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In today's world, there are so many forces that make us try to feel guilty for being MEN. This podcast was created to give guys just like you the skills to rediscover your masculine instincts. My sincere goal is to help you maximize your life in the areas of masculinity ... seduction .... dating ... self-development ... success ... money ... confidence ... sex ... and women. And to do it WITHOUT APOLOGY.
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In this practical and entertaining episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the exact step-by-step system to get a girl’s phone number — and actually get her to go on a date with you. Forget about “numbers that go nowhere.” This episode reveals the secrets behind phone numbers that stick and lead to real dates and real connections. Mark explains why attraction is built on a spectrum and how to hit the right amount of attraction before asking for her number. He introduces his powerful “3 in 5 Rule”— and walks you through the psychology, body language, and verbal cues that show she's into you.   Key Takeaways: - Why the first conversation is critical for getting a text back and a date. - How to use the “3 in 5” technique: three signs of attraction and five minutes of conversation. - How having her qualify herself increases her investment and attraction. - Three step-by-step ways to ask for her number that have the highest success rates. - How playful humor, phone exchanges, and follow-ups boost your chances of a date.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:15] – Why just getting the phone number isn’t enough [00:01:54] – The first conversation [00:02:43] – Attraction is a spectrum [00:04:14] – The “3 in 5” technique [00:06:42] – Signs of attraction [00:07:52] – Make her qualify for you [00:10:15] – Three proven ways to ask for her number [00:14:10] – Playful banter examples [00:14:57] – If you don’t know, you should still go! [00:16:36] – Episode wrap-up and next episode preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #AttractionRules #GameAndReal #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #Seduction #BodyLanguage #MasculineEnergy
In this insightful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals five hidden rules of attraction that could be silently sabotaging your success with women. Whether you’re struggling to get attention, make a connection, or keep a woman interested, this episode breaks down practical, high-impact strategies you can start using immediately. Mark dives deep into subtle techniques like using eye contact to communicate desire, maintaining emotional strength to command respect, balancing gamey tactics with authenticity, leaving women on a high note, and mastering the power of downward inflection to assert authority.  Key Takeaways: - How to use eye contact, facial expressions, and body language to communicate attraction without words. - Why becoming emotionally weak or needy destroys attraction. - The power of following “gamey” techniques with real, authentic interactions to avoid being perceived as a player. - How to always leave women on a high note to increase desire and connection. - Why downward vocal inflection and authority in speech are critical for attraction.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:42] – How eye contact can seduce and dominate attention [00:04:47] – The power of acting distracted and distant [00:05:52] – ‘Assess’ her to get in the power position [00:06:24] – Using facial expressions without words [00:07:54] – Perks Program overview [00:09:35] – The danger of becoming emotionally weak [00:13:35] – Balancing gamey behavior with authentic conversation [00:17:24] – Leaving women on a high note: why it matters [00:18:56] – Using downward inflection to communicate authority [00:21:37] – Episode wrap-up and coaching program invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #AttractionRules #GameAndReal #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #Seduction #BodyLanguage #MasculineEnergy
In this high-impact episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing discusses one of the most powerful frame control reversals in existence: Agree & Amplify. If you’ve ever been “tested” by a woman—whether she questions your confidence, mocks your shirt, or throws out a cheeky “are you gay?”—this episode teaches you how to flip that energy and instantly regain control of the interaction. Mark explains why frame control is the single most important skill in seduction and reveals how to use Agree & Amplify to disarm her tests with humor, congruence, and masculine ease.    Key Takeaways: - Why frame control is the backbone of attraction and masculine energy. - How Agree & Amplify instantly flips her challenge back on her. - Examples of exactly what to say when a woman teases, tests, or questions you. - How mastering frame control turns you into a confident, unshakable man.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:49] – The definition of frame control [00:04:28] – Why Mark’s wearing that stupid shirt [00:05:43] – Frame check examples [00:06:55] – Client story: “You look like you shit manliness” [00:10:32] – What Agree & Amplify looks like in practice [00:12:23] – You can use it on guys too! [00:13:08] – More agree Agree & Amplify examples [00:15:01] – Pay attention to her tone/use social intelligence [00:17:21] – Alternate reversal technique: misinterpret [00:20:20] – Episode wrap up and coaching program invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #FrameControl #AgreeAndAmplify #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #Attraction #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #MindsetShift #Seduction
