No Dress Code

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A quick check-in. No deep dive, no overproduced moment — just me pausing to say where I’m at mentally, emotionally, and in real life. Sometimes you don’t need a full breakdown. Sometimes you just need honesty.

There’s a part of entrepreneurship nobody talks about enough—the pressure to constantly initiate. To reach out. To connect. To put yourself out there first.I’m fine once the conversation begins. I’m confident once I’m in the room. But starting it? That’s where the anxiety lives.In this episode, I’m reflecting on what it’s like trying to grow NDC Baked Goods and the NDC Podcast while navigating introversion, hesitation, and the mental barriers that show up before any progress does. This is about the gap between capability and comfort—and what it feels like to build anyway.

My dad’s anniversary is coming up, and every year I’m reminded how differently people handle grief. Some people want to be surrounded by family, noise, and conversation. I’ve learned I’m the opposite. I need quiet. I need space. I need time to sit with memories without feeling like I have to talk, explain, or hold anyone else’s emotions at the same time.In this episode, I reflect on what it’s been like to grieve over the years, how grief changes but never fully disappears, and why I’ve stopped feeling guilty for needing solitude when I remember him. Not everyone grieves the same way—and that’s okay.

It’s just me checking in. Where I’ve been, what I’ve been dealing with, and why I went quiet without making it a whole thing. No rebrand. No big reveal. Just an honest update before we move forward.

In this episode of No Dress Code Pod, Bree sits down with CJ and Ms1stClass82 to talk vision boards — but not the cute Pinterest version. We get into intention, discipline, alignment, and what it really takes to build the life you say you want.This conversation goes deeper than cutting out pictures and speaking affirmations. We talk about accountability, consistency, delayed gratification, and the uncomfortable work that actually turns goals into reality. If you’ve been feeling stuck, distracted, or unsure what direction you’re moving in, this episode is for you.Come laugh, reflect, and get honest about what you’re really working toward — and what might be holding you back.

In this quick solo check-in, I’m catching y’all up on where I’ve been, why the feed went quiet, and what’s really been going on behind the scenes. Nothing dramatic — just life life-ing the way it does.Before the full comeback episode drops, here’s a little real-time update so y’all don’t think I disappeared for good.Check out Late Night CJ’s page:And if you missed it, watch my nephews in Episode 35 and go wish him a Happy Birthday:Follow the pod everywhere:TikTok: @nodresscodepodIG: @nodresscodepodTwitter: @nodresscodepodBaking page: @ndcsbakedgoods

So this wasn’t supposed to be an episode… but Hoochie Day deserved one. 🥂The vibes were vibing — the lamb chops were hitting, the lemon drops were flowing, and honestly? It felt good to just celebrate me for once. No drama, no fake energy, just good people, good food, and good energy all around.In this episode, I’m recapping everything — the chaos before the party, the energy during it, and the quiet after everyone left. Somewhere between laughter and exhaustion, I realized: I really built this. A space that feels like joy, growth, and peace… with a side of hoochie.Oh, and yes — desserts by @ndcsbakedgoods and decorated by @dezyretobehappy (because the details mattered, baby).

I always say I mind my business — which is true. But somehow, my business never minds me.In this episode, I talk about finally cutting DAN off and what it actually feels like to detach without the drama. It’s funny, a little reflective, and probably uncomfortably relatable if you’ve ever tried to convince yourself you’re “over it.”Tune in for some quiet honesty, self-dragging humor, and the reminder that sometimes silence is the loudest move you can make.

I’ve been in a funk lately — not depressed, just… quietly struggling. Between juggling multiple side hustles, experimenting with baking, and trying to keep it all together, life has been messy but real. In this episode, I’m sharing what it feels like to be stuck in your own head, survive quietly, and still try to make progress. Expect laughs, small wins, and the chaos that comes with being your own boss.Follow along and keep up with the journey:baking: http://instagram.com/ndcsbakedgoodshttp://instagram.com/nodresscodepodhttp://tiktok.com/nodresscodepodhttp://twitter.com/nodresscodepod

This week, I’m talking about how no matter how low-key I try to be, my name somehow finds its way into conversations, situations, and drama I didn’t even sign up for. From my so-called “toxic traits” in relationships (let’s be honest, some of y’all can relate) to what it’s really like thriving as an introvert in a remote-work world — plus a few tangents along the way — we’re unpacking just enough to keep it real, keep it light, and keep it moving.Listen, laugh, and maybe drag yourself a little while you’re at it.✨ Follow along:TikTok: @nodresscodepodTwitter: @nodresscodepodInstagram: @nodresscodepodBaking page: @ndcsbakedgoods

CJ joins me for an open, free-flowing conversation about what it really means to grind for yourself. We discuss hustle culture, working for others while building personal dreams, staying authentic online and offline, and the realities of relationships. The episode touches on current culture, including Charlie Kirk, and dives into separating the noise from what truly matters, finding balance, and carving your own path without losing yourself.https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fallmylinks.com%2Flatenightcj&e=AT2Ag2GjjSnpCQ0V0g9YbA09V8fUy-rEwhfb91D5q6HceWFT0GnALb05VNR3gqpcNVb8A7jswFpYkbXe9y8hf8DOCL4jcrC0vLWvTOKLtrzOOZKJbhk7nEs3_yrs

