Soul ties with Olaoluwadayomi

In this episode of STWO, I talked about how the kind of love we accept often reflects the way we see ourselves. From choosing partners who mirror our self-worth to staying in toxic relationships, I share my own story as a case study. It’s a raw and honest conversation about self-love, walking away when it hurts, and realizing that we deserve more than we sometimes settle for. If you’ve ever questioned your relationships or wondered why you love the way you do, this one is for you.Don’t forget to show some love

Probably needed a hug but instead I dropped this episode so I don’t cry. A sit down moment with my friend Ayomideeeeeeeeeee.🩷💋

In this episode, we’re unpacking the quiet tension that comes with uncommunicated expectations. From friendships to romantic relationships, and even in our work lives, we often assume others “should know” what we want or need. But when those expectations go unspoken, they create frustration, distance, and disappointment.Let’s talk about why we struggle to voice our needs, the emotional toll it takes, and how learning to communicate clearly can change everything.This is your reminder that your needs are valid but they sometimes must be spoken. 💬💛

Happy birthday to me

Season 3 is here and it’s personal.After a pause since May 31st, 2024, Soulties with Olaoluwadayomi is back, deeper, bolder, and more intentional than ever.This season, we’re peeling back the layers of love, healing, identity, and faith to talk about what truly ties us to ourselves, to others, and to purpose.Whether you’re nursing a broken heart, building your identity, or simply craving honest soul talk… this is your space.Welcome back to the conversation. Welcome back to Soulties.Voice of Ayomide❤️

I love you

Just live a life you want

Just start

Take a break and enjoy things

You have asked and Olaoluwadayomi and Festus have answered. This is the start of our new segment where we give our opinions on the messages you send to us. In this episode we delved into losing yourself in a relationship and the place of compromise. Send in your questions, we’d love to answer them❤️

Falling is inevitable, even for the untouchable, and what we believe to be unreal and ethereal. Just a little moment of downfall, nothing serious😂

Understanding that everything has its time and season

The journey of a million years starts at a point. In this conversation with Festus, we talked about his migration and how he found balance in his world. Start that new phase of your life, clarity will come🫶🏿

We all a soldier that will come and go in other people’s life. One way or the other we leave. And people figure things out themselves. So how are you different? People will come, and people will go, you shall remain because life evolves, humans change and despite it all, you continue to exist and you will figure it out. I love you🫶🏿

A girl, a whisper, a world yet unseen, A canvas of dreams, where colors convene. With boundless energy, a spirit that flies, Exploring the meadows, beneath endless skies. A giggle erupts, a friendship takes hold, Secrets exchanged, stories untold. Building fortresses, queens in their reign, A world of their making, defying the rain. Curiosity blooms, a thirst to know why, Stars in their eyes, reaching for the sky. Fairy tales whisper, princesses bold, But strength lies within, a story untold. Flickering doubts, reflections in glass, A world tells them how they should pass. Beauty defined by a societal gaze, But a girl's worth shines in a multitude of ways. A voice finds its strength, a song starts to rise, Challenging norms, with fire in their eyes. Passion ignites, a purpose takes hold, The future unfolds, a story to be told. A girl, a woman, a journey in bloom, Breaking the mold, defying the gloom. With resilience and grace, they stand ever tall, Girls are the future, ready to enthrall.

Stop here a little while, take a break, breathe in and out. No one is getting out alive. You deserve to enjoy the process too. So relax, it’s not running anywhere. Big sis Olaoluwadayomi is here for you🫶🏿

“I mean I could see if it was a different person, if you lost your spark to them, I be like hey sometimes it happens, but Tinubu?” Life throws curveballs. A shaky economy, relationship struggles, unexpected challenges, these external forces can threaten to steal our joy, leaving us feeling powerless and adrift. But here's the truth: you have the power to choose happiness, even amidst the chaos. Imagine your joy as a flickering flame. The wind of circumstance may buffet it, but with the right tools and awareness, you can become the wind's master. Here’s some tips that can help * Identify the joy stealers * Cultivate mental fortitude * Embrace self-care as your armor Remember, you are not defined by your circumstances. You have the power to choose joy, nurture it, and guard it fiercely.

The end of a thing could be the new beginning for you. Sometimes all you need to do is take the lessons and let it go. Search deep and see what lessons are there. Maybe just maybe it’s an avenue for you to be a better person, maybe it’s a way for you to learn new things about yourself and dealing with humans. Don’t always look at the bad side, just focus on the positive and keep it going. There’s always a caterpillar to your butterfly that you have to let go

We all face choices every day, big and small. They seem simple, but they hold incredible power. Instead of feeling scared or stuck, imagine each choice as a crossroads opening exciting possibilities. It's not about picking the "right" one, but about choosing with awareness and heart. Think of yourself as a sculptor shaping your own life. Each choice adds to the sculpture, reflecting your desires and values. Sure, mistakes happen, and some paths lead to regrets. But that's okay! It's how we learn and grow. Choosing consciously means understanding what matters to you and how your choices might affect yourself and others. It's not easy, but it's incredibly liberating. You stop being a passenger on your life journey and become the driver, navigating with intention. Think of a butterfly: it had to choose to break free from its cocoon to fly. Your choices are your wings, lifting you towards your authentic self. Remember, the journey matters as much as the destination. Embrace the power of choice, learn from stumbles, and soar!

It's a journey, not a destination. A path adorned with stumbles and missteps, but also breathtaking vistas and unexpected harmonies. It's shedding the masks we wear to please others, embracing the beautiful mosaic of quirks and contradictions that make us, us. Staying true isn't about rejecting growth or shunning feedback. It's about using them to refine your melody, not rewrite it. It's about learning from others, but never losing sight of the unique notes that make your music sing. It's the freedom to evolve while staying rooted in your core essence, like a mighty oak weathering storms, yet ever reaching for the sun. This path won't be easy. There will be whispers of doubt, the lure of comparison, the pressure to conform. But remember, the world already has enough copies. What it needs is your original score, the raw emotions translated into sound, the vulnerability laid bare in every imperfect note. It needs your laughter, your tears, your anger, your joy, woven into a tapestry only you can create. So, silence the inner critic, the one who demands conformity. Pick up the instrument of your soul, be it a paintbrush, a pen, a dance move, or simply the unwavering strength of your being, and start playing. Play loud, play proud, play your truth. Let the world hear the symphony of you, and watch it dance to the rhythm of your authentic soul. This is your story, your song, your masterpiece. Don't let anyone dim your light. Shine on, beautiful imperfection, and together, let's create a symphony of authenticity that will resonate through the ages.