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Ex-Homeschoolers Club
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Welcome to the Club!
This is a place to discuss the Good, Bad, & Ugly of Growing Up a Homeschooler.
Every week, you'll hear from me and my childhood friends as we share stories from growing up with our parents for teachers.
This is a place to discuss the Good, Bad, & Ugly of Growing Up a Homeschooler.
Every week, you'll hear from me and my childhood friends as we share stories from growing up with our parents for teachers.
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Real stories. Real conversations. If you want the latest episodes of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club podcast, plus bonus insights and community highlights, sign up for the newsletter.https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribeIn this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with my longtime friend, Aaron MacDonald, to talk about his homeschool experience, the unique quirks of growing up in a religious homeschooling community, and how it shaped his perspective on life, art, and relationships. We dive deep into topics like group learning, purity culture, and navigating personal growth beyond the homeschool bubble. Aaron also shares insights into his artistic journey, how he overcame self-doubt, and the unconventional ways he connects with his creativity.Key TakeawaysHomeschooling & Socialization – How co-ops like Group Solutions impacted our childhood and social skills.Religious Influence – The role faith played in our upbringing and how it shaped our views on relationships, sex, and adulthood.Purity Culture & Dating – Breaking down the "purity ring" experience and unlearning unhealthy narratives about sex.Self-Discovery & Healing – Aaron’s powerful method of visualizing younger versions of himself to work through personal growth.The Artistic Journey – Aaron's evolution as an artist, his preferred mediums, and how he now teaches art to others.Resources MentionedAaron's artwork on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaronmacdnldart/Books on art & creativity from the Bauhaus SchoolI Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris (discussed critically)Timestamps00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:57 Introducing Aaron MacDonald01:46 Aaron's Homeschool Journey04:30 Homeschool Curriculum and Methods08:07 Group Solutions and Social Aspects14:53 Religion and Homeschooling21:27 Dating and Purity Culture28:13 Sexuality and Cultural Impacts33:54 Healing the Internal Voice34:55 Meeting the Expert35:55 Challenging Childhood Beliefs38:26 Therapy and Self-Reflection50:40 Artistic Journey01:02:51 Memorable Homeschool Experiences01:06:42 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsEnjoyed this episode? Make sure to:✅ Subscribe to The Ex-Homeschoolers Club on your favorite podcast app.✅ Leave a review – it helps others find the show!✅Email me at:exhsclub@gmail.com✅ Join the discussion on Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/exhomeschoolersclub/✅ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exhsclub/✅ Sign up for the newsletter:https://exhsclub.beehiiv.com/subscribe
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On this weeks Ex-Homeschoolers Club, we welcome Ruth Brooks, a former homeschooler turned homeschool mom of four, to explore her unique educational journey. From hiding from truant officers in the early days of homeschooling to navigating modern resources, Ruth shares how her experiences shaped her homeschooling style, including how she balanced structure and flexibility, adapted to her children’s unique learning needs, and handled the transition from teaching to rediscovering herself. They discuss navigating curriculum challenges, managing large families, and fostering emotional health in both parents and children. This episode is packed with insights for parents, homeschoolers, and those curious about the homeschool experience.
Key Takeaways
• Ruth’s early days as a homeschooler in the 1970s and how it shaped her parenting approach.
• How she addressed learning challenges like dyslexia within her family.
• The value of group learning and how literature-based curricula enriched her children’s education.
• Her advice for parents on following their gut instincts and prioritizing emotional health.
• Insights on the emotional challenges of transitioning out of homeschooling.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement
00:48 Ruth Brooks' Early Homeschooling Experience
02:20 Transition to Structured Homeschooling
03:34 Family Dynamics and Responsibilities
06:27 Deciding to Homeschool Her Own Kids
08:08 Homeschooling in the 2000s
09:38 Joining Homeschool Groups
13:22 Adapting Curriculum for Different Learning Styles
19:54 Parental Reflections and Challenges
27:33 Hands-On Learning in Homeschooling
27:56 Reading Aloud: A Non-Traditional Approach
29:05 The Value of Story-Based Learning
31:55 Transitioning to College Classes
37:46 Balancing Homeschooling and Emotional Health
41:29 The Transition Out of Homeschooling
46:27 Reflecting on Homeschooling Experiences
50:54 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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WE ARE LAUNCHING A BOOK CLUB!!!
That's right the Ex-Homeschoolers Book Club is going live.