In this deeply transformative episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down why learning to love yourself again isn’t just about inner peace—it’s the foundation of real confidence and attraction. Drawing on spiritual philosophy, psychology, and real-life coaching insights, Mark reveals how negative self-talk, old wounds, and other people’s judgments have shaped the way you see yourself—and why it’s time to drop that frame and reclaim your power. This episode guides you through practical mindset shifts, compassion exercises, and even a mirror challenge that will help you reconnect with the powerful soul you’ve always been.   Key Takeaways: - Why self-hatred is “other people’s programming” that you’ve been printing on repeat. - How remembering your childhood innocence reveals the truth of who you are. - The spiritual purpose of forgetting who you are—and the power of waking back up. - Why women are drawn to men who unapologetically love themselves. - A mirror exercise to build instant self-respect and break negative self-talk.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:18] – The purpose of life [00:03:29] – Love yourself in spite of your flaws [00:04:56] – How childhood experiences planted the seeds of self-hate [00:06:09] – We’re here to overcome the world [00:08:16] – Near death experiences [00:10:10] – Why you need to love yourself [00:12:20] – You’ve bought into other peoples frame [00:13:45] – You are a powerful creator: shifting belief systems [00:16:21] – You deserve love, stop mistreating yourself [00:19:13] – How NLP can help remove your negative belief systems [00:20:40] – Final thoughts and invitation to coaching Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #SelfLove #ConfidenceForMen #Masculinity #Attraction #HighValueMan #SelfRespect #HealingJourney #MindsetShift #LoveYourself
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down how your cell phone—something you already carry in your pocket—is one of the most underrated tools for building attraction and securing dates. While most guys stick to the same boring routine of endless texting, Mark reveals how voice calls, voicemails, and even voice memos can instantly set you apart from the herd. When you learn how to use your phone like the ultimate Swiss Army knife, you’ll fast-track trust, create deeper connections, and boost attraction in ways texting alone never could. Mark shares real examples, attraction-building strategies, and even hilarious voicemail templates that get women calling back and asking you out.   Key Takeaways: - Why calling women in 2025–2026 is the ultimate “differentiator” from other guys. - How attraction fades after getting her number—and how to revive it with a phone call. - The “Atomic Trust Method” that builds instant comfort and trust. - Funny voicemail strategies that grab her attention and get guaranteed callbacks. - A voice-deepening exercise to instantly improve how you sound on calls and memos.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:09] – Why calling beats texting in today’s dating landscape [00:04:25] – It’s a competition, you need to stand out! [00:08:04] – Timing strategy: why 6pm calls work best [00:09:45] – What to do if she doesn’t pick up [00:10:29] – How to build attraction on the call [00:11:49] – The “atomic trust” approach, let her feel comfortable [00:13:25] – Use Mark’s templates to secure the date [00:14:41] – Hilarious voicemail templates that get women to call back [00:19:29] – How to leverage voice notes [00:20:16] – Success stories from Mark’s coaching program [00:22:53] – Voice-deepening hack to sound more masculine [00:24:26] – Final thoughts and coaching invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #PhoneGame #SwissArmyKnife #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #OnlineDating #TextGame #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement #VoiceGame
In this unfiltered episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the secrets to standing out in a girl’s DMs when she’s getting flooded with hundreds—if not thousands—of thirsty messages every day. Drawing from data collected in his Online Dating Masterclass (over 13,000 tested messages), Mark breaks down the psychology of what actually gets a response and why most men fail before they even hit “send.” From dialing in your profile photos and portraying a high-value lifestyle to crafting witty, curiosity-driven openers that spark replies, Mark gives you proven, field-tested strategies to separate yourself from the herd.   Key Takeaways: - Why your photos and follower count matter more than you think. - The importance of “pre-selection” and how to showcase it correctly. - Four powerful DM openers that consistently get replies. - Why being funny and teasing beats compliments every time. - How to avoid looking like every other “thirsty guy” in her inbox.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:21] – Announcement: Mark’s answering questions on Spotify/YouTube! [00:03:38] – Why your online presence matters a LOT in 2025–2026 [00:05:14] – Instagram pictures are your no1 priority [00:06:14] – Pre-selection: why women must see you with other attractive women [00:07:57] – Follower count is important [00:11:59] – Utilize AI tools to maximize your photos [00:13:21] – Four powerful DM openers (tested across 13,000+ messages) [00:18:12] – Student success stories from the coaching program [00:20:08] – Four powerful DM openers continued [00:24:06] – Final thoughts and invitation to apply for coaching Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #DMGame #InstagramGame #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #OnlineDating #TextGame #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
