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Are My Standards Too High? ft. Zoe Martin

Are My Standards Too High? ft. Zoe Martin

Update: 2025-09-09
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In this spicy episode of The Spicy Life Podcast, Spicy Mari sits down with Reality Star of @netflix Sneaky Links, Zoe Martin to unpack one of the hottest debates in modern dating: Are women’s standards too high or are they finally just high enough?Get ready for some spicy tips on:✨ Where women’s standards really come from personal experience, survival, or social media✨ The difference between healthy standards, emotional unavailability, and unrealistic expectations✨ Whether women are asking for qualities in men that they haven’t yet mastered in themselves✨ How hypergamy (“dating up”) can empower or isolate modern women✨ Why trauma-informed boundaries sometimes turn into walls that block intimacyZoe also gets candid about her own journey: the standards she’s raised, the ones she’s released, and the lessons learned from lowering her bar for the wrong man.If you’ve ever wondered whether your “standards” are keeping you safe or secretly sabotaging your love life, this episode will challenge your thinking, stir your soul, and help you set requirements rooted in alignment, not fear.

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Are My Standards Too High? ft. Zoe Martin

Are My Standards Too High? ft. Zoe Martin

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