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The Starting Messy Podcast
The Starting Messy Podcast
Author: Misty Jayne
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On this show, we're flipping the script on perfectionism and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of entrepreneurship as a hairstylist. Your host, Misty Jayne an accountability coach for beauty professionals ready to turn their desires to reality, invites guests to share the truth behind what it means to START MESSY and why it’s ALWAYS worth the leap.
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Misty sits down with Carly Zanoni @the.blonde.cronicles, the educator and stylist behind The Blonde Chronicles University, to talk about what hairstylists really want to know: how to start before you're ready, how to grow without losing yourself, and how to build something meaningful even when everything feels messy.Carly shares how she launched a digital education platform during shutdowns, why “doing it scared” is so important, and how simplifying your color placement (and your self-talk) can change everything behind the chair.If you're a hairstylist or salon owner navigating growth, perfectionism, burnout, or the pivot into education — this episode is like a permission slip and a pep talk wrapped together.
In this episode, Misty gets vulnerable about what it really looks like to build a career in education and coaching as a hairstylist — beyond what Instagram shows you. She breaks down the messy middle, the insecurities, the backwards steps, and the slow-burn confidence that has shaped her journey over the past six years.Perfect for:Hairstylists, salon owners, independent educators, new coaches in the beauty industry, and anyone trying to figure out if they’re “behind” (spoiler: you’re not).
As hairstylists and salon owners, clients trust us with more than their hair — they trust us with their stories, emotions, and vulnerability. But being a true “safe space” doesn’t just happen. It’s a skill. And for many of us? It's a skill we were not taught.In today’s episode, Misty breaks down four powerful communication shifts that transformed her from a reactive communicator into the grounded, emotionally-intelligent coach and leader she is today. Whether you're navigating heavy conversations with clients, building stronger relationships with your team, or improving communication at home — these skills will change how you show up.hairstylist communication skills, salon owner leadership, safe space behind the chair, emotional intelligence for hairstylists, client relationships salon, how to communicate with clients, stylist burnout prevention, hairstylist personal development, beauty industry education, salon team communication
In this conversation, Misty breaks down what consistency really looks like — not perfection, not hustle, not “do the most every day.” Real, sustainable consistency that builds trust with your clients, your audience, your business, and yourself.Whether you’re behind the chair, growing your visibility, building a salon team, or trying to stick to your money plan… this episode gives you permission to show up imperfectly — and still create results.hairstylist business tips, salon owner education, stylist money mindset, beauty business coaching, hairstylist consistency, client trust salon industry, stylist burnout support, hairstylist podcast, beauty industry podcast, money mindset for stylists, stylist personal growth, salon leadership tips
In this throwback episode Misty chats with Aly Mckinnon, a salon design and organizations coach who helps salon and suite owners nationwide to create the salon space of their dreams. Using aligned design and organizational systems she helps stylists to bring joy and ease into their day in the salon and help to attract their dream clientele.Find more from Aly here: theorganizedhairstylist.com
In this episode, Misty Jayne sits down with salon business coach Kelly Cahen to unpack the toxic trend of shame-based money coaching — and why guilt and “tough love” won’t fix your financial patterns.If you’ve ever felt judged for having debt, using credit cards, or not saving “the right way,” this conversation will help you breathe again. Misty and Kelly talk about:💸 Why traditional money advice often fails hairstylists and salon owners💬 How shame keeps you stuck in scarcity🧠 The mindset shifts that actually create financial confidence💪 How to build a plan that fits YOUR unique money story — without guilt or “shoulds”Listen now to learn how to build wealth your way, ditch the guilt, and take back your financial power behind the chair.
In this throwback episode, Misty sits down with one of her salon clients, Danielle Talley, to discuss what clients really think about price increases! They dive into:Why confidence is the foundation for client trust (and pricing)How to navigate money conversations without guilt or over-explainingWhat clients really think when stylists raise their pricesHow mindfulness connects to your money habits and business boundariesThe importance of letting failure shape your growth instead of stopping itThis conversation bridges the worlds of yoga, wellness, and hairstyling — showing how confidence, boundaries, and emotional awareness shape success behind the chair and beyond it.
In this throwback episode , Misty Jayne dives into a truth every hairstylist and salon owner needs to hear: you can’t be available, affordable, and skillful—you can only be two.If you’ve ever felt overworked, underpaid, or constantly booked but still broke, this episode will help you figure out which category you fall into—and how to shift into the stylist you actually want to be.👉 Tune in to hear:The real difference between available, affordable, and skillful stylistsWhy being booked out months in advance might actually mean it’s time to raise your pricesHow to attract the right clients without burning outThe mindset shift that separates confident stylists from overwhelmed onesThis episode is a must-listen for any hairstylist ready to grow beyond burnout and create a business that reflects their worth.
In this powerful throwback conversation, Misty Jayne sits down with Maddi Cook, the creator of Boss Your Salon, to talk about the real reason stylists struggle with pricing — and spoiler alert — it’s 90% mindset, 10% numbers.They unpack why “charge your worth” is a misleading phrase, how people-pleasing keeps you undercharging, and why confidence comes after you take the scary step — not before. You’ll also learn:Why you can’t wait to “feel ready” to raise your pricesHow fear, scarcity, and self-worth are all connectedWhat happens energetically when you start charging what your work deservesHow enforcing your boundaries actually attracts better clientsWhether you’re a booth renter, salon suite owner, or stylist behind the chair — this episode will shift the way you think about money, value, and the kind of clients you attract.
In this episode, Misty Jayne welcomes Jen Alden, an in-home salon owner and stylist, who shares her transformative journey towards financial awareness and empowerment. Jen discusses her struggles with debt, the importance of open conversations about money, and the pivotal decisions she made in her business.
Are you a hairstylist or salon owner who’s tired of feeling stressed every time you look at your bank account? In this episode, there is a replay of Jodie Brown's: The Hairstylist Rising Podcast, where Misty Jayne shