Happy Hostess Podcast

Episode 111: Dear Mom, How Do I Host? Blending Traditions with Modern Hospitality Have you ever wished you could text your mom for a little hosting advice? That’s exactly what inspired today’s guest, Kristy McCormally, to start “Dear Mom, How Do I Host?” When Kristy’s daughter asked, “Do I really need place cards?” she wasn’t just asking about table settings—she was asking how to make people feel seen, welcomed, and at ease. Kristy has been living that question for more than thirty years, hosting in all kinds of spaces from Florida to her current home, a 115-year-old historic house in Suffolk, Virginia. In this episode, Kristy shares: The story behind Dear Mom, How Do I Host? How to revive gracious traditions in a relaxed, modern way The small details—like place cards—that tell guests, “you matter” Why hospitality is more about presence than perfection If you’ve ever felt intimidated by hosting or wondered which details really make a difference, this conversation will encourage and inspire you to open your home with confidence and joy.   Mentioned in this episode: Happy Cookbook Party-   There’s a seat at the table saved just for you. Find out more about the cookbook club that’s more like a party!  https://happycookbookparty.com/   Connect with Kristy McCormally: Follow Kristy on Instagram & Facebook: @thetruitthouse   Learn more at: www.truitthouseliving.com Let’s Connect: Instagram: @happyhostesscollective Website: www.happyhostesscollective.com 

Episode 110: Southern Tailgating Made Simple: Menus, Timelines & Styling Ideas   Ready to host a tailgate without the stress? In this episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast, food blogger Stacey Pirtle of Southern Discourse shares her best tailgating tips straight from her new ebook, The Easy Guide to Southern Tailgating. Discover easy Southern tailgate recipes, smart make-ahead strategies, and styling ideas that will wow your guests without wearing you out. Stacy also explains how to use her game day timelines so you can stay organized and actually enjoy the party. If you’re looking for stress-free tailgating ideas that combine Southern flavors with effortless style, this episode will help you plan a game day your guests will love. Mentioned in this episode: Southern Discourse Blog The Easy Guide to Southern Tailgating Ebook Let’s Connect: Follow on Instagram: @happyhostesscollective Learn more about the Happy Cookbook Party: HappyCookbookParty.com HappyHostessCollective.com

Episode 109: Things that Steal Your “Happy” from Hosting Series: #2 The Comparison Trap Comparison can quietly steal the joy from entertaining at home. This episode of The Happy Hostess Podcast explores how the comparison trap can lead hosts to plan events that don’t reflect their personal style—often resulting in stress, overspending, or a loss of genuine connection. Learn how to identify when comparison is influencing party planning, discover tips for embracing your own unique hosting style, and find ways to create gatherings that feel authentic, joyful, and effortless. Mentioned in this episode What’s For Dinner Summit Happy Cookbook Party- Join Us! Let’s connect: Instagram: @happyhostesscollective

Episode 108: Things that Steal Your "Happy" from Hosting Series: #1 Letting Go of Perfect Have you ever thrown a party where everything looked beautiful… but you were too worn out to enjoy it? Or felt completely defeated when your showstopping dessert flopped just before guests arrived? You’re not alone In this first episode of our new series, The Top 5 Things That Steal Your ‘Happy’ When Entertaining, we’re tackling a big one: perfectionism. It’s sneaky, persistent, and can take all the fun out of what should be a joyful experience. We’ll talk about: How perfectionism shows up in party planning Why it’s rooted in good intentions—but often leads to procrastination, stress, and burnout Simple mindset shifts and practical tips to bring the joy back to hosting A few signs that you might be in the perfectionism trap You’ll leave this episode feeling seen, encouraged, and empowered to host with less pressure and more purpose.  Links & Resources: Say hi or share your thoughts on Instagram @happyhostesscollective Want more support and fun with your hosting? Our virtual cookbook club, the Happy Cookbook Party. is the place where community and learning come together!  Find other women just like you that love hosting and want to improve their skills.  Join us and be a part of the fun! Learn more about the host, Kristie LaLonde at happyhostesscollective.com

Episode 107: What to Do When Guests Don’t RSVP and How to Improve Your Response Rate Are you tired of chasing down RSVPs for your party or event? You’re not alone! In this episode of The Happy Hostess Podcast, we’re talking all about the RSVP—what it really means, why people don’t respond, and most importantly, how to improve your RSVP response rate when you’re hosting at home. Host Kristie LaLonde breaks down: The true meaning of RSVP (and why it feels optional these days) Common reasons why guests don’t RSVP The cultural and generational shifts in RSVP etiquette Why mailed invitations still work better than digital invites Pros and cons of using Facebook Events, Evite, and QR codes The importance of adding a due date to your RSVP request Why you should think twice before using “Regrets Only” How to follow up (graciously) with guests who haven’t responded Whether you’re planning a dinner party, baby shower, bridal shower, or even a wedding, knowing your guest count is key to a successful event. You’ve put time and energy into creating a special experience—getting an RSVP helps you prepare and feel appreciated in the process! If you’ve ever asked, “Why doesn’t anyone RSVP anymore?” or “How do I get more people to respond to my invitations?”—this episode is for you. 💌 Got a tip or strategy that works for getting responses? Share it with Kristie on Instagram @happyhostesscollective — she’d love to hear from you!   Join Us in  the Happy Cookbook Party! happycookbookparty.com Connect with Kristie LaLonde: HappyHostessCollective.com

Episode 106: Baby Shower Social Etiquette Today: Plus Trending Games & Decor   Part 2 in the Baby Shower Series   Have baby showers started to feel more like weddings lately? You’re not imagining it! In this second episode of our baby shower series, Kristie dives into the evolution of baby shower culture—from balloon arches to diaper raffles, co-ed parties, and even moms-to-be planning their own showers. In this episode, you’ll hear: The biggest trends in baby shower decor, desserts, and activities How  games and raffles are making a comeback How technology and social media are changing how we celebrate What’s changed in the etiquette and expectations of baby showers Real talk about supporting first-time moms and the importance of showing up with love (not perfection) Kristie also shares her take on what’s fun, what’s overdone, and what might be missing in today’s celebrations—and leaves you with a meaningful challenge to encourage and uplift the moms in your life. 🎉 If you missed Part 1 on baby shower themes and inspiration, be sure to go back and listen! Links & Resources: Listen to Episode 105: Baby Shower Themes That Are Trending Now  Join the Happy Cookbook Party:  happycookbookparty.com Share your baby shower stories with Kristie on Instagram @happ

Episode 105: Top Baby Shower Trends for 2025: Creative Themes & Modern Party Ideas Planning a baby shower? Whether you're a hostess, friend, or expecting mama, this episode of The Happy Hostess Podcast is your go-to guide for the latest baby shower trends, modern theme ideas, and creative party alternatives that reflect how celebrations have evolved in recent years. In this episode, Kristie shares: Top trending baby shower themes for 2025: Baby in Bloom, Berry Sweet Baby, Winnie the Pooh, A Little Cutie, Teddy Bear “We Can Bearly Wait”, Boho Baby, Baby-Q, and classic vintage-inspired themes like Peter Rabbit and stork motifs  New types of baby celebrations beyond the traditional shower: Sprinkle Showers for second or third-time moms Nesting Parties where friends help with nursery setup, meal prep, and baby organization Grandmother-to-Be Showers for first-time grandmas Display Showers where gifts are presented unwrapped for easier flow and less pressure Co-ed Showers (Jack & Jill) that welcome both parents and guests of all ages  Fresh party activity ideas, stylish decor tips, on-theme food and favor inspiration Whether you’re into elegant floral showers, playful themes like Strawberry Shortcake, or meaningful acts-of-service gatherings, this episode offers inspiration for every kind of hostess. ✨ This is Part 1 of our two-part Baby Shower series. Tune in next week for Part 2: How Baby Shower Etiquette Has Changed—What’s In, What’s Out, and What Still Matters. 🔗 Links & Resources: Dots & Gingham – Beautiful, traditional paper goods and baby shower invitations Happy Cookbook Party- The Cookbook Club where the love of Hosting brings together women that want to find the best recipes, tips and tricks for entertaining at home

#104 Graceful Hosting and Helping in the Wake of Loss This episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast is a tender and meaningful conversation with Lisa Cleary, a founding member of the Happy Cookbook Party. Lisa recently lost her father and chose to host the reception following his funeral—a decision that brought comfort, connection, and even healing. She shares the practical steps she took, what helped her most, and how hospitality became a way to honor her father’s life. We also talk about how to support a grieving friend in thoughtful, genuine ways. Lisa’s story is full of heart, wisdom and practical ways to support anyone navigating loss and grief. Topics Covered Why Lisa chose to host the reception herself How hospitality helped her navigate grief The first questions she asked herself while planning What to delegate—and what to keep personal How to reflect a loved one’s personality through food and details What kind of help was actually helpful How hospitality can bring peace and healing, even in hard times Thank you to Lisa Cleary for sharing so openly and graciously. Her story is a beautiful reminder of how we can show love through service, even when our hearts are hurting.   Join Us in the Happy Cookbook Party! Website:- http://happycookbookparty.com/   Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  https://www.happyhostesscollective.com/  

Ep. 103 –Hospitality with Heart: What We Learned from Amy Hannon’s Love Welcome Serve In this episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast, Kristie reviews Love Welcome Serve by Amy Nelson Hannon after cooking through the book with the Happy Cookbook Party, an online cookbook club. This cookbook is filled with hospitality-minded recipes, practical tips, and a faith-filled perspective that encourages intentional gathering. Kristie shares her favorite dishes from each section, from appetizers to desserts.  If you're looking for a cookbook that’s both heartwarming and hostess-friendly, this one deserves a spot in your kitchen. Plus, she announces the next pick for the Happy Cookbook Party — Celebrate with Babs by Barbara Costello. Don’t miss your chance to join the community and bring the fun back to your kitchen!   Join Us in the Happy Cookbook Party! Website:- http://happycookbookparty.com/   Love, Welcome, Serve by Amy Nelson Hannon https://amzn.to/4kQ0ENr   Amy Nelson Hannon https://eunamaes.com/ https://www.instagram.com/eunamaes/   Celebrate With Babs by Barbara Costello https://amzn.to/43XEfId Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  https://www.happyhostesscollective.com/

Episode 102: Cohosting Made Easy: Avoid Stress & Enjoy the Celebration Have you ever planned a party with friends? How did it go—smooth sailing or a bit chaotic? In today’s episode of The Happy Hostess Podcast, we’re diving into the ins and outs of cohosting. Whether you’re planning a bridal shower, baby shower, or any special event with others, it’s essential to set yourself up for success. We’ll explore how to minimize stress, avoid conflict, and make cohosting a truly enjoyable experience. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to choose your cohosts wisely to create a balanced team. The importance of clear communication and setting expectations early. Tips for staying organized and using planning tools effectively. How to divide responsibilities based on strengths and interests. Discuss the best ways to split costs and avoid financial misunderstandings. How to handle potential conflicts and keep the focus on the guest of honor. Key Takeaways: Pick the Right Cohosts – Choose people who are reliable, flexible, and work well with others. Establish Expectations Early – Decide how decisions will be made and how you’ll communicate. Stay Organized – Use a shared planning tool to keep track of tasks and responsibilities. Divide and Conquer – Assign tasks based on skills and preferences to make planning easier. Be Considerate – If the event is at someone’s home, be mindful of their added responsibilities. Handle Finances Upfront – Decide whether costs will be split evenly or divided by category. Focus on the Bigger Picture – The goal is to celebrate the guest of honor and enjoy the process! By following these tips, you can avoid the common pitfalls of cohosting and ensure your party planning experience is fun, smooth, and stress-free. Listen now and get ready to cohost with confidence! 🎉 Join the Conversation: Have you cohosted a party before? Share your experiences with us on social media! 👉 Follow & Subscribe: Don’t forget to subscribe to The Happy Hostess Podcast so you never miss an episode! Happy Hostess Website:- http://happycookbookparty.com/ Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  https://www.happyhostesscollective.com/

Episode 101 Planning a Party with Friends: The Pros and Cons of Cohosting In this episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast, Kristie LaLonde explores the pros and cons of cohosting a bridal or baby shower—or any party. She discusses potential challenges like personality conflicts, communication mishaps, and decision-making delays, as well as the benefits of sharing responsibilities, pooling resources, and fostering creativity. Plus, She shares why cohosting can strengthen relationships and make party planning even more rewarding. Don’t miss the updates on the Happy Cookbook Party and our latest recipes! Tune in for tips to decide if cohosting is the right move for your next celebration. Updates from the Happy Cookbook Party: We’ve kicked off Amy Nelson Hannon’s Love Welcome Serve cookbook with our first Zoom Cook Along! We made her White Chicken Chili with Cilantro and Lime and her Everyday Salsa recipe—both were a huge hit! Up next, we’re making Gran’s Strawberry Cake and learning how to create a sweet floral arrangement perfect for Galentine’s or Valentine’s Day. It’s the perfect time to join the cookbook party—head to HappyCookbookParty.com to get started. Coming Next Week: Tune in as we discuss how to avoid the pitfalls of cohosting. If you’re worried about potential conflicts or miscommunications, we’ll give you tips to ensure a smooth and enjoyable planning experience. Links and Resources: Join the Happy Cookbook Party: HappyCookbookParty.com Get Amy Nelson Hannon’s Love Welcome Serve cookbook: here HappyHostessCollective.com

100th Episode Special: Trend Forecast for 2025 Parties and Entertaining   Curious about what’s trending in parties and entertaining for 2025? In this special 100th episode of The Happy Hostess Podcast, Kristie LaLonde celebrates this milestone by diving into the year’s hottest predictions, from bold monochromatic color schemes to creative photo rooms and personalized party details. She also reflects on last year’s trends, sharing what hit the mark and what surprised her most. Whether you’re planning a wedding, hosting a dinner party, or just love staying ahead of the curve, this episode is packed with inspiration to elevate your entertaining game. Tune in for fresh ideas, a little nostalgia, and a lot of fun!   📖 Join the Happy Cookbook Party! We’re kicking off Love, Welcome, Serve by Amy Hannon, and it’s full of delicious recipes perfect for entertaining. Cook along with us on Zoom, share your creations, and connect with a community of fellow hosts. Join here! 🍽️ Lydia Menzies’ Secret Supper Club Experience: Experience the magic of Lydia’s supper club in Athens, Georgia, on January 13th and 14th. Kristie will be there on the 14th, and it’s open to everyone! Get your tickets here! ~Resources~  Love, Welcome, Serve by Amy Nelson Hannon https://a.co/d/5aMbUx3   Happy Hostess Website:- http://happycookbookparty.com/ Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  https://www.happyhostesscollective.com/

Episode 99 Cookies, Swaps, and Holiday Hacks: Expert Baking Tips from Hetal Vasavada   Get ready to elevate your holiday baking! In this episode of the Happy Hostess podcast, Kristie LaLonde interviews,  MasterChef alum and Desi Bakes author Hetal Vasavada. Hetal her favorite cookie recipes, foolproof tips for organizing a memorable cookie swap, and essential baking hacks every host needs to know. Whether you’re a first-time baker or a seasoned pro, Hetal’s advice will help you create delicious treats and unforgettable holiday moments. Plus, discover how you can use your entertaining and  baking skills  to support a meaningful cause this season!   Hetal Vasavada is a Bay Area-based cookbook author and blogger at Milk and Cardamom. Her recipes have been featured in New York Times, Food & Wine, and Bon Appetit. Her cookbook was named one of the best cookbooks of 2019 by the San Francisco Chronicle and The Washington Post. ~Resources~  Desi Bakes by Hetal Vasavada Cookies For Kids Cancer:  https://cookiesforkidscancer.org/   Challenge Butter:  https://challengedairy.com/ Connect with Hetal Vasavade:   milkandcardamom.com milkandcardamomsweets.com   Happy Hostess Website:- http://happycookbookparty.com/ Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  https://www.happyhostesscollective.com/    

