The Quiet Out Loud

SCROLL DOWN TO TAKE THE POLL BELOW! By the time of this posting, it has been exactly a month since the Nashville shooting. As usual, time and attention span has moved quickly on. But I think it’s a worthwhile reflection now, after some time has gone by, to analyze how this mass shooting was reacted to by leadership, media and activists over the last several weeks. I’m joined again today by Meseidy Riveria from It’s Meseidy. This is another long conversation. :) We started out saying we weren’t going to talk for 2 hours…oops! We cover a lot of good ground though! And hope you enjoy thinking through this topic with us. Below are a few of the questions we work through.* How was the reaction the same? * How was it different? * What has the response been from activists? * Was the difference in reaction discernible? And why does it matter? * How did we get here? What is the “quiet out loud” here?* How long before a community is no longer considered marginalized?* How have critical theory and intersectionality determined how we are expected to respond differently to tragedies depending on race, religion, or LGBT?Oh. And we’re still waiting on a manifesto.Please give us feedback! Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

Below are the posts from my instagram stories:We should be in constant prayer and petition and geared up with the full armor of God.Here are four ways we can be counter-cultural and live out our Christian faith. * Live at peace in the midst of chaos (Romans 12:8)* Never forsake the truth (John 8:32)* Shake the dust off your feet (Luke 4:14-30 / Matthew 10:14)* Avoid and shun evil (2 Timothy 3)Link to article referenced: https://www.reformation21.org/blog/why-i-no-longer-use-transgender-pronouns-and-why-you-shouldnt-either Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

NOTE: This episode was recorded prior to the tragic Nashville Christian school shooting. We do spend some time in this episode discussing the recently introduced TN legislation.__So excited for today’s conversational episode! This is a much longer episode than my normal ones. Simply because I’m having a real time conversation with a friend.__I'm joined by Meseidy Riveria from @itsmeseidy. We discuss and try to make sense of the need for children to attend drag performances. I hope you not only enjoy the talking points, but also walk away feeling empowered to speak out and have these challenging conversations in your own communities.__Jennifer's Instagram: @jlmock4.0Meseidy's Instagram: @itsmeseidy__Sources / References:Supercut of Christmas drag show in Florida https://twitter.com/LeoKearse/status/1605103768403673088?s=20Chrismas Drag Florida | Screwdolf ssshttps://twitter.com/TPostMillennial/status/1608314605251563520?s=20Parents reacting to Chrismas drag show | https://twitter.com/SaraGonzalesTX/status/1604591203709644800?s=20Drag show for babies | https://twitter.com/CarrieW45580318/status/1632043622886703105?s=20Meseidy Twitter thread on the “Drag ban bill” | https://twitter.com/itsmeseidy/status/1631149479607844865?s=20Virtually nude drag queen with breast walking with child | https://twitter.com/itsmeseidy/status/1631153754601926657?s=20Drag Queen dances for children in Dallas, Texas. | https://twitter.com/isabellarileyus/status/1533160447989497856?s=20Child drag queen | https://twitter.com/libsoftiktok/status/1639266932258906113Our group sent @TaylerUSA on the inside of this all-ages drag brunch. What he found was disgusting: | https://twitter.com/SaraGonzalesTX/status/1616927084261130240?s=20 Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