In this brutally honest new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing tackles one of the most confidence-destroying challenges men face: premature ejaculation. Drawing from his own raw personal experiences, Mark unpacks the psychology behind coming too quickly—what he calls the “second wolf phenomenon”—and reveals how hidden belief systems, shame, and mindset issues are sabotaging your bedroom performance. Mark shares his proven step-by-step strategies to help you last as long as you want, including unconventional but highly effective techniques you can try tonight. This episode gives you the tools to eliminate premature ejaculation and become the guy who can go round after round.   Key Takeaways: - Why premature ejaculation destroys your confidence and self-esteem. - The “second wolf phenomenon” and how your lizard brain is working against you. - How hidden belief systems about sex create performance problems. - Why “mental distractions” actually work. - The unconventional masturbation technique that lets you last indefinitely. - Why awareness of your psychology alone can sometimes cure the problem.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:15] – Mark’s personal story of premature ejaculation [00:03:22] – The “second wolf phenomenon” explained [00:05:30] – How personal belief systems about sex sabotage performance [00:07:45] – Awareness alone can (sometimes) be curative [00:09:13] – Practical tips: masturbation, numbing condoms, and mental tricks [00:12:17] – Info on The Sex Masterclass with Kirsten Trammell [00:14:46] – Mark’s unconventional technique to last as long as you want [00:17:49] – Explaining it to your partner and testing it solo first [00:18:46] – Final thoughts, masterclass invitation, and wrap-up   Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/ Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexTipsForMen #ConfidenceForMen #PrematureEjaculation #SexualMastery #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/   In this raw and hilarious new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing takes you deep into one of the most important skills in the bedroom: going down on a woman. With his trademark no-BS delivery, Mark breaks down his personal step-by-step approach to cunnilingus, blending practical technique with psychological insight so you can leave her shaking, screaming, and utterly addicted to you. This episode is packed with actionable tips to transform your oral game. Mark also reveals why foreplay is non-negotiable, and shares why pretending you love it (even if you don’t) is crucial to helping her climax. Key Takeaways: - Learn why her ability to climax is 80% mental. - The importance of anticipation and teasing before you dive in. - Mark’s go-to cunnilingus rhythm that keeps her building toward orgasm. - How to use your lips, tongue, and fingers in perfect sync. - The “hook of doom” method to hit her G-spot and take her over the edge. - Why encouraging her not to come actually helps her climax faster. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview[00:03:30] – Why cunnilingus makes women addicted to you[00:04:00] – Act like you love it! (even if you don’t)[00:05:07] – The sniff test & knowing when not to go down[00:07:25] – Talk about it first[00:08:57] – Making her feel comfortable[00:11:17] – Building anticipation with foreplay and teasing[00:13:46] – The first lick and rhythm that sets her on fire[00:17:50] – Sex Masterclass invitation[00:19:37] – The lip–tongue technique that makes girls explode[00:20:50] – Syncing tongue and fingers for maximum pleasure[00:23:09] – The “hook of doom” technique and how to find her G-spot[00:25:51] – Final tips, wrap-up, and masterclass details   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexTipsForMen #ConfidenceForMen #Cunnilingus #SexualMastery #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement  
Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/   In this powerful new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing lets you behind the curtain of an actual coaching call with his clients—real men investing in themselves and learning how to master attraction. This time, the focus is on one of the most electrifying aspects of game: sexual tension. Mark breaks down his proven, step-by-step formula for sparking sexual tension in the very first conversation. You’ll hear how to recognize signs of attraction, when to make the move, and how to use playful teasing and imaginative scenarios to take a girl from curious to absolutely hooked. With vivid examples—from the “bad kisser” question, to astrology-based routines, to playful “makeup fight” scenarios—you’ll see exactly how to create an irresistible atmosphere that turns sparks into flames. Key Takeaways: - Why you should never hit on a girl until she’s already attracted to you. - The four pillars of attraction: control, value, sexual tension, and qualifying. - Mark’s three most potent ways to build sexual tension on the spot. - Why talking about intimacy—but not acting on it immediately—skyrockets her attraction. - How to confidently steer conversations into playful, sexual territory without being needy. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview[00:01:04] – The V cut protocol: attraction first, hit on her after[00:02:29] – Starting the sexual tension process[00:04:13] – Should you make out with girls at the nightclub?[00:05:33] – The “bad kisser” question that sparks instant sexual tension[00:06:29] – Play-fighting routines and astrology banter[00:08:00] – Use roleplaying to hook her emotions[00:10:31] – Mark’s upcoming SEX MASTERCLASS[00:15:09] – Using hobbies and hypo stories to build sexual tension [00:17:57] – Teasing post-fight make up sex to build insane sexual attraction[00:19:22] – Episode wrap up and masterclass details About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexualTension #ConfidenceForMen #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives into one of the most sought-after skills in dating: consistently getting a blowjob from a woman. This episode isn’t about entitlement—it’s about attraction, sexual tension, and leading with confidence. Mark explains why giving pleasure first, talking about sexual desires, and role-playing scenarios dramatically increase the chances of her wanting to please you. You’ll learn how to approach women effectively, lead conversations about sex without being pushy, and reward behavior that encourages intimacy. Mark also gives practical tips for giving and receiving oral in a way that creates an unforgettable experience for both partners.    Key Takeaways: - How sexual tension and reciprocity increase the chances of oral sex. - Leading conversations about sex confidently and effectively. - Tips for giving and receiving oral like a pro. - How to boost approach confidence and become irresistible in the bedroom. - Exclusive insights into Mark’s upcoming masterclass with Kirsten Trammell.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:05] – Blowjobs are the best! [00:02:29] – The importance of opening a LOT of women [00:03:21] – Get her talking about blowjobs & roleplaying [00:05:09] – The norm of reciprocity [00:07:48] – How to be explicit [00:08:53] – Ask her questions to turn things sexual [00:09:48] – Psychological reinforcement and rewards [00:12:43] – You must go down on her first! [00:13:36] – Announcement: Sex Masterclass with Kirsten Trammell [00:17:13] – Tips on pleasing her and personal cleanliness [00:21:10] – Episode recap & wrap-up Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/ About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SexTips
In this 700th special episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reflects on what it truly means to be an Unapologetic Man in today’s world. From defending your masculinity to setting unbreakable boundaries, Mark breaks down why standing tall, owning your sexuality, and commanding respect is essential in a time when men are increasingly under attack. You’ll discover why being a man isn’t about entitlement or aggression—it’s about discipline, integrity, and living with purpose. Learn how to stop taking other people’s abuse, how to act with an unwavering spine, and why teaching people how to treat you is the most powerful tool you have. Key Takeaways: - How being unapologetic about your masculinity and sexuality builds respect. - Why you teach people how to treat you—and how to stop being a victim. - The difference between discipline-driven masculinity and toxic behavior. - Why integrity, consistency, and having spine are the core traits of an unapologetic man. - The importance of setting boundaries and enforcing them without apology. Key Timestamps: [00:01:05] – Episode Preview & Listener Appreciation [00:02:03] – The impact of this podcast on Mark’s life and mission [00:03:16] – Dealing with hate and criticism online [00:03:52] – Being unapologetic [00:05:29] – Why men are under attack and the Gen Z statistic [00:06:21] – Toxic masculinity explained and debunked [00:07:46] – The overswung pendulum: Sexuality and the attack on masculinity [00:09:55] – Discipline, integrity, and acting with spine [00:10:59] – Setting boundaries: teaching people how to treat you [00:12:24] – Masculinity within the parameters of morality, a force for good [00:15:34] – The unapologetic man in relationships and life [00:18:04] – Closing reflections & next episode teaser   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the truth behind why women sometimes just don’t get attracted — even if you thought you were doing everything right. From frame control to emotional impact, outcome dependence, and even simply “not being her type,” Mark unpacks the hidden blind spots that sabotage attraction. You’ll discover why attraction has less to do with your resume and more to do with how you make her feel in the moment. As well as the super important four pillars of attraction, you’ll learn both what they are and how to apply them when talking to women. 