Our first book is going to be “When Religion Hurts You” by Dr. Laura E Anderson
Link to our Fable Book Club: https://fable.co/club/ex-homeschoolers-book-club-with-jacob-gooden-585330795145?invite=d05c4720-2e57-471a-ad97-dfe8a5026688
Grab your copy of “When Religion Hurts You”: https://drlauraeanderson.com/book
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In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, host Jacob Gooden welcomes special guest Liz, a homeschool graduate from the 80s and 90s. Together, they delve into the unique experiences of homeschooling across decades, highlighting their differences and surprising commonalities. Liz shares her journey as a "Marine brat" growing up in a conservative Catholic homeschool setting, the challenges of isolation, and the unique dynamics of her family’s educational decisions. The conversation also touches on the cultural shifts in homeschooling, adapting to college life, and the lasting impact of homeschooling on personal and professional growth. This heartfelt discussion sheds light on the strength, adaptability, and camaraderie of the ex-homeschooler community.
Key Takeaways:
The contrasting experiences of homeschooling in the 80s/90s versus the 2000s, including societal perceptions and available resources.
Navigating isolation and limited social interactions in a homeschool setting and the long-term effects on personal development.
The shift in homeschooling acceptance and normalization in the late 90s and early 2000s.
Adapting to college life as a former homeschooler, including cultural catch-up and overcoming challenges.
Liz’s reflections on homeschooling’s mixed impact on her life, from moments of gratitude to lessons learned.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement01:18 Liz's Homeschooling Journey Begins04:20 Challenges and Isolation in Homeschooling07:56 Social Dynamics and Homeschool Groups12:10 Adapting to College Life16:41 Reflections on Homeschooling and College Experience28:12 Holiday Breaks and Realizations29:22 Navigating Pop Culture as a Homeschooler30:32 Cultural Catch-Up and Masking38:06 Homeschooling Stereotypes and Realities42:38 Homeschooling in Different Cultures48:08 Mixed Experiences and Reflections56:07 The Impact of 2020 and Homeschooling59:39 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Resources Mentioned:
I Heart the 80s and I Heart the 90s (VH1 shows)
Catholic Youth Organization (CYO)
Turner Classic Movies and AMC (classic programming staples)
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Hey everyone! In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with Whitney Brim-DeForest, a former homeschooler with an incredible journey. Whitney’s story is a mix of unique experiences, from an unconventional homeschool structure to finding her calling as a plant scientist. We discuss the ups and downs of her homeschooling years, the challenges of reintegrating into public school, and how a passion for science blossomed from her eclectic upbringing. Along the way, we dive into the cultural gaps she experienced, the mentors who shaped her, and how her homeschooling days influenced her parenting philosophy today. If you’ve ever wondered how homeschooling shapes independence and self-direction, you’ll love this episode!
Key Takeaways:
Whitney’s homeschooling journey featured Saxon Math alongside experiential learning in arts, history, and hands-on activities.
How periodic public school stints and a lack of peer consistency impacted her social development.
The discovery of pop culture, music, and friendships after homeschooling.
A transformative high school physics teacher and how mentors can inspire career paths.
Whitney’s choice not to homeschool her kids and the value of diverse opportunities for children.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction to the Ex Homeschoolers Club
00:33 Whitney's Unique Homeschooling Journey
02:24 The Challenges of Socialization
03:27 Homeschool Curriculum and Learning Styles
07:03 Transitioning to Public School
09:44 Finding Passion and Career Path
17:15 Religious Influences and Gender Roles
23:50 Navigating Pop Culture Post-Homeschooling
24:45 Early Tech Exposure and Music Sneaking
26:25 Musical Influences and High School Experience
28:04 College Life and Music Exploration
31:18 Peace Corps and Cultural Disconnect
31:55 Friendship Challenges and Socialization
38:13 Parenting Choices and Homeschool Reflections
43:48 Biggest Positives and Negatives of Homeschooling
46:44 Final Thoughts and Farewell
Resources Mentioned:
Saxon Math curriculum
"The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill" (album)
Adventures in Odyssey audio series
"Our Bodies, Ourselves" (book)
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Join me as I sit down with long-time friend and fellow Ojai Valley homeschooler, Alouette Pettit (Kim). From her unique homeschooling journey to her transition into a nursing career and now as a new mother, Alouette shares insightful reflections and hard-won lessons. Listen as they discuss the joys and challenges of homeschooling, the impact of mental health struggles, and the value of support systems in personal growth. Whether you're a homeschooler, parent, or someone navigating life’s unpredictable turns, this episode is packed with relatable and empowering moments.
Key Takeaways:
Homeschooling Experiences: Alouette’s journey as a K-12 homeschooler and how it shaped her educational and social outlook.
Navigating Mental Health: Overcoming anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation with the help of cognitive-behavioral therapy.
Professional Path: Transitioning from a science-loving homeschooler to a successful nursing career and educator.
Parenting Reflections: Considering homeschooling for her daughter while balancing career and family.
