Queen of Swords

Welcome to the Queen of Swords podcast, where we dive into the mystical world of relationships and self-discovery with a dash of humor and a pinch of wisdom. I'm your host, Eva, and today, we've brewed up an enchanting episode for you: it's our October Listener Q&A!In this episode, we're serving up answers to 8 thought-provoking questions straight from our fabulous listeners. From long-distance love conundrums to navigating the treacherous waters of cheating, we're unpacking the heart's mysteries. Feeling like the dating scene has gone dry, or maybe your relationship has lost its spark? We've got insights and advice to reignite that fire.Join us as we explore these real-life relationship dilemmas and provide you with practical, down-to-earth advice while keeping our signature friendly and approachable vibe intact. We believe in fostering connections, and we're here to help you find your path, whether you're single, taken, or somewhere in between.So, grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and let's embark on this insightful journey together. Remember, love and life are full of twists and turns, but the Queen of Swords is here to guide you with a dash of humor, a pinch of wisdom, and a ton of heart. Tune in to our October Listener Q&A and let's navigate these intriguing matters of the heart together. Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Ever felt like you're left in the dark, grappling with the unsettling silence of someone who was once a constant part of your conversations? Well, you're not alone in this eerie landscape of modern dating known as 'Ghosting.' This episode of Queen of Swords, hosted by yours truly, Eva, brings light to the murky corners of this phenomenon. We delve into the minds of both the ghosters and the ghosted to explore the emotional and psychological impacts of this baffling behavior.From insightful surveys to relatable stories and practical advice, we're going to take a much-needed deep dive into the world of ghosting. We bring to you some surprising reasons why people ghost and the contrasting perceptions of men and women about this practice. Moreover, we discuss the emotional turmoil the ghosted experience, including effects on self-esteem and the triggering of feelings such as depression and anxiety. So, strap in for this soul-searching journey, as we aim to better equip you to navigate the choppy waters of modern dating.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