Episode 98 Crafting the Perfect Gift: Tips for Memorable Holiday Giving   In this episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast, we’re diving into the art of holiday gift-giving with Mary Lea Howard, a member of the Happy Cookbook Party who’s known for her uniquely creative approach to gifts. She shares her favorite ideas, tips for personalizing presents, and insider secrets for choosing memorable gifts that guests and loved ones adore. You’ll get inspiration for themed giftsand thoughtful ways to make each gift feel truly special. Whether you’re looking to impress your holiday guests or find the perfect present for friends and family, this episode is packed with ideas to make your holiday season unforgettable!   Mary Lea Howard is from Louisville, Kentucky with a passion for hosting and entertaining. Known for her warm hospitality, she loves bringing people together and creating memorable experiences, often sharing her creativity through beautifully curated gift baskets for friends and family.   ~Resources~  Boarderie https://boarderie.com/   Happy Hostess Website:- http://happycookbookparty.com/   -Social Media Links- Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective     

Episode 97: The Sweet Side of Giving: Hosting Events that Make a Difference In this episode of the Happy Hostess podcast, the host, Kristie LaLonde chats with Lauren Jacobs of the Cheerful Baker about building community through fundraisers and charitable events. Lauren shares her insights on how hosting for a good cause can create deeper connections, strengthen friendships, and make a lasting impact. We explore creative ways to incorporate a cause into gatherings while making guests feel valued and inspired. Plus, we discuss our current collaboration to support Cookies for Kids, a pediatric cancer research nonprofit, in partnership with Challenge Butter.   Lauren Jacobs, also known as The Cheerful Baker,  owns her own cookie decorating company and a subscription box,The Cheerful Box.  Her subscription box provides her  subscribers each month with a  set of custom cookie cutters and a class to coordinate with the cutters.  She recently appeared on the Food Network, competing on the Christmas Cookie Challenge. ~Resources~  Sign Up for the Free Stained Glass Cookie Class to Raise Money for Cookiesforkidscancer.org and receive Free Challenge Butter: https://happyhostess.myflodesk.com   Cookies For Kids Cancer:  https://cookiesforkidscancer.org/   Challenge Butter:  https://challengedairy.com/   Connect with Lauren Jacobs:   https://cheerfulbaker.com/   Happy Hostess Website:- http://happycookbookparty.com/   -Social Media Links- Lauren Jacobs The Cheerful Baker https://www.instagram.com/thecheerfulbaker/ https://www.facebook.com/cheerfulbaker/   Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective

Episode 96 Master Holiday Organization and Prep: Secrets for a Happy Hosting Season   In this episode of the Happy Hostess podcast, Kristie LaLonde interviews Carrie Peeples of Neat Smart in Atlanta, Georgia.  Carrie shares her expert tips on how to get organized and reduce stress for a joyful holiday season. We discuss her "Holiday Smart Checklist," which includes essential to-do lists, gift ideas, and guest room prep to ensure a smooth and enjoyable hosting experience. Carrie offers practical advice on breaking tasks down month by month, staying ahead of holiday chaos, and maintaining a positive mindset. Plus, she shares her favorite strategies for thoughtful gift-giving and creating a welcoming atmosphere for guests, all while avoiding burnout.   Carrie Peeples, of Neat Smart, is a professional organizer based in Marietta, Georgia. She helps CEOs of home and business un-complicate their lives by eliminating clutter and creating beautiful organization systems that work. Carrie loves teaching people how to live in an organized home and setting up the systems for them to function best. She helps those local to the Atlanta/Marietta area and does virtual consults as well.   Holiday Smart Checklist   Website:- https://www.neatsmart.com/   Neat Smart on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neatsmart/   Neat Smart on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/neatsmartcmp   Resources~  Sweet Kaki’s Pies https://www.sweetkakis.com/   -Social Media Links- Happy Hostess https://www.instagram.com/happyhostesscollective/ https://m.facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  