I’m convinced the more the entertainment tries to disprove or oppose God, the more they reveal Him. The devil cannot put himself center stage without also admitting to God’s existence and ultimate authority.I’ve shared some of this on Instagram, but wanted to recap here as well, for those who don’t necessarily participate much on social media.If you missed the Grammy’s…well don’t worry, so did I. Ha! I honestly can’t even remember the last time I watched a nationally televised awards show. That said, I do usually see or catch some of the aftermath the next day. Whether it be ridiculous fashion choices or the shock over a provocative performance. This event seemed to contain both…lots of gender bending fashion and an extremely provocative song performance by Sam Smith. Let’s quickly recap the song performance so you don’t have to watch it. The song name is “Unholy” and it is performed by two artists, Kim Petra and Sam Smith. While the song Unholy was performed at the Grammy’s, Sam, who identifies now as non-binary and seems to as of late become much more feminine in his appearance and attire, has been in the news recently for a music video to another new song “I’m Not Here to Make Friends”. This video has received much criticism for it’s over the top queer and sexual content. It’s a video full of scantily clad, glamorous drag queens grinding all over each other. I tried to watch it for the sake of this podcast…but couldn’t finish it. I don’t need to watch a transgender sex fantasy being played out on my screen.Kim Petra, who honestly, I’ve never heard of, is apparently a trans woman singer. Who accompanies Sam on their hit track Unholy. So that kind of sets the stage for this Grammy performance…transgenderism is the theme, in case you missed it. I’m not sure how you could, but I just want to be sure.The song Unholy is about a husband and father who leaves his wife and children at home to do something “unholy” - which is apparently visit a transgender strip club/brothel/burlesque show. This is what I can gather from the lyrics and music video clips. And this is what I first want to point out here…by calling this type of activity UNholy, you are admitting the opposite of these actions are in fact HOLY. He could’ve named the song unfaithful or cheater or any number of things. I find the word choice of “holy” fascinating. Because I would agree Sam…being in a faithful, heterosexual marriage is holy ground. Why? Because it’s God-ordained. By choosing to use the word holy, you are choosing to bring God into the conversation. This is the oldest trick in satans book. Make a holy, God fearing life look drab and boring and an unholy life look like a cornucopia of fleshly pleasures.As an interesting side note, he also has a song on his new album called Gloria and sounds like a church choir. Why is he so insistent on bringing God into his music? Is it to mock? Or to trick? The Grammy stage performance of the song Unholy didn’t focus on the story of the lyrics though, rather it was some sort of sexual fetish of a satanic ritual or seance complete with dark lighting, creepy covered faces, solid red outfits, devil horns and contorted dancing in a circle around Sam (who was dressed as a transgender devil) while Kim Petra writhed in a giant bird cage in the distance. And of course, there was fire. You obviously cannot have a depiction of hell without a lake of fire. Satan works so hard to make eternal damnation look so appealing, doesn’t he?Surprisingly, the reporting of this performance has been mostly negative. Which gives me some hope for the world. But outside of the typical shock and horror, what are some takeaways from this event we can glean as Christians? Because it feels like we’re in this lifetime cycle of being shocked by Hollywood, then we move on, then they do something else and we're shocked again, and the cycle just continues. What else can learn from these types of events and how can we use them to point back to God?I’ve been told via Instagram comments, there is nothing to learn. The only appropriate reaction or commentary is one of disdain, horror and rejection. Which I don’t disagree, those are appropriate reactions. This should be publicly called out as an evil performance. Absolutely. But I disagree that we can’t learn from this and use it to point the world to God. Christians could actually learn something from the recent Grammy “performance”. Not in terms of emulation, I’m not suggesting you mimic their actions or behavior or dress or ideologies. But I had this epiphany as I was watching clips from the performance and looking at pics of outfits from the red carpet…and thinking to myself, who would wear this? Who would act like this? Don’t they know how dumb they look? All of America is going to see this and hate it. But then I realized…these people do not care. They don’t care. They are so lost and so sold out and so deceived. These people are openly and unabashedly proclaiming their faith. They are dancing and singing and looking completely stupid for their gods. When was the last time you danced unashamedly before God?When was the last time you gave ZERO cares what others think about your faith and you proclaimed it publicly and loudly for all to see and hear?When was the last time you simply raised your hands in surrender and worship surrounded by fellow believers? Or even ALONE?Because the other side isn’t ashamed.Or afraid. Or quiet. Or private.You know exactly who they bow down to. Can the same be said for you? For me? For us? Is it obvious who I worship and serve?These people are more than willing to be undignified and humiliate themselves for the sake of their gods. God of self, god of money, god of fame & fortune, god of gender…Rather than becoming increasingly steadfast & bold, Christians continue to water down the gospel so that it’s more “attractive.” Meanwhile, the enemy isn’t diluting anything. Quite the opposite actually. It’s becoming more brazen and more bold.Are we as brave, proud and pervasive about our faith as the Hollywood elites and entertainers are about theirs? Or are we scared of being judged or cancelled or called names? Do we water down our faith or do we double down?I would encourage you to look at a few pictures from the Grammy’s. Because this is a representation of the agenda that wants to shut you up. They don’t care about offending you or upsetting you or you laughing at their choices. Stop caring what they think in return. Do not let a man who’s pretending to be girl, dressed in a sequin rainbow jumper designed for a toddler shut you up.So no, I’m not saying copy or act like these people. But I am saying…don’t be embarrassed of God. Don’t be ashamed to worship Him. Stop caring what this crowd thinks of you. Put your dancing shoes on and your pride to the side. YOU have a God WORTHY of praise and worship. Because while that specific performance was demonic, that doesn’t mean music or dancing or celebrating is - when it’s directed at the right audience. Look at the story of David in 2 Samuel‬ ‭6:14-23‬. I read this a few weeks ago and it has been stuck in mind since. Because it was kind of triggering (aka convicting) for me. David becomes king and is bringing the ark back to Jerusalem. “Wearing a linen ephod, David was dancing before the Lord with all his might, while he and all Israel were bringing up the ark of the Lord with shouts and the sound of trumpets.” And what happens next? One of Davids wives sees him and is aghast. She’s embarrassed for him. She then confronts him and chastises him for causing a scene and looking silly basically. Doesn’t he know that he’s a king? This is not how a king should act. And Davids response is so good…he says… “I will celebrate before the Lord. I will become even more undignified than this, and I will be humiliated in my own eyes.” The reason this was convicting to me was because it forced me to ask myself…do I have this heart posture? Or am I embarrassed because I care what other people think? Y’all, I’ve been in church settings where people have suggested to not lift your hands during praise and worship because it will scare the new people…I want to draw a parallel for you between the Grammy performance and David’s dancing. Both could be viewed as “undignified” or humiliating, right? There is a parallel, because it’s not the praise & worship that’s evil…it’s the target of the praise and worship. AND it’s the execution. And there is a parallel because satan is an unoriginal hack. He is not a creator. All he does is take what God says is good and turns inside and out upside down. It sort of looks like what God created, but distorted. And this is why sometimes it’s hard sometimes to discern between good and evil. The Grammy performance wasn’t evil because there was singing and dancing, it was evil because of the target of the worship and the execution through over sexualization, demonic imagery and the distorting of God’s creation of male & female.The Sam Smith Grammy performance points us to God in three ways:One, it demonstrates the Biblical principle that humanity was created to worship. We can’t help but worship, because we were purposefully designed for it. We may not all worship the one true God, but we all bow down to something. It’s perfectly fitting that Madonna just posted a statement in support of the performance and ended it with “bow down **tches.” CBS responded to a Sam Smith tweet about his upcoming performance that they were “ready to worship”. It’s the best when they inadvertently, openly confirm their agenda.Two, it demonstrates the Biblical principle that humanity is fundamentally prone to sin. Even further, it shows when we fail to direct our worship to God and we replace Him with false gods we fall deeper and deeper into degeneracy. Just glance at Sam’s transformation over the years. Three, it confirms the Biblical principle of God’s holiness. The performance was overtly satanic and the song name is “Unholy.” Someth

