal and professional lives that we feel are so important and cover a WIDE variety of topics.We did this rapid fire, roundtable style to cover as much content as possible!You can find Ericka on Facebook at:www.facebook.com/erickamurriawww.facebook.com/supremetransitionswww.facebook.com/singlemommyhustleThank you for your support, we love you!Your numbers matter, your support matters, you matter.Follow us on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccess on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/whensurvivallookslikesuccessAnd watch us on You Tube at https://www.youtube.com/@whensurvivallookslikesuccessDon't forget to rate and subscribe!