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On this show, we're flipping the script on perfectionism and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of entrepreneurship as a hairstylist. Your host, Misty Jayne an accountability coach for beauty professionals ready to turn their desires to reality, invites guests to share the truth behind what it means to START MESSY and why it’s ALWAYS worth the leap.
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In this episode of the Starting Messy Podcast, Misty sits down with Aryn Detres, founder of The Left Brain Group, to unpack the overconsumption problem in the hair industry—and why more education isn’t always the answer.If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who’s taken all the classes, saved all the screenshots, and still feels stuck… this episode is for you.
In this episode, Misty Jayne joins Jodie Brown, the host of the Hairstylist Rising Podcast to break down one of the most misunderstood topics in the beauty industry: the real difference between coaching, mentoring, education, and consulting and why more information isn’t always the answer.This conversation is for hairstylists and salon owners who feel stuck despite being talented, booked out, and knowledgeable. We talk about why overlearning can become a form of avoidance, how fear and identity play a bigger role than skill gaps, and when it’s time to stop searching for answers and start looking inward.In this episode, we cover:Why having all the strategy doesn’t guarantee actionThe difference between a coach, mentor, educator, and consultantHow coaching helps uncover the real reasons you’re stuckWhy confidence comes from action, not more classesHow people-pleasing, fear of being seen, and overthinking show up for stylistsWhen to hire a coach vs when education is actually the right moveWhat “Starting Messy” really means (and why your mess isn’t the problem)If you’ve ever thought, “What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I just do the thing?” this episode will feel like someone finally turned the lights on.
Looking for support? Click here to Master Your Mess In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down why life coaching can be one of the most supportive tools for hairstylists and salon owners—especially those who are booked out, successful on paper, but feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or disconnected behind the scenes.This isn’t about business strategy, marketing tactics, or raising your prices for the 47th time.It’s about separating who you are from what you do, regulating your nervous system, setting boundaries without guilt, and understanding why money stress is often about much more than money.
✨ Free Resource Mentioned: STARTING MESSY WORKBOOKAs the year wraps up, Misty gets honest about the work she’s been doing behind the scenes for years—and what she’s finally owning out loud in 2026.In this episode, Misty shares why so many hairstylists and salon owners think they have a money problem… when in reality, money is often just the symptom. Underneath it?Self-doubt. Overthinking. Fear of being seen. Fear of choosing the “wrong” path. And the exhaustion that comes from being the strong one everyone relies on.After years of coaching stylists through financial growth, confidence blocks, perfectionism, and identity shifts, Misty opens up about why she’s stepping fully into life coaching—without hiding behind the money conversation anymore.
Get your Starting Messy Workbook HereMisty breaks down why those negative thoughts feel so real, even when they aren’t, and how your brain is literally wired to cling to familiar stories, not true ones.This conversation is especially for hairstylists and salon owners who:Overthink every business decisionStruggle with self-doubt, comparison, or imposter syndromeFeel stuck in negative mental loops that kill confidence and momentumYou’ll learn:Why positive thoughts feel “fake” at first (and why that’s normal)How repetition — not truth — creates beliefHow to rewire negative thought patterns without toxic positivitySimple ways to practice new thoughts so they actually stickWhy your mindset directly impacts your confidence, money, and decisionsIf you’ve ever felt like your own brain is working against you, this episode will help you understand what’s happening — and how to change it.✨ Plus, Misty shares a free resource to help you get unstuck and out of your head. Get your Starting Messy Workbook Here
Misty sits down with Carly Zanoni @the.blonde.cronicles, the educator and stylist behind The Blonde Chronicles University, to talk about what hairstylists really want to know: how to start before you're ready, how to grow without losing yourself, and how to build something meaningful even when everything feels messy.Carly shares how she launched a digital education platform during shutdowns, why “doing it scared” is so important, and how simplifying your color placement (and your self-talk) can change everything behind the chair.If you're a hairstylist or salon owner navigating growth, perfectionism, burnout, or the pivot into education — this episode is like a permission slip and a pep talk wrapped together.
In this episode, Misty gets vulnerable about what it really looks like to build a career in education and coaching as a hairstylist — beyond what Instagram shows you. She breaks down the messy middle, the insecurities, the backwards steps, and the slow-burn confidence that has shaped her journey over the past six years.Perfect for:Hairstylists, salon owners, independent educators, new coaches in the beauty industry, and anyone trying to figure out if they’re “behind” (spoiler: you’re not).
As hairstylists and salon owners, clients trust us with more than their hair — they trust us with their stories, emotions, and vulnerability. But being a true “safe space” doesn’t just happen. It’s a skill. And for many of us? It's a skill we were not taught.In today’s episode, Misty breaks down four powerful communication shifts that transformed her from a reactive communicator into the grounded, emotionally-intelligent coach and leader she is today. Whether you're navigating heavy conversations with clients, building stronger relationships with your team, or improving communication at home — these skills will change how you show up.hairstylist communication skills, salon owner leadership, safe space behind the chair, emotional intelligence for hairstylists, client relationships salon, how to communicate with clients, stylist burnout prevention, hairstylist personal development, beauty industry education, salon team communication
In this conversation, Misty breaks down what consistency really looks like — not perfection, not hustle, not “do the most every day.” Real, sustainable consistency that builds trust with your clients, your audience, your business, and yourself.Whether you’re behind the chair, growing your visibility, building a salon team, or trying to stick to your money plan… this episode gives you permission to show up imperfectly — and still create results.hairstylist business tips, salon owner education, stylist money mindset, beauty business coaching, hairstylist consistency, client trust salon industry, stylist burnout support, hairstylist podcast, beauty industry podcast, money mindset for stylists, stylist personal growth, salon leadership tips
In this throwback episode Misty chats with Aly Mckinnon, a salon design and organizations coach who helps salon and suite owners nationwide to create the salon space of their dreams. Using aligned design and organizational systems she helps stylists to bring joy and ease into their day in the salon and help to attract their dream clientele.Find more from Aly here: theorganizedhairstylist.com
In this episode, Misty Jayne sits down with salon business coach Kelly Cahen to unpack the toxic trend of shame-based money coaching — and why guilt and “tough love” won’t fix your financial patterns.If you’ve ever felt judged for having debt, using credit cards, or not saving “the right way,” this conversation will help you breathe again. Misty and Kelly talk about:💸 Why traditional money advice often fails hairstylists and salon owners💬 How shame keeps you stuck in scarcity🧠 The mindset shifts that actually create financial confidence💪 How to build a plan that fits YOUR unique money story — without guilt or “shoulds”Listen now to learn how to build wealth your way, ditch the guilt, and take back your financial power behind the chair.
In this throwback episode, Misty sits down with one of her salon clients, Danielle Talley, to discuss what clients really think about price increases! They dive into:Why confidence is the foundation for client trust (and pricing)How to navigate money conversations without guilt or over-explainingWhat clients really think when stylists raise their pricesHow mindfulness connects to your money habits and business boundariesThe importance of letting failure shape your growth instead of stopping itThis conversation bridges the worlds of yoga, wellness, and hairstyling — showing how confidence, boundaries, and emotional awareness shape success behind the chair and beyond it.
In this throwback episode , Misty Jayne dives into a truth every hairstylist and salon owner needs to hear: you can’t be available, affordable, and skillful—you can only be two.If you’ve ever felt overworked, underpaid, or constantly booked but still broke, this episode will help you figure out which category you fall into—and how to shift into the stylist you actually want to be.👉 Tune in to hear:The real difference between available, affordable, and skillful stylistsWhy being booked out months in advance might actually mean it’s time to raise your pricesHow to attract the right clients without burning outThe mindset shift that separates confident stylists from overwhelmed onesThis episode is a must-listen for any hairstylist ready to grow beyond burnout and create a business that reflects their worth.
In this powerful throwback conversation, Misty Jayne sits down with Maddi Cook, the creator of Boss Your Salon, to talk about the real reason stylists struggle with pricing — and spoiler alert — it’s 90% mindset, 10% numbers.They unpack why “charge your worth” is a misleading phrase, how people-pleasing keeps you undercharging, and why confidence comes after you take the scary step — not before. You’ll also learn:Why you can’t wait to “feel ready” to raise your pricesHow fear, scarcity, and self-worth are all connectedWhat happens energetically when you start charging what your work deservesHow enforcing your boundaries actually attracts better clientsWhether you’re a booth renter, salon suite owner, or stylist behind the chair — this episode will shift the way you think about money, value, and the kind of clients you attract.
In this episode, Misty Jayne welcomes Jen Alden, an in-home salon owner and stylist, who shares her transformative journey towards financial awareness and empowerment. Jen discusses her struggles with debt, the importance of open conversations about money, and the pivotal decisions she made in her business.
Are you a hairstylist or salon owner who’s tired of feeling stressed every time you look at your bank account? In this episode, there is a replay of Jodie Brown's: The Hairstylist Rising Podcast, where Misty Jayne shares how beauty professionals can start feeling empowered and confident with money—without the guilt, shame, or outdated budgeting advice.If you’ve ever thought, “I make good money, but I’m still living paycheck to paycheck,” this conversation is for you.
In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down the 5 biggest money myths that keep stylists financially stuck—like believing you just need to make more money, that budgeting means restriction, or that it’s “too late” to turn things around.hairstylist money mindset, salon owner budgeting, hairstylist financial freedom, hairstylist debt payoff, hairstylist coaching
Hairstylists and salon owners—does it feel like every time you start a budget, something knocks you off track? From broken tools to last-minute cancellations, it’s easy to believe “it’s always something.”In this episode, Misty Jayne shares how a $20 parking ticket almost derailed her debt-free journey and the mindset shift that helped her pay off $48K in two years.Perfect for hairstylists and salon owners ready to stop living paycheck to paycheck and finally create a money plan that works.
In this episode, Misty sits down with Corey Gray of Hairdustry to share his life-changing experience with Hair Aid in Cambodia. Corey opens up about teaching haircutting skills to people living in critical poverty, the power of community support, and how hairstylists can create ripple effects of impact far beyond the salon.Whether you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or beauty industry professional, this conversation will inspire you to see how your skills can change lives—not only behind the chair but across the globe.
Hairstylists, are you wasting energy on the wrong things? In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down three triggers that keep stylists stuck: AI hair pictures, clients complaining about salon prices, and judging how other stylists run their business.
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