Ultimately, the enneagram tells you, at your core, you are perfect and in perfect harmony with others and the “cosmos.” You just need to do the inner work of fixing yourself and you will then restore yourself to your inherent perfect state.There is nothing Biblical about this. Only by the blood of Jesus and His work on the cross can you be restored and reconciled to God.“It’s just a personality test.” Fine, then so is astrology. And a ouiji board is just a fun game. And a psychic reading is just helping you prepare for the future.What does the enneagram give you that you couldn’t get from the Bible and the lists if spiritual gifts, fruits of the spirit and sins of the flesh? Is just the pretty package the enneagram comes in? If you are finding more worth in yourself and others around their enneagram number than their spiritual gifts...maybe a red flag? Like why do Christians need to adopt the enneagram lingo? Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

If you would have asked me even just 2 years ago which age group was “deconstructing” their religion I would have said Gen Z. BUT I have realized in the last couple of years, this is actually a big trend among millennials, even elder millennials like myself. It’s not Gen Z deconstructing, it’s Gen Z’s mom.Hair and Skincare QuizGet the Jesus 2024 sweatshirtJOIN THE CONVERSATION IN SUBSTACK Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Exodus‬ ‭14:14‬The Lord will fight for you, yes. But you still need to show up to the battlefield. Which many Christians are not. David showed up. Moses showed up. Noah showed up. Esther showed up. Samson showed up. Mary showed up. Eventually Jonah showed up. “Be still” doesn’t mean disengage, flee, or hide…it means…stand your ground, maintain your position, do not move.Free Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

Right now, we are currently witnessing the deconstruction of gender. And I use the word deconstruct very intentionally. Because I want you to note the things we see in our current society that are attempted to be deconstructed. We have deconstructed marriage. We have deconstructed the nuclear family. Deconstructing your religion has become a popular thing to say you’re doing right now. We’re deconstructing that drag queen performances were once adult only entertainment. And of course, we are deconstructing gender. Gender Skit on InstagramFree Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

Does abortion solve or perpetuate problems for women? Is there any common ground between the pro choice and pro life sides of the debate?Sponsor: Hair & Skincare QuizYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JenniferMockInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jlmock4.0/Free Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

