The Spicy Life

Can a woman’s ambition become the dealbreaker in her love life? Or is “men being intimidated” just a story we tell ourselves?In this episode of The Spicy Life, Spicy Mari sits down with media personality and cultural commentator Segun Oduolowu to unpack the tension between love, power, ego, and success in modern relationships.Get ready for some spicy tips on:The difference between intimidation and incompatibilityWhy some men retreat when they finally get the “boss” woman they say they wantWhether male ego naturally clashes with female ambition or if it’s just cultural conditioningHow successful women should navigate dating without dimming their shineThe evolving definition of masculinity and partnership in today’s worldThis is a raw, unfiltered conversation that challenges old gender roles and explores how men and women can build love that thrives in the face of ambition. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much,” “too independent,” or “too successful,” this episode will set the record straight.

In this spicy episode of The Spicy Life Podcast, Spicy Mari sits down with Reality Star of @netflix Sneaky Links, Zoe Martin to unpack one of the hottest debates in modern dating: Are women’s standards too high or are they finally just high enough?Get ready for some spicy tips on:✨ Where women’s standards really come from personal experience, survival, or social media✨ The difference between healthy standards, emotional unavailability, and unrealistic expectations✨ Whether women are asking for qualities in men that they haven’t yet mastered in themselves✨ How hypergamy (“dating up”) can empower or isolate modern women✨ Why trauma-informed boundaries sometimes turn into walls that block intimacyZoe also gets candid about her own journey: the standards she’s raised, the ones she’s released, and the lessons learned from lowering her bar for the wrong man.If you’ve ever wondered whether your “standards” are keeping you safe or secretly sabotaging your love life, this episode will challenge your thinking, stir your soul, and help you set requirements rooted in alignment, not fear.

Dating after divorce isn’t just about finding someone new — it’s about becoming someone new.On this episode of The Spicy Life Podcast ft. Reinvention Speaker & Mentor Magalie Rene @MagalieRene, we go there.Get ready for some spicy insights on:✨ Who did you have to become to align with the love you deserve?✨ How do you break the cycle of attracting the same man in a different body?✨ After abuse, how do you learn to trust yourself again?✨ And what does it really mean to reinvent yourself for love?If you’ve ever questioned your “type,” your healing, or your worth… this conversation will shift you. #TheSpicyLife #DatingAfterDivorce #Reinvention #HealingJourney #SpicyMari #MagalieRene

"Men are better with wives." But what does that really mean?This week on The Spicy Life Podcast, we’re sitting with Personal Brand Architect & Relationship Strategist @chriskazirolle. Together, we explore how the right woman doesn’t just support a man… she elevates him.Get ready for some spicy insights on:💍 Why commitment could be a man’s greatest edge🏠 The difference between playing house vs. building a home🧠 How women help men evolve emotionally, spiritually, and professionally🗣️ What being deeply known by one person can do for a man’s legacyTune in for a real conversation of love, leadership, and becoming husband material. Available on all streaming platforms#TheSpicyLife #MenAndMarriage #PurposeMate #HusbandMaterial #ChrisKazi #RelationshipGoals #EmotionalIntelligence #SpicyMari #thespicylife #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth  #breakup #healing #communication #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance 

From Playboy Bunny to Netflix star of Sneaky Links, Llulu Williams joins me on The Spicy Life Podcast to talk ALL things shame, sex appeal, and self-worth. 💋✨We unpack:•How shame starts in our youth•The role others play in shaping it. •Releasing shame from past sneaky links•Vetting men who see your body vs. your soul•Social media, sex appeal, and standing in your powerLulu shares her raw journey of reclaiming confidence, choosing self-love over judgment, and flipping the script on shame on and off the screen. Ready to stop hiding and start owning your truth? Listen or watch on all streaming platforms.#TheSpicyLife #CombatShame #LuluWilliams #SneakyLinksNetflix #WomenEmpowerment #Unapologetic #DatingWithPurpose #SexAppealWithSubstance #HealingShame #ReclaimYourPower

Emotional intelligence isn’t just powerful, it’s sexy. In this episode of @Thespicylife Podcast, @TravisArenas, star of @netflix Sneaky Links Show, joins Relationship Expert @spicymari to unpack why emotionally aware men thrive in love, lust, and everything in between. From Sneaky Links to soul ties, we’re diving deep into the complexities of masculine vs. feminine energy, emotional maturity, and the challenges of true vulnerability. Tap in, kings. 👑❤️‍🔥 #TheSpicyLife #EmotionalIntelligence #TravisArenas #SneakyLinks