3 Powerful Episodes to Listen To: 1: 3 Secret “MP Gambits” to Tell Girls to Get Them Attracted to You (POWERFUL STUFF!) https://open.spotify.com/episode/4HLEQrkKzyDGowewH4yYwD?si=05b1d7dc0fa1406d 2: Attraction Building Technique: How to Read a Woman's Mind (SOOOO GOOD!!!!) https://open.spotify.com/episode/4oPEYOOet3FimFe6o7iBI0?si=79642438cd584dcb 3: 3 Attraction Building Conversation Mind Reads to SEDUCE A HOT CHICK FAST  https://open.spotify.com/episode/3oKAnWXSFd7dMW25oCdrHc?si=c3223281d7544042 Key Takeaways: - Why controlling the frame is the single most important factor in attraction. - The role of emotions: women don’t care about your resume, they care about how you make them feel. - How outcome dependence secretly kills attraction. - The four pillars of attraction and how to leverage them for success. - Why being too nervous or “nerdy” in your mannerisms makes you lose the masculine role.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:27] – Podcast video upgrades! [00:02:05] – The #1 reason she didn’t get attracted: lack of frame control [00:04:37] – You didn’t elicit enough emotions from her [00:06:37] – Outcome dependence and being too needy [00:09:17] – Being uncomfortable, nerd mannerisms, and why exposure matters [00:11:22] – Pre-selection explained [00:13:19] – The Four Pillars of Attraction: frame control, value, sexual tension, qualifying [00:17:15] – Sometimes, you’re just not her type [00:20:28] – Recap & coaching program invitation   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #FrameControl #AttractionTips #SeductionStrategy #HighValueMan
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals one of his most powerful attraction “cheat codes”: spirituality. By leveraging the Law of Attraction in a specific 21-day, 9-affirmation routine, you can not only transform your own life but also spark intense attraction in women. Mark explains how women are magnetized by spiritual conversations and why teaching them this practice makes them emotionally invested in you. He walks you step-by-step through his “I Command, I Am” method — a potent manifestation framework designed to rewire your mindset, amplify confidence, and manifest what you want from life. Key Takeaways: - Why spirituality is one of the most powerful (and underrated) attraction triggers. - How to use Mark’s spiritual “Law of Attraction” routine as a powerful tool for sparking instant chemistry with women. - The power of using present-tense “I Command, I Am” statements to manifest results. - The science-backed logic behind why affirmations shift your mindset and results. - How to leverage spiritual conversations to craft irresistible attraction-building moments.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:57] – Women love spirituality (and why it’s a mega rizz hack) [00:04:16] – How Mark exponentially improved his life using the Law of Attraction [00:05:02] – The universe is nothing but a mirror [00:08:30] – Writing out your 9 intentions [00:10:32] – Storytime: How Mark got his job as a bouncer [00:11:53] – The “I Command, I Am” formula and the power of belief [00:15:00] – Step-by-step process to teach this to women (9-3-21 sequence) [00:16:58] – Multiples of 3: The Creation Triad explained [00:18:40] – The logical/science based explanation for why affirmations work [00:20:50] – Closing challenge: Write your nine “I Command, I Am” intentions today   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #LawOfAttraction #Masculinity #RizzTips #ConfidenceForMen #SeductionHack #SpiritualityAndDating
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing explains why men have such an intrinsic fear of rejection. Mark breaks down how it’s wired into your DNA, a leftover from our tribal past that has no relevance in the modern day. To help you overcome this obstacle, Mark reveals his strategy called “Rejection Maxing”—a practical method for systematically desensitizing yourself to rejection by going out and deliberately getting rejected in low-stakes situations. Showing how making rejection a game will not only dissolve approach anxiety but also build confidence, outcome independence. It’s time to flip the script and take control of situations that used to intimidate you!   Key Takeaways: - Why fear of rejection exists in your brain and why it’s completely natural. - How to systematically desensitize yourself to rejection with “Rejection Maxing.” - Turning potentially scary situations into playful challenges that build confidence. - Using persona and avatar techniques to practice approaching women without real-world risk.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:05] – The Reason Why You Have Approach Anxiety [00:02:11] – You’re SUPPOSED To Fear Rejection [00:02:46] – Why Rejection Is Not A Big Deal In The Modern Day [00:05:51] – Rejection Maxing: Turning Rejection Into A Game [00:07:39] – Mark’s METALLICA Story [00:08:56] – The Importance Of Pushing Social Norms [00:13:10] – Julian’s Experience In Mark’s Coaching Program [00:16:42] – The Avatar Technique: Change Your Persona [00:20:14] – Wrap-Up & Coaching Invitation   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #OvercomeRejection #ApproachAnxiety #RejectionMaxing #ConfidenceForMen #SocialCourage
