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On today's episode Crystal helps us understand why hard things or hard times come into our life. We first talk about the ways we handle those times. She gives us 5 different reasons/possibilities we are facing those hard times or hard things that come into our life.  First, We are in a spiritual battle. Second, God allows that hard thing to come in our life. We see this in Job's life. Third,  By our own doing, by own choices, Jonah is a perfect example. Fourth, We reap what others sowed. As children we reap what our parents sowed. Fifth, Life is just so darn hard. In this life we will have troubles. The next time something hard comes into your life or if you find yourself in a hard situation right now.  Ask God to reveal to you. ·       God why has this hard thing, or hard time come into my life? ·       God which of these 5 reasons is it? Is it any of these reasons at all?  ·       Write down what God reveals to you in your journal.·       Pray over what God reveals to you.    God loves us in our running days, and in our not so running days too. ·       This too shall pass, & brighter days are ahead.·       No Thing is too hard for God.And don't just listen—run on over and join the No More Running email list info@crystalloyd.com and share a five-star podcast review.Join the newly added No More Running Private Facebook group. Would you like to do some one-one Coaching with Crystal, email her at info@crystalloyd.com and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram https://www.instagram.com/crystalloyd2/#Music By:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: HA7PD16JS2TQHPKASupport the show

I still remember the night I whispered a childish prayer for my future husband, never imagining the profound journey it would spark—a journey that led me to confront my deepest fears and finally say, 'No More Running.' In a candid sharing of my story, we walk through the transformative power of facing God's callings head-on, inspired by Mary the mother of Jesus. As I open up about once dreading the thought of marrying a preacher, you'll see how my tale weaves into the broader tapestry of embracing divine assignments with courage.This episode is a heartfelt rally cry for those of us who've felt the pull to run when our purpose becomes clear. By examining how Mary's faith during her visitation and subsequent blessing from Elizabeth bolstered her resolve, we'll uncover the strength that comes from steadfast belief in God's plan. It's more than a personal narrative; it's a supportive guide for women wrestling with their potential, offering a glimpse into an exciting new venture designed to coach and uplift. Join me, Crystal Loyd, as we transition from avoidance to engagement, stepping confidently into the roles we're called to fulfill with trust and belief.Music by:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: 8UZEEOLKPDIOU0MXSupport the show

When Chrystal Cuellar speaks, her words carry the weight of lived experience—a beacon of hope for anyone struggling with the grasp of alcohol. Her story, one of raw transformation and unwavering faith, shapes the core of our latest conversation. As an alcohol and accountability coach, Chrystal's mission is to guide women through the murky waters of binge drinking into a life of purpose and sobriety. Her own journey to freedom, deeply intertwined with her Christian faith, offers not just inspiration, but a tangible pathway for those seeking to reclaim their lives from addiction's hold.Navigating the tumultuous journey to sobriety requires more than sheer willpower; it demands a heartfelt alignment of one's actions with their most profound beliefs and goals. In our heart-to-heart with Chrystal, we uncover the silent battles many face behind closed doors. Through her coaching, she offers a lifeline—grounded in Christ's teachings—by helping others build resilience, set boundaries, and create habits that nurture a sober mindset. Her approach is about transformation, not just abstinence, recognizing every individual's need for a personalized path to recovery.As we wrap up our time with Chrystal, it's clear that her message isn't just about saying no to alcohol—it's an invitation to join a community dedicated to growth, accountability, and spiritual fulfillment. You can connect with Chrystal through the links below. She is currently promoting the Made to Reign Membership https://www.facebook.com/groups/236895490772641/?ref=share_group_link or https://www.tiktok.com/@chrystal.cuellar?_t=8jSKZZscGDu&_r=1 Music by:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: 8UZEEOLKPDIOU0MXSupport the show

When Julie Seals stepped into the courtroom, shackled and facing life imprisonment, she experienced a moment of surrender unto God that would redefine her entire existence. This episode journeys with Julie as she shares the presence of Jesus during her darkest hour, setting her soul free despite the physical bars around her. Our conversation doesn't just recount the miraculous reduction of her sentence, but it beats with the promise of hope she clung to, a hope that would eventually lead her to touch the lives of many from behind and beyond her former prison walls.As we wrap up this transformative episode,  from inmate to international speaker and author of "All My Hope: A Prisoner No More" stands as a beacon to those still navigating their darkest times. We extend an invitation to our listeners to connect and share their own narratives of hardship and healing, reinforcing our belief in the strength found in collective testimonies.You can connect with Julie at  Home - Julie Seals,  Julie Seals Ministries, you can purchase her book, "All my Hope, a prisoner No More. through her website New Book - Julie Seals or through Amazon as well. You can also give to the ministry Give - Julie Seals  and even purchase a book for a prisoner.  She is also on Facebook-, and Instagram @julie_sealsMusic by:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: 8UZEEOLKPDIOU0MXSupport the show

