The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett

Trying to figure out how to 'deal' with other people is a problem. There's no difference between total strangers and people we are in relationships with. Stop reveling in sadness. Do you view life as happening 'to' you? Or do you view the majority of things in your personal life as something you are responsible for? Power over how you think. Examples of Passive-Aggressive Communication-Behavior Style. The Last Symptom Fundamentals Course now available to purchase chapter by chapter.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within.    #attitudes #thinking #power #authority #responsibility #responsible #life #totalstrangers #relationships #relatives #spouse #husbands #wives #children #sadness #gloom #gloomy #music #arts #poetry #despair #despairing #passiveaggressive #calmassertive #rights #strangers #personalitydisorders #psychology #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #recovery #truerecovery #fullrecovery #completerecovery #brianbarnett #thelastsymptom

I interview special guest 'Ava' in this episode, who has really set an excellent example of what authentic recovery from emotional disorders looks like, the natural way people behave when they are truly motivated and invested in getting healthy. Here, she talks about her attitude, the specifics of her efforts, the challenges she faces, how she overcomes them, and her optimism. I think many of you will really enjoy this one.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there on Mondays.    #relationships #progress #recovery #truerecovery #genuinerecovery #fullrecovery #psychology #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #cure #completerecovery #brianbarnett #thelastsymptom #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bpd #emotions #feelings #emotionallyunstablepersonalitydisorder #eupd #dbt #hypnotism #emdr #counseling #therapy #therapists 

There's no such thing as healthy or unhealthy relationships, no such thing as healthy or unhealthy marriages, and marriage counseling is an inherent obstruction to authentic recovery that is built entirely on a lie. In this episode we talk in depth about Love, and we ask 'Why'? Why does Love behave as it does?   http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and search for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there on Mondays.   #relationships #marriage #marriagecounseling #healthymarriages #unhealthymarriages #healthyrelationships #unhealthyrelationships #marriagecounselors #love #romanticrelationships #husbands #wives #mentalhealth #psychology #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #recovery #truerecovery #fullrecovery #completerecovery #brianbarnett #thelastsymptom

An exception to always siding with your spouse. How to know if something is abuse or not. Placing importance on feelings themselves, not on whether the feelings are "right" or not.   http://www.thelastsymptom..com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there on Mondays.   #relationships #wife #husband #abuse #feelings #emotions #communication #mentalhealth #psychology #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #cure #recovery #truerecovery #completerecovery #fullrecovery #brianbarnett #thelastsymptom

John & Julian Lennon. Dancing along with the unhealthy crowd. Does the risk of making people angry control you? Who gets priority: Mother or Wife? Inner peace & good health are the same thing.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or download the Locals.com app from the App Store and search for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there on Mondays.    #relationships #wives #husbands #mothers #piedpiper #abusers #johnlennon #julianlennon #loyalty #dedication #responsibilities #unhealthy #risk #communication #priorities #innerpeace #contentment #children #dancing #movies #musicals #moviemusicals #families #family #psychology #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #anger #feelings #emotions #cure #marriage #couples #partners #recovery #fullrecovery #completerecovery #truerecovery #brianbarnett #thelastsymptom

An important discussion about what your inherent worth does not mean. What do healthy people use to make decisions in their lives if it's not their feelings? The really simple formula for determining if something is a fair and reasonable expectation to have for others, and for self.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there on Mondays.    #expectations #boundaries #conditions #consequences #greaterpower #ultimateauthority #freewill #inherentworth #sex #sexualhistory #morals #ethics #norms #rules #standards #psychology #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #recovery #truerecovery #fullrecovery #completerecovery #cure #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett 

The qualification that must be met in order to view your failures positively. Every battle is won before it's fought. How to have a conversation with unhealthy people. "Nobody has a right to tell me what to do." Campfire stories.   http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett. Exclusive livestreams there every Monday.   #relationships #emotionaldisorders #mentalhealth #attitudes #thinking #perspectives #failures #battles #obstacles #conversations #unhealthyfamilies #cure #recovery #completerecovery #fullrecovery #truerecovery #holidays #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett #boundaries #communication #consequences #conditions

Expanding on the topic of there not being lots of different "types" of people. Actor Will Smith & family. More about how important it is to make distinctions. A review and summary of some of the primary Laws & Principles of Emotional Health. (This is not an exhaustive list here.) What to do when people continue to test boundaries: When consequences should simply happen without warning.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there on Mondays.    #psychology #boundaries #communication #consequences #conditions #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #relationships #parenting #attitudes #narcissists #narcissism #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bpd #emotionallyunstablepersonalitydisorder #eupd #perspectives #emotionaldisorders #cure #completerecovery #truerecovery #fullrecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett

The Law of Genuine Attitude Reflection. Dissociation. Shaming others for differences in preferences - Why? The Behavior Panel on YouTube. Jada Pinkett Smith, the gift to the world of emotional disorder analysis that keeps on giving.    The Behavior Panel episode: https://youtu.be/1VgFdHix-xI?si=jwLnOLAl3PVS97ac   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or download the Locals.com app from the App Store and search for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there on Mondays.    #dissociation #shaming #shame #healthyattitudes #unhealthyattitudes #jadapinkettsmith #thebehaviorpanel #willsmith #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #relationships #cure #completerecovery #authenticrecovery #fullrecovery #truerecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett 

Never cooperate with, or acquiesce, to emotional disorders and emotional unhealth and the reasons why. How to always push back against anything that is emotionally unhealthy. Real-life examples. The Calm-Assertive Communication-Behavior Style, although healthy and powerful, has a kryptonite. We discuss what it is, and how to beat it.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or download the Locals.com app from the App Store and search for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there Mondays.    #emotionalhealth #mentalhealth #triggers #emotionaldisorders #calmassertive #passiveaggressive #stress #relationships #responsibility #power #authority #rights #priorities 

You're underestimating just how powerful perceptions are. Destroying narratives - the nature of the job and why you must do it. A season-end review of the topics we covered in Season 5. A few, brief, overdue campfire stories.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or download the Locals.com app from the App Store and search for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams there every Monday.    #perceptions #perspectives #narratives #selfesteem #selfworth #selfsabotage #frustration #subjective #lie #progress #lackofprogress #disingenuous #debate #constructive #relationships #empathy #intimacy #love #obsession #observereffect #humancondition #happiness #balance #humility #sabatoge #entropy #spacialdisorientation #patterns #partner #healthy #unhealthy #forgiveness #resentment #vacuums #enabling #consequences #conditions #resentment #struggle #shoulds #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #personalitydisorders #mentalhealth #cure #recovery #completerecovery #fullrecovery true recovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett 

Resentment. Black & White Thinking Vs. Black & White Realities. "Shoulds" and "Should Nots".    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading  the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within. Exclusive livestreams every Monday.    #resentment #blackandwhitethinking #shoulds #shouldnots #relationships #perfection #imperfection #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #mentalhealth #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bpd #cure #completerecovery #fullrecovery #truerecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett 

A brief, but extremely important episode. Struggle. Enabling. God. The ways that emotional health and spiritual health follow the exact same patterns. The reasons God can't help you in certain scenarios and what you may need to do first before he can act. The things discussed here do not only apply to God, but to the way we view and interact with ourselves and also others.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett within.    #enabling #god #support #struggle #progress #growth #selfimprovement #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #mentalhealth #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bpd #cure #completerecovery #truerecovery #fullrecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett 

Forgiveness. Letting go of resentment. Allowing somebody back into your good graces. Settling debts. Compensation. Vacuums, negative space. The Law of Enabling. Acceptance. Denial. Emotional rebellion. Five circumstances when you cannot healthfully forgive a person without consequences and conditions. The Fictional World of Shoulds. The solution to almost everything is thinking differently and just how powerful that is. Every relationship is a contract, or an agreement people enter into. The most practical and powerful realization I can share with you.   http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett.   #forgiveness #resentment #debts #compensation #vacuums #negativespace #enabling #enablers #offender #offenses #injustices #responsibilities #obligations #consequences #conditions #shoulds #shouldnots #thinking #thoughts #feelings #relationships #contracts #agreements #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #bpd #emotionallyunstablepersonalitydisorder #eupd #cure #completerecovery #thelastsymtom #brianbarnett

One thing separating unhealthy people from healthy people is their failure to make important distinctions in everyday life, with sometimes subtle, but extremely important things - for example, when it comes to the identities we live with about ourselves. In this episode, we discuss the nature of such distinctions, and the dramatic, powerful effects the failure to make these distinctions can have on one's life. Also, you parents living with an unhealthy partner, not only are your children not doomed to a life of unhealth, but you are in a remarkable position to give your children a great advantage in life.   Some God talk in this episode, but the fundamental points relevant to all, not just religious folk.   http://www.thelastsymptom.com Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett.   #distinctions #makingdistinctions #identity #identities #feelings #thoughts #actions #behaviors #shame #value #humanvalue #worth #humanworth #inherentworth #permanent #superficial #temporary #children #parents #energy #positiveenergy #negativeenergy #darthvader #obionekenobi #emotionalhealth #parenting #god #qualities #goodqualities #negativequalities #emotionaldisorders #cure #completerecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett

A really important episode. What does entropy and 'spacial disorientation' have to do with emotional health? Listen to learn more. Also, are you exploiting patterns and cycles? If not, now might be a good time to start.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community exclusively at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett. Livestreams every Monday within the group.    #entropy #spacialdisorientation #psychology #selfimprovement #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #cure #completerecovery #truerecovery #authenticrecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett

What we can learn about emotional health by studying silverback gorillas and honeybees: The power of not minding, and your individual value as a person.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or download the Locals.com app from the App Store and search for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett.    #patience #indifference #attitude #perspectives #caring #notcaring #thinking #psychology #gorillas #honeybees #inherentworth #valuesystems #individuality #diversity #selflove #selfloathing #selfesteem #emptiness #goodforsomething #god #angels #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #cure #completerecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett

Humility. Sabotaging behaviors. The Participation Trophy Mentality.    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or download the Locals.com app from the App Store and search for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett.    #humility #sabotagingbehaviors #participationtrophy #relationships #parents #children #humanworth #humanvalue #value #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #cure #completerecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett 

The only way to put things right, or to bring things back into balance. Also, what makes a perfect parent?    http://www.thelastsymptom.com   Join our online community at thelastsymptom.locals.com, or by downloading the Locals.com app from the App Store and searching for The Last Symptom by Brian Barnett.    #balance #recompense #makeamends #parents #children #abuse #harm #qualifications #conditions #forgiveness #selfforgiveness #apology #emotionalhealth #emotionaldisorders #mentalhealth #cure #completerecovery #truerecovery #thelastsymptom #brianbarnett