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives into how to make a woman feel genuinely appreciated by picking up on unique personality traits and behavioral qualities that 99% of men miss. Because if you only ever focus on being cool and not appearing needy, she’s going to think you’re not interested and leave. Mark shows the correct way to let her know you like her by highlighting her unique interests and energy in a way NO one else is capable of doing—and does it in a way that ensures you keep your frame and don’t come off as desperate.   Key Takeaways: - Why complimenting solely on looks is almost always a mistake with attractive women. - Unique ways in which you can compliment her that make her feel you are different from the other guys. - Using the 80/100 rule to keep the dynamic in your favor. - Letting her cues guide your actions with the Barometer Rule. - How to bank compliments and deploy them at emotional peaks for maximum impact.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:56] – The Balance Between Distance & Interest [00:03:29] – The 80/100 and Barometer Rules [00:05:01] – Why Complimenting Only Looks Often Backfires [00:07:03] – The First Law: Don’t Compliment Before You See Interest [00:07:53] – How To Compliment The Right Way [00:10:29] – Real-Life Example: Ice Skating Girl [00:11:56] – NLP Success Story [00:14:57] – How to Handle Compliments From Women [00:18:47] – Wrap-Up & Coaching Invitation   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #AttractionTips #MensSelfImprovement #ConfidenceForMen #UnapologeticMan #RelationshipMastery
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, Mark Sing dives into the subtle ways women give compliments that are actually veiled rejections—and how to recognize when you’re stuck in the friend zone. He decodes the phrases women use to “let you down easy,” why guys often read them the wrong way, and how to turn the tables so YOU end up being the one friendzoning HER. Mark explains exactly what it means when a girl calls you “sweet,” says “some girl will be lucky to have you,” or insists “you’re too good for me.” More importantly, he lays out a step-by-step plan on how you can get yourself out of the friend zone—or better yet, avoid it altogether. With a mix of tactical advice, hard truths, and laugh-out-loud examples, this episode is your playbook for escaping the nice guy prison. Key Takeaways: The hidden meaning behind compliments like “You’re so sweet” and why they’re really signs of rejection. Why phrases like “Some girl will be lucky to have you” or “You’re too good for me” mean you’re deep in the friend zone. The critical mistakes men make that put them there in the first place. How to flip the frame and friend zone her first to regain control and build attraction.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Introduction: You’ve Been Friendzoned, bro! [00:01:02] – Mark Sing’s P*nis Reanimation Cream [00:03:31] – Women Use Compliments to Let You Down Gently [00:07:34] – How You Got In The Friendzone [00:08:27] – You Have to Friendzone Her First [00:10:59] – Date Other Girls! [00:12:25] – Show Her You Have Other Women Around You [00:16:00] – Reversals: Use Her Own Tricks Against Her [00:17:29] – Explanation of Pre-Emptive Friendzoning [00:18:42] – Summarizing The Signs You’ve Been Friendzoned   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #FriendZone #MensSelfImprovement #AttractionTips #ConfidenceForMen #UnapologeticMan
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives deep into one of the most controversial but critical truths in dating: the importance of playing games to protect your heart. Mark unpacks why men who wear their hearts on their sleeves too soon often get hurt, and how learning to hold back—strategically and intelligently—creates attraction, respect, and emotional safety. Mark explains how “heart armor” isn’t about being cold or manipulative, but about maintaining control over your emotions and avoiding the trap of neediness. By understanding timing, restraint, and the power of options, men can protect themselves from heartbreak while still creating space for real connection and vulnerability at the right time.   Key Takeaways: Why showing vulnerability too early often destroys attraction. How playing games is more about gaming yourself than gaming her. The 80/100 rule and how it keeps you safe in dating. Why having options instantly makes you more attractive. How to know when it’s finally safe to be vulnerable.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Introduction to the Episode   [00:01:14] – Why Playing Games Protects Your Heart   [00:02:15] – The Cost of Opening Up Too Soon   [00:04:10] – Learning From Heartbreak and Experience   [00:06:02] – Options, Abundance, and the Power of Not Needing Her   [00:09:26] – The 80/100 Rule Explained   [00:12:30] – Gaming Yourself More Than Gaming Her   [00:17:18] – The  Power of Holding Back  [00:19:51] – Final Thoughts and Advice   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #ProtectYourHeart #Masculinity #MenSelfImprovement #AttractionTips #HeartArmor #ConfidenceForMen #TheUnapologeticMan  
