We've Got it All Wrong!

Ever wondered why some religious teachings feel like fear mongering, and yet keep millions entranced? If so, you're not alone. In episode 13, Sam sits down with Lore Clark to unveil the convoluted dimensions of religious trauma. Our discussion takes us through the labyrinth of religious trauma syndrome (RTS). From the nooks and crannies of fear and trust manipulation within the sacred realms, to the paradoxical interplay of love and fear in religious teachings, Lore takes us deep. This conversation is a thorough exploration of the intricacies of religious trauma, and we hope it leaves you with fresh perspectives and food for thought.We also share the trailer for the ultimate true crime podcast:  @pnwhauntsandhomicides Follow Lore on Social: @lore.senpaiCheck out PNW Haunts & Homicides:https://linktr.ee/pnwhauntsandhomicidesThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

This episode we interview Chey's wife, Tae Wise, a former pro basketball player and current head of operations for a solar company. Tae opens up about her identity as a stud, sharing her experiences of blending masculine and feminine energies and her journey to express her true self. She provides an enlightening perspective on personal style, breaking down how it plays a vital role in her self-expression and empowerment.Try Tae's favorite NA beer at www.athleticbrewing.comUse code "shaunte20" for 20% off!Follow Tae on socials @tae32wise and @chey.taeThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Join us for an insightful conversation with Steph Graham, an astute career development and interview coach. With a mission to uplift underrepresented communities, Steph opens up about her journey within the corporate world, sharing the nuances of their systems, and divulging strategies on how to build confidence and facilitate career transitions.  Hear about Steph's passion for career coaching and her role in  helping individuals transition into roles where they feel valued and satisfied in our first ever guest featured episode!To connect with Steph: @consult.graham on Instagram and TikTokThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Ever wondered about the power of films and the profound messages they convey? Well, they didn't spend millions of dollars on nothing! Join us as we unravel the magic of storytelling, using the recent billion-dollar success of Barbie as a case study, along with the sequel to Avatar, and guide you on how to grasp the deeper meanings behind the films you watch.Thank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Buckle up, we on the brink of an AI revolution that will change how we communicate, create, and work? Join us as we discuss AI and its role in everything from customer service to the arts, we dissect the excitement and apprehension surrounding this technological titan. Research forecasts AI will be a $266.92 billion industry by 2027 - but at what cost to authenticity and creativity?Advice on handling the AI revolution:- Remember to value the human experience- Continue to support your favorite creatives!- Remember that YOU still have the ability to create amazing things- Have fun, but don't forget to be intentional with your use of AIThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Wild Card Episode! Ever just wing it? Yeah, that's what we did for this episode. Join us for an open, un-outlined conversation as we navigate chasing your dreams, taking on risks, and the ups and downs of the journey of life.Pivot with us from the destination-obsessed mindset to embracing the journey. We often forget that life isn't a sprint, it's a marathon. The different phases of life, the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, everything is part of a grand adventure called life. Through our discussion, we underline the significance of patience, learning from failures, and focusing on the journey rather than the finish line. Knowing your "why" and "what" is great but you cannot get there without the "how." Check out these tips on how to enjoy your journey:- Practice gratitude- Practice positive self-talk- Connect to the healing power of nature- Protect & conserve your energy!- Trust in the law of karmaThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

What happens to the gays after June, beyond the parties and parades? You can find us on the clearance rack.... In this episode we discuss our personal experiences as members of the queer community, and how we celebrated Pride Month a little differently this year. And did we mention we hatched a plan for a book deal and a potential run for president? JK... Maybe.This episode journeys through the power and influence of younger generations in the narrative of future societal change. We discuss the importance of providing platforms for underrepresented communities and the transformative power of their stories and experiences. Looking around, it's impossible to miss the boundless bravery of those who are fearlessly shattering norms and stigmas.Sam and Chey share the complex terrain of understanding their own gender and sexuality, and the freedom that comes with acknowledging fluidity. Have you ever felt constrained by a label? Join us as we discuss the importance of brave spaces to explore our identities and make choices for ourselves, rather than bowing to societal expectations. Ready to join us?Social Media Accounts to follow:@alokvmenon@parentxhoodOrganizations to support:@trevorproject@humanrightscampaignThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