Building Resilience: The importance of community, communication, and seeking help when facing life’s challenges.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
02:20 Alouette's Homeschool Journey
06:39 Navigating Social Circles in Homeschooling
13:08 Transitioning from Homeschool to College
25:55 Choosing a Career in Nursing
29:34 Balancing Career and Family Life
31:55 Considering Homeschooling for the Next Generation
34:50 Setting Goals and Flexibility
35:14 Homeschooling Reflections
37:32 Mental Health Struggles
44:29 Therapy and Recovery
01:00:48 Generational Trauma and Family Dynamics
01:07:26 Funny Homeschool Moments
01:10:08 Closing Thoughts and Reaching Out
Resources Mentioned:
"The Well-Trained Mind" by Susan Wise Bauer
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I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9This week on The Ex Homeschoolers Club, I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with my college friend Adam Gaus. Until recently, I had no idea Adam was also homeschooled! In our conversation, he shared his fascinating journey of splitting his education between public school and homeschool. We reminisced about our time in college, dove into his creative outlets like music, and explored how his unique upbringing shaped his critical thinking and parenting style. Adam’s story is a mix of heartfelt reflections, hilarious cringy moments, and valuable insights into the balance between education and life. Whether you’re a homeschool veteran or just curious about the lifestyle, this episode has something for everyone.
Key Takeaways:
• Adam’s hybrid education journey: 50% public school, 50% homeschool.
• The role of community and church in shaping Adam’s homeschooling experience.
• How homeschooling influenced Adam’s self-reliance and critical thinking skills.
• Insights into parenting and navigating public schooling for Adam’s children.
• Reflecting on the ups and downs of homeschool life, including hilarious cringy moments like metal band performances.
Resources Mentioned:
• Niche Knowledge and Nonsense Podcast hosted by Adam's wife, Bailey: https://linktr.ee/nknpod
If you enjoyed this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing this story. Follow Ex-Homeschoolers Club on Instagram and TikTok for updates, and send us a message – we’d love to hear from you!
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I'm always striving to make this show better and I want to hear from you. If you've got a few minutes, would you mind answering a few questions? https://forms.gle/SCAWjZ3fo1L4CxCK9In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my journey of faith, doubt, and discovery. Reflecting on the intersection of my Christian upbringing and homeschooling experience, I share the struggles I faced reconciling my beliefs with hard questions, and how I eventually found the courage to embrace agnosticism. This year-end reflection is my raw and heartfelt exploration of identity, community, and the ongoing search for truth. Themes include my childhood faith, deconstructing religion, and rebuilding community after stepping away from traditional beliefs.
Key Takeaways:
- The Foundation of Faith: Growing up in a devout Christian household shaped my early worldview.
- Critical Turning Points: I wrestled with the Bible’s literal interpretations and observed inconsistencies within the church.
- Community and Loss: Leaving church life brought challenges of isolation and rebuilding my sense of identity.
- Deconstruction Journey: I moved from evangelical Christianity to agnosticism by questioning and exploring my beliefs.
- Encouraging Open Dialogue: I now embrace curiosity and strive to foster respectful conversations about belief and doubt.
Resources Mentioned
- Dirty Rotten Church Kids: https://www.instagram.com/dirtyrottenchurchkids/?hl=en
- Ear Biscuits Deconstruction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qbna6t1bzw&list=PLLxmqs8vQskUbE_KnXQhA2gXmEg5dVMp3
- Ken Ham vs. Bill Nye: https://www.youtube.com/live/PPLRhVdNp5M?si=HC8GrldP_zzkYmWl
- The New Evengelicals: https://www.thenewevangelicals.com/about/
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Year-End Reflections
00:20 The Gooden Family December Episodes
00:42 Sharing My Christian Journey
01:36 Gratitude and Listener Engagement
03:42 Nervousness and Vulnerability
05:34 Early Christian Experiences
11:05 Church Involvement and Music
16:04 Transition to Reality Church
27:25 College and Faith Challenges
31:31 Reconciling Evolution and Faith
32:01 Overwhelmed by Religious Commitments
33:21 Questioning Biblical Literalism
34:26 Exploring Different Perspectives
36:40 Burnout and Leaving Church
39:13 Deconstructing Faith
49:59 Embracing Agnosticism
53:21 Building a New Community
59:10 Final Thoughts and Future Plans
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In this heartfelt episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I sit down with my dad, Keith Gooden, for an in-depth conversation about homeschooling, fatherhood, and personal growth. We reflect on his evolving role in my education, the pivotal moments that reshaped his involvement, and how challenges like a hip injury and a cancer diagnosis sparked his commitment to health and resilience. Together, we discuss the joys and trials of homeschooling, the importance of parental involvement, and the life lessons we’ve both learned along the way. Keywords: homeschooling, fatherhood, personal growth, family dynamics, education.
