Unorthodox People

Join Page and Amber as we discuss the the book "Hunt, Gather, Parent the Ancient Wisdom for Modern Families," a podcast where we delve into exploring time-tested parenting techniques from indigenous and traditional cultures. The book talks about the TEAM approach—Togetherness, Encouragement, Autonomy, and Minimal interference—and we discuss how these insights can be applied to raising happy, well-adjusted children in our fast-paced, modern world. Tune in for practical advice, personal anecdotes, and inspiring stories that will empower you to rediscover the art of parenting through the wisdom of ancient cultures. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss best selling book Atomic Habits by James Clear --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss their two projects they are working on in 2022, and what some of the new years resolutions.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber talk about what it's like having another newborn baby.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss the benefits of the Engine 2 diet --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss the large ideas in life and why they failed.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss minding your own business. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber talk about their failed business Gnomi Food. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss gym culture, challenges people face going to the gym, and what are good alternatives.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss the benefits of both eating out and eating in.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber talk about their zero waste challenge. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

After recording this show, I saw my current “stuff” situation with fresh eyes. Like dust, cluttery plastic things seem to collect and require constant maintenance. Obviously, the solution would be to stop buying stuff on Amazon, or picking up random crap at Target (like the letter message sign I just bought.) It’s cool to be able to spell out “Welcome Home, Poopie Pie” and have Page laugh when he returns home from his upstairs at-home office. But, ultimately, I find there is more peace in my home and life...with less stuff.  In this episode we talk about Minimalism. I hope you find some places in your home to “make space.” Donating junk to Goodwill gets me high and filling up bags full of my used clothing really gets me going. Do you want to get high on the magic dust of tidying up?  Leave us a message with your question and comment and if it isn’t too weird we will answer it on the show. Click “Send voice message” and record right from your phone or computer.  1:10 Definition of “Minimalism 2:58 The “Laundry Mile” 5:00 The “Five Minute Rule” 7:00 Marie Kondo Show 7:37 Benefits of Minimalism 9:24 Arguing about clutter in the podcast studio/office/laundry room 11:30 How did our “minimalist” journey start? 12:07 Amber’s cleaning system 12:46 Getting rid of all our stuff and moving to Denver, CO 17:35 Can you be calm with clutter? 18:30 The Busytown Mentality 21:00 How to get rid of your extra stuff 24:30 What does spark joy even mean? 25:20 What about items you *might* need? 27:18 Scarcity mindset and stuff 29:11 Junk Drawers 32:48 KondoMarie Step 35:40 Page defends keeping his dead plants 36:54 What does Amber want to get rid of next? 39:56 The opposite of minimalism 42:00 Tiny Homes 45:30 We’re not your typical plant-based minimalists 48:05 Buying into Consumerism Links: Zen Habits: Omit Needless Things Outer Order Inner Calm Deep Work  Digital Minimalism Marie Kondo Method Storage Unit Stats --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

“Nobody talks about Jesus’s miracle of having 12 close friends in his 30s”- Unknown This past weekend, I went to a Vegan Thai Cooking class here in Austin. How cute? I learned to make authentic vegan versions of Panaag Curry with Fried Tofu and Tom Kai Mushroom soup. I met some new ladies, who honestly live far away, so sorry-- see ya never. My friend went with me and we bonded over spicy creamy food while it was over 100 degrees in Austin.  Making friends. Sometimes making friends is pretty like dinner parties, cooking classes, sharing laughs and snuggles. Other time, making friends feels sad and impossible. Building friendships requires time, energy and is full of disappointment. Meh. So why try, Especially in our 30s? We need each other. We need friends and community to share the burden of life and the joy. My old friends are scattered around the country and sometimes I feel lost without my ‘ol reliable gal pals.  Page and I have different approaches to building relationships. I come into the scene like a snail and he busts through the wall like the Kool-aid man.  In this episode we discuss many aspects of friendships and ultimately land on one conclusion. It’s GOOD to make friends! Hooray! Since recording this episode I went on a Peanut Date that went well and I had the other Peanut Mom reschedule, cancel, and not reschedule...I call that the drawn out cancellation. Oh well, that’s another subject for another podcast. Making Friends 01:52 Friends as an indicator of health as you age. 2:22 Friends or acquaintances?  4:54 Friendship Roadblocks 6:30 Old friends vs. new friends 10:20 Friendship in your 30s 15:10 Nostalgia and friendship 18:13 Why don’t people use their last names anymore? 19:00 Amber’s adventures in making friends 22:45 Peanut App--Tinder for Moms 26:15 The Bachelor and other trash  28:54 Numbing with trashy TV and wine 33:04 Amber thinks everyone is hot 37:00 Amber chats with Peanut connections 38:09 Creating a tight group of friends vs. a loose bigger group 41:35 Making friends is something you do forever 47:05 Sober friendships 48:17 Page’s next steps in his friendship world 50:15 Is it harder for women to be friends? 56:45 Vulnerability and friendship 59:43 Losing a good friendship 61:20 One-sided friendships Links  Friendship & Happiness Nostalgia for the future word? Fernweh I'm Different-- 2 Chainz (Explicit) Peanut App Wanda Sykes calling out The Bachelor Theo Von is one of my Peanut Photos Skip to 8:35 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_cIAJRJZWek --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

In this wide-ranging discussion we talk about everything from kittens to having a baby. We adopted two kittens from a local shelter. Our new additions got us thinking about how owning a pet can be so special and how pet owners can be so annoying. Twitter: @unorthodoxppl  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

We discuss our thoughts and practical applications of Cal Newport's book Deep Work.  We both struggle with focus and accomplishing the things we want to in this life. We believe "deep work" is a key component to meaningful work. If you ever wonder why you can't seem to tackle big projects or commit to solving tough problems then this podcast is for you.  Spoiler alert: you are going to want to delete all your social media apps after this talk.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber discuss their experiences with conflict. In this episode we talk about how conflict is essential to growth and deepening relationship. We share some of our own experiences with conflict. We talk about whether or not it’s productive to chime in on the political discussion. In this episode you’ll learn why conflict and being heard are directly related. We hate the phrase “agree to disagree” and by the end of this you will too. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber talk about what it has been like starting a podcast and recap some things that they missed from the previous episodes.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Page and Amber talk about how we all really want community and belonging. They want the world to put down their phones. Amber shut down all her devices for four days. Recently inspired by the work of Cal Newport, they take a critical look at their own modern communication technology use. Amber shares how Instapaper has changed how she reads content from the web. They share their own struggles and triumphs of being part of the uprising of Modern Technology Critics. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

In this unique episode Page and Amber walk through a goal-setting exercise. They work to set their individual goals for the last half of 2019. They talk about making a plan and forming good habits to reach your goals. You’ll learn about ways to increase the likelihood that you reach your goals. If you feel stuck, having a high aim in life will help you to move forward and grow. It’s not too late. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support

Amber traded IPAs for sparkling water. See what life is like for her after 5 months of being on the water wagon. She talks about not identifying with the term “alcoholic.” You don’t have to have a serious drinking problem to stop drinking. If you think alcohol is no longer serving you this is the talk for you. Page and Amber touch on the habit of getting up early, which is not possible if you have a hangover. You’ll get some ideas for replacing your drinking with healthier habits. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/unorthodoxpeople/support