Have you ever caught yourself running away from a challenge, only to realize that what you're avoiding could be your greatest opportunity for growth? That's exactly where I found myself, trading the comfort of a banking career for the uncertainty of following my true calling. This episode of No More Running is a heart-to-heart about taking courageous leaps toward intentional living and spiritual alignment. Hear my story as we tackle the pressing need to embrace life's difficulties and uncover the transformative power of faith and intention in overcoming them.What needs to be cut off or pruned in your life, in your 2024? What needs to go in your life? Sometimes the old needs to be cut off to make way for the new in your life. Maybe at one time it did bear fruit but now it doesn’t and it’s causing you to die mentally/to die spiritually/to die financially, to die more and more every day. Maybe there is something that God is waiting for you to cut out/off to give you something better, because he has a better plan. Expect to leave this episode with a renewed spirit, ready to let some things go,  and cut off the things that are standing in between you and God. Follow us on Instagram @https://www.instagram.com/crystalloyd2/# and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ or the Facebook private No More Running group https://www.facebook.com/groups/804404884492358/Music by:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: PTEXVP0JIPBHLDFWSupport the show

Join us for today's episode, where I bring on finance powerhouse Angela Duncan. The #1 best selling author of Empower your Money, 101 Simple ways for Female entrepreneurs to create financial freedom. And CEO & founder of Empower your money podcast. Angela & my story are a lot alike we both have overcome our childhood abuse and poverty. She shares her story with us on this episode. How she gave her life to God and what helped her to stop running. She also shares the light on the life-altering influence of financial literacy, the thrill of budget-friendly living, and the value of persistence in rewriting one's financial narrative.Picture your household engaging in playful no-spend day contests and your children eagerly saving for their dreams—this episode transforms those images into achievable realities. We're adopting straightforward yet potent strategies to reframe our financial habits, inspired by the insights from Angela Duggan's book "Empower Your Money." As I share my family's experiences, to smart saving, we unpack the joy that comes from budgeting for happiness and the importance of open money conversations. The wisdom imparted in this episode isn’t just about scrimping and saving; it’s about crafting an abundant lifestyle that's rich in experiences but not burdened by excess.As we wrap up, Angela Duncan is thrilled to announce the launch of a vibrant financial journal, designed to inspire and simplify your financial journey. Whether you're just starting out or seeking to enhance your financial wisdom, this episode is a wellspring of resources and encouragement. So, take off your running shoes and join us on this transformative path to financial empowerment, you won't be disappointment.You can connect with Angela Duncan through the links below. And don't forget to run on over to amazon and grab her book, Empower your Money. https://linktr.ee/empowerhermoney, www.EmpowerHERmoney.com , Listen HERE to Empower HER Money Podcast Music by:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: YSPNQNXYJBVAM4ZISupport the show

I have some plans for 2024, goals, new year’s resolutions, whatever you want to call them. Have you made any plans for 2024? I have been guilty of leaving God out completely. Making my own plans then asking God to get on board with them and to bless and show his favor on them, my plans, not God's plan. Before going into more of 2024, Stop and Ask God what is his details for your life, work, marriage, family, podcast, business ect.... What are the plans that you want to share with me? And when you share those with me, I pray I walk (not run) those out down to the very smallest of details. God give me wisdom and disciple to make those plans so.  God gave Noah the details on how to build the Ark "This is how you are to build it" Gen. 6:15 Crystal gives you 3 reasons why God gave Noah the details on how to build the Ark. Gen. 6:8&9 Crystal gives us a prayer to pray for our 2024 and if you would like that prayer email her at info@crystalloyd.com and she will send that right over. And don't just listen—run on over and join the No More Running email list and share a five-star podcast review.Join the newly added No More Running Facebook group. Would you like to do some one-one Coaching with Crystal, email her at info@crystalloyd.com and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram @crystalloyd2Music from:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: C3PZTADJYYMWOB9DSupport the show

Have you ever felt like a horse tied so tight that you can't move? Perhaps you're running from something, and you're not even sure what it is. This episode features an enlightening conversation with Brenna, a woman who found herself in a similar situation. She reveals how, in her darkest times, she found hope in God's love and how this faith led her through her personal challenges to a place of surrender, understanding, and renewed purpose. Listen as she courageously shares her journey of overcoming sin and self-doubt and how she found redemption and a deeper relationship with God.Fast forward to her ministry life where she walks side by side with her husband, Garrett. The road hasn't always been smooth sailing, but their faith has played an instrumental role in their healing journey. Brenna opens up about the acceptance they found in the church, the challenges they faced, and the profound impact of their faith on their healing process. Their story of forgiveness, redemption, and love is a testament to the potential for healing and restoration in all our lives. So, if you're seeking comfort, looking for hope or just need a reminder of the power of faith, this episode is a must-listen.To learn more about Brenna Naufel's story and her book, From Lover to Beloved, visit her website at www.fromlovertobeloved.com (there are some additional resources on this site as well)Please follow on Instagram @brennanaufelEnjoy my etsy shop - https://www.etsy.com/shop/SkippingLikeaCalf (SAVE 20% with code NOMORERUNNING) Also, here is a direct link to my book on Amazon if you are interested in checking it out! Support the show

Today, on No More Running, we pull back the curtain as we journey through a deeply personal and transformative story of faith, sin, and redemption. Join us as Brenna, a pastor's wife, offers a raw and candid account of her life, detailing her journey from a sense of enslavement by sin to the liberating power of God's grace. Gifted with remarkable transparency, Brenna paints a vivid picture of finding joy and freedom in surrendering to God amidst personal trials.In a riveting conversation, Brenna reveals a chapter of her life where she was entangled in a five-year affair. It's a gritty tale of the human struggle with sin, but it's also a story about the power of honesty, faith, and the road to recovery. Through her ordeal, Brenna eventually musters the courage to admit her wrongs to her husband, setting off a chain of events that would pave the way for healing and forgiveness.In the concluding segment, we tread the path of forgiveness and healing with Brenna. She unveils the transformative aftermath of immediate forgiveness, her dedication to truth, and the unyielding support from her church community. If you've ever felt ensnared in your own mistakes and yearned for a glimmer of hope, Brenna's journey serves as a heartening reminder that grace and redemption are always within reach. Buckle up and join us in this powerful episode of No More Running, as we explore the beauty of second chances and redemption.To learn more about Brenna Naufel's story and her book, From Lover to Beloved, visit her website at www.fromlovertobeloved.com (there are some additional resources on this site as well)Please follow on Instagram @brennanaufelEnjoy my etsy shop - https://www.etsy.com/shop/SkippingLikeaCalf (SAVE 20% with code NOMORERUNNING) Also, here is a direct link to my book on Amazon if you are interested in checking it out! Support the show

Ever been so caught up in daily life that you feel like you're running from God? I've been there, and in this episode, I share my personal journey of overcoming distractions that deterred me from focusing on my spiritual growth. You'll hear how I went from running from God to embracing His purpose in my life. Through my experiences, I hope to provide a relatable narrative and thought-provoking prayer sessions to inspire you to surrender, stop running and partner with God for great achievements.Besides, I'll share some practical tips on creating a successful quiet time with God. Remember how setting aside intentional time, choosing a place, and limiting distractions can transform your spiritual journey? Well, I will walk you through it using my personal experiences. I promise you, it's not as difficult as it may seem. This episode also includes my experiences of leading a Bible study, dealing with interruptions, and navigating distractions. Plus, as a bonus, I have a free 20-minute coaching session offer waiting for you on my website. So, tune in and let's grow spiritually together.And don't just listen—join the No More Running email list and share your thoughts with a podcast review!Join the newly added No More Running Facebook group. Would you like to do some one-one Coaching with Crystal? You can go to www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram @crystalloyd2Support the show