Key Takeaways:
- Homeschool Evolution: How Keith transitioned from a "hands-off" principal to an active teacher and advocate for homeschooling.
- Parental Involvement: The value of fathers participating in their children’s education and extracurricular interests.
- Resilience in Adversity: How health challenges reshaped Keith’s mindset and inspired a commitment to fitness and personal development.
- Creative Education Methods: Incorporating history through movies, discussions of controversial books, and hands-on learning.
- Building Strong Family Bonds: The role of shared activities like airsoft and home projects in strengthening relationships.
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In this heartfelt episode, Jacob Gooden sits down with his mom, Susan Gooden, to explore her decision to homeschool, the challenges of starting out, and the unexpected joys of building a homeschooling community. Susan shares how she navigated the pressures of tailoring education for two vastly different kids, balancing personal growth with parental responsibilities, and transitioning out of homeschooling into a fulfilling post-homeschool life. Her candid reflections offer valuable insights for parents considering or currently homeschooling. Tune in for relatable anecdotes, laughter, and timeless wisdom.
Key Takeaways
The Why of Homeschooling: Susan’s journey from public schooling to homeschooling inspired by conviction and community.
Overcoming Challenges: Navigating failed curriculum choices and building an adaptable approach.
Building Community: The role of co-ops, support groups, and friendships in sustaining the homeschool journey.
Transitioning Out: Finding new purpose and joy after homeschooling ends.
Parental Growth: How homeschooling fostered personal growth alongside her children’s education.
Resources Mentioned
Curriculums: A Beka, Math U See, and Sunlight
Books: The Well-Trained Mind by Susan Wise Bauer
Organizations: CHEA, ACHEV, and Group Solutions
Events: The CHEA Convention
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I want to hear from my Ex-Homeschool Friends.
Here is my Google Form for you to share your thoughts on the future of the EXHS Club: https://forms.gle/tpJyso45KMcnWjcUA
Hey folks, you're getting a solo from me today. I'm gonna walk you through the journey of launching the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, what you can expect for the end of 2024, and some of the changes and goals for 2025
And be sure to hang out to the very end for a special holiday surprise!
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In this weeks episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, I'm sitting down with Alyssa Gaona to explore her unconventional homeschooling journey. From growing up in a restrictive and cult-like environment to discovering her passion for teaching and biology, Alyssa shares her struggles and triumphs. Together, they discuss the impact of childhood experiences, the importance of mental health awareness, and how education shapes identity.
This episode highlights Alyssa's journey from surviving a challenging upbringing to pursuing a career in teaching with hope and resilience.
Key Takeaways
Alyssa's experience with minimal educational structure and the challenges it created.
The influence of supportive mentors and how they shaped her aspirations.
Insights into mental health awareness and its intersection with homeschooling.
Alyssa’s decision to pursue teaching, specializing in biology and early childhood development.
Practical advice for parents on fostering healthy educational environments.
Resources Mentioned
California’s Educational Standards: Official Website
Alyssa’s Instagram: @TheMexicanPerson
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Hey Ex-Homeschoolers!
NO INTERVIEW this week but I'm making it up to you next week by dropping 2 episodes!
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In this episode, we’re joined by Keara Minshall, a filmmaker and homeschool alum, who shares her inspiring journey through homeschooling, the challenges she faced, and her pursuit of a career in film. Keara reflects on the pivotal role her homeschool community played in shaping her love for storytelling, from creating backyard productions to studying film in college. She candidly discusses her professional path, the impact of COVID-19 on the film industry, and her recent work on Netflix’s "The Electric State." Join us as we explore the highs and lows of homeschooling, creative passions, and the evolving world of storytelling.
Key Takeaways
- Homeschool Journey: Keara's experience highlights the adaptability of homeschool education and its impact on creativity.
- Creative Beginnings: Early exposure to filmmaking through homeschool classes sparked Keara’s passion for storytelling.
- Industry Insights: Challenges and shifts in Hollywood, plus Keara’s journey into commercial directing.
- Community Building: Importance of finding and fostering friendships and support networks, especially in a homeschool setting.
