Learn To Heal with Lwanele Khasu

The way you see yourself shapes the choices you make, the boundaries you set, and the life you allow yourself to live. In this episode, we explore self perception, where it comes from, how it gets distorted, and what it looks like to gently rebuild a truer, kinder relationship with yourself.Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych

Giving up feels like relief, but it quietly removes every possibility. Trying, even imperfectly, keeps you in the game. This episode is about resilience, self belief, and why effort matters even when outcomes feel uncertain.Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey.See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych

We don’t fail because we don’t want it badly enough. We struggle because our systems don’t support us. In this episode, I unpack habit focused goal setting, why it worked for me, why motivation fades, and how small daily choices quietly change your life.Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey. See more resources below.Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://www.oasis-wellness.co.za/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxietyFollow Lwanele on Social MediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologistTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lwanele_psychologistSubscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lwanelekhasuclinicalpsych

This episode is a reset. I’m sharing why Learn to Heal exists, what this season is about, and who this space is for. Healing is not about perfection. It’s about learning yourself, again and again. If you’re here, you’re already doing the work.

Every money decision is made to evoke an emotion, whether it’s calm, control, safety, power, or happiness. At the core, it’s never just about the transaction. It’s about how you want to feel. The sooner you’re honest with yourself about the emotions driving your financial choices, the sooner you can feel more at peace with your money.

Consistency isn’t about perfection. It’s about choosing to show up especially on the days when motivation is low and the results aren’t instant. In this week’s episode, we’re talking about what it really takes to stay consistent, why it’s so hard sometimes, and how to keep going without burning out. Tune in, especially if you’ve been feeling stuck or scattered lately.

Sometimes it’s not the world holding you back — it’s fear, self-doubt, or old beliefs that no longer serve you. In this episode, we explore the invisible blocks that keep you stuck: fear of failure, fear of success, imposter syndrome, and the pressure to perform. This is a mirror moment — an invitation to get honest about what’s really in the way.🎧 Listen now on the Learn to Heal Podcast.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re not good enough, not ready, or like your voice doesn’t matter, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we unpack 7 common and often overlooked confidence killers, from comparison culture and perfectionism to people-pleasing and fear of failure.You’ll walk away with insight, language, and practical tools to rebuild your self-trust and show up more fully in your life.🎧 Tune in. Let’s name it, heal it, and take your confidence back.

It’s not always what you said , it’s how you said it.Have you ever felt misunderstood, unheard, or walked away from a conversation thinking, “That didn’t go how I wanted”?⁣In this episode, we’re unpacking the 4 main communication styles and how they show up in our everyday lives, relationships, and even at work.⁣⁣

Grief and GratitudeLife doesn’t always give us the time to choose. Sometimes we’re called to show up in joy while carrying heartbreak. To smile in rooms where grief is still sitting quietly in our chest. This episode is about the both and learning to honour your sadness and still hold space for what’s beautiful.Because gratitude doesn’t cancel grief. And grief doesn’t make you ungrateful. They can sit side by side.

Avoidance feels like safety… but it often makes things louder. In this episode, we talk about the emotional cost of avoiding hard things and how healing begins when we choose to face them gently.

"You Need People" is a reminder that doing life alone isn’t a badge of honour—it’s a fast track to burnout. In this episode, we unpack the myth of independence, the beauty of vulnerability, and why building a community matters. It’s time to let people in, show up for others, and let them show up for you. Boundaries matter but so does belonging. Let’s do life together.

We’re often our own harshest critics. In this episode, I invite you into a gentle moment of reflection — to explore the voices in your head, the weight of perfectionism, and the quiet power of speaking to yourself with compassion. It’s time to show yourself the kindness you’ve always deserved.

We often focus on chemistry and attraction, but true compatibility is what sustains a relationship in the long run. In this episode, we break down what compatibility really means, how it differs from chemistry, and why shared values, communication styles, and emotional needs matter more than just passion.

Are you constantly saying yes even when you want to say no? Do you feel guilty setting boundaries or fear disappointing others? In this episode, we dive into the cost of people-pleasing—how it drains your energy, impacts your mental health, and keeps you stuck in a cycle of overcommitment and self-neglect.

We’re back! ✨ Learn to Heal returns with a powerful new episode—Show Up for Yourself!Starting is often the hardest part. Honoring your dreams, your goals, and yourself takes courage. This episode is all about stepping up, choosing yourself, and taking that first brave step—no matter how uncertain it feels.Listen now on your favourite platforms and let’s step into this new season together! #LearnToHeal #ShowUpForYourself #BraveBeginnings

In this episode of “Learn to Heal,” I dive into my guided journal, Finding Clarity: 7 Step Guide to Managing Anxiety. I read the introduction and walk you through what you can expect from this transformative journal. Whether you’re navigating anxiety or seeking mental clarity, this episode will give you a glimpse into the tools and insights within. Tune in for a thoughtful breakdown of how you can take charge of your mental well-being! Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey. See more resources below: Book a therapy session: https://www.omwhub.co.za/therapy/ +27 67 617 5449 Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://oasiswellnesshub.myshopify.com/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxiety Sign up for Anxiety Bootcamp: https://www.omwhub.co.za Follow us on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologist/⁠ www.omwhub.co.za

When was the last time you did something just for fun? In our latest Learn to Heal episode, we dive into why play and hobbies aren’t just extras—they’re essential. Discover how making time for what lights you up can reduce stress, spark creativity, and help you show up as your best self. Tune in to explore how filling your own cup with joy can transform your well-being. 💛 Because life’s too short to miss out on what makes you happy! Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey. See more resources below: Book a therapy session: https://www.omwhub.co.za/therapy/ +27 67 617 5449 Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://oasiswellnesshub.myshopify.com/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxiety Sign up for Masterclass: You Relationship Better: https://www.omwhub.co.za Sign up for Anxiety Bootcamp: https://www.omwhub.co.za Follow us on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologist/⁠ www.omwhub.co.za

Do you trust yourself? In this episode, we explore the power of self-trust - the foundation for confidence, resilience, and inner peace. Learn why trusting yourself is essential for making decisions, setting boundaries, and navigating life's challenges. We’ll share tips on how to strengthen your self-trust and start relying on the person who matters most: you! Tune in and start building that inner confidence! Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey. See more resources below: Book a therapy session: https://www.omwhub.co.za/therapy/ +27 67 617 5449 Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://oasiswellnesshub.myshopify.com/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxiety Sign up for Masterclass: You Relationship Better: https://www.omwhub.co.za Sign up for Anxiety Bootcamp: https://www.omwhub.co.za Follow us on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologist/⁠ www.omwhub.co.za

In this episode of Learn to Heal, we’re diving into Relationship Green Flags! 💚 Let’s talk about the healthy, positive signs that show your relationship is on the right track. Tune in to learn what makes a relationship thrive and how to recognise the signs of a strong and healthy partnership. 🌱 💕Listen now and let’s celebrate love that grows! 🎙️ Thank you for listening, we hope you found it useful for your healing journey. See more resources below. Purchase a copy of guided journal, Fining Clarity: https://oasiswellnesshub.myshopify.com/products/finding-clarity-7-steps-to-managing-anxiety Book a therapy session: https://www.fresha.com/a/oasis-wellness-sandton-18-charles-road-mv3i05ye Follow us on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lwanelekhasu_psychologist/⁠