In today's episode the topic is do it afraid.  Zip lining that's where my journey to conquering fear began, standing on a platform high above the ground, ready to zip-line. I, Crystal Loyd, am thrilled to recount my personal battle with fear and the victorious moment of conquering it. Get ready to walk down the memory lane as my husband, Kenny, and I share our experience - the hesitation, the tears, and the ultimate triumph. But the story doesn't end there. Inspired by my personal journey, we go deeper into the concept of doing It afraid. I share my insights about pushing beyond comfort zones to achieve your dreams. Be it starting a podcast, preaching, teaching, or sharing your story, this episode is a nudge towards that leap of faith. Immerse yourself in this heartfelt conversation and discover the courage within yourself as well. So, let's embark on this journey of conquering fear together.Was I still afraid? Heck Yes the whole time. But it doesn’t matter how you start, it’s how you finish. Sometimes God calls us to do some things in this life and you might have to do it afraid and with anxiety. God will be with us each step of the way and with God all things are possible. Even finishing a level 1 zip-lining. And don't just listen—join the No More Running email list and share your thoughts with a podcast review!Join the newly added No More Running Facebook group. Would you like to do some one-one Coaching with Crystal? You can go to www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram @crystalloyd2Music by:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: KAOVL1LCG9KKZLTJSupport the show

Have you ever felt like you're stuck in a job that doesn't fulfill you, but you're too scared to take the leap of faith towards your dream? Our guest, Ashley Spurgeon, a former teacher turned successful entrepreneur, did exactly that. She took a leap of faith and transitioned from a secure teaching job to launching her successful retail shop, Uptown Merch. Ashley's journey wasn't easy, but with creativity and resourcefulness, she managed to turn used items from closing stores and yard sales into treasures for her shop. And beyond just the business aspect, Ashley found a way to offer meaningful connections to her customers, shaping her store into a hub of support and prayer for those who were struggling.Ashley's faith played a monumental role in her entrepreneurial journey. She shares, in humbling detail, how she believes God guided her steps, from leading her to the store to helping her realize her purpose. Aligning your purpose and profit with divine guidance can open doors to unexpected opportunities, Ashley assures. Inspired by the verse Jeremiah 29:11, Ashley emphasizes the importance of trusting that there are plans to prosper you and give you hope and a future. If you're feeling stuck or if your heart is being shifted by the Lord towards a new direction, Ashley's story is a testament that you should take the next step and never give up.You can connect with Ashley on www.uptownmerch.com and Facebook-Uptown Merch or email her at shopuptownmerch@gmail.com and Instagram @Shop_Uptown_MerchJoin the newly added No More Running Facebook group. Would you like to do some one-one Coaching with Crystal? You can go to www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram @crystalloyd2Music By:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: ERKJ2V7UTGMGILAYSupport the show

Have you ever yearned for a major shift in your life, but fear of the unknown held you back? Perhaps my good friend, Ashley, can inspire you. After years of being a dedicated teacher, Ashley took a leap of faith and embarked on an exciting entrepreneurial journey. In our heart-to-heart chat, she unravels the complexities of this transition, painting a vivid picture of her transformation from a professional educator to a successful businesswoman.Today, Ashley opens up about her daunting journey, filled with challenges and unexpected blessings. She shares with us how a forced break from teaching due to surgery became an unforeseen turning point in her life. This was the moment when she took the bold step of  making the business plan come to life. Delving into the origins of her unique store name and the perfect selection of its location, Ashley takes us down memory lane, reminiscing about the unforgettable event she attended with her family that is essentially linked to her store's name.In part one, we journey with Ashley through her transition story, from making the difficult decision to leave teaching, to facing the inherent risks, and finally achieving her business goals. We explore the importance of a unique business name, and how Ashley's choice mirrors her entrepreneurial journey. Ashley's story is a testament to the concept of 'No More Running.' She followed her heart and plunged into her passion, demonstrating that it's never too late to change your path. This inspirational tale of courage, resilience, and determination is definitely one you don't want to miss!You can connect with Ashley on www.uptownmerch.com and Facebook-Uptown Merch or email her at shopuptownmerch@gmail.com and Instagram @Shop_Uptown_MerchWould you like to do some one-one Coaching with Crystal? You can go to www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram @crystalloyd2Music By:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: GNARGMTZEWOMTTPLSupport the show

