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In this replay episode of Manlihood, we’re diving back into the incredible story of Saint Nicholas—a man whose life of courage, conviction, and compassion earned him a rightful place in our Testicular Fortitude Series. Most of us know Santa Claus as a jolly man in red, thanks to 19th-century poets and Coca-Cola ads. But the real St. Nicholas? He was a man of grit, faith, and action—a true example of masculinity worth celebrating. The True Story of St. NicholasBorn in 270 AD in Turkey, Nicholas became a priest, a protector of the vulnerable, and a champion of his faith. Despite persecution and imprisonment under Emperor Diocletian, he never backed down. Miracles and LegendsFrom raising murdered children to life, to calming stormy seas, Nicholas’s life is packed with miraculous stories that highlight his courage and deep faith. The Origin of Stocking StuffersThe tradition of gifts in stockings stems from Nicholas’s compassion. By secretly providing dowries for a poor man’s daughters, he saved them from a grim fate. The Slap Heard Around the WorldAt the Council of Nicaea in 325, Nicholas defended the divinity of Christ so boldly that he slapped a heretic, risking his reputation to stand for the truth. Saint Nicholas wasn’t just about holiday cheer. He was a man of action and courage, using his strength to protect and serve others. His life is an inspiring example of what it means to be a man of character and fortitude. Rediscover the powerful story of the real St. Nicholas, a man whose Testicular Fortitude made him a legend. This episode of the podcast for men will challenge and inspire you to live boldly and with purpose. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to Manlihood! Join us as we explore what it means to be a man of courage, conviction, and kindness. #Manlihood #TesticularFortitude #StNicholas #RealSanta #Masculinity #PodcastForMen #Courage #Faith Key Highlights:Why This Matters:Tune In:

In this powerful conversation, Josh sits down with Jeanell Greene, Certified Life & Relationship Coach and the “Man Whisperer” herself. Jeanell works with couples all over the world to rebuild trust, restore connection, and understand each other on a deeper level.In this episode, Jeanell breaks down WHY so many men feel misunderstood, unheard, and emotionally shut down in their relationships — and what women are really trying to communicate.She also dives into:Why women think men “aren’t listening”The emotional wiring differences between men and womenHow men can communicate better without feeling weak or exposedWhy vulnerability is actually a man’s superpower, not a liabilityWhat creates safety, trust, and intimacy in a marriageWhy couples get stuck in cycles of hurt — and how to break themHow to rebuild trust quickly (even after major betrayal)Whether you're dating, married, or trying to heal a struggling relationship… this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and practical tools to lead with strength without losing your heart.🧠 Key TakeawaysVulnerability creates connection, not weakness.Women aren’t asking men to be mind readers—but they often assume men “should know.”Most conflict comes from different wiring, childhood conditioning, and misunderstandings, not lack of love.Tone matters more than words when communicating.Safety + empathy = trust restored.Praise your spouse often — appreciation is fuel for intimacy.Healthy marriage habits start with self-awareness and emotional honesty.🕒 Timestamps00:00 — Why vulnerability is power02:00 — Why we brought a woman onto Manlihood04:30 — The problem with assuming men and women think the same07:00 — Why men shut down10:00 — The viral “wire spool existential crisis” story12:00 — Masculine vs feminine wiring18:00 — How to rebuild trust after betrayal25:00 — Why therapy often stays surface-level30:00 — Why couples think it’s “too late” (and why it’s not)36:00 — Sex, stress, and the emotional load women carry44:00 — Foreplay, connection, and real intimacy48:00 — How to talk safely about sexual expectations52:00 — Fighting fair & emotional safety56:00 — What it means to “be a man”01:01:00 — What 10-year-old Janelle needed to hear01:04:00 — Her final message to men🔗 Connect with Jeanell GreeneWebsite: https://jeanellgreene.comHer recent article:https://usanews.com/newsroom/why-good-men-struggle-in-marriage-and-how-to-rebuild-trust-intimacy-and-partnership-fastIf you know someone struggling in their marriage, she takes referrals.🔥 Join the Manlihood Community📘 Get the new book — Fight Like Hell: A Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Downhttps://amzn.to/3WSA647👥 Join the Manlihood ManCave on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1694123644251571🎧 Subscribe to Manlihood+ on YouTube or Spotify for exclusive episodes and behind-the-scenes content.

