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Why People Pleasing Kills Attraction—and How to Get It Back

Why People Pleasing Kills Attraction—and How to Get It Back

Update: 2025-11-21
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There’s a hidden cost to people pleasing in love—it repels rather than attracts. Learn how to stop over-giving and start creating real connection and desire.


People pleasing might feel like the path to love, but it quietly erodes attraction. Discover how setting clear boundaries and honoring what you truly want builds respect, confidence, and lasting desire.



  1. Why People Pleasing Makes You Undesirable

  2. What Do YOU Want and Need?

  3. How Boundaries Create Respect and Attraction


Reference to YouTube Live Show: Why People Pleasing Pushes Love Away- LIVE Q&A https://www.youtube.com/live/mE84gY2FfY8



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Why People Pleasing Kills Attraction—and How to Get It Back

Why People Pleasing Kills Attraction—and How to Get It Back

Susan Winter: Professional Love and Life Mentor