Resources Mentioned
- The Electric State by the Russo Brothers (Film, releasing March 14)
https://youtu.be/9gUDaPTPxwo?si=w2pWfldE233MIzeS
- Home-Schooled series on Roku
https://app.pureflix.com/series/292224550859/home-schooled
- Chuck Testa Commercial https://youtu.be/LJP1DphOWPs?si=qHlGgk0SB_1VLPsG
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
01:04 Keara's Homeschool Journey
06:20 Transition to Public School
07:57 Homeschool vs. Traditional School
14:22 Discovering a Passion for Filmmaking
16:49 College Experience and Video Production Club
20:27 Post-College Career in Filmmaking
23:25 Working on The Electric State
28:05 Insights on Storytelling
29:38 Reflecting on the Purpose of the Show
30:30 Homeschooling Stories: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
31:05 The Direction and Outcome of Storytelling
32:03 Current Projects and the State of Hollywood
32:42 The Rise of Podcasting and Scripted Audio Stories
33:43 Challenges in the Film Industry
38:05 The Magic of Movie Theaters
40:50 Directing Commercials: A New Venture
44:04 Nostalgia and Early Creative Endeavors
47:18 The Importance of Friendship and Community
54:54 Concluding Thoughts and Staying Connected
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In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, Jacob Gooden reconnects with longtime friend John Slagboom to share stories from their homeschool days and discuss the journey since then. John shares hilarious anecdotes like “The Finger Incident” and his unique experiences teaching wilderness survival to fellow homeschoolers. They also dive into deeper themes, including how their upbringing influenced their college years and personal growth. John reflects on homeschooling's impact on his faith, social skills, and his approach to raising his own children. This episode is a blend of nostalgia, life lessons, and humor, perfect for anyone interested in the homeschool experience and its lasting effects.
Key Takeaways:
The Finger Incident: John recounts his infamous “finger incident” and the surreal moment when his pet bird tried to eat a piece of his severed skin.
Teaching Wilderness Survival: John’s experiences teaching wilderness skills and why he chose “Lord of the Flies” as part of the curriculum.
Homeschool Dynamics: Insight into homeschool cliques and the unique social landscape they navigated as teens.
Life Beyond Homeschooling: How leaving the homeschool bubble influenced John’s college experience, career path, and parenting.
Resources Mentioned:
Lord of the Flies by William Golding
Boy Scouts of America
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In this episode of The Ex-Homeschoolers Club, Jacob Gooden sits down with Makeila Harrell (Mahoney) as they delve into the unique experiences of being raised in a homeschooling environment with strong religious influences. From the pressures of being a pastor’s kid to transitioning into adult life and exploring career paths in event management and marketing, Makeila shares her journey of faith, mental health, and the pursuit of personal identity. Together, they reflect on the value of community, overcoming “church hurt,” and embracing authenticity in a world that often misunderstands homeschoolers. This episode is a must-listen for those curious about the intersections of homeschooling, mental wellness, and the freedom to redefine success.
Key Takeaways:
- Finding Your Path Beyond Traditional Schooling: Makeila shares how she pursued event management and marketing without a traditional college degree.
- Mental Health and Church Influence: Insight into how faith-based environments impact mental health, including dealing with the pressures of a pastoral family.
- Embracing Healing and Growth: Makeila’s experience with personal growth, including how psychology, therapy, and family dynamics influenced her journey.
- Rediscovering Faith and Community: The importance of finding a balanced spiritual community and reconnecting with childhood friends.
Resources Mentioned:
New York Institute of Art and Design: https://www.nyiad.edu/
The Enneagram Personality Test (understanding personality types): https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/
Chapters
00:00 Welcome to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club
01:46 Homeschool Beginnings and Family Dynamics
03:20 Homeschool Groups and Social Life
06:00 High School Choices and Homeschool Benefits
12:41 Transitioning to Adulthood and Career Choices
14:00 Event Management and Career Growth
17:54 From Events to Marketing
24:15 Entrepreneurial Beginnings
25:02 Homeschooling Reflections
25:56 Mental Health and Homeschooling
27:43 Exploring Enneagrams
29:20 Church and Mental Health
31:00 Family Dynamics and Church Politics
33:18 Transitioning Away from the Church
40:39 Healing and Helping Others
44:15 Reconnecting with Old Friends
45:38 A Surprise Party Story
48:14 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
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In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, host Jacob Gooden welcomes Emileigh Bierman, who shares her unique journey through homeschooling, the challenges she faced with learning disabilities, and how her educational experience shaped her love for reading and learning.
*Key Topics Discussed*
- Emileigh's Homeschool Journey
- Challenges and Adaptations in Learning
- Benefits of Homeschooling
- Creative Teaching Methods
- Growth and Development
- Reflections on Education Today
*Quotes from the Episode*
“I think my parents saw that I was smart... but the school system was giving up on me.” — Emileigh Bierman
“Homeschooling allowed me to learn what my super interest is.” — Emileigh Bierman
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In this nostalgic episode of Ex-Homeschoolers Club, host Jacob Gooden reconnects with Morgan Shanks (Emmons) to reminisce about their shared experiences as homeschoolers and youth group members.