We live in a society where abortion isn’t murder and it hasn’t been treated that way legally or otherwise. It’s treated casually. It’s simply killing off an unwanted part of your body. Like having a mole removed. It’s not significant or meaningful. Or at least that’s what women are told. So I don’t think there is malicious intent there because of societal norms. But something being “normal” doesn’t make it holy.Sponsor: Hair & Skincare QuizFree Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

I think very little to none of what we do in our life is spiritually neutral. We are either furthering God’s kingdom with our actions and words or we are tearing it down. And abortion is no exception. It is not a spiritually neutral topic. Abortion is either building God’s kingdom up or tearing it down. Once you are able to view life this way…as not spiritual neutral, your eyes open to a lot of things going on around you that you might have thought were just no big deal. Now, there are a lot of Christians doing amazing work around the pro-life movement and caring for BOTH babies AND mothers. OK, I’m not saying they’re aren’t, because frankly resources for pregnant women and mothers beyond planned parenthood would be negligible without Churches and Christians. And that is something the mainstream narrative loves to ignore or tear down. They want to pretend they are all for choice, but make the wrong choice, they’ll leave you high & dry or worse yet send you over  to the government for help. - We’re going to touch on that more later. Back to Christians…BUT, there are also a great many of Christians riding the fence on this issue. OR even calling themselves pro-choice Christian or Pro-choice pastors. Which boggles my mind. As there is not one scripture I can think of that supports abortion. Nor does it reflect any Godly or Holy characteristics. IN FACT we see the GOD of the Bible rescuing his people from such practices. There’s some thick wool over a lot of eyeballs.A common sentiment I hear from Christians is "I wouldn’t choose it for me, but who am I to judge or stop someone else. I just need to support and love them.”Haircare, skincare, wellness quiz! Complete and I will text you back about your results!Free Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

I’m going to say something really unpopular now days… this is the quiet out loud…so here we go…the color of your skin doesn’t matter. It’s not the most important thing about you. It’s A thing about you. But I’d argue it’s not even in the top 10 of most important things about you.It’s a physical attribute that holds no bearing, zero, on your worth, on your value, or on your humanity. It doesn’t make you a good or bad person. It doesn’t make you always right or always wrong. It doesn’t hold you back or propel you forward. It does not define you. You are free from the color of your skin. And anyone who tell you otherwise…is a liar.You want to know how I can boldly declare that? Because Jesus! Galations 3:28 - for you are ALL ONE in Christ Jesus.Haircare quizYouTube Skit on CRTFree Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

Feminism, is not a subject we are generally allowed to speak negatively about. If you do, you’ll be accused of harboring internalized misogyny. This type of name calling is a scare tactic. Intended to get shut you up and shut you down. “OH you don’t like feminism? Well, you must hate women.” “Uh, no hun, I don’t hate women…I hate bad ideas that harm women. And I’m capable of separating bad ideas from the women themselves…are you?”As a women you are expected to support and follow suit with the feminist movement no matter where it leads us. Even if it leads us to our own erasure. It’s for your own good. It’s for your best interests!!! Why are you fighting against what’s best for you? That’s what they will tell you. Which is problem #1…Who decides what’s in my best interests? Me? Or feminism?My YouTube skits on what the Bible says about women:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c70hbLHM4uw&list=PLsgDlOIGUKfwgkFodK4XcOvaPVCE3Y5Qn&index=9&t=3shttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lxm9MbBaaWU&list=PLsgDlOIGUKfwgkFodK4XcOvaPVCE3Y5Qn&index=12Additional podcasts on feminism:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/walk-ins-welcome-with-bridget-phetasy/id1437447846?i=1000576471226https://alliebethstuckey.com/2020/03/02/ep-219-why-feminism-will-fail-you/Free Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

This video is an introduction to "The Quiet Out Loud" and what that title means to me. In addition, we start to scratch the surface on ways we were being collectively lied to by the government, big corp, pharma, etc. This episode is designed to get you thinking and set the stage for our future conversations. Thanks for being here!Free Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe

Boobs. Butts. Stomachs. All at once. We weren’t at the beach folks.What happened to balance? Want to show a little leg? Then wear a top with more coverage. Want to show a little chest, then wear a bottom with more coverage. This was all…skin tight, tiny pieces of fabric that were more underwear than clothing. I was embarrassed and uncomfortable FOR these girls. GIRLS. Little girls…not grown women…but children…YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JenniferMockFree Hair & Skin Consult Get full access to the Quiet Out Loud with Jennifer Mock at jennifermock.substack.com/subscribe