I've walked through the fire and emerged on the other side, stronger and wiser. I was married for 11 years, and when it ended, I had to navigate the pain, guilt, relief, and the daunting task of rebuilding my life. In this personal journey, I unmask the emotional toll of divorce, likening it to grieving a loved one's death, and uncover the hidden opportunities for self-discovery and growth amidst the heartbreak. Together, we'll explore my journey from the anguish of a broken marriage to the exhilaration of rediscovering love.In the aftermath of my divorce, I was forced to rebuild my self-esteem and trust, not just in others but in myself too. I’ll share how I set small goals and celebrated each achievement, slowly restoring my confidence. We’ll also delve into the anxiety of dipping your toes back into the dating world, while maintaining open communication and setting healthy boundaries. In the final segment, I offer lessons from my dating adventures, the importance of humor, and self-care in navigating the complex world of modern relationships. So buckle up, grab a cup of tea, and join me on this rollercoaster ride of rediscovering love and self after divorce.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Are you ready to brave the world of online dating? But, hold on, how can you craft a magnetic dating profile that draws the right people towards you? This episode of Queen of Swords is your roadmap to navigating the vast universe of online romance, loaded with real-life stories and practical advice. We reveal the joys, challenges, and a few unexpected twists you might encounter as you journey from crafting your profile to going on your very first date. Now, imagine yourself typing out that first message, your heart pounding with excitement and a touch of fear. How do you initiate a conversation that sparks interest and keeps it? We've got you covered! Tune in as we break down the do's and don'ts of using emojis, being authentic, and taking safety precautions for that first meeting. We also tackle common pitfalls like ghosting and how to avoid them. Plus, we'll be answering your questions and addressing your concerns in our upcoming episodes. So, brace yourself for an exhilarating ride through the digital landscape of love!Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Ready to supercharge your love life? Then you won't want to miss this exploration of value conversations - the secret sauce that fuels 90% of the most enduring love stories. Eva, your host, takes you on an enlightening journey where you'll discover how this powerful communication tool can help you understand your partner’s core beliefs and turn disagreements into opportunities for growth. Plus, for those couples who get cozy with routine value chats, there's a 35% increased likelihood of being totally stoked about their relationship. Who wouldn't want that?We don't just stop at introducing the magic of value conversations, we walk you through the critical topics that can make or break relationships. How often should you communicate with your partner? Do you understand their love language? How do you navigate family conflicts? We dig deep into these questions and even dive into adventure preferences, financial philosophies, personal growth, humor, spirituality, religion, ambitions, and social lives. This is your comprehensive guide to fortifying your relationship with meaningful dialogues.Finally, we equip you with practical tips to navigate value conversations effectively. You'll learn how to create a safe space, employ active listening, and manage differences. From real-life success stories to empowering your dating game, this episode is packed with all the wisdom you need to keep the flame of love burning bright. Understand how to approach challenging topics, maintain an open and honest dialogue, and practice self-care to stay resilient through the highs and lows of love. So, come along and discover what makes hearts race and relationships thrive.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Do you ever wonder why past experiences and childhood memories seem to shape the level of trust in your relationships? We're pulling back the curtains on the complex world of trust, exploring how our past, and even social media and technology, influence our ability to trust others. This episode of Queen of Swords is not just a conversation; it's an adventurous exploration into the art of trust in relationships. We'll stimulate your mind with insightful discussions on the origin of trust issues and their ripple effect in relationships, coupled with practical strategies for rebuilding and strengthening trust.Bear witness to how open communication, understanding and compromise can transform your relationships and help you overcome trust hurdles. Our vibrant Q&A session is bursting with real queries from listeners like you, making our discussion all the more relatable. We're committed to empowering you with knowledge, boosting your confidence, and guiding you to trust your instincts, even after past mistakes. So gear up, as we venture into the captivating realm of human connections, offering you empowering dating and relationship advice. Join us as we unravel the nitty-gritty of trust, its importance in maintaining healthy relationships, and how it can become a slippery slope when ignored.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Curious about how digital communication is shaping modern love stories? You'll surely find our latest episode enlightening. We promise to offer you a comprehensive understanding of the role of digital channels in romantic relationships, their pros and cons, and how to navigate around potential pitfalls. We're not stopping at just texts and emails.  Amidst stories of surprise love notes and shared virtual explorations, we'll also spill the beans on how to resolve conflicts constructively through digital channels. But it's not all about the digital world - we recognize the importance of real-world connections, and share tips on balancing digital and face-to-face interactions.We bring you stories from couples who have mastered the art of digital communication in their relationships. Filled with real-life experiences and practical tips, this episode serves as a guidebook for those seeking to keep their love fires burning in this digital age. We also dive into digital detox practices, as we believe in striking a striking balance between the real and the virtual. So tune in, and let's unravel together the intricacies of romance in our tech-savvy world.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Ready to spark up your relationship? Join us as we venture into the intimate world of a couple, Emma and James, to learn about the common hurdles and how to overcome them. Their five-year relationship gives us the perfect canvas to explore communication breakdowns, mismatched libidos, and external stressors affecting intimacy. We're promising you an enlightening journey filled with insights on trust, vulnerability, emotional connection, and the creation of quality moments to fuel your passion.But that's not all. We also addressed some burning questions from our listeners. Can you balance mismatched libidos? How to spice up a long-term relationship? And, how to face relationship challenges together? Using Emma and James's relationship as a case study, we provide practical strategies to navigate these complexities. From the importance of professional help to the cheerful power of laughter in the bedroom, you are set to discover new ways of nurturing intimacy in your relationship. Tune in for an enlightening exploration of love, sex, and intimacy in long-term relationships.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Love is in the air! In this episode of Queen of Swords we dive deep into the intriguing world of workplace romances. Join us as we explore the pros and cons of cupid striking in the workplace and uncover strategies to navigate this delicate territory.Did you know that a staggering 36% of workers in the United States have experienced a workplace romance at some point in their careers? We'll share fascinating statistics and real-life scenarios that highlight the prevalence and dynamics of these office love affairs.Workplace romances have their fair share of benefits and drawbacks. We'll examine the positive impact on personal and professional growth, as well as the risks associated with favoritism, gossip, and even legal implications.But fear not, dear listeners! We won't leave you hanging without a roadmap. We'll provide practical guidelines and best practices to navigate workplace romances responsibly and ethically. From establishing clear workplace policies to managing power dynamics and handling potential conflicts, we've got you covered.Join us as we explore the intricate dance of love in the office, offering valuable insights and advice to help you maintain both your heart and your professionalism intact. So, whether you're secretly crushing on a coworker or wondering how to handle a workplace breakup, this episode is your go-to resource.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the often overlooked and harmful realities of abuse and gaslighting in romantic relationships. We explore the different forms of abuse and the insidious tactics of gaslighting, shedding light on the signs and red flags to watch out for. Through real stories of survivors, we witness the profound impact of these behaviors and the courage it takes to heal and move forward. Offering hope, support, and resources, we reinforce the importance of recognizing and addressing these issues while encouraging listeners to engage in education, conversations, and advocacy. Join us as we unravel the shadows and empower change in the realm of romantic relationships.TW: We will be discussing abusive relationships, including physical and sexual. Please exercise caution if these subjects are traumatic for you.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