Morgan's Diverse Educational Journey
Attended private school, public school, and online programs before homeschooling
Homeschooled primarily during junior high and high school years
Participated in co-ops and online classes
Navigating the Homeschool Community
Morgan felt like an outsider due to her parents' more relaxed approach
Struggled to fit in with traditional homeschool families
Got a tattoo at 16, causing controversy among peers
Youth Group Adventures
Morgan thrived in the youth group environment
Became known for elaborate pranks with best friend Hannah Amico
Memorable pranks included:
Powdering a youth leader's car
Hiding fish in a mission trip van
A neighborhood prank gone awry
Reflections on Homeschooling and Youth
Discusses the challenges of fitting in as a homeschooler
Compares experiences in homeschool co-ops vs. church youth group
Highlights the importance of finding one's place during teenage years
Don't miss this entertaining episode full of laughter, nostalgia, and insights into the unique experiences of homeschooled teens in the early 2000s.
If you're interested in seeing Morgan's Wedding Photography, check out their website: https://younmephotographs.com or check them out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/younmephotographs/
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In this episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club, host Jacob Gooden welcomes Annanlee Chang, a long-time friend and fellow homeschooler, to discuss her unique educational journey. From her early days in a Waldorf school to homeschooling and finally transitioning to public high school, Annanlee shares her insights and experiences that shaped her identity. This episode delves into the misconceptions surrounding homeschooling, the challenges of adapting to public school, and how these experiences have influenced her adult life.
Key Highlights
The Homeschool Experience: Annanlee discusses her transition from a private Waldorf school to homeschooling in 5th grade, emphasizing that homeschooling doesn't mean being at home all the time. She reflects on how this educational approach allowed for diverse social interactions outside traditional schooling.
Writing a Letter for Change: To express her desire to attend public school, Annanlee wrote a letter to her parents. She explains how this decision stemmed from wanting to experience typical high school life and gain material for her writing.
Impact of Mrs. Yip's Class: Annanlee shares how Mrs. Yip’s writing class was pivotal in her education, teaching valuable writing skills that she continues to use today. The class fostered creativity and critical thinking, helping both her and Jacob navigate their academic journeys.
Favorite Quotes
“Homeschooling is kind of an antiquated term; it doesn’t mean you’re at home all the time.”
“I wanted to write about high school experiences, but I didn’t even know what a locker room looked like.”
“You learn how to code-switch a lot when you homeschool.”
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Welcome back to The Ex Homeschooler Club!
In today's episode, I'm excited to introduce my friend Elizabeth Slagboom, who has an inspiring and insightful story about her transition from homeschooling to public school and eventually college. Elizabeth's experiences highlight the unique challenges faced by homeschoolers as they navigate traditional educational environments.
Highlights from This Episode:
Homeschooling Journey: Elizabeth reflects on her early years of homeschooling, sharing how it shaped her educational foundation and the eventual transition to public school at age 16. She discusses the balance of extracurricular activities like track and field with her academic pursuits.
College Application Challenges: The conversation dives into the complexities of college applications for homeschoolers, including the importance of transcript formatting and standardized testing experiences that felt overwhelming for both Elizabeth and her parents.
Academic Adjustments in College: Elizabeth candidly discusses her struggles with adapting to college-level science and math courses after being homeschooled, emphasizing the need for support systems and tutoring in subjects where she felt less prepared.
We want to hear your thoughts on this episode! Share your experiences or questions on social media @ExHomeschoolerClub or email us at exhsclub@gmail.com. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and share it with others who might benefit from Elizabeth's insights!
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Welcome back to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club Podcast! In this episode, I'm joined by my longtime friend Eliya Frantz. Eliya and I have known each other since we were kids, as our families were very close and involved in the homeschooling community together.
Growing Up Homeschooled - Eliya shares what her homeschooling experience was like, noting that every family approaches it differently. Her family had a more laid-back style, allowing her to be independent and self-motivated from a young age. This flexibility enabled her to start working and saving money early on, coaching sports and pursuing her passion for gymnastics.
Transitioning to College - After graduating high school, Eliya initially felt behind compared to other homeschoolers. However, she found community college to be incredibly helpful in figuring out her path. Eliya advocates for community college as an affordable way to explore interests and get support with the transition to higher education.After two years at community college, Eliya transferred to Azusa Pacific University, where she studied music and psychology. Her college experience was impacted by the COVID-19 pandemic, but she persevered and completed her degree.
Homeschooling Advantages - Throughout the conversation, Eliya and I discuss the advantages of being homeschooled, such as the flexibility to work, pursue hobbies, and make our own schedules. We both learned valuable skills like self-discipline, independence, and a strong work ethic from our homeschooling experiences.
