Become A Trauma Informed Coach

In today’s episode, we delve into the concept of "relationship spirals," where partners get trapped in unhealthy behavioral patterns. Through societal conditioning, women often feel pressured to support their partners' success, leading to self-identification based on their partner's behavior. Conversely, men may internalize beliefs that tie their worth to their ability to make their partners happy. These conflicting expectations create tension and a sense of helplessness in relationships. By becoming aware of these patterns and untangling codependent behaviors, partners can cultivate a healthier, more interdependent dynamic. Join us as we explore how to break free from relationship knots and foster a more balanced exchange of energy and support.Want more help with this? Consider getting more support by clicking the related links below. Want access to my "Thought Gardener's Guide?" Click here: https://www.lindsaypoelmancoaching.com/guide-to-thinkingLindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Humans experience circumstances vastly differently. One person can internalize an event as traumatic while someone else who experiences the same doesn't. What is this all about? What is the difference between primary and secondary trauma? Does it matter? Which type of trauma tends to remain unseen (people don't recognize a need to get support after the traumatic event(s))? As a coach (or any human), it's important to be aware of--especially with respect to current events. In this episode you’ll learn:What primary and secondary trauma is.Why we sometimes fail to recognize or acknowledge trauma,Signs to help you recognize secondary trauma,More about secondary trauma I've been healing from, andSocietal expectations that condition us to minimize or ignore our trauma.Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

I used to think I had to be thinner to go to the gym. That sneaky, perfectionistic belief can pop up in surprising ways with self-investment. I’ve had many clients come to me ashamed that they weren’t making “enough” money as a coach or didn’t have “enough” clients. In today’s episode I talk about this perfectionism and what it can look like, and ask questions to help you consider if money is one of the things holding you back from investing in yourself. We then talk about what beliefs you might need to release to open yourself up to receiving everything you’re deserving of. You don’t have to have everything figured out perfectly before investing, or going to the gym, or starting or doing the new thing you want to do.In this episode you'll learn about:How that perfectionism can show up,Questions to consider if money is holding you back, andBeliefs you may need to release to open yourself up to receiving.Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Today’s episode is all about healing, and parts of the healing journey that aren’t always talked about. I’m joined by Beth Schild, an empowerment and self love coach. Beth is actually an alumnus from my very first Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification as well. Beth bravely shares her experiences with childhood and religious trauma, and how being trauma informed has shifted the trajectory of her career.Connect with Beth:Website: https://shiftwithbeth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shiftwithbeth/Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Today’s episode is a really powerful conversation with my dear friend, Hailee. Some organizations, religions, or systems like to promise certainty. “Do things this way, and then you’ll get that result”. But what if it doesn’t work that way for all people? We are multidimensional beings, so it makes sense that different things will work for different people. Hailee and I discuss the before and after deconstructing that idea that there’s one tool or one way to heal and get the results you want. As humans, we crave certainty. But at what cost? Hailee bravely shares how scary it can be to lean into your intuition but when you do, it can bring so much goodness, knowledge, beauty, and healing into the world.Connect with Hailee:Website: https://www.haileemae.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haileemaecoaching/Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

When not processed or acknowledged, trauma can impact our whole body. Body, mind, brain, nervous system, all of it. Today’s episode will explain and illustrate examples of how this can happen and affect us mentally, physically, and spiritually. This is why simply being a Certified Coach in 2024 isn't cutting it. Clients are smarter consumers and demanding/expecting more. This is one reason why being trauma-informed matters, so we can meet clients where they're at. Are you one of these coaches opting into more than mindset work? If so, make sure you tune in for my special announcement and how you can take this work to the next level [pssstt! It has to do with my next round of certification starting soon . . . ;) ].Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

So many of us are carrying a lot right now, am I right? During the holidays, many of us become acutely aware of varied grief & loss that we're carrying or experiencing. This episode is meant to validate you wherever you are with respect to your grief, and to normalize how common it is. And . . . you don't have to go through it alone! I have created a FREE GRIEF & GRATITUDE pop-up Facebook Group because, no one needs to carry loss or grief on their own--no one.  It is my hope you’ll feel validated and grant yourself  the permission available to open yourself to process any grief--as it feels safe for you. In this episode I discuss:Examples of how grief can show up around the holidays,The importance of processing grief,Truths (and myths) about grief, andA SURPRISE gift to have more support right NOW!  Want more support processing and living with your grief this holiday season? Join my pop-up holiday grief group. Don't go it alone, friend. Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

You’ve probably heard the phrase, “Things get worse before they get better”. Today’s episode is all about contraction. That tightening or slinging back we often experience before slinging forward. This is important to talk about in relation to your coaching practice and other relationships because sometimes we forget that "up-leveling" isn't always daisies and dandelions. Let's remove some "shoulds," shall we? If you can relate, tune in to this episode where we’ll discuss:Questions to consider when you’re ready to move forward but triggers are pulling you back,Recognizing if your nervous system has the capacity to act on your intuition, andA helpful way I’ve found to think about constricting and releasing.There's so much you can do to support yourself (or your clients) when you're feeling constricted.Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

If you’ve been hustling and learned how to successfully run your business, but you can tell it’s not sustainable… this episode is for you. Supporters need support too, and I’ve found that many coaches need support in making sure that they're taking care of themselves so that they can sustainably continue to run their practice or business in a way that's aligned for them. I started a hybrid version of my Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for those who want that extra, personalized support for themselves and in turn, their clients; and in this episode I describe the benefits and also share a few clips from Molly Claire, an alumnus of this program. And what would November be without offering amazing prime options for those who join my programs this month? Click here to get your PRIME PRICING for the hybrid version of this program AND to see my other NOVEMBER offers. https://www.lindsaypoelmancoaching.com/primepricingLearn more about the Advanced Trauma Certification by clicking here.Got questions? Book a call with me.Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Have you ever been in conversations with people that you couldn’t be fully present for, and you're not sure why? Or vice versa? What about as a coach, have you had calls with your clients where it feels like you aren't getting through or connecting and you're not sure why?  If so, you’re in good company. Today I’m speaking about a concept called the Window of Tolerance. Understanding this will support you in becoming more aware of your own optimal space for learning and using mindset work to your advantage. It will also help you see when to drop mindset models that aren't helping you or your clients.  In this episode you’ll learn:What the window of tolerance is,What it looks like to be above or below your window of tolerance,And what you can do to get out of that hyper or hypo arousal state;All so that you can meet your clients where they're at to achieve the results they're looking for. And don't forget about you! Understanding this for yourself is paramount in creating the sustainable dream life you're deserving of. Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Whatever the case may be, it can be hard to navigate current events on a macro (or even micro, personal) level. This episode is for those struggling to create safety during times like these without feeling guilt or shame.  Tune in to learn how to support yourself in times of crisis. And as always, be kind and gentle to your amazing self. In this episode I talk about:Letting your anger be  (and what it can be telling you),When guilt may be masking grief that needs to be felt,What "unconventional" self care can also look like, Finding small moments of presence, and more.Other mentions:Episode on anger with Jill FreestoneFeminism 101 for Christians, free email seriesEpisode 52 on dehumanization and the limitations of the cognitive mindLindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

The coaching industry is full of people touting that "Your results come from your thinking," "All problems are a thought problem," that's "Just a thought," etc. While these can be ways to consider the thoughts we have, it needs to be presented properly to clients in order to reduce and/eliminate harm as coaches. In todays podcast episode, listen in to find out:Where coaches using a one-dimensional (aka linear modeled) approach can mess this up,What thoughts actually can be,What thoughts aren't, and A few new ways to consider thoughts that come into you or your clientele's consciousness. Are you wanting to get a hold of my "Gardener's Guide to Thinking?" Click here!Also, have you reviewed this podcast yet? I'd love to hear from you! XxxLindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