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the subtle cues women give when they actually want to be approached — cues that most men completely miss. Many guys hesitate, unsure if a woman is interested, but the truth is women are constantly sending signals that say “come talk to me” — if you know how to read them. Through sharp storytelling, psychological insights, and real-world examples, Mark breaks down five subtle signs women use to invite interaction — from body language to other subtle cues — so you can confidently make your move without fear or guesswork. Key Takeaways: - The small, easy-to-miss behaviors that mean she’s open to being approached. - How to notice cues without overthinking or misreading them. - How to read body language and conversational hints. - Why most guys walk away when they actually have a green light. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Intro & What This Episode Will Deliver [00:03:35] – Women Are Green Lighting You All the Time [00:04:43] – How Women Will Get In Your Line of Sight [00:05:33] – Using Body Angle to Demonstrate Interest [00:07:01] – Women Preen Themselves for Your Attention [00:09:46] – If They Smile At You, You Can Approach [00:10:45] – Don’t Break Eye Contact Submissively [00:13:02] – Mirroring Your Behaviour [00:14:05] – She’s Being Loud in Your Vicinity [00:15:24] – Putting Their Back Towards You [00:17:42] – Maternity: The Waiting Room Experiment   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #ApproachSignals #DatingConfidence #ReadHerSignals #MenWhoApproach #AttractionTips #SubtleSigns #HighValueDating #SocialSkillsForMen #UnapologeticMan
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing goes deep into why jerks seem to effortlessly attract women and how men can apply those strategies without being a jerk. Mark explains the mindset of a "jerk" and how their behaviors create attraction, offering practical advice on how to be a challenge, avoid neediness, and ultimately get women chasing you. Mark offers a roadmap to creating attraction with high-quality women while maintaining your integrity and self-respect. He explains how to channel the behaviors of "jerks" into healthy actions that attract the right women without compromising your values. Key Takeaways: - How to take extreme ownership of your part in a failing relationship. - The importance of emotional safety and how to rebuild it with your partner. - Why fighting clean and being fair during conflicts can change the trajectory of your relationship. - How to make your relationship a priority and consistently give more than you take. - Techniques for improving communication, attraction, and your personal development to save your relationship. Episode Breakdown with Timestamps [00:00:00] – Intro & What This Episode Will Deliver [00:03:18] – Social Media: How to Deal With Critics and Haters [00:07:22] – Don’t Be Easy: The Reasons Why Women Are Drawn to Jerks [00:08:15] – Keeping Good Girls Interested by Using the 80/100 Rule [00:08:40] – Attraction Fundamentals: Everybody Wants a Challenge [00:11:06] – Why Haters are Needy, Roasting Social Media Critics [00:14:33] – How to Leverage Jerk Traits to Illicit Attraction [00:16:29] – Being a Hater Will Prevent You from getting Quality Women [00:18:21] – Steal the Secrets of Jerks, Without Being a Jerk Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #jerks #MenSelfImprovement #EmotionalSafety #TakeOwnership #AttractionTips #NLPForMen
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing gets into practical, no-nonsense advice for men whose relationships are struggling. He focuses on the importance of taking responsibility, rebuilding emotional safety, and improving attraction in relationships. Mark lays out actionable steps to address common pitfalls that contribute to the failure of romantic partnerships, from poor communication to letting oneself go. Mark delivers a powerful message on how men can take control of their relationships by addressing personal shortcomings and improving communication. With actionable tips and hard-hitting truths, he provides a roadmap to rekindle attraction and build a stronger, more fulfilling connection with your partner. Key Takeaways: How to take extreme ownership of your part in a failing relationship. The importance of emotional safety and how to rebuild it with your partner. Why fighting clean and being fair during conflicts can change the trajectory of your relationship. How to make your relationship a priority and consistently give more than you take. Techniques for improving communication, attraction, and your personal development to save your relationship. Episode Breakdown with Timestamps [00:00:00] – Introduction to the Episode [00:01:20] – Owning Your Part in the Relationship [00:03:37] – Rebuilding Emotional Safety [00:05:52] – Learning to Fight Clean [00:08:10] – Making Deposits, Not Withdrawals [00:10:30] – Having the Hard Conversations [00:11:35] – Creating a Shared Vision [00:13:46] – Becoming More Attractive [00:17:09] – Learning Frame Control [00:20:43] – Fixing the Inner Issues [00:23:09] – Action Plan Summary & Closing Connect With Mark: 🔥 Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ 💎 Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ 📩 Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ 🎁 Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #RelationshipAdvice #FixYourRelationship #MenSelfImprovement #EmotionalSafety #TakeOwnership #AttractionTips #CommunicationInRelationships #NLPForMen  
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Wyandotte