I wanted to share an interview that I did on the Weeds, Seeds, & Beautiful Things podcast. It's my story, the in's and the out's.  It's messy, it's ugly, it's my running story. How far would you go to escape the hard truths and challenges in your life? Well, I ran all the way from God and the good things in life, hiding behind a lifestyle of partying and drinking, and in the process neglecting the divine call I was receiving. It's time we had a frank discussion about our tendencies to avoid confronting the realities of life, and in this episode, I do just that with my dear friend, Connie, from Weed Seeds and Beautiful Things.We talk about my journey of self-discovery and acceptance, and the transformation that took place after I stopped running from God's call. The story of how I found a different path with the help of a small church and a loving youth pastor is one that I hold close to my heart. My past experiences, however painful, had helped shape my calling, and it was time to face it head-on. Join us as we navigate through my trials and tribulations, taking a closer look at the importance of understanding and accepting God's plan for us, regardless of our circumstances.In this deeply personal narrative, we also explore my calling to help women going through similar experiences. Despite my initial reluctance, I realized that my hardships had a purpose: to guide women towards overcoming their abuse and finding their purpose in life. This is a testament to the fact that, regardless of what we go through, God has a plan for us, and it is always good. So let's take off our running shoes and embrace His calling, trusting in the bigger picture He has painted for us. No more running, let's face life, and its challenges, head-on.If you are interested in the Weeds Seeds & Beautiful Things you can follow them on Instagram and you can connect with the host, Constance (Connie) Lawson at www.weedsseedsbeautifulthings.com Would you like to do some one-on-one coaching with Crystal? You can go to www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram @crystalloyd2Music By:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: P8RZUPQLPVG5FFJCSupport the show

Ever felt stuck in a cycle of disappointment, hurt, and struggle? This episode will have you finding companionship in the story of an anonymous woman, who, for twelve agonizing years, wrestled with an incurable illness. As we navigate the paths of her journey through scripture in Luke 8:42-48 and Mark 5:21-24, we will connect with her pain, her persistence, and ultimately, her unwavering faith in the healing power of Jesus. Known only by her illness, this woman's determination led her to Jesus, cutting through societal norms and legalities. Can you imagine the desperation that fueled her strength? Let's venture together through her story as we discuss the importance of bringing our own struggles to Jesus, allowing Him a chance to intervene in our lives. We'll contemplate why Jesus chose to reveal her healing publicly, turning a personal victory into a public testimony. Finally, we'll draw inspiration from her courage and unyielding faith, using her story as a beacon of hope in our own lives. Recognizing that our faith, regardless of its size, can be potent enough to spark healing, just like the woman who was brave enough to reach out to Jesus. Embark on this journey of faith and healing with us. Don't forget to subscribe to our email list and leave a review for our podcast. Let's stop running and start healing, together.Would you like to do some one-on-one coaching with Crystal? You can go to www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and connect with her on No More Running Facebook and Instagram @crystalloyd2Music By:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: R7AQGYXR2VIVQYG1Support the show

On today's episode our guest is Sandra Jones from Commerce, Texas. Sandra is the owner operator of J Designs in Brashear, Texas. Sandra and I met through our friend Jackie Hayden. Sandra is a busy women, she is involved in so many ministries; jail ministry, prison ministry, street ministry, speaking events sharing her story of sexual abuse, failed marriages and wanted her life to be over. She could relate to the women who was abused, who have commented adulty, who drank alcohol, lying, thieving this is the woman that Sandra was in her past. She found herself pregnant at the age of 16 and by 32 years of age she had been through 3 failed marriages she had put herself in a self-inflicted prison and thought she couldn't do this life anymore then she found herself with a gun in her hand, screaming out and this is where God found her. God told her I can heal you. She then had to start the process of forgiveness and being honest with her children and sharing her past with her husband. God told Sandra; I have much plan for you. God had to break her to be able to pick her back up. She no longer carries the titles of abused, adulty, thieving, liar. God has given her new titles; a daughter, sister, mother, wife, minister, grandmother, founder of a ministry, a daughter of the most high God. She is now 65 years old, and God is opening doors of opportunity to share her story. She encourages all women to open their hearts and let God break those chains in their life. She loves the verse 2 Cor. 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come. The old has gone, the new is here! If you are interested in Sandra coming to your ladies event you can contact her at www.sandrajonesspeaks.com The Inspiration for Your Event Words of Encouragement and Motivation. You can also connect with her on Facebook, & Instagram @jdesigns2121 and contact her through her business, J Designs. And you can email her sandrajonesspeaks@gmail.comMusic By:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: XR36SIRBEWIKIOQCSupport the show

On today's episode we welcome Maggie McNally Executive Director of Safe Harbor of the Smokies Child Advocacy Center. Safe Harbor was founded in 2005. Safe Harbor serves 4 counties in the Smoky Mountain area, and they include Sevier, Jefferson, Cocke and Granger counties. They work with children that have experienced severe child abuse, sexual abuse, severe physical abuse, severe neglect, trafficking or who have witnessed a violent crime. Part of their mission statement is to provide hope and healing. Striving to do just that every day with the children that they work with. They work with children as young as 2 years old until they are 18 years old. Maggie teaches us that 1-4 girls and 1-13 boys are abused. Safe Harbor offers counseling, court hearing support and so much more, they are with the children every step of the process. Safe Harbor offers free child abuse prevention training for the community, your group/s and churches as well.  Teaching and training on how to look out for abuse. Teaching and training how to recognize it. Teaching and training how to respond to abuse as well. And how it is so very important to believe them when the child comes to you and tells you that abuse has occurred and reached out for help. Everything that Safe Harbor does or offers is free to the community. She shares their greatest need is a new building to meet the growing needs of the center. Their short time goals are making sure they have snacks available when the children & the family come to them. They have two events in July 2023; shooting for a Better tomorrow and Fun & Safety day back to school bash, giving away free backpacks while supplies last to the community. Please visit their website at www.safeharborcac.com for their upcoming events, more information on these events and to sign up for their  newsletter. If you would like to donate toward helping the center reach their goal of a new building, you can visit their website and donate at www. safeharborcac.com/donate. If you need help or you know someone who needs help please reach out to Safe Harbor or the host of No More Running at www.crystalloyd.comMusic By:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: LPKBL67KUKCKR1XWSupport the show

On today's episode we welcome back our guest Jackie Hayden. We continue our open and honest, heartfelt conversation about our hurt while in the ministry. We start out at looking at Jer. 20:5 and feeling like the Lord had deceived us. We knew we were called in the ministry but didn't sign up for the hurt. Ministry has a way of giving us many surprise some good and some bad. And when the hurt happens to you, you are blind sighted. The hurt is so devastating and rejected by what you thought was your people and you feel like an outcast and like you have leprosy. Hurt in the ministry can make you feel like you are no longer wanted or needed. Jackie shares during those times that she probably wasn't where she needed to be in her Christian walk. She realizes there is a lot more to church than just showing up at church and praying with someone. There is a difference in telling someone how to get their healing but believing God can and will in your own life. She shares how she suppressed all the hurt. But God called her to go fishing and to dig up her past to be able to use those things in your past to help other pastor's wives. She realizes it's a choice to come out of the hurt and now refuses to stay in the hurt. Jackie shares some advice to help other women and pastor's wife who may have been or are going through hurt right now in the ministry.First, Get alone seek the Lord. Second, Dig into God's word. Third, seek out someone who you can trust to talk to. Fourth, pray for yourself, healing for your heart. She wants those that listen to remember that Satan is the master of lies. You can reach out to Jackie Hayden at www.jackiehaydenspeaks.com or on Facebook. If you would like to sign up for my email list, email me at info@crystalloyd.com If you are ready to go from running to no more running in this life, I'm a life coach and would love to work with you, let's work together. Run over to my website www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and sign up for a free 20-minute session. You can connect with me on Instagram @crystalloyd2 and on the No More Running Facebook page.#healing #hardstory #faithstrong #yestogod #christianhome #christianparenting #motherhood #parentingadvice #womenincrisis #mothersincrisis #growninginthelord #shespeaks#healinghearts #love#christianwomen#christian #faith#womenoffaith#christianwoman#proverbs31woman #womenofgod#womenoffaith #jesus #bible#faith #momlife #womenMusic by:Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: RJLLOAV6HWMCWOZTSupport the show

Part-1, On today's episode our guest is Jackie Hayden from Gladewater Texas. We meet through Mary R Snyder in the Facebook group Take the Stage Speakers. When we shared our stories within the group on the same day, we knew our hurts where a lot alike and connected right away. Jackie shares her story of hurt in the ministry as a pastor's wife. She shares how she overcame that hurt & refuses to stay in that hurt with Jesus by her side. Her and her pastor husband have been marriage 48 years and been in the ministry together for 43 years. They pastored very successful churches throughout their years in the ministry. Until that day came in 2012 and everything changed when they were asked to leave the church they were with for 12 years with no explanation as to why or what they did wrong. Then had two days to clean out his office. She questions if this is what God wants or what people want? Felt betrayed and hurt by God's people.  It ruined them financially then lead them to file bankruptcy. They struggled for hers. They spent 7 years without a church home. Wondered why isn't God using us? Had God forgotten about us? While talking to her cousin she was sharing her bitterness, anger & hurt with her. And her cousin asked her a question, Is God enough? The question opened her eyes, and ears spiritually. Is God enough? She realized that yes God is enough. And the hurt was an opportunity for God to work in her heart, and her life and God would work things out his way. She had forgotten that God was her strength. She had forgotten that God was her joy. And God restores her heart, and her joy. She clings to Jer. 29:11, Ps. 42:11. Jackie has helped to start a ministry network for other pastor's wife to be together and a safe place for them  to share in her area.  And now shares her story at ladies events and offers life coaching to other women and pastor's wife. God put her on a new path in this life and is doing everything she can to help women on their path in life. Jackie would love to share her story at your next lady's event. She is available to speak to your women,  and ministers’ wives in your area, how with Jesus she won the victory over hurt as a pastor's wife. You can connect with her at www.jackiehaydenspeaks.com or on Facebook.Next week we share part-2 of Jackie's story make sure to listen, like and share. And please leave a review so we can help other women and other pastor's wives as well. If you would like to sign up for my email list, email me at info@crystalloyd.com And if you are ready to go from running to no more running let's work together. I am a life coach and would love to work with you. Run over to my website www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and sign up for a free 20-minute session. You can connect with me on Instagram @crystalloyd2 and on the No More Running Facebook page.  #healing #hardstory #faithstrong#yestogod #christianhome #christianparenting#motherhood #parentingadvice #womenincrisis #mothersincrisis #growninginthelord #shespeaks#healinghearts #love#christianwomen #christian#faith #womenoffaith#christianwoman #proverbs31woman#womenofgod #womenoffaith#jesus #bible #women Music :Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: SOIFMOJBDS39WNAHSupport the show

This is part two of Jonah the runner. If you haven't listened to episode #8, I encourage you to go back and listen to it as well. On today's episode we are going to look again at Jonah, the perfect example as a runner. We know that Jonah has run, and that he put his running shoes on and took off in the opposite direction of what the Lord has instructed him. Then we look at Jonah 1:4 And we see here that because of Jonah's running, then the Lord sent a great wind on the sea, and such a violent storm arose that the ship threatened to break up. When we choice to run away from God we cause God-violent storms to come into our life. Then we start the blame game. We blame God, God why did you do this? We blame our husbands, we blame our children, we blame our parents. It's not always God's fault, or our husbands, our children, or even our parents, or family’s fault. However, when we run Satan loves when we are disobedient. He will have a hand in it. He is like yes, this is great, don't do it, run fast hard, keep running. How darn God ask this of you anyway. When we are disobedient and run, we do the work for Satan, and he loves it. God uses storms in our lives to get our attention. I give you three points here in today's episode. First know this when we choice to run away from God we cause God-violent storms to come into our life. God loves chasing rebels and will come after us. Do keep in mind when we run, we are not the only ones who suffer from our storms. Maybe it's our children, our marriages, our parents, our church families and even strangers that suffer because of our disobedience. Because of our choices. Second ask God, Did I cause this storm by running, by my disobedience, by my choices I have made?  If in fact you have caused this storm in your life. Third we need to repent. Ask God to forgive us and turn and run toward God and what he has instructed for us to do, to go, to be. David is a perfect example of when we sin and how we should repent, read Psalm 51 David confesses to God for I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against you, you only have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight. He asks God to create in him a pure heart. I know that I want to go from running to no more running. Let's look at Acts 13:22 God chooses David a man after his own heart; he will do everything I want him to do. I know I want to be more like David a woman after God's own heart and do everything God wants me to do.  I pray today will be the day that you choose to stop running and surrender. Ok God NO MORE RUNNING, I SURRENDER.   If you are ready to go from running to no more running let’s work together, I am a life coach and would love to work with you. Run over to my website www.crystalloyd.com and click on coaching and sign up to do some life coaching with me. You can connect with me on Instagram @crystalloyd2 and Facebook at No More Running page. If you would like to sign up for my email list, email me at info@crystalloyd.com  I'm excited to announce that you can now support No More Running-podcast. Click on the link provided https://www.buzzsprout.com/2044718/supporters/new and start giving today. Thank you for your generous gift, may God bless you.   #healinghearts #love #christianwomen #christian #faith #womenoffaith #proverbs31women #womenofgod #Jesus #bible #faith #nomorerunningmusic byMusic from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/ben-johnson/the-closer-we-feelLicense code: 9DJCBPIV3CRF0UXPSupport the show