Sex on the Table with Karen Davis King

Meet Lindsay Coombs...Professional Cuddler/Intimacy Practitioner.   Lindsay provides an invaluable service of non-sexual touch and intimacy that many of us are craving...even in our own relationships.  What can we learn from a Professional Cuddler?  Fuck around and find out in this Episode!To learn more about Lindsay and her vital, beautiful work, go to:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WhintimacyWebsite: https://www.Whintimacy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/whintimacySupport the show

January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month and in honor of this and all victims and survivors, I wanted to spread a bit of awareness, based on the work I've done in my own community over the past 15 years.  I also share a spoken word piece that I wrote about 10 years ago as a compilation of several people's stories.   These are real people who have overcome so much because they had support and resources.  We can all do SOMETHING to help prevent this horrific crime and also to help those who have been impacted by it...and the truth is...we are ALL impacted by it whether we know it or not.TRIGGER WARNING:  There is intense and disturbing content in this episode that could be triggering for some, especially those who have suffered sexual traumas or those with PTSD, etc.  To learn more about how you can get involved or make a difference, here are a few resources:polarisproject.orgwww.barbaraamaya.comwww.courtneyshouse.orgThanks for taking the time and having the courage to listen!  Support the show

Listen in on the conversation between myself and three fabulous women who have a lot of knowledge and experience to share about the benefits and art of Yoni Steaming!  Heather Stevens facilitated my very first steam at Mystic Flow Wellness Center in Gainesville, VA and she joins us, along with Adriana Carvajal, the owner of Mystic Flow, and a long-time client of Heather's, Ebony Lambert.If you've been curious about yoni steaming and would like to know more, we've got the goods for you right here!  Learn more about our guests:Support the show

Could the pursuit of pleasure be causing us more pain?  Most of us are aware of how Dopamine increases our experience of pleasure but that's only part of the story.  There's a mechanism in our brains that is constantly working to regulate our neurotransmitters, such as Dopamine.  Without a solid awareness of hat regulation process, we can become crucially vulnerable to all sorts of addictive behaviors or getting caught up in the hamster wheel of unconsciousness.In this episode, I also share some personal struggles and recent transitions, related to this topic, along with some insights from Dr. Anna Lempke's fascinating book, Dopamine Nation.  Support the show

Let's get into some of the myths and truths about alcohol and its effects on our libido, our ability to connect and enjoy our sexual experiences to the fullest.  How does alcohol help or hinder your sexual experiences?   Let's look at some of the pros and cons.In this episode, I also share a little on why I am releasing alcohol from my life (even though part of me doesn't want to) at least for a time.   Cheers!Support the show

Another "Darren Experience" in the books!  In this conversation, Darren and I explored  traditional masculine and feminine roles and values that have been played out and expected in society and how they could be disempowering and actually throw us off balance in sex and relationships.I came away from this conversation with a vital question to ponder:  "How have the boxes we have created for men and women, queer or straight, etc. impacted us as individuals, couples and as a society and what will it take to move into a more expansive state of full presence, authenticity and consciousness?"Support the show

In this episode, I wanted to share some thoughts about a NY congressional candidate who made a porno and uploaded it to pornhub to "demonstrate his commitment to his sex positive agenda".  Was this a stunt to gain attention for the independent candidate?  Maybe, but when we look closer at some aspects of  his sex positive agenda, the porno is of much less concern to me.  I also address my  personal thoughts about the term "sex positive" and why I think it could be doing more harm than good.  I had so much more to say and so much more that I wanted to address!  Please feel free to comment on my social media pages, send an email, etc to let me know your thoughts.Support the show

Join your host for this painful and personal share of how she learned some priceless lesson in authenticity and self-acceptance through an inappropriate attraction and other self-sabotaging habits,   We've all had some attractions to people we think we "shouldn't" be attracted to, but what do we do with that?  We've been taught to run away but are we missing what that person and that attraction has to teach us about ourselves?Visit her website for the guided audio practice she mentions in this episode: www.karendavisking.comSupport the show

Who doesn't love a Vulva?  Well...many vulva-bodied humans are less than infatuated with the magic, beauty and wisdom that lives between their thighs and when we are disconnected from "HER", we are more susceptible to fall victim to the oppressive lies about our true feminine power and wisdom , not to mention our capacity for deep pleasure and intimacy (whether with ourselves or a partner).  Find out more about why loving and connecting on a deeper level to your own miraculous yoni is a long-awaited revolution that the world has been waiting for!  And...you will love Sasha's funny 'pleasure wand' story!  To learn more about Sasha and the Vulva Love Revolution, go to:  www.sasha-ostara.comwww.instagram.com/sasha_ostaraSupport the show

Episode 7 was so much fun that I had to go visit Darren Cyrus at his new studio - BearSoul Wellness - and record another one! This time we're going for the throat!  Darren shared his knowledge and experience erotic and shamanic choking and even did a demo on me!  We also covered what is involved in providing safety and care, power dynamics, holding space and consent...all VERY important topics around this art form.  You can view the demo on my YouTube channel at:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOzEhWf1UvjepYS46uVFNKwTo learn more about Darren and Bear Soul Wellness, go to:IG: the_darren_experienceIG: bearsoulwellnesswww.bearsoulwellness.comFB: https://www.facebook.com/darren.cyrus.96FB: https://www.facebook.com/bearsoulwellness/Support the show

