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As the world awakens from its winter slumber, there's a sense of excitement in the air, urging us to step outside, breathe in the fresh scents of blooming flowers, and perhaps, find a connection with someone new. From blossoming romances to exciting rendezvous, this season offers opportunities to meet that special someone while enjoying the great outdoors. Whether you're single and ready to mingle or looking for fun springtime activities, we've got you covered Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss a topic that's sure to resonate – the mistakes men make at the beginning of dating. From oversharing to lacking confidence or disregarding boundaries, we're here to uncover the red flags you might encounter. Join us as we navigate the world of dating and empower you with the knowledge to spot these common mistakes. Whether you're dipping your toes back into the dating pool or seeking reassurance, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we're shaking off the stigma surrounding online dating and rethinking it as a genuine way to meet someone special. Forget the stereotypes – online dating isn't just for the desperate; it's a great way to meet people with endless possibilities for meaningful connections. Dating apps and websites have revolutionized how we meet potential partners. Whether you're a seasoned online dater or just curious about dipping your toes into the virtual dating pool, we’ve got you covered. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we're flipping the script on traditional dating and diving into the empowering concept of dating yourself. In a world where romantic relationships often take center stage, it's easy to overlook the most important relationship of all: the one with ourselves.  We're here to shine a spotlight on the transformative power of self-love and self-discovery. We'll explore why it's crucial to prioritize nurturing your relationship with yourself, and how doing so can lead to greater happiness, fulfillment, and personal growth. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

In this episode, we’ll discuss the Dos and Don'ts of what to talk about on a first date. Filtering what you discuss is important to create a positive impression, avoid controversy, maintain mystery, and focus on genuine connection. You don’t want to have what we call diarrhea of the mouth Whether you're a seasoned dater or stepping into the dating scene for the first time, these insights will help you navigate the conversation minefield with ease.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss balancing dating with a hectic travel schedule. Whether you're jetting for work, exploring new destinations, or simply leading a fast-paced life, finding time for budding romance can feel like a challenge.  From setting clear expectations to making the most of the time you have together, we’ll explore practical strategies and insights for navigating the early stages of dating with a crazy travel schedule or demanding commitments. If you're trying to find a meaningful connection, but often find yourself juggling a hectic schedule, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever experienced an intense whirlwind of affection in the early stages of a relationship, only for it to fizzle out just as quickly? What lies beneath the surface of this intense affection? In today's episode, we'll discuss love bombing, which is a manipulative tactic used to gain control over another person in a relationship.  Love bombing involves showering the person with excessive affection, attention, and praise, creating an intense emotional bond that can be hard to break free from. But behind the grand gestures and constant communication lies a calculated strategy to exploit vulnerability and fulfill the love bomber's own needs for power and validation. In this episode, we'll dive into the signs of love bombing, its impact on victims, and how to establish healthy boundaries to protect yourself from manipulation and emotional abuse.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss a scenario that many of us have experienced or even feared: bumping into an ex. Whether it's at the grocery store, a social event, or even unexpectedly on the street, these encounters can stir up a whirlwind of emotions and leave us scrambling for the right response. We will explore the art of gracefully navigating these encounters with maturity and dignity and guide you through the maze of navigating unexpected run-ins with former partners. From maintaining composure and setting boundaries to post-encounter reflections, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the dynamic world of texting, which is a crucial part of courtship and sets the tone for budding relationships. We'll unravel the intricacies of pre-date communication and post-date etiquette and help you master the art of texting. Whether you're a seasoned texter or new to the dating game, we’ve got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the concept of losing your list – and by list, we mean the rigid dealbreakers and non-negotiables that may be limiting your potential for meaningful connections. We will explore the benefits of adopting a more open-minded approach to love and why it’s important to reevaluate your dating criteria and be open to new possibilities if you’re looking for “the one.” Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

This episode is about the four seasons - and no, we are not talking about the resort… We’ll discuss the importance of dating for four seasons before getting serious and popping the question. As the seasons change, so do our moods, our fashion choices, and even our dating habits. In this episode, we’ll explore how to navigate the ups and downs of dating throughout the year and how to know if this relationship will last a lifetime. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we're diving into the crucial period before the first date – a time filled with anticipation, nerves, and endless questions.  Leading up to the first date sets the tone for what's to come. With the right preparation and mindset, it can be an exciting step toward building a meaningful connection. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss the dreaded friend zone – that awkward space where one person wants romance while the other remains oblivious. Escaping the friend zone is not easy, but with the right strategies and mindset, you can shift the dynamic, making him see you in a new light, and ultimately, escape the friend zone. Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where something just feels off, but you can't quite put your finger on it? Welcome to today's episode, where we'll be diving into the intricacies of doubt in a relationship. Doubts in relationships are common, but they can be navigated with self-awareness, communication, and introspection. In this episode, we'll explore how to navigate through these doubts and uncertainties, whether they're rooted in internal struggles or external pressures. Website: ⁠⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we'll explore the delicate balance between socializing and staying composed. Whether it's a casual gathering with friends or a formal event, maintaining elegance and grace is essential for leaving a lasting impression. We'll discuss strategies for navigating social settings responsibly, particularly when alcohol is involved. From knowing your limits to asserting boundaries, we'll provide practical tips for avoiding sloppiness and ensuring your interactions reflect your best self.  Website: ⁠⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠⁠ Books: - ⁠⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠⁠ - ⁠⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we will discuss dating in the heart of winter. As the air turns crisp and the days grow shorter, it can be difficult to have the motivation to date. We're here to help you embrace the cold season while still navigating being single and dating. From dating adventures to cozy self-care rituals, we've curated a winter wonderland of insights to make this season your most memorable one yet. Grab a hot chocolate, snuggle up by the fireplace, and let's unravel the secrets to not just surviving but thriving in the winter. Website: ⁠www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com⁠ Connect on Instagram/Facebook: ⁠@janisandcarlyspindel⁠ Books: - ⁠Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year⁠ - ⁠How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker⁠ Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

Valentine's Day is a day of love, and we’re here to remind you that no matter your relationship status, you should celebrate in a way that brings you pure love and happiness. We'll be exploring everything from solo celebrations to couples' adventures, from gift dilemmas to outfit choices. Whether you're a Valentine's Day enthusiast or someone who prefers to keep it low-key - whether you’re single, in a budding romance, or in a long-term relationship, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

They say first impressions are everything, and we couldn't agree more! In this episode, we will discuss fashion for every occasion. Whether you’re going out for dinner, meeting your partner’s parents, or attending a sporting event, we’ve got you covered.  Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss how to keep things interesting and add a dash of excitement to your love life, because let's face it, who doesn't want to keep that flame burning bright? Whether you're a seasoned couple looking to reignite the spark or in the early stages of love, we've got you covered! Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

In this episode, we’ll discuss friends with benefits. In a world where connections come in various shades, maintaining a friendship, while also indulging in some added benefits can be alluring. But is it a good idea? And how do you make sure that no one gets hurt?  We'll unravel the intricacies, share some valuable insights, and hopefully, leave you with a clearer picture of whether this unconventional relationship is right for you. From the frequency of hangouts to the complexities of gift-giving, we've got you covered. Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel Books: - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography