The Susan Winter Show

CONFESSED YOUR FEELINGS TOO SOON? You’ve confessed your feelings but didn’t get the response you hoped for. What now? Do you stay and hope their affection grows, or walk away? Here’s what you need to consider: Connor writes, “I have been dating a guy for 3 months now. One week ago, I told him that I was smitten with him, that he was amazing, and that I felt that we belong together. His response was quite formal and not exactly what I had hoped for. I expected to leave the evening being in a relationship, but he said he wanted to take things slow. He agreed not to date anyone else. Am I being strung along?” Assessing The Factors Do You Feel Safe? Their Level Of Interest Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Romance scams are on the rise. New AI developments require you to be sharper than ever before. But the playbook’s always the same. Know the play, and you’ll know the con. Romance scams may look different today—especially with AI in the mix—but the structure never changes. Every con follows the same five steps, designed to build trust, create emotional dependency, and manufacture a crisis where money feels like love. Once you recognize the pattern, the illusion breaks—and the power returns to you. It’s Too Good To Be True Love Bombing and Pace The Issue—Money and Your Help The Dream vs. Reality Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you still waiting on a promise? One day you’ll be together. One day they’ll be ready. No matter the reason, you can’t wait on a maybe. But here’s what you can do… We judge the truth of a situation based on actions, not words. Has your desire to have the dream be true, blinded you to the reality of ‘what is’? Though the head and heart may be in a battle, when time keeps ticking away and nothing changes, we need to wake up from the dream. What We Lose When We Wait Separating Fact from Future Promises Assessing Next Steps Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Join me for this fun and informative Masterclass and Live Coaching Event on February 24th!! Learn how to speak so that the man you love will truly hear you. We all know men and women communicate differently. In order to get the best results from a conversation, it’s to our advantage to learn to speak their language. The missing piece is learning how to communicate in the way men process and prioritize constructive action. Male communication is not about expression—it’s about outcome. And that has a specific formula. I know that formula. I speak it fluently. And I’ll teach you how to use it. Just think… Want forward movement and greater harmony? Click here:https://susanwinter.net/masterclass-with-live-coaching/ What We Lose When We Wait Separating Fact from Future Promises Assessing Next Steps Reference to YouTube Live Show: Why People Pleasing Pushes Love Away- LIVE Q&A https://www.youtube.com/live/mE84gY2FfY8 Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Are age gap fears of the future ruining your present relationship? Here’s how to accurately assess what you’ve got to know if it will go the distance. The future is best judged by what you know of your partner’s current character, disposition, and lifestyle. The future is unpredictable for all, so have open discussions to find solutions to your fears and enjoy the love you have today. Examine Your ‘Today’ Discuss Future Plans Explore New Options Reference to YouTube Live Show: Why People Pleasing Pushes Love Away- LIVE Q&A https://www.youtube.com/live/mE84gY2FfY8 Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Lacking closure? Still waiting for their apology so you can move on? The truth is, they are irrelevant. Here’s how to free yourself with confidence and style. Why You Don’t Need Their Apology Give Yourself the Answer Self-Validation = Your Power Moving On Becomes Easy Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

It felt extraordinary—instant recognition, electric chemistry, a connection unlike anything she’d ever known. Then it disappeared, leaving her wondering what it meant, why it happened, and whether she’ll ever feel it again. This is the person, the spark, that awakened you to the possibility of love. They are the preview to coming attractions. They’re not the main event. Look at this as a sign of things to come in the future. But remember… a real partner is consistent. A genuine partner builds a human connection first and values you beyond just physical attraction. Why Intense Connections Feel Fated Instant Chemistry Vs. Emotional Depth What These Moments Are Here To Reveal Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

You know you need to let go but you can’t stop thinking about them. Here’s how to retract your energetic thoughts that keep you stuck (while they repel the very person you want). If you want them back, obsessing over them creates energetic repulsion. If you want to be free and move on, retracting your energy is key. Disciplining your mind to move into the ‘future forward’ position creates confidence, opportunity, freedom, and choice. Want more? Check out my LiveShow: Energetic Mastery: Retract to Re-attract How to let go energetically How obsession leaks your energy and repels the very person you want The fear that stops you is the key to your freedom Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Are Their Feelings Real? Players. Scammers. Opportunists. They thrive on the one vulnerability we all possess—the desire to believe their feelings are real. Here’s how to become ‘player proof.’ We have one universal quality that is our downfall to being played, used, and conned, both in real life and online. We WANT to believe. We want to believe the fairytale, and we don’t want reality to pierce that seductive bubble. Here’s your way out, and onward to real love. Too Good To Be True It’s Perfect. They’re Perfect Exit the Bubble Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

We’re told to “just be yourself” on a first date. But which YOU is that? Here’s how to show up as your authentic best self while letting your many facets shine. When we're young, we’re still forming our identity. Taking cues from those around us, we try on different personalities and attitudes until we find what resonates. In maturity, we discover we have multiple sides to our personalities, and various aspects come out to play when dating.  Feeling comfortable with the 'allness’ of who you are sets you up for success from the first date onward. Here's how: For more info on this topic, read my article: https://susanwinter.net/which-you-shows-up-on-the-first-date/ Embracing the Many Facets of Who You Are Leading with Your Authentic Best Self Feeling Confident and Comfortable on First Dates Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Shapeshifting for Love? Are you changing who you are to earn someone’s approval? Social pressure, dating dynamics, and everyday interactions can quietly pull you away from your true identity. Learn how to stop morphing for THEM and return to the powerful center point of who you really are.  The seduction of a new relationship can urge you to become someone you’re not, for THEIR approval. Here’s how to integrate the many aspects of your personality, rather than assimilate completely to be what you think “they“ want you to be. Noticing How You Morph (Alter) for THEM Integration, not Assimilation Solidifying Your Centerpoint (Your True Self) Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

A blindsided breakup with an avoidant partner leaves you reeling—one moment there’s love and connection, the next, silence and confusion. Here’s why they disappear the moment love takes hold. When the avoidant pulls away just as things feel real, it’s not about you—it’s about their fear of emotional closeness. Understanding this pattern is the key to freeing yourself from self-blame, reclaiming clarity, and finding peace after their sudden retreat. How Pace and Futurizing Fuel the Flame Why Avoidants Bail When Intimacy Appears How To Regain Power and Emotional Balance Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Still fixated on your avoidant ex? You’ve moved on, yet part of you can’t let go. Here’s how to break free from the intoxicating pull of this high-drama connection. It’s Not About Him. Intense High/Low Drama=Excitement Identify Addictive Loop and Reframe Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

There’s a hidden cost to people pleasing in love—it repels rather than attracts. Learn how to stop over-giving and start creating real connection and desire. People pleasing might feel like the path to love, but it quietly erodes attraction. Discover how setting clear boundaries and honoring what you truly want builds respect, confidence, and lasting desire. Why People Pleasing Makes You Undesirable What Do YOU Want and Need? How Boundaries Create Respect and Attraction Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

You thought it would be casual. But no. It’s powerful. You realize you’re in love with a younger man and have no script— only uncertainty. Here’s how to take that fear and turn this unexpected love into something beautiful. The Fear of Realizing You Love Him How To Create Something Wonderful Advice on How To Proceed Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Don’t Chase an Older Woman—Do THIS Instead. You know she cares—so why has your older woman pulled away? Here’s how to override her internal fear and reboot the desire that unites your partnership. As a young guy, you’re not able to know what’s going on in her mind. But from one who’s been there— I know what’s happening. Every fear she has of abandonment, rejection, looking like a fool, and wondering how she’s going to pick up the pieces of a broken heart are screaming at her to run away from you. It’s a ‘her’ issue. But here’s how you can help… Why She’s Pulling Away How To Mitigate Her Fears What Needs To Happen Next Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Feel like you’re losing yourself to please others? The need for social conformity becomes a disempowering ‘approval prison’—but here’s how to get your power (and your life) back. Social conformity and the need for approval can quietly shape who you become—dictating your choices, emotions, and relationships. Living by someone else’s rules disconnects you from your authentic self. Learn how to reclaim your inner authority, break free from external expectations, and live from genuine self-trust. Conditioning and Conformity The Cost of Pleasing Others Reclaiming Personal Power and Your Life Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Emily Bradbury is a relationship and empowerment coach specializing in attachment theory and growing your emotional intelligence and regulation tools. She’s uniquely equipped in masculine/feminine energetics and polarity. Emily helps her diverse client base across the world, with different ages, backgrounds, and beliefs. In this interview, we discuss rewriting your identity and personal stories as a part of the healing journey from anxious attachment to healthy secure attachment. Emily describes what the process looks like, how it worked for her, and why it’s such a powerful tool when combined with coaching. Healing anxious attachment is a process Avoidant + Anxious attachment relationships Rewriting your personal story Masculine/feminine polarity Social links Instragram: emily.bradbury.coaching TikTok: @emily.bradbury.coaching Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

If you’ve only known abusive partnerships, what’s the path to healthy love? How can you attract the right partner with a history of abusive relationships? Here’s how to begin that process: Here’s how to learn from the past, apply it to the future, and secure the quality of love you deserve. Recognizing your loops and breaking habitual patterns of your own behavior has a lot to do with the quality of individual you call into your life. Here are the steps: Review issues and past loops Know what you want now Apply pace and discernment Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

They won’t love you. But why? You know yourself to be worthy and deserving of their love, yet they resist. Here are 4 hidden reasons you never considered (and have nothing to do with YOU). Did you ever think it may not be about you? That while you’re ruminating over everything you said and did, wondering what you could have done differently… that none of this was the cause. But rather, it’s this: Emotionally Unavailable Different Image of Love Casual Dating vs Intentional Fear of Losing Control Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile