10 Minute Mindset - Actionable Self Development With Scott Clary

Today, we're talking about the uncomfortable truth nobody wants to admit: You're addicted to "more" and it's killing your soul. If you're making more money than you ever thought possible but still feel like you're falling behind. If you've convinced yourself that the next raise, the next promotion, the next milestone will finally be enough—when deep down you know it won't be, this one's for you. I'll show you why a Wall Street trader got everything he wanted and discovered it was worthless, and how to break free from the addiction that society celebrates. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Today, we're talking about the uncomfortable truth nobody wants to admit: You're dead inside and everyone can see it. If you've been going through the motions at work while mentally calculating how many hours until Friday. If you think showing up is enough when your face screams you'd rather be anywhere else. If you've convinced yourself that sacrificing your aliveness is what responsible adults do, this one's for you. I'll show you why you're modeling that adulthood is a prison sentence, what you're actually teaching yourself and others when you're enduring rather than living, and how to choose a life worth living instead of a slow death in public. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Today, we're talking about the math that nobody wants to do: How much time you actually have left with the people that you love. If you've been telling yourself there's always next year to visit your parents. If you assume you have decades left, when you might only have a dozen visits. If you've let geography or busy schedules make all of your relationship decisions for you, this one's for you. I'll show you why you've already spent 90% of the time you will ever spend with your parents, what the actual numbers look like when you do the math, and how to make conscious choices about how you spend time with your loved ones. So when you do spend time with them, you can be intentional, fully there, and just present. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Today, we're talking about why 'I'm not ready yet' is costing you $50,000 a day. If you've been waiting for the perfect time to start that business, waiting to save more money, waiting to learn more, waiting to feel ready—this one's for you. I'll show you how a 32-year-old immigrant bet his entire life savings when he 'wasn't ready' and built $11.5 billion in value, why starting at 60% ready has the same success rate as 90% ready, and the simple calculation that reveals what waiting actually costs versus what failing costs. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

  Today, we're talking about that decision that's been eating at you for months. You know - the business idea you won't launch, the job you won't quit, the move you keep googling but never make. If you've been stuck in analysis paralysis, making the same pro-con lists over and over, or waiting for the "perfect time" that never comes, this one's for you. I'll show you why we regret what we don't do twice as much as what we do, why your 80-year-old self doesn't care about temporary discomfort, and the exact 5-minute framework that helped Jeff Bezos choose a garage over Wall Street - and build a $2 trillion empire. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Today, we're talking about the things you want but won't ask for. You know - that raise you've deserved for two years, the help you need but won't request, the boundary with your mother you keep rehearsing in the shower. If you've been practicing conversations that never happen, settling for less than you want, or assuming everyone will say no before you even ask, this one's for you. I'll show you why your brain gets addicted to wanting instead of having, why people say yes 71% more often than you think they will, and the exact eight-second script that gets you what you want instead of what you'll settle for. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Today, we're talking about why the work you're avoiding might be more important than the work you're doing. You know - that side project that feels more alive than your day job, that idea you can't stop thinking about but "don't have time for." I'll show you why Lin-Manuel Miranda spent six years procrastinating his way to a Pulitzer Prize, and how to tell if you're wasting time or incubating genius. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Today, we're going to talk about the exits you're avoiding and why they're draining your energy. You know - those expired relationships you're still maintaining, that job you should have left two years ago, those meetings that should have ended 37 minutes ago but didn't. If you've been carrying around things that ran their course years ago, maintaining friendships out of guilt, or lying awake thinking about conversations you'll never have, this one's for you. I'll show you why your brain literally can't let go of unfinished business, why the way you end things is the only part people remember, and the exact five-sentence formula for ending anything with grace instead of ghosting like a coward. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Today, we're going to talk about why you can't make decisions anymore. You know - when every choice feels like it could ruin your life, so you make no choice at all. If you've been lying awake at 3 AM paralyzed by the same decision for months, overthinking yourself into circles, or waiting for a "sign" that never comes, this one's for you. I'll show you why knowing exactly when you're going to die is the only productivity hack that actually works, why your brain literally cannot process infinity, and what happens when you finally get a specific number of days left. Fair warning: this involves math, mortality, and downloading an app that tells you when you'll die. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Let's talk about what happens when success kicks your ass. You know - when you get everything you worked for and somehow feel worse than when you started. If you've been overwhelmed by your own growth lately, hiding from opportunities you once begged for, or wondering why the bigger you get the harder it feels, this one's for you. I'll show you why this is normal, why it's actually a sign you're doing something right, and what to do when you just can't anymore. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Most people spend their entire lives preparing to live instead of actually living. If you've been "planning" the same goal for months, if you're waiting for the perfect moment to start, if you keep researching instead of doing, you're trapped in the biggest lie our culture tells us. I'll reveal why planning feels productive but keeps you paralyzed, how successful people actually get started, and the one simple shift that separates people who achieve their dreams from people who just talk about them. Other Links Success Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.com Newsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary Instagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclary LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclary Twitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Most people confuse confidence with arrogance - and that confusion is destroying their relationships and careers. If your kids go to your partner with problems instead of you, if your conversations feel like lectures, if people seem to avoid deep talks with you, you're probably operating from arrogance, not confidence. I'll explain why this happens, what it's really costing you, and how to shift from needing to be right to actually being effective. By the end, you'll understand the difference between confidence earned through competence and arrogance borrowed from ignorance.Other LinksSuccess Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.comNewsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclaryInstagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclaryLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclaryTwitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

You're tracking habits and optimizing routines but somehow feeling worse than before you started "improving" yourself. I'll show you why the self-help industry needs you to stay dissatisfied, what actually separates successful people from everyone else, and the uncomfortable truth that stops the endless cycle of trying to fix yourself. Turns out the person you're chasing already exists.Other LinksSuccess Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.comNewsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclaryInstagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclaryLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclaryTwitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

You think your small daily choices don't matter, but you're actually building the life you'll have to live with forever. I'll explain why character gets built in Tuesday afternoon emails, not crisis moments, and give you a simple way to see what kind of house you're really constructing with your choices. Spoiler: you've been the architect this whole time.Other LinksSuccess Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.comNewsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclaryInstagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclaryLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclaryTwitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

You're working endless hours to build the perfect future while completely missing the life happening right now. I'll show you exactly why you keep moving your own goalposts, why even the most powerful people in history couldn't solve this problem, and the simple framework that finally breaks the cycle. By the end, you'll see why the life you're preparing for is the one you're already living.Other LinksSuccess Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.comNewsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclaryInstagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclaryLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclaryTwitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Your 8-year-old self understood wealth better than you do now. You have everything they ever dreamed of, yet you feel broke. I'll show you exactly how to see your life through their eyes again so you can finally feel as successful as you actually are.Other LinksSuccess Story Podcast: successstorypodcast.comNewsletter: https://newsletter.scottdclary.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclaryInstagram: https://instagram.com/scottdclaryLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/scottdclaryTwitter: https://twitter.com/scottdclary

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