Most men today are addicted to noise — the scroll, the sports alerts, the constant notifications. But what if stillness isn’t weakness? What if it’s one of the greatest tools a man can master?In this episode of Manlihood, Josh Hatcher explores how embracing silence can help you lower anxiety, sharpen focus, and build mental and spiritual strength. Drawing from his own journey of fasting, prayer, and journaling, Josh shares how quiet moments can lead to breakthrough healing and deeper connection with God.🧠 Learn how to:Start your day with intentional silenceProcess thoughts without numbing outUse stillness to find peace and directionBuild unshakeable strength from within🕊️ “Silence is a source of great strength.” — Lao Tzu🔗 Resources Mentioned📘 Fight Like Hell: A Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Down➡️ https://amzn.to/3WSA647💪 Join the Manlihood Private Facebook Group for brotherhood and encouragement:➡️ https://www.facebook.com/groups/1694123644251571🌐 Explore more resources, blogs, and podcasts at:➡️ https://manlihood.com🎧 Subscribe to Manlihood+ on YouTube or Spotify for bonus content and coaching opportunities.💬 If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it.In this Episode:00:00 Introduction: The Power of Stillness01:26 Welcome to Manlihood: Season Nine02:14 Manlihood Plus and Coaching Opportunities02:54 The Fight Like Hell Journal03:43 The Importance of Silence07:28 Practicing Daily Stillness10:12 Guided Stillness Exercise12:06 Conclusion: Embrace Stillness

Cowardice is killing men—not with bullets or blades, but with daily compromises. Every time we choose comfort over courage, we surrender part of our soul. In this episode of Manlihood, Josh Hatcher challenges men to stop avoiding responsibility and to live with boldness, truth, and conviction.🕒 Timestamps00:00 – Cowardice is killing men01:00 – Welcome to Season 9 of Manlihood01:45 – The power of sharing the mission02:00 – Introducing Fight Like Hell: A Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Down03:00 – What cowardice really looks like03:30 – Running from responsibility and conflict04:00 – Proverbs 28:1 – The righteous are bold as a lion04:45 – How cowardice steals your self-respect05:30 – Generational impact of fear and avoidance06:00 – Courage isn’t the absence of fear06:30 – Acting despite fear and discomfort07:00 – Strength and courage from faith (Joshua 1:9)07:45 – Practical ways to build daily courage08:30 – Guided reflection: facing your dragons09:00 – “I will not trade courage for comfort.”09:45 – Final encouragement and call to action10:00 – Bonus: Manlihood+ and Fight Like Hell journal🔥 Key TakeawaysCowardice wears the mask of “keeping the peace.”Avoidance destroys self-respect and models fear for our children.Courage isn’t about being fearless—it’s about acting despite fear.Real strength comes from faith and brotherhood.Step forward, face your dragons, and live like a lion.📚 Resources💥 Grab Fight Like Hell: A Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Down:👉 https://amzn.to/4hwXsWm💪 Explore more at Manlihood.com:👉 https://www.manlihood.com🎧 Subscribe on Spotify:👉 https://open.spotify.com/show/1lYqV9uYtL6Mwo8TQmL9Ww🎥 Subscribe on YouTube:👉 https://www.youtube.com/@Manlihood🧠 Join Manlihood+ for bonus content:👉 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYzlfV0Xj5Nf6QK4VIfx3eg/join👉 https://podcasters.spotify.com/podcast/2494ac4/manlihood/subscribe📘 Get more Manlihood books:Manlihood: The 12 Pillars of Masculinity – https://amzn.to/47MCrDUReignite – https://amzn.to/4qzwUYRThe Blue Book – https://amzn.to/3Wsq3CKChange Your Life In a Year – https://amzn.to/4nAmp4S✊ Connect with Josh HatcherWebsite: https://www.manlihood.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/manlihoodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/manlihoodTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@manlihood.comX (Twitter): https://twitter.com/manlihooddotcom