The Journey from Being Chosen… to Choosing Yourself Aint Easy @AngeliquerWilcox star of @Netflix Sneaky Links: Dating After Dark joins @spicymari on this week's episode of @thespicylife podcast to discuss “How to Build Unshakable Self-Esteem in Dating & Relationships.”Tune in to find out what it means to lose yourself in love… and then fight to find your way back. About the hard moments when self-doubt creeps in, when you question your worth, when you're tempted to settle for attention instead of holding out for alignment.This episode isn’t just about dating. It’s about Self-Respect, Self-talk and Self-reclamation.If you're ready to stop waiting to be chosen — and start choosing yourself first, you're going to love this episode.Listen on all streaming platforms or watch on YouTube (link in bio)#TheSpicyLifePodcast #AngeliqueWilcox #SneakyLinksNetflix #HealingOutLoud #KnowYourWorth #SelfEsteemJourney #FeminineConfidence #HighValueWoman #BoundariesAreBeautiful #SituationshipRecovery #WomenWhoChoose #SelfLoveIsPower

Feeling disconnected in the bedroom?This week on @thespicylife, we’re turning up the heat with “How to Solve a Sexless Relationship.”Relationship expert @spicymari teams up with Psychologist & Sex Therapist, Dr. Shannon Chavez @drshannonchavez to break down the real reasons intimacy fades—and how to reignite the flame.Expect juicy insights on:🔥 Reclaiming your pleasure identity🔥 Identifying what you truly need in the bedroom🔥 Navigating those “we need to talk” moments with care🔥 How confidence affects your desire🔥 Creating a safe space for love to evolve through every seasonWhether you’re in a dry spell or just craving deeper connection, this one’s for you.Tap in, turn on, and tune into the truth.

This episode of The Spicy Life Podcast is straight fire! If life has you feeling lost, it’s time to find your way back. You are not alone. You are loved. You are worthy. And if you’re ready to heal the wounds that have been holding you back, this is your moment. Relationship expert @SpicyMari sits down with author and mental health expert Dr. Jay Barnett @Kingjaybarnett to dive deep into “How Men Can Overcome Depression & Build Confidence.” Get ready for some spicy insights on:🔥 Acknowledging the depths of your pain🔥 What true healing really looks like🔥 How men can uplift and support each other🔥 Ways women can show empathy to men🔥 The difference between serving him and saving him. This episode isn’t just a conversation—it’s an invitation to healing, growth, and the power of community. Don’t miss it!#relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #malevsman #dondrewhitfield #breakup #healing #communication #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife

A dream without a plan is just a wish. If fear or self-doubt is holding you back from accomplishing your vision for the future, you definitely need to listen to this week’s podcast episode of @thespicylife “How To Breathe Life Into Your Dreams ft. @bjthedreamer 📖 Tune in as Relationship Expert @spicymari sits down with her awesome writing coach to discuss how to use your trials and tribulations to birth greatness. #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #Author #Dreams #BrianJohnson #writinggoals #highvibrations #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance

“Are you in love with a boy or a man?” Does your partner serve others or only serve himself? If you’re having a hard time trying to get him to level up then you are going to appreciate this episode of The Spicy Life Podcast. Relationship Expert @spicymari sits down with Actor, Author and Activist @alldondre to discuss his phenomenal book @malevsman  Get spicy tips on: Questions to ask while dating  How to motivate change Recognizing a males pain Ways single mothers can guide their sons The benefits of maturing  Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #malevsman #dondrewhitfield #sallirichardson #healing #communication #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife

Do you have a hard time knowing when to leave a relationship? If you are loyal to a fault then you are going to love this episode of The Spicy Life Podcast. Relationship Expert @spicymari sits down with Reality Star and Host @chloeveitchofficial to discuss “How to recover from a breakup.“  Get spicy tips on: When to walk away Unhealthy habits The healing process  Who to trust with your feelings Learning to love again Disclaimer: This episode was recorded Sept 11th, 2024 Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #chloeveitch #breakup #healing #communication #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife

Does your partner fight fair or dirty? Comedian @kevonstage and Digital creator @mrskevonstage join @spicymari on this episode of @thespicylife podcast to discuss “How to manage conflict in your relationship.” Catch these valuable tools for building compassion, communication and closeness with your lover. Tune in as we laugh at ourselves and laugh at the wild things love will make you do! #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #christians #kevonstage #mrskevonstage #communication #healing #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife

Are relationships a career distraction or an asset? Film Director @wuzgood joins @spicymari on this episode of @thespicylife podcast to discuss the parallel between maturing in his career and maturing in his romantic relationship. Catch these valuable tools on his pursuit of success. Take notes on how his woman has been instrumental in his emotional and professional development. You can go fast alone ya’ll but you can go further together folks! Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #mataphysicalhealing #energywork #lightworker #highvibrations #divineguidance #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife

When will your zodiac sign find love in 2024? @astrofashionista certified astrologer and founder of @giftofthenile sits down with Relationship Expert @spicymari on @thespicylife podcast to share what month you will be the most attractive, which season you should be socializing, and when the door is most likely open for a purpose-mate this year. Love is definitely on the way for your astrology sign but if you fail to prepare, prepare to fail……  Listen on all streaming platforms or watch on YouTube (link in bio) Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #astrology #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #zodiac #energywork #lightworker #highvibrations #divineguidance #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife 

Image matters but authenticity is king. @broderickhunter model and founder of “Sell Your Look,” sits down with Relationship Expert @spicymari on @thespicylife podcast to share how’s he’s mastered recognizing his gifts and maximizing them. Find out how to acquire the self-love and confidence to live in your truth. Learn how to release expectations and appreciate your relationships even if they have an expiration date. Listen on all streaming platforms or watch on YouTube (link in bio) Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #broderickhunter #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #mataphysicalhealing #energywork #lightworker #highvibrations #divineguidance #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife 

Do you want to possess a more secure attachment style? Media Psychologist, Dr. @coreyemanuel sits down with @spicymari on @thespicylife podcast to share the steps to becoming a more secure partner. Find out if you have the self-awareness and emotional intelligence to evolve in your own love life. Learn about the 4 different attachment styles and how the pros and cons of each are revealed in dating and partnership.    Tune in as we share #Spicytips on: .  How to communicate your emotions  .  How much grace should you give your lover   .  What to do when you’re an anxious in love with an avoidant .  What being in a situationship may say about your attachment style Listen all streaming platforms or watch on YouTube (link in bio) Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #mataphysicalhealing #energywork #lightworker #highvibrations #divineguidance #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife 

Can you handle your relationship being in the public eye? Influencer couple @coreybrooks and @shmami sit down with @spicymari on this week’s episode of @thespicylife podcast to share how to create intimacy, security and trust after meeting online. You’ll be surprised at how this Tik Tok, IG couple went from enjoying the single life, to sharing a vial marriage traveling the world and inspiring others to give love a chance.  Tune in as we share #Spicytips on: .  How to slide through his DM .  The benefits for men who commit  .  What is Wingman Wednesday .  How to motivate your partner to create content  Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #mataphysicalhealing #energywork #lightworker #highvibrations #divineguidance #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife

Does your partner inspire creativity and passion? Understanding and accountability are necessary components for growth within a purpose partnership. Platinum selling recording artist @adrianmarcel joins @spicymari on this episode of @thespicylife podcast to tell us how to be a hyphy wifey, the birth of R&Bay Music, and how his self-love journey reconnected him to his purpose. Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #adrianmarcel #bayarea #oakland #sanfransisco #Randbay #randb #music #e40 #bipcity #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife #partnership 

The struggle is real for any woman who is trying to do every role exceptionally well. Running a business, coaching clients, being a wife, mother, friend, daughter, sister, staying fit and fine is wearing @spicymari out. Listen in as she shares her personal weaknesses and strengths through her family health scares and marital lessons on this very transparent episode of @thespicylife podcast.  Tune in as we share #Spicytips on: .  Admitting your fears in partnership  .  Cultivating vulnerability  .  Navigating new parenting skills you never witnessed  .  Recognizing jealousy and shifting to inspiration Spicy MU: @makeupfetish07 #relationshipexpert #energyhealing #spiritualhealing #spiritualgrowth #healingvibrations #mataphysicalhealing #energywork #lightworker #highvibrations #divineguidance #PuposeMates #Powercouple #Love #passion #thespicylife #Dating #spicytips #relationships #relationshipgoals #relationship #couple #marriage #couplegoals #couples #romance #thespicylife