What a gift it was to learn from ARTC Alumnus Meagan Skidmore as she shares more about what her experience has been supporting a child as he has shifted how he identifies. Meagan shares what her journey has been as a devout christian and how she her awareness of her expanded nuance has shifted over the years. How her love for her children and others has grown through these experiences, and how compassionate she has been towards past versions of herself that used to think differently.She speaks to how this experience led her to see the importance of becoming trauma-informed not only for herself, but for her relationships, clients, and more.  She also provides a few tips on how to better support members of the LGBTQIA+ community. This episode is a must-listen, as I think it's essential to understand how to support our marginalized teens, adolescents, and adults in this space. Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

This episode comes from a place of grief for the loss of a friend's child, feeling sadness for my friends, sadness for tragedies in the world, and raising awareness about how we unconsciously dehumanize ourselves and others. Intellectualization can be a part of this--which is what I speak to today.When we ignore our own inner knowing to others due to someone’s degree, status, or title...what happens? Are we forgetting about our humanity? On the flip side, when we hierarchize ourselves and place ourselves above others, are we dehumanizing them? Intellectual, logical thinking is incredible. It set's us apart from other primates. However, when we lock into the cognitive mind so much that it cuts us off from accessing our heart . . . then what? And . . . how does this apply in the coaching industry? There are plenty of 'brain experts' who use cognitive understanding and one-dimensional coaching. This can be a great place to start; however, it is limited to what we can see, intellectualize, analyze, and understand right now. The intelligence of our bodies, our intuition, our souls, goes SO MUCH DEEPER and is limitless. Instead of hierarchize-ing cognitive work over body work, what if we can layer both over each other?  In this episode you’ll learn:A personal example of where a degree or letters next to a name aren’t the end all, be all.How intellectualizing can be a form of dehumanization.Honoring the importance of cognitive tools AND body-led intuition.The possibility and hope I see for the world.If you want to learn more about this topic, subscribe to get the Problem With Privilege webinar with a FREE Privilege and Oppression mini-workbook.Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Some aspects of the coaching industry are inherently privileged, and as uncomfortable as it can be to look into, raising awareness is key to ensure safe environments for our clients, and ourselves. In part 2 of this recording of Lindsay's Problem with Privilege webinar, you'll learn about inherent hierarchies, unconscious superiority, the illusion of linearity, and what to do about it.You'll see REAL LIFE examples of how lack of awareness or understanding can do harm, and you'll walk away:With easily implementable strategies around what to do instead.Feeling validated and seen, wherever you may lie on the spectrum of privilege.Knowing more about how to support your clientele and minimize harm.Bringing a trauma-informed lens to your coaching practice can do wonders to create safety for your clients.Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Some aspects of the coaching industry are inherently privileged, and as uncomfortable as it can be to look into, raising awareness is key to ensure safe environments for our clients, and ourselves. In part 1 of this recording of Lindsay's Problem with Privilege webinar, you'll learn about privilege bubbles, and get a chance to assess where you fit (or don't fit) in with respect to your specific privilege point.  You'll see REAL LIFE examples of how lack of awareness or understanding can do harm, and you'll walk away:With easily implementable strategies around what to do instead.Feeling validated and seen, wherever you may lie on the spectrum of privilege.Knowing more about how to support your clientele and minimize harm.Bringing a trauma-informed lens to your coaching practice can do wonders to create safety for your clients.Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

For women, anger is often looked at as something negative that we need to keep hidden. This chronic suppression over time can have emotional and physical effects on our body. Today my dear friend and colleague,  Jill Freestone, is here to dissolve some myths with me. What if: Anger is actually a beautiful messenger? Anger isn't always a secondary emotion? Anger is an informer when our values or boundaries are being crossed?Anger can and is meant to be channeled in beautiful, effective, POWERFUL ways?  Jill is an alumnus of my Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches. She is an anxiety and emotions coach for teens and adults. To put it lightly, Jill. Knows. Her. Stuff.  When clients come to her needing support with anger, she helps her clients learn to develop a love for their anger and eliminate the shame around experiencing it.  Doing this creates fertile ground for sustainable healing to occur. Can you see why I'm such a FAN? If you’ve ever experienced anger (hi, that’s all of us) and felt shame around it, this episode is for you.In this episode we discuss:The definition of anger (might be different than you think).How to get your body involved to process anger.How anger can actually be beneficial or helpful to you.Physical signs (and misdiagnoses) of anger.Externalized and internalized anger.Tips to integrate this new way of viewing and thinking about anger.Connect with Jill:WebsiteInstagramLindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Kathy Kinghorn has been a trauma therapist for over 13 years, and was a facilitator in my first Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches. In this conversation, we discuss the differences and similarities between trauma therapy and trauma coaching and touch on when’s the right time for one or the other. For some, coaching might be the thing that prepares someone for therapy. For others, therapy might come before coaching and sometimes people can benefit from both.  We also talk about the disconnect between some therapists and coaches and how we envision that relationship between the two professions in the future. Our goal is what’s in the best interest for our clients’ healing and growth.In this episode we discuss:The difference between trauma therapy and trauma coachingWhen’s the right time for working with a coachRecognizing that healing isn’t linearThe importance of safetyHow we envision the relationship between therapists and coachesHierarchies and barriers to entryHow a collaborative effort can be in the BEST interest of our clients.What really matters when it comes to sustainable healing.Referenced in the episode:Felt Sense EpisodeConnect with Kathy:WebsiteFacebookLindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

I have another "Love Letters" podcast episode for you today, perhaps my most vulnerable podcast release yet.It is meant for those who have or are questioning their religious upbringing. This is something I have personally gone through; I have also witnessed many loved ones and a surprisingly large % of my clients experience in recent years.So, the "Love Letter" portion comes from personal experience as well as observations of those around me (be it clients, friends, support groups, other family, etc.).  Tune in to listen to key sharing points and myth-clearing of this episode:  Excerpt from a journal entry.A slice of my Spiritual Expansion/Deconstruction.Lastly, a Love letter to those affected by religion or similar affiliations/ upbringings.A few myths are also cleared up:People oftentimes don’t ASK for their awakenings. People oftentimes WANT to make it work in their religions they were born into.People can be trustworthy regardless of religious affiliationPeople have values regardless of religious affiliation.Everyone’s journey is unique. There is no one size fits all answer for where all the humans should be. Whether you are all in with your religion, half in, in and out, etc, I 100% respect your choice to be where you know you're meant to be. I hope this love letter helps you feel validated, loved, and supported in the questions you’re asking and decisions you’re making. There is space for you to be and exist exactly as you are.Want more help with this? Check out my Safe Awakenings Program. Relevant links:Safe Awakenings ProgramReligion masterclassLindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...

Want to know what has been going down on Lindsay's "How to Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach - LIVE" calls? We are posting this BONUS EPISODE so you can listen in while doing whatever it is you're up to right now! By the end of the episode, you'll gain clarity around: How to Become a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach.Challenges in the coaching industry and how to turn them into opportunities.Four Big mistakes people make when starting/running a coaching practice &Four Strategies to start your practice with proper footing.What makes my certification UNIQUE and why you'll STAND OUT after going through my program.And if you're ready to make a decision today to forever change the trajectory of your life, click here to take advantage of AFFILIATE PRICING this weekend!Enjoy visualizing who you've already become by saying YES to yourself and . . . what has already changed in your future for you. Got Q's? Email Connect@LindsayPoelmanCoaching.com. Lindsay’s current program offerings: Are you a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Relationship Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round starts February 1st! Looking for a Trauma-Informed Coaching Certification? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Are you needing help healing from Religious Conditioning, or expanding in your Spirituality–safely? Click here. Are you Healing from Betrayal Trauma in your Marriage? Click here. Check out her website here: Website.Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching---Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing a...