In this episode, we're going to explore one of the most difficult and painful topics that can impact a relationship: infidelity and cheating.We'll hear from listeners who have experienced infidelity in their own lives, and learn about the emotional toll it can take on both partners. We'll also take a look at some of the statistics around infidelity, including how common it is and how it can impact relationships.But this episode isn't just about the pain and hurt of infidelity. We'll also explore the potential for growth and healing after cheating, including the importance of self-care, forgiveness, and working through difficult emotions. We'll hear about effective communication strategies and the steps couples can take to rebuild trust and intimacy after infidelity.Whether you've experienced infidelity in your own relationship or are just curious about the topic, this episode of Queen of Swords is not to be missed. Join us as we explore this complex and emotional topic and provide insights and advice for those who may be struggling with the aftermath of cheating.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Welcome to episode 7 of Queen of Swords podcast! In this episode, we will explore the topic of fighting fair in relationships. We'll discuss why it's important to handle conflict in a healthy way and the consequences of unhealthy fighting. We'll also provide some practical tips and advice to help you become better at handling conflicts in your own relationships.Fighting fair is a crucial aspect of any successful relationship. When couples argue in a way that is respectful and productive, they are able to address their issues and come up with solutions that work for both parties. However, when conflicts are not handled in a healthy way, it can lead to resentment and damage the relationship.In this episode, we'll provide some tips for fighting fair, such as focusing on the issue at hand, using "I" statements, taking a time-out, and listening to each other. We'll also share anecdotes and examples of couples who have successfully fought fair in their relationships.Join us as we delve into this important topic and learn how to handle conflicts in a way that fosters healthy communication and strengthens your relationships. Tune in to Queen of Swords podcast episode 7, Fighting Fair.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Are you in a long distance relationship or considering getting into one? Do you wonder if the pros outweigh the cons? Are you struggling with maintaining intimacy and communication with your partner while being far apart? If so, Episode 6 of Queen of Swords podcast is a must-listen for you!In this episode, the hosts dive deep into the complexities of long distance relationships and offer practical advice on how to make them work. They discuss the benefits and drawbacks of being in a long distance relationship, as well as the importance of clear and effective communication. They also address the challenges of maintaining intimacy and finding ways to stay connected despite the physical distance.Whether you're currently in a long distance relationship or are considering one, this episode will provide you with invaluable insights and strategies to help you navigate the ups and downs. You'll hear personal stories and experiences from the hosts themselves, as well as tips and tricks from experts in the field.So, tune in to Episode 6 of Queen of Swords podcast and discover how to make your long distance relationship a success. Don't miss out on this informative and engaging discussion on one of the most challenging yet rewarding types of relationships.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

In episode 5 of Queen of Swords, host Eva Sawyer delves into the importance of communication skills in relationships. Eva discusses the various communication styles, offers tips on how to become an effective communicator, and shares strategies for resolving conflicts. Tune in to this enlightening episode to learn how to strengthen your communication skills and build healthier relationships.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

In this episode, we dive into the mind of men and explore what they wish women knew. We discuss the unique communication styles of men and how they differ from women, as well as their thoughts on cheating and sex. We also explore what men look for before and during a relationship, including the qualities and behaviors that attract them and how they express their love and affection. Whether you're a man or a woman, you won't want to miss this insightful and revealing look into the male perspective on relationships and love. Tune in now to gain a deeper understanding of the male psyche and unlock the secrets to successful relationships.Trigger Warnings: Light cursing, discussion of abortion and transgender issues as well as political ideology of some of the men surveyed. These are in the last part of the episode, and you can skip over the chapter marked Controversial if you are not interested in listening to those portions.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

In this episode, we explore the concept of "twin flames" - a term used to describe an intense, soulful connection between two people who are said to share the same soul.But what are twin flames, exactly? Are they real or just a romanticized myth? And what are the concerns surrounding this concept? Join us as we dive into the world of twin flames, discussing the origins of this idea, its relation to other spiritual concepts, and its implications for those seeking love and connection.We'll also explore the darker side of twin flames, as we examine how some people have used this concept to prey on vulnerable individuals looking for love and meaning. We'll hear stories of those who have fallen victim to these manipulative tactics, and explore ways to protect ourselves from falling into similar traps.So, whether you're a believer in twin flames or just curious about this intriguing idea, join us for a thought-provoking discussion on what it means to find your soulmate, and the dangers of those who seek to profit from it. Tune in to Queen of Swords today to join the conversation.**Please note that there is some mild swearing and discussion of sexual assault**Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Get ready to take a walk on the lighter side of love with the Queen of Swords podcast! Join host Eva, a 42-year-old mother of six and full-time tarot reader with over 25 years of experience, as she tackles the ups and downs of relationships with a hefty dose of humor. From navigating the complexities of twin flames to the craziness of online dating and everything in between, the Queen of Swords covers it all. So, whether you're searching for your soulmate or just looking for a good laugh, tune in to the Queen of Swords and let's journey through the world of relationships together!In this week's episode we dive into the five love languages and the impact that they can have on your relationship.Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!

Get ready to take a walk on the lighter side of love with the Queen of Swords podcast! Join host Eva, a 42-year-old mother of six and full-time tarot reader with over 25 years of experience, as she tackles the ups and downs of relationships with a hefty dose of humor. From navigating the complexities of twin flames to the craziness of online dating and everything in between, the Queen of Swords covers it all. So, whether you're searching for your soulmate or just looking for a good laugh, tune in to the Queen of Swords and let's journey through the world of relationships together!Support the showHead over to www.queenofswordspodcast.com for the show notes!