Here's a personal share about some surprising reactions to something I wrote that was giving voice to several simultaneous situations that were bringing up big opportunities for me to show up for myself and know that I can fully trust my intuition.  I have my emotions to thank for that because they always have so much wisdom and insight to share with me...it just took a long time in life to actually show up and listen.  Have you been avoiding your challenging emotions?  Are you feeling the impact of all the energy it takes to ignore or repress those less than favorable feelings?  Check out this episode to find out how much solid gold lies within those emotions and how you can access them with less discomfort and greater understanding.What does this have to do with sex/sexuality?  EVERYTHING....so, fuck around and find out...To access the practice mentioned in this episode, go to:  www.karendavisking.comSupport the show

Meet Darren Cyrus, owner of Bear Soul Wellness, Massage Therapist, Shaman, Reiki Master and Sensual Arts Explorer in this episode and learn some valuable concepts and practices for healing through touch, sex and presence.  I had an opportunity during this conversation to share my extraordinary experience of doing the deep embodied work in partnership with Darren and the amazing Tabitha Croy through their dual flow massage offering.  In addition to massage/physical touch, other tools, such as embodiment, breath and sacred sex practices (just to name a few) are practices that do far more than improve your physical health and sensual/sexual experiences.  They can open you up to LIFE!  But don't take my word for it....F@ck around and find out by tuning in to the conversation!To learn more about Darren and Bear Soul Wellness, go to:IG: the_darren_experienceIG: bearsoulwellnesswww.bearsoulwellness.comFB: https://www.facebook.com/darren.cyrus.96FB: https://www.facebook.com/bearsoulwellness/Support the show

Meet Dating Coach Extraordinaire, Gina Catherine, in this episode and learn how to put the FUN back into dating!  Gina's coaching practice focuses on confidence in dating and sex!  This conversation with Gina and Ray (my oldest daughter) was straight up FIRE!Gina drops her wisdom from years of experience and trainings on creating greater confidence, personal freedom and self-trust through the deep work of self-love.  To learn more about Gina and her work, go to:https://ginacatherine.love https://bio.site/kugWteSupport the show

Tara walks the walk of EMBODIMENT and PRESENCE as a healer, yogi, teacher and lover of life and nature and I'm beyond ecstatic to connect you with her wisdom and poetic essence in this episode!  She shares some impactful tools that can put you on the path to PRESENCE and PERMISSION, even when we may find it a challenge to be still or connect with our inner self.  To learn more about Tara and her work (and her upcoming Re-Wilding School, which begins on August 18, 2022), and other incredible offerings, go to:  Website: http://greatabidingyoga.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/becky.eschenroeder and https://www.facebook.com/greatabidingyoga/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/greatabidingyoga/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3Ad7lwBuG1GcQZqae7XDUAInsight Timer: https://insig.ht/hKogenxtanbSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/3T2AROCSEIe3hktXqDPqOp Support the show

In this episode, the lovely Alina takes us through some useful tools from her holotropic breath work healer training with David Elliot, as well as communication skills through the social emotional learning program that she has been teaching for years now as an educator.  Her expertise, presence and empowering style of facilitation brings so much to "The Table" and I can't wait for your minds to be penetrated by all of her wisdom and insights!  To learn more about her and her impactful work, go to:https://www.linajoksch.comSupport the show

The exchange between the music makers and the audience can be a very intimate, vulnerable, sensual and even sexual exchange at times, but it can also be an innocent and playful fist bump energy like none other!   Dancing and music are two of my favorite forms of expression...along with sex and sensuality....SO...I wrote a poem about the exchange and wanted to share that with you just for fun.And while we're on the subject, please support your local artists, musicians and music venues.  Where would we be without the music makers?Support the show

I've been thinking a lot about the Supreme Court's recent ruling and while I am not happy about it at all, I have some conflicting thoughts and feelings around this issue, including my own personal abortion story.   There are no easy answers and I believe we are all being called to manage our own emotions and discomfort while we seek to understand and grow together as we step into a rapidly changing world and existence .  It is my sincere hope that the love, energy and sincerity I put into this episode may inspire new considerations and spark new conversations among us, but if not, then hey...you've got some new and useless dirt on me that you have my full permission to spread around on the internet via this podcast.  lol!(artwork credit unknown)Support the show

In this episode, Mary Histing shares her path from serving 16 years as a Catholic nun to becoming a holistic healer, Sacred Sexuality student and teacher and manifesting her beloved!  Mary has a special quality that exudes love, humility and feminine wisdom.  Grab a seat at the table and let Mary pour out her divine gifts all over you!To learn more about Mary Histing and her beautiful work in the world, go to:  www.maryhisting.com. Support the show

Welcome to the first "official" episode!  I couldn't think of a better way to kick it off than having a conversation with my daughters about navigating the rough waters of divorce and watching drastic changes happen in their mother  and all of the messy pros and cons of that journey.  The conversation wandered into other territory, such as religion, intimacy, consent, sex as self-harm, masturbation, women's pleasure,  yoni eggs and much more!  Join us for the party and please don't hesitate to share the love with your friends!Support the show

You heard about my worst dating experience ever in Part 1.  In this episode, I share one of the most healing experiences I had, thanks to some of the powerful practices I have learned through multiple trainings, most notably, my VITA Coaching training with Layla Martin.  AND...there's a brief introduction to my "friend" and one of my favorite alter egos:  Chain-Smoking, Hell-Raising MAUDE!Find out where to download some of these practices for yourself to experiment with as part of your own powerful practices and tools for a more empowered and orgasmic dating-relationship-sex-life.  As always, thanks for tuning in and don't keep the podcast a dirty little secret - share it with your friends!Support the show