Episode 95: Touch and Togetherness: Hosting with the Power of Connection The Love Language Series #6   In the 95th episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast, we wrap up our series on the five love languages by exploring the nuances of Physical Touch in entertaining at home. Host Kristie Lal=Londe dives into the challenges of incorporating this love language while respecting guests' comfort levels. From welcoming hugs to small gestures like a touch on the shoulder, you'll learn how to connect meaningfully with those who thrive on physical touch. Kristie also shares how to combine all five love languages in a single event, ensuring every guest feels valued and cherished. Tune in for practical tips on making your gatherings more intentional and inclusive! ~Resources~    Join us in the  Happy Cookbook Party!  http://happycookbookparty.com   Southern Living Party Cookbook by Elizabeth Heiskell: https://www.amazon.com/shop/happyhostesscollective/list/1QOU6Z130KS7F?ref_=aipsflist_aipsfhappyhostesscollective Happy Hostess~ http://happyhostesscollective.com/ Happy Hostess Social Media Links: Instagram: @happyhostesscollective facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  

Episode 94: Serving Up Love: Using Acts of Service to Delight Your Guests Series #5   In Episode 94 of the Happy Hostess Podcast, we dive into the love language of Acts of Service and how it can enhance your hosting skills. We explore how even the smallest gestures, like greeting guests at the door, refilling drinks, or tidying up, can make a significant impact on those who value this love language. By anticipating your guests' needs and going the extra mile—whether it’s accommodating dietary restrictions or providing comfort items like blankets or umbrellas—you show genuine care and make them feel valued. Tune in to learn how to elevate your entertaining game by incorporating thoughtful acts of service that leave your guests feeling truly appreciated and cherished. ~Resources~    We are starting a new book in the Happy Cookbook Party so now is a great time to join in the fun and community!  http://happycookbookparty.com   Southern Living Party Cookbook by Elizabeth Heiskell: https://www.amazon.com/shop/happyhostesscollective/list/1QOU6Z130KS7F?ref_=aipsflist_aipsfhappyhostesscollective Happy Hostess~ http://happyhostesscollective.com/ Happy Hostess Social Media Links: Instagram: @happyhostesscollective facebook.com/happyhostesscollective  

Episode 93 :Kind Words, Warm Hearts: Hosting with Words of Affirmation Love Language Series  #4 In this episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast, we explore the power of Words of Affirmation as a love language and how it can elevate your hosting game. Discover how recognizing this love language in your guests can help you create an atmosphere where they feel genuinely valued and appreciated. From heartfelt greetings to personalized toasts, we'll share practical tips on how to use words to make a lasting impression. Tune in to learn how simple, sincere compliments can transform your gatherings and leave your guests feeling cherished. ~Resources~    We are starting a new book in the Happy Cookbook Party so now is a great time to join in the fun and community!   ://happycookbookparty.com Happy Hostess~ http://happyhostesscollective.com/ Happy Hostess Social Media Links: Instagram: @happyhostesscollective

Episode 92 :The Love Language of Quality Time: How to Host with Intentionality Series  #3   In this episode of the Happy Hostess Podcast, we explore the love language of quality time and its significance in hosting and entertaining. Understanding how to make guests with this love language feel cherished can transform your gatherings. From planning intimate game nights to engaging in shared activities, this episode offers practical tips on creating meaningful connections with your guests. Tune in to discover how dedicating focused, distraction-free time can leave a lasting impression and strengthen your relationships. ~Resources~    We are starting a new book in the Happy Cookbook Party so now is a great time to join in the fun and community!  http://happycookbookparty.com Happy Hostess~ http://happyhostesscollective.com/ Happy Hostess Social Media Links: Instagram: @happyhostesscollective facebook.com/happyhostesscollective