Sometimes life just… lifes. In this week’s episode, I’m catching y’all up after taking a week off — nothing dramatic, just a much-needed soft reset.From random life updates to a few rants and side tangents, this one’s all about easing back into the groove without overexplaining or overdoing it. Think of it as a casual vibe check between me and you.Follow the podcast:🎙 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nodresscodepod📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nodresscodepod🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/nodresscodepod🍪 NDC Baked Goods: https://www.instagram.com/ndcsbakedgoods

We didn’t follow a single question — and somehow, we covered it all! 🙈 Featuring @late_nyte_cj, this episode is full of laughs, honesty, and unexpected stories that will keep you listening from start to finish.Plus, we took a moment to celebrate NDC’s 2-year anniversary — making this conversation even more special. A true collaboration and a reminder that the best talks often happen when you throw the script out the window. 💜🎙️Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube, and check out all of @late_nyte_cj’s pages here:​ YouTube: https://youtube.com/@latenightcj?si=3V8geMPa-VWnnJEe​ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/late_nyte_cj​ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566871300470&mibextid=ZbWKwL​ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LateNightCJ​ All Links: https://allmylinks.com/latenightcj?fbclid=PAVERFWAMbapJleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABpy2lDEJ9rIXNmiCTBpKuiT97BzJL-t9jgD-yi4yDXpSza38WH0FuhUtSTkLi_aem_mRphv2pv9GsbO-pCi-vnmQ

Two years of pressing record, speaking my mind, and keeping it real — same mic, different me. In this episode, I’m reflecting on the journey of No Dress Code: the things I thought it would be, the things it actually became, and the lessons I didn’t see coming.From early episodes that felt chaotic to moments that surprised me with how much they resonated, we’re celebrating the wins, the growth, and yes… even the mistakes. Whether you’ve been here since episode 1 or just hit play last week, this one’s for you.Follow & connect:TikTok: @nodresscodepodInstagram: @nodresscodepodTwitter: @nodresscodepodFor baked goodies: @ndcsbakedgoods

Ever stop and think about some of the “normal” things people do that actually make zero sense? This episode is me unpacking all the weird social habits, unspoken rules, and little mind games that get passed off like they’re just how things are — but honestly? They’re not.From awkward group dynamics to those moments when you’re expected to show up but really don’t want to, we’re calling it out. No judgment, just honest observations and a little side eye for the nonsense we keep letting slide.Hit me up and keep the convo going:TikTok: @nodresscodepodInstagram: @nodresscodepodTwitter: @nodresscodepodAnd don’t forget the baked goods: @ndcsbakedgoods

We love to talk about grace — but only when we’re the ones who need it. In this episode, I’m breaking down the double standard: how “healing” culture gives everyone room to grow until the wrong person makes a mistake. Let’s talk about the way grace is used like a buzzword, the difference between real softness and selective softness, and why boundaries don’t mean bitterness. If you’ve ever been expected to be gracious while getting none in return, this one’s for you.Follow the pod:TikTok: @no.dress.cod.podInstagram: @nodresscodepodTwitter/X: @nodresscodepod

You ever find out your name was brought up in a room you weren’t even invited to? Yeah, that’s where this one’s coming from.In this episode, I’m unpacking what it feels like to constantly hear your name in conversations that don’t concern you. Whether it’s someone making a slick comment about how I showed up to an event (even though I was minding my business), or hearing I got mentioned at a party I didn’t even know about — it’s been a weird little streak of fake energy.There’s also been some messy moments lately where people are clearly using my name to get reactions out of others — and I’m just not here for it. I’m not getting too deep, because this isn’t about the drama — it’s about that feeling. Of being misunderstood, misrepresented, and honestly just tired of fake energy.If you’ve been there too, this one’s for you.🎧 New episodes drop regularly.👀 TikTok: @no.dress.cod.pod🐦 Twitter: @nodresscodepod📸 Instagram: @nodresscodepod

We’ve all heard the phrases.“God helps those who help themselves.”“Everything happens for a reason.”“God won’t give you more than you can handle.”…Sounds biblical, right? Except it’s not.In this episode, I’m joined by Pastor Welton Pleasant — aka WP3 (@itswelltonwithmysoul). Together, we’re breaking down the popular sayings people swear came from scripture… but actually didn’t.We’re talking:Why people cling to cultural sayings that sound like gospelWhat the Bible really says — without the Instagram theologyHow accepting God is less about rules and more about relationshipAnd why hell isn’t a punishment… it’s a choiceOne of the most surprising moments? WP3 explaining that God’s not “sending people to hell.” He’s just honoring the choice you made. He’s respecting your boundaries. Let that sink in.This conversation might shift how you see God, eternity, and the idea of consequences. Whether you’re deep in faith or still figuring things out, this episode is for you.Save it. Share it. And let it sit with you.

Life ain’t what I pictured, but here we are. This week’s episode isn’t deep — it’s just real. I’m mentally overwhelmed, physically underwhelmed, and honestly? Just figuring it out like everyone else. If you’re feeling the same, you’re not alone.New episodes every Wednesday.