Connecting with the Homeschooling Community - A key part of our homeschooling journeys was the support system we had through the ACHEV homeschooling group. We participated in field trips, school dances, and shared resources, which helped create a sense of community.
Eliya's Musical Journey - Eliya is also a talented musician. She shares how her homeschooling experience and the flexibility it provided allowed her to pursue her passion for music from a young age.
Eliya started taking music lessons and getting involved in her local music scene. She found that the independence and work ethic she developed from homeschooling translated well to pursuing music professionally. Eliya notes that putting yourself out there to perform and make connections in the music industry requires dedication, even when you may not feel like it.
You can hear Eliya's original music on her Spotify and Apple Music pages. Her songs blend elements of pop, folk, and soul, showcasing her powerful vocals and songwriting skills. Be sure to follow her on social media to stay up to date on new releases and live performances.
Check out Eliya's Debut Album on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3TI1VLc
Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eliyafrantzmusic/
And also follow her new band Vinyl Sunsets: https://www.instagram.com/vinylsunsetsmusic/
Tune in to hear more about Eliya's homeschooling story and how it shaped her path to adulthood. Stay tuned for more episodes of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club Podcast, where we explore the unique experiences and perspectives of those who were educated at home.
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Hey everyone! Welcome back to the Ex Homeschoolers Club! Today I’m thrilled to have my longtime friend Julia joining me. We’ve known each other since she moved here from Russia, and it’s been amazing to catch up and reminisce about our shared homeschooling journey.
Key Discussion Points
A Warm WelcomeI kick things off by introducing Julia, who I met just after she arrived in the U.S. We dive into her early days here, where she faced the challenge of learning English while making new friends. It was a whirlwind experience, but she recalls it fondly!
The Influence of Mrs. SanchezJulia shares how Mrs. Sanchez became her guiding light during her homeschooling years. With her mom battling cancer, Mrs. Sanchez stepped in as a mentor and teacher, helping Julia push through tough times. It’s heartwarming to hear how grateful she is for that support.
Extracurricular AdventuresWe chat about all the fun activities Julia participated in, from Tai Kwon Do to ballet and even backyard plays! Those moments shaped her childhood and provided a creative outlet that we both cherish.
Life After HomeschoolingFast forward to today, and Julia is now a stay-at-home mom with six kids! She shares the joys and challenges of parenting, reflecting on how her own experiences influence her approach to raising her children.
Considering Homeschooling for Her KidsAs we wrap up, we discuss whether Julia is considering homeschooling her kids. She reflects on the pros and cons while acknowledging the importance of family involvement in education.
Memorable Quotes
"It was exciting to be in a different country, even though nobody spoke our language." - Julia Humbles
"I would never have made it through without Mrs. Sanchez." - Julia Humbles
"Being a mom is wild; nobody warns you about the challenges of motherhood!" - Julia Humbles
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In this raw and honest episode, I'm opening up about my experiences growing up in purity culture. From awkward sex education to struggles with shame and guilt, I'm sharing my journey of unlearning harmful beliefs and finding a healthier perspective on relationships and sexuality.
Topics covered include:
- The impact of Christian purity culture on homeschooled youth
- Navigating relationships and sexuality in college
- Overcoming shame and guilt associated with sex
- The importance of proper sex education and understanding consent
- Resources for those struggling with similar issues
Resources talked about this episode
- Sex with Emily https://sexwithemily.com
Whether you're a former homeschooler, grew up in a religious environment, or are just curious about the effects of purity culture, this episode offers valuable insights and a path towards healing.
Join the conversation by sharing your own experiences in the comments below.
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We're back in the clubhouse this week with my friend Emily.
While we may have bonded over a shared love for One Direction and red pants, our friendship blossomed into guitar lessons, swing dance, and epic photoshoots.
You don't want to miss hearing what's new in Emilyland! She shares about transitioning into college, surviving a global pandemic, and her aspirations of becoming a mom and potentially homeschooling her future children.
00:00 Welcome and Introduction
00:22 Bonding Over One Direction
00:52 Homeschooling Memories and Pop Culture
02:44 Homeschooling Journey and Daily Routine
05:08 Transition to College Life
17:00 Career Path and Future Aspirations
24:22 Reflections on Homeschooling and Friendships
25:16 Cringey Moments and Lifelong Friends
28:24 Photography and Final Thoughts
28:47 Conclusion and Farewell
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I'm back in the clubhouse chatting with my friend Laura. We're talking balancing school and doing background work for TV shows, the challenge of dress code at the homeschool dances, and wishing to have more public school friends.
Laura also opens up about her post-homeschool life, including her college journey, personal growth, and becoming a new mom.