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Manlihood, Josh Hatcher talks with Kyle Tresch — musician, entrepreneur, and co-founder (with his wife Ariel) of The CouplePreneurs Show (also on Spotify).Kyle opens up about his early marriage struggles, identity crisis, and how God used it all to reshape his understanding of manhood, leadership, and humility.He shares how he and Ariel went from competing in business to partnering in purpose — helping entrepreneur couples grow thriving businesses without losing their marriages.And at the heart of it all is a message that every man needs to hear:“The more you try to prove you’re a man, the less of a man you are.”This conversation hits on faith, masculinity, purpose, ego, and what it really means to serve the people you love.🧠 Key TakeawaysReal men don’t need to prove themselves — they serve others.Leadership is about humility, not control.Your wife isn’t your assistant — she’s your partner and co-creator.Healing your heart and identity can unlock breakthrough in business.God’s love and value for you are not earned — they’re received.Integrity and humility are the foundations of true masculinity.🕒 Timestamps00:00 — “Stop trying to prove you’re a man.”04:00 — The “anti-honeymoon” years and the power struggle08:00 — Finding identity through humility and faith13:00 — Marriage, masculinity, and misunderstood scriptures17:00 — Leadership vs lordship: How Jesus modeled manhood26:00 — From validation to purpose33:00 — When your heroes let you down38:00 — Finding identity as a son of God43:00 — Marriage, humility, and redemption49:00 — Who Kyle and Ariel can (and can’t) help54:00 — What it really takes to be a man🔗 Guest Links🌐 Website: kyleandariel.com🎧 Podcast: The CouplePreneurs Show (Apple Podcasts) | Listen on Spotify📸 Instagram: @kyleandariel💥 Connect with Josh / Manlihood📕 Get Fight Like Hell: A Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Down💬 Join the Manlihood ManCave community on Facebook🔔 Subscribe for bonus content on YouTube and Spotify🌐 Visit Manlihood.com

The world is getting harder — not softer — and most men are not ready for what’s coming.Combat veteran and war correspondent Chuck Holton has seen the collapse of civilizations up close — in Burma, Ukraine, Israel, and beyond — and in this conversation he lays out exactly how men must respond if they want to protect their families, build resilient communities, and live with purpose in a culture that is falling apart.In this episode:Why “discipline is a mental muscle” — and how to build itWhy comfort, fear, and pride lead to bad decisionsThe collapse of community — and how men rebuild itWhat real courage looks like under fireHow to become the man others rely on in crisisThis is a gut-check for every man who refuses to live soft.Website: https://chuckholton.comYouTube (The Hot Zone): Search “Hot Zone Chuck Holton”Join Manlihood+ for bonus episodes & extrasYouTube Members: https://www.youtube.com/@Manlihood/joinSpotify Subscribers: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/manlihood/subscribeGet the Fight Like Hell Journal for Menhttps://amzn.to/47344XGJoin the Manlihood Man Cave (men only, free)Search “Manlihood Man Cave” on FacebookIf this episode hits you — don’t just click away.Like it. Comment. Share it.That is how we multiply the impact and raise up more men who stand firm.🔗 Connect with Chuck Holton📌 Support Manlihood & Go Deeper⏱ BATTLE MAP — CHAPTERS & TIMESTAMPS00:00 — Stop Being Soft: The Hard Way is the Only Way01:00 — Meet Chuck Holton: War, Faith & Making Men03:24 — Life on the Front Lines: Where Real Courage is Forged08:06 — Why Men Don’t Trust the Media — And Who They Turn To Instead09:18 — Going Where Everyone Else Refuses to Go14:00 — Christians Being Hunted: The War You Don’t See on the News18:34 — Guns, Comfort & Why Most Men Will Never Step Into the Fight20:16 — America is Dividing — And Nobody is Coming to Save You23:00 — Rebuilding Brotherhood: The Only Way We Make It Through26:32 — Government “Charity” is Killing Real Masculinity31:34 — Men Were Built to Fix What’s Broken — Stop Outsourcing It34:05 — If You’re Waiting for Permission — You’re Already Losing38:56 — Media Lies vs Real People: Why Getting Local Changes Everything40:56 — How to Make a Man: The SHAPE Blueprint49:13 — If You Want to Be a Man, Do This First53:19 — The Incel Bomb: A Generation of Angry, Isolated Men55:56 — Training Men for Crisis: Building the New Warrior Class58:41 — Don’t Miss Your Kids — Nothing Matters More59:41 — The Rule That Separates Men From Boys01:01:13 — Where to Find Chuck + Your Call to Action