What does it mean to live a life free from the toxic hold of alcohol? How can we break free from society's normalization of this dangerously normative substance and discover a healthier, more intentional way of living? Join us as we discuss the sober curiosity movement and examining the impact of our choices on our mental and physical well-being.Our very own co-host, Chey, shares a heartfelt account of reaching 100 days of sobriety and how detachment has helped reveal the true prevalence of alcohol in our lives. We dive deep into the alarming reality surrounding excessive alcohol use and emphasize the importance of intentionality and self-reflection when it comes to our relationship with drinking. Hear how ditching alcohol can lead to significant personal transformations, and how Chey was able to rediscover herself after breaking free from toxic habits. Thinking about getting sober curious? There are a few tips!- Be open to flexibility & take it one day at a time- Get honest about toxic habits; Name these out loud so you can make change- Reflect on meaningful pursuits that toxic habits have been holding you back from; Pursue them!- Practice makes progress! You will never know unless you try!- Get support, whether through AA of a sobriety coachSober Curious Content To Follow:@hypegirlhealing@asobergirlsguideThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Do you feel like your brain works differently than others? Welcome to the club! This club is where we embrace and celebrate your unique wiring! Join us on a journey to understand neurodivergency, the ADHD spectrum, and what it means to be "neuro spicy." In this eye-opening conversation, we share our personal experiences and discuss the importance of normalizing the uniqueness of those who think, perceive, and act differently from the norm.We dive into ADHD, exploring its manifestations and how it affects adults and children alike. We tackle common misconceptions, reveal coping strategies, and emphasize the power of self-awareness in managing symptoms. Our discussion also highlights the beauty of being neuro spicy and the unique challenges faced by the queer community in relation to ADHD. With a focus on understanding and support, we aim to ensure everyone receives the care they need.By normalizing neurodivergency and recognizing the beauty in our differences, we can foster a more inclusive and understanding world. So put on your ADHD Supercape, and join us on this empowering mission to celebrate our neuro spicy selves!Resources:@the_mini_adhd_coach@adhd.nutritionist https://bionic-reading.com/Thank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Practice makes p- did you think we were gonna say perfect? You must be new here ;)Being a perfectionist is rough stuff and can cause major impacts to your physical and mental health. We are conditioned to believe that there is only one right way to be and one path to follow and that veering away from those standards means absolute failure. In our fourth, completely unedited and imperfect episode, we explore various forms of perfectionism, explain why they're shit, and how you can tell perfectionism to literally suck it.If you still have "practice makes perfect" rattling around in your head, here are some tips to help support your imperfect journey:Avoid editing your life "behind the scenes" by not using filters or spending significant amounts of time editing your content.Therapy baybeeeeee.Understand there is no one right way to be.Don't say sorry for taking up space or using your voice.Imperfect book recommendations:The CBT Workbook for Perfectionism: Evidence-Based Skills to Help You Let Go of Self-Criticism, Build Self-Esteem & Find Balance by Sharon MartinThe Girl Who Never Made Mistakes: A Growth Mindset Book for Kids to Promote Self Esteem by Mark PettThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Does the thought of turning 30 make you want fight someone? Or make you want to work towards a doctorate in some type of science that will help you freeze time ? Yeah, same. The fear of turning 30 is rooted in societal pressure to have achieved a certain amount of "success" such as having a career, relationship, and financial security. But we are here to tell you that you that 30 is not the end- it's the beginning of something really cool.While sharing our personal experiences and thoughts on the transition to this new decade of life, we talk about the anxieties stemmed from the expectations placed on a milestone age, while also embracing the opportunity to reflect on our past and plan for the future.If turning 30 is keeping you from enjoying life to the fullest, here are some tips to help change how you look at getting another year older:Don't link your life goals to an age. Instead of "I need to have this done by the time I am 30..." say "I would like to meet this goal in the next couple years."Avoid comparing your life milestones to other generations timelines. Reject social norms regarding expectations to get married or have children.Reflect on what might be causing you to not embrace the three-o.EMBRACE THAT $HIT! 30 is beautiful, and so are you.Positive aging content creators:https://almost30.com/@baddiewinkle on InstagramThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Bodies, bodies, bodies! We have them, we love them - or do we? Our social landscape works tirelessly to impose "standards of beauty" which leads to unhealthy and unrealistic expectations for ourselves and others. In our second episode, we pinpoint some of the root causes of negative body image, how we cope and how we can thrive.If you find yourself stuck in a loop of negative thoughts around body image, here are some tips for changing how you view the body:Get honest about what body standards you have and if they are true reflections of your wants and needsIntentionally dissuade yourself from looking in the mirror every time you pass one.Check yourself one more time before commenting on someone's body.Compliment someone on anything but their body.Flood your timeline with body positive media. See below!Body positive content to follow on Instagram:@zachmiko@effyourbeautystandards@mayticksBook recommendation:The Beauty Myth by Naomi WolfThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

If you’ve ever heard the phrase “TGIF!” or “I am so looking forward to the week being over,” then you might know about this societal norm. In our FIRST EVER episode, we tackle what “living for the weekend” is, why it sucks, and how to combat it.If you are TGIF-ing, you may be missing out on opportunities to learn, grow, and develop during the week. Here are some tips for breaking free from living for the weekend:Get up earlier and set daily intentionsFind meaning in your work: Find your friends, ask for that project, & advocate for yourselfGet enough sleep ALWAYS, weekend or week day. No excuses!Don’t normalize living for the weekend! Just don’t fall for it.Link to Oura Ring mentioned in the episode: https://ouraring.com/discount/e404331dbfThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey

Sam and Chey are two queer millennials navigating through all that is wrong with society and leaving you with ways to be your own catalyst for change. Launching on April 12, 2023, be ready to get angry, cry, heal and take action with us as we discuss hot topics in today's modernly un-humanistic culture.  Follow us on Instagram @wevegotitallwrongThank you for listening to We've Got It All Wrong! Please be sure to rate and review so we can build our community of societal rebels. Click Here to view our resources and join our email list! XOXO - Sam & Chey