Full Cow: Edge Talks Leather and Kink

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. In this episode we look at Digital Kink, starting with a personal history of the evolution of virtual kink spaces followed by a brief guide to navigating these spaces. Then we have the promised interview with Master J Tebias Perry, author of the book Leather Mentorship, followed by some really interesting Ask Edge questions.Here are some useful links from the episode:Leather Mentorship: Direct link to the book on Amazon.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. in and prepare your senses for a journey into the heart of leather and kink mentorship, as we pull back the curtain on what it means to guide and grow within our vibrant communities. I'm Edge, your navigator through this landscape of learning and connection, where the ties that bind us go beyond the physical. In this season's premiere, we sit alongside Richard and Lyle from San Francisco's Leather Men's Discussion Group's Mentoring Program, unraveling the intricate weave of guidance that shapes future leaders and enthusiasts in kink.Embarking on a nine-month odyssey of transformation, our guests reveal how mentorship transcends simple instruction, evolving into a life-altering exchange. My own tales echo alongside, from the pivotal moments under the tutelage of my earliest leather mentors to the profound satisfaction found in fostering the next generation. Together, we dissect the delicate dance of empowering mentees without overshadowing their individual journeys, sharing how the alchemy of group dynamics and in-person connections reinforce the bonds of our community.As we forge ahead, the conversation takes a turn through the shadowed corners of mentorship: the safeguarding of boundaries, the vigilant distinction from therapy, and the ethical navigation of sexual dynamics within the learning sphere. These are the threads that, when carefully woven, craft a tapestry of trust and respect. And as we close, I'll offer a glimpse into the role of community events, the art of negotiation within BDSM relationships, and the personal touch of my upcoming leather-bound travels. This is more than a mere exchange of knowledge; it's a testament to the resilience and intimacy of our leather family.Here are some useful links from the episode:San Francisco Leathermen's Discussion GroupLDG Mentoring ProgramLeather Mentorship -- This book is a great resource and I hope to interview J. Tebias Perry in a future Interlude!Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. In this episode we wrap Season 2, looking back on the year that was and highlighting some of the special moments of the season. Edge will be back in March with the launch of Season 3--join us then!Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community.Fisting, this time. As always I share my experience with this kink. Then we have an exciting deep dive into the practice with fisting superstar HungerFF. Ask Edge rounds out this episode.Here are some useful links from the episode:HungerFF: website for this episode's guest, with videos and merchandise.Depth Vortex: website with extensive education, and a link to the Facebook group as well.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community.In this episode we consider one of the most iconic pairings, one that sits mythologically at the center of the leather / kink imaginary: Master and slave. We start with Edge's experience with this particular kink identity, thinking about how kink identities, in general, can shift and change and evolve. Then during our Q&A we think about how to wear leather and still look submissive as well as how the greater inclusion of trans and genderqueer peoples has impacted the community. Finally, we have a conversation with Phil, author of Light and Shadow: The Psychology of Master/slave Relationships, and a former guest on the submission episode.Some links:https://masterslavelifestyle.com/book = To purchase the book. The first two listeners who purchase book and also email Phil  and mention Full Cow will get a free coaching session.https://masterslavelifestyle.com/quiz - to test your own Light and Shadow quiz.https://masterslavelifestyle.com/coaching - find out more about Phil's life coaching services.https://masterslavelifestyle.com/community - an online discord community of Masters and slave.https://masterslavelifestyle.com/support-you/support-group/ - free online video support group that Phil talks about in the podcast.https://www.mast.net/home.php - Masters And slaves Together, an international group for Masters and slaves of all genders and sexualities.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. This time: protocol.Protocol, as I discovered, is the cornerstone of my playroom dynamics with my selected boys, lending a sense of protection and establishing an unspoken language of submission. Listen closely as we embark on this fascinating journey, unveiling the challenges, victories and the sheer exhilarating thrill of the game.In a world where dominance and submission are the names of the game, protocol acts as the invisible thread that binds the partners together. The behavioral and linguistic elements of protocol, be it terms of address or body positioning, are all laced with an underlying potency that cannot be denied. However, like everything else in life, these protocols are not etched in stone. The ability to revisit and revise them ensures they are effective and meaningful for both parties involved. It's time to tune in and immerse yourself in this raw, insightful journey into the world of BDSM, the power dynamics that define it, and the all-encompassing thrill it offers.And then we end with Erotic Story Time, as Edge reads "Rubber Pig." A sneak peek into an encounter with a mysterious man in a unique rubber suit promises to leave you on the edge of your seats. With a heart full of curiosity, adventure, and a dash of trepidation, I plunged into the world of rubber bondage. The rubber catsuit, the bittersweet sensations of restraint, and the surprising enhancements of a retentive enema nozzle and a catheter, all add up to a riveting tale of exploration and discovery. Strap in as we navigate through the pulsating world of sensory deprivation, the power play, and the undeniable thrill it procures.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. This time we're talking about peers.We start with my personal experience connecting with my peers. Then we dive into the intriguing world of dominant peer groups. We challenge you to rethink the ecological metaphors of predation and scarcity, question the conventional understanding of dominance, and confront the specter of toxic masculinity lurking within these circles. The episode is peppered with practical advice on forming a dominant peer network, providing actionable tips on establishing connections within the community.We cap off this episode with a stimulating discussion with my boy, Ben (@bootpupper on Twitter). He shares his experiences navigating the leather boys community, underlining the critical role of peer networks in fostering deep connections and nurturing a positive community spirit. Plus, we explore the fascinating subject of leather families and households. Join us for this candid exploration of an often misunderstood community, as we unveil the power of peer connections in the kink world.Some useful links:The Lime Cracker Pie I recently tried making.Don't forget to Ask Edge a question. Ask me anything! In your voicemail, let me know what to call you and if it's ok to use your voicemail in the podcast.