Men are breaking under the weight of silent battles — and most never say a word. Nearly 80% of all suicide deaths are men. That is not a statistic… that is our brothers, fathers, friends — and sometimes, it’s us.In this solo episode, Josh confronts the reality of men’s mental health, the cost of isolation, and what it really looks like to fight back instead of go numb. We dig into anger, depression, destructive coping, discipline, brotherhood, and faith — and we close with a guided meditation to help you re-center and reset.This isn’t therapy. This is brotherhood. This is training for the fight.Get the book — Fight Like Hell: A Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Downhttps://amzn.to/47hIP4GJoin Manlihood+ (bonus content & support the work)Spotify: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/manlihood/subscribeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/manlihood/joinJoin the private Men’s Community (Manlihood ManCave)https://www.facebook.com/share/g/168FfHAy3y/🔥 RESOURCES & NEXT STEPS

Steve Baumgartner was a meth cook, an enforcer, a satanist, and a man fully convinced he was beyond redemption. When he was arrested and told he could be facing 36 years in prison, he believed his life was over.But God wasn’t done writing his story.Today, Steve is the founder of Fire Forged Leader, a husband, father of eight, and a leader calling men to rise, repent, and reclaim the purpose they were made for. His story is raw, painful, and powerful — and it proves that no man is too far gone for God to rebuild.From meth labs and violence to mercy and redemptionThe arrest that became his turning pointHow God forges men through fire and consequenceCalling men out of comfort and into responsibilityLiving with conviction, purpose, and eternal perspectiveThis isn’t a motivational story — it’s a wake-up call.Website — https://www.fireforgedleader.comFacebook — https://www.facebook.com/steve.baumgartner.1975Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/realstevebaumgartner🎧 Join Manlihood+ for bonus content & deeper trainingSpotify — https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/manlihood/subscribeYouTube — https://www.youtube.com/manlihood/join📕 Get the BookFight Like Hell: A Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Downhttps://amzn.to/47hIP4G👥 Join the FREE Manlihood ManCave Communityhttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/168FfHAy3y/👍 Like • Comment • Subscribe • Leave a ReviewIt helps more men find the show and become the men they were made to be.In this episode:CONNECT WITH STEVE BAUMGARTNERSUPPORT & GROW WITH MANLIHOOD

Ryan Michler has been calling men to responsibility, discipline, and leadership for years. In this archived episode, he lays out what real masculine ownership looks like — not the watered-down version culture tries to sell.Season 9 of Manlihood arrives October 25 — be here when it does.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Jim Ramos has built his life around calling men out of comfort and into courage. In this rewind, he lays out a clear, unapologetic challenge for men to strengthen their souls, their homes, and their legacy.Season 9 of Manlihood launches October 25 — stay locked in.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Matt Beaudreau brings a sharp, disciplined perspective on fatherhood, leadership, and developing the next generation of strong men. This throwback episode is packed with conviction and clarity.Season 9 of Manlihood hits October 25 — subscribe now so you don’t miss it.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Larry Hagner has spent years helping men lead their families with strength and intentionality. In this revisit, he speaks to the kind of manhood that actually transforms a home — not just talks about it.Season 9 of Manlihood launches October 25 — stay ready.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Nico Lagan speaks bluntly to the crisis of weak men and the need for conviction, self-mastery, and purpose. In this replay, he confronts the excuses that keep men soft and calls them to rise.Season 9 of Manlihood drops October 25 — be ready when it hits.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Scot McKay pulls no punches in this throwback conversation about identity, strength, polarity, and masculine development. This is the kind of talk that wakes men up and sets them straight.Season 9 of Manlihood launches October 25 — make sure you’re subscribed ahead of time.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

In this rewind from the Manlihood archives, Jeremy Stalnecker speaks directly to the cost and calling of masculinity. His life as a Marine Corps Infantry Officer and Executive Director of the Mighty Oaks Foundation has given him a front-row seat to what happens when men collapse — and what happens when they stand.Season 9 of Manlihood drops October 25 — make sure you’re plugged in for what’s coming.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Doug Holt brings the conversation down to the practical — the habits, disciplines, and internal shifts that separate men who drift from men who build. This replay hits with challenge and clarity.Season 9 of Manlihood hits October 25 — lock in so you don’t miss it.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

In this revisit, Dr. John Delony brings clarity, courage, and hard truth to the conversation about mental health and manhood. He speaks straight to the battles men are actually fighting — and how to confront them with strength instead of shame.Season 9 of Manlihood drops October 25 — don’t miss what’s coming.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

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Death is coming for every one of us — rich or poor, strong or weak, influential or obscure. The shock of public deaths like Charlie Kirk’s assassination forces us to face what we usually avoid: life is short, and we waste most of it. The question is not if we die — but what will outlive us when we do. In this solo episode, Josh Hatcher explores the urgency of living with intention — not in fear, but with purpose, legacy, faith, and courage. He shares stories of men whose quiet choices shaped lives far beyond their own and names the legacy-killers most men fall into: passivity, bitterness, addiction, escape, and delay. We close with a guided reflection to help you visualize your legacy before your time is up.⏱ TIMESTAMPS00:00 — Why death shocks us more than it should01:00 — Why men waste most of their lives02:00 — Fight Like Hell journal + Manlihood+03:00 — Seneca: “We waste much of life”04:00 — You don’t know when your clock runs out05:00 — “Teach us to number our days” — Psalm 9006:00 — What will outlive you? (Legacy question)07:00 — The story of my dad’s funeral & his legacy09:00 — Kindness isn’t always niceness10:00 — Are you a giver or a taker?11:00 — What destroys a man’s legacy12:00 — Addiction, escape, and wasted years13:00 — Faith, eternity, and what matters most14:00 — Jesus and the question of your soul15:00 — Guided legacy meditation16:00 — Final challenge + call to action🔥 RESOURCES & NEXT STEPSTHEMES IN THIS EPISODEFight Like Hell — The Journal for Men Who Won’t Back Downhttps://amzn.to/47hIP4GJoin Manlihood+ (bonus episodes & support the mission)Spotify — https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/manlihood/subscribeYouTube — https://www.youtube.com/manlihood/joinJoin the private Manlihood ManCavehttps://www.facebook.com/share/g/168FfHAy3y/We are all going to die — so live on purposeThe legacy you leave is built dailyPassivity, bitterness, and addiction kill more legacies than death doesFaith and eternity reshape how a man lives nowA meditation to realign your life before time runs outIf this hit you — don’t just nod and scroll. Share it with a man who needs the wake-up call.

Brian Johnson brings a direct, no-nonsense perspective on building a life of strength, integrity, and responsibility. This archived episode is a wake-up call for men who refuse to coast.Season 9 of Manlihood arrives October 25 — don’t miss the release.Get Fight Like Hell — a journal for men who refuse to back down: https://amzn.to/47hIP4GSubscribe on YouTube, Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen to podcasts.