00:00 Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Club
00:58 Laura's Homeschool Journey
02:33 High School Highlights and Challenges
04:17 Acting Adventures in LA
12:12 Extracurricular Activities and Dance Lessons
16:04 Homeschool Proms and Dress Codes
24:25 Navigating Dress Codes and Purity Culture
28:08 Supportive Family Dynamics
29:34 Homeschool Dances and Dating Challenges
33:50 Post-High School Struggles and Growth
41:27 Homeschooling Reflections and Future Plans
46:47 Encouragement for Homeschooling Parents
50:01 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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We're back in the clubhouse today with my long-time friend Nick Burgess and delving deep into our nostalgic homeschooling experiences. We share endearing and humorous stories about backyard plays, homeschool group dynamics, and the strict but amusing rules of attending dances in a Christian environment. The episode explores the social challenges, the significance of community, and the diverse paths they took after high school, including Nick's career in diesel mechanics. Tune in for heartfelt reflections on education, friendships, youth group participation, and the quirks of growing up homeschooled.
00:00 Welcome to the Ex Home Schoolers Club
00:23 Childhood Memories and Early Friendship
01:43 Homeschooling Journey and Family Dynamics
03:01 Airsoft Adventures and Outdoor Fun
08:13 Homeschool Groups and Socialization
18:47 Navigating Social Cues and Personal Growth
25:34 Pursuing a Career in Mechanics
35:18 Graduation and Job Search
36:07 College Experience and Trade School
38:27 Networking and Career Growth
43:00 Advice for High School Graduates
55:48 Homeschooling Reflections
01:00:31 Cringey School Dance Memories
01:06:48 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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We're back in the clubhouse with my long-time friend and fellow ex-homeschooler, Derry. Together, we dive into our shared experiences, from meeting at AWANA's to discovering how homeschooling shaped our lives. We discuss the challenges and benefits of being homeschooled, how it impacted our social skills, and the transition to higher education. Derry also shares his insights on living with dyslexia, the importance of parental involvement, and whether he would consider homeschooling his own children. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation about growing up outside the traditional education system.
00:00 Welcome to the Ex Home Schoolers Club
00:10 Childhood Memories and Meeting at AWANA
01:55 Homeschooling Experience and Challenges
10:47 Navigating Social Norms as a Homeschooler
21:47 Dealing with Dyslexia and Academic Struggles
25:14 Homeschooling vs. Public Schooling: A Comparison
26:52 Parental Involvement in Education
28:37 College Experiences and Challenges
33:29 The Joys and Struggles of Homeschooling
42:22 Reflecting on Homeschooling and Future Decisions
48:00 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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I'm honored to welcome Cari, a long-time friend and fellow homeschool alum to the podcast today. We reminisce about our deep-rooted friendship, homeschooling experiences, and the unique challenges we faced growing up. Join us as we discuss typical homeschool days, the importance of community, and their quirky extracurricular activities, such as being on a mime team. Cari highlights her role as the eldest sibling adjusting to a constantly changing homeschool schedule and the creative freedom they had. This episode also explores how homeschooling shaped our adulthood, transitioning to college, career decisions, and the invaluable support from their parents and community.
00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
00:34 Childhood Memories and Friendship
01:42 Homeschooling Experiences
04:34 Unique PE Activities
08:09 The Mime Team Adventures
16:05 Christian Homeschooling Challenges
17:29 Adapting to College Life
25:32 Homeschool Community and Support
29:12 Prom Night Reflections
37:33 Transitioning from Homeschool to College
40:04 Parental Support and Career Choices
51:29 Homeschooling Reflections and Advice
56:21 Homeschool Stereotypes and Friendships
01:00:55 Creative Homeschool Projects
01:05:35 Final Thoughts
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Welcome to the inaugural episode of the Ex-Homeschoolers Club! Join me, your host, Jacob Gooden, as I shares my personal homeschool journey and tackles common myths about homeschooling.
From the challenges at the start to thriving with self-education and extracurricular activities, I'll reveal the realities of being homeschooled.
I'm sharing my thoughts misconceptions around socialization, educational quality, college readiness, religious motivations, and discipline among homeschoolers.
00:00 Welcome to the Ex Homeschoolers Club
00:19 My Homeschool Journey Begins
01:10 Adjusting to Homeschool Life
01:47 College Transition and Self-Reliance
02:49 Myth 1: Socialization
03:50 Myth 2: Extracurricular Activities
05:43 Myth 3: Education Quality
07:16 Myth 4: College Admissions
09:14 Myth 5: Religious Reasons
15:54 Myth 6: Laziness and Discipline
19:06 Conclusion and Season Preview
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Welcome to the Ex-Homeschoolers Club!
I'm Jacob Gooden and I'm excited to start sharing the Good, Bad, and Ugly of growing up a homeschool kid.
Season 1 kicks off on July 24th!
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