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Can you imagine having the power to control someone's mind? What if you could unlock the erotic potential of brainwashing and hypnosis in your kink play? Join me, Edge, in this hypnotic episode of Full Cow, where I share my personal experiences with mind control, brainwashing, and the pursuit of realness in this unique fetish. We'll dive into the intricacies of hypnosis, debunking common myths and misconceptions, and exploring how it can create powerful sensations and experiences in kink play. From inductions and deepening to planting suggestions, you'll get a basic overview of this fascinating practice. in Ask Edge, I'll discuss the challenges of navigating scene tone and community conflict within the leather community, and share tools and strategies for resolving drama and fostering healthy communication. Finally, a small hypnotic induction for you. Let's journey together as we explore the concept of creating a safe, inner space to connect with your ideal kinky self. We'll discuss the power of visualization and the importance of getting to know and growing closer to this inner part of your identity. Whether you're an experienced mind control enthusiast or just starting to explore the possibilities, this episode offers an in-depth look at the erotic allure of brainwashing and the power of the mind in kink play. Don't miss this hypnotic experience!Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. In this episode we explore chastity. I'll note that while I generally try to make all my content gender agnostic, since my experience is only with male chastity this episode is highly gendered. My apologies.As always Edge starts by sharing his experience and then offers some practical tips for getting into chastity. Then it's the new Ask Edge segment, where Edge answers questions left by listeners, before we end with a special leather bedtime story. Finally, a fantastic interview with Doc, who's in "permanent" "chastity."Some useful links:Carrara Designs: high end chastity belts.Steelwerks: custom metal ball capture devices.CB-X: makers of the CB series, one of the first widely popular devices.Birdlocked: a soft silicone design.Holy Trainer: a revolution when it was introduced.KINK3D: makers of the highly popular cobra cage.The Locked Doc: Doc's blog sharing his chastity journey. See especially this super useful post on tips for locking long term.Don't forget to Ask Edge a question. Ask me anything! In your voicemail, let me know what to call you and if it's ok to use your voicemail in the podcast.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. Daddy is our topic this time.Edge shares his journey into Daddy and then shares insights about how complicated a term it can be. Then it's the new Ask Edge segment, where Edge answers questions left by listeners, before we end with a special leather bedtime story.Some useful links:Don't forget to Ask Edge a question. Ask me anything! In your voicemail, let me know what to call you and if it's ok to use your voicemail in the podcast.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. To launch our second season we're talking about leather careEdge talks about his experience caring for his leather and then offers a step by step guide for basic leather care. Then it's the new Ask Edge segment, where Edge answers questions left by listenersSome useful links:The first item you'll need is a small round brush like this one. It doesn't have to be that one but it gives you an idea.Then saddle soap. I generally do use Kiwi because it's easy to find at any grocery store or pharmacy here in America but there are many other makers.Next a conditioner, such as Huberd's Shoe Grease or Obenauf's. Both of these are available from many online retailers.Finally, some clean towels or shop towels. I'm fond of these but you can certainly shop around.Don't forget to Ask Edge a question. Ask me anything! In your voicemail, let me know what to call you and if it's ok to use your voicemail in the podcast.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. In this season finale, we look back at the past year and look ahead to what's next.Edge shares the story of the history and production of the podcast, looks at some of the metrics the podcast has generated, reflects on the highs and lows of the last season, and then looks ahead to Season 2.Some useful links:Leave Edge a voicemail to ask a question or make a comment for the new Ask Edge feature. When you do so, let me know if you'd rather not have your audio in the podcast, please.Or, email your comment or question to ask [at] fullcow.showSupport the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. This time we're exploring the connections between leather / kink and spirituality.The episode opens with Edge sharing his journey to a practical spirituality that's deeply integrated with his leather / kink life. Then he offers some tips on how to do this for your self. Finally, we interview Rob Carabelli, who has written a book about sex and spirituality.Some useful links:Read Rob's book, Sexual Energy, Spiritual Power.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. In this episode we consider the challenges between collecting gear when bodies inevitably change over time.Edge opens by sharing his body journey and his gear journey, discussing how the two are deeply interrelated. Then we talk about how to build a gear collection that's resilient--one that can last through body changes--and that's scalable--one that can build over time.Some useful links:Second Skin offers used gear for sale.Mr. Riegillio has become quite popular for their reasonable prices.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. This time we're covering leather eventsEdge starts by talking about his history attending leather events and then offers some tips for going to your first event. Then we talk to "leather adjacent" Ricky about his own experiences going to events.Also, note... One thing I should have talked about as a cost saving measure for events is staying somewhere other than the host hotel. That has upsides and downsides. You can save money and you can get away from the boisterousness of the event but at the same time there's nothing sweeter than getting in an elevator and going up to your room when you're done.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. This time we're covering cigars.Edge starts by sharing his experience with cigars and then provides a detailed introduction to cigars and cigarsex. We finish up with a wide-ranging conversation with Mr. Rogers from Twitter.Related LinksIf you want a good souse for cigars, check out Neptune Cigar.Edge's video cigar tutorials are on YouTube.Find Mr. Rogers on Twitter (@MrRogersXXX1).Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

Welcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. We're going to talk about uniforms this episode.As usual we start with Edge sharing his experience with this kink and then something different. Instead of a "how to" segment and interview we're combining and doing a how to interview with Steve, who has taught classes on uniforms. Related LinksFind Steve on Instagram as @mentor.dad.sirSteve recommends Quartermaster but it looks like that's become Galls.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

IntroductionWelcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. For this episode we're going to think about pain.In the first segment, Edge shares his experience with pain in his leather journey, both receiving it and giving it. Then, in the second segment, Edge offers his full class on pain processing, with many useful strategies for learning to thrive in pain scenes. Finally we talk with Vince, who shares his story of coming to enjoy pain scenes. Also, this is the episode where I realized that "extraordinary" / "extraordinarily" are my favorite words! 🙄🤣Related LinksLeathermen's Discussion GroupLeathermen's Discussion Group YouTube ChannelSupport the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

IntroductionWelcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. For this episode we're going to think about dominance.In the first segment, Edge tells the story of the boy who changed his life. Then, in the second segment, Edge offers his philosophy of dominance, with a focus on matter. Finally we talk with Ms. Kitty who shares her own insights on healthy dominance. Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.

IntroductionWelcome to Full Cow, a podcast about leather and kink where your host, Edge (he/him), shares his 30+ years of experience in the community. For this episode we're going to think about submission.In the first segment, Edge shares his journey into submission, or more properly his journey into something he misrecognized as submission. Then, in the second segment, Edge offers his thoughts on the psycho-spatial nature of submission. Then we talk with slave Phil about his experience with submission and the resources he's created to help others explore this aspect of their identities. As a special bonus, the episode ends with Edge reading his erotic story, "You." With special guest stars my cat and my AC pump 🙄.Related LinksIf you want to learn more about submission, I recommend SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude: Principles, Skills and Tools by Guy Baldwin.Check out slave Phil's website and podcast, his resources for finding someone, or (hopefully live by now) his support for those in D/s relationships. Also consider following his Twitter account.Support the showAsk Edge! Go to https://www.speakpipe.com/LTHREDGE to leave ask a question or leave feedback. Find Edge's other content on Instagram and Twitter. Also visit his archive of educational videos, Tchick-Tchick.