Hey man. I’m grateful for you. You have the most people-smart wisdom I have ever seen (heard). I believe that this is the single greatest podcast to ever exist, and I thank God for it. I’m a Christian but my faith is strong enough that listening to this “controversial” podcast doesn’t hurt me. I even agree with most of what you say, because I believe it. I have done my own research, and had been in a relationship with a girl that taught me a lot. I love you brother. Thanks

Feb 22nd
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Wyandotte

Hey man. I’m grateful for you. You have the most people-smart wisdom I have ever seen (heard). I believe that this is the single greatest podcast to ever exist, and I thank God for it. I’m a Christian but my faith is strong enough that listening to this “controversial” podcast doesn’t hurt me. I even agree with most of what you say, because I believe it. I have done my own research, and had been in a relationship with a girl that taught me a lot. I love you brother. Thanks

Feb 22nd
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Jay Miller

Awesome content

Jan 7th
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Jonathan Roseland

Great listening (even for married guys). Married guys like myself also need to keep our relationship game on point. This is one of the few seduction podcasts I’ve found that DOESN’T suck. I really appreciate that Mark drops practical stuff, as opposed to endless theory circle jerk.

Sep 29th
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ID26583981

Karate chop that… Awesome.

May 11th
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jagraj singh

Hi Mark! Every since I started listening to you podcast, I could not even describe how much my confidence level elevated like I used to think I could not do this as I am not capable of this but you have changed my life and I have become very optimistic and every new thing which I try like getting a new job or approaching girls, I get very excited and feel amazing. Thank to you. Keep up with amazing work!!

May 25th
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Tiger (NoahArkwright)

Hypergamy: the theory men desperately want to be true, but simply isn't the phenomenon they insist it is.

Dec 9th
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Matthew McKibben

hahaha I hope his family member listens to this podcast lol.

Nov 8th
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Matthew McKibben

IDK if you will see this on Castbox but how the hell can I actually get your book The Approach Formula. I was able to find Johns Tinder book but i cant find yours. i signed up for the email but i got a request email that i opened and then the next email from you was saying "now that i read The Approach Formula i can sign up for coaching. i want to get 1 on 1 but inwould like to work on the formula first.

Aug 30th
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Matthew Benedetti

Mark is an absolute beast. He speaks in such a way that's entertaining and unlike anyone I've ever listened to. I usually listen on long drives and it feels like he's right in the car with me. When he says his purpose is to help men in this area of life, I 110% believe him, and you can tell just by how passionate he is that this is true. I could come up with many words to summarize the UMP, but if I were limited to 3, they would be empowering, intelligent, and inspirational. Thank you for all you do for us Mark, you've definitely made a positive impact on my life and I know you will continue to do so. OK now I need to get back to work... these baskets aren't going to weave themselves.

Jul 19th
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Danny Foley

My new favorite Podcast, I find myself listening over and over because the information is good. Coach Mark sing is super funny and gets right to the point. Such practical advice to improve your life in all aspects. Be a man and listen to this podcast, no need to apologize for it. After episode I listen to I see how relevant all of the material is in real life.

Jul 13th
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Jeremy Westblade

No doubt my favourite podcast. So jam packed with good funny content. Most podcasts mumble and can be difficult to hear, but not Mark's voice as I can understand what he's saying over my 1990 6cy john deere engine whilst spreading lime💪💪 This bloke is a spartan 🤜 All the best from 🇦🇺

Jan 23rd
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Anton Novikov

The best episode! Greetings from Russia🤙🏽

Oct 11th
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mostafa khalili

it was great, liied it.

Sep 24th
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Zach Galemore

I love this podcast! learning how to improve my habits and mental well being everyday!! keep it up man!!

Jun 15th
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Simon Fleras

Coach Mark delivers a fun, energetic podcast featuring great content for men committed to becoming their best selves. He offers concrete action steps to test and practice his ideas and techniques in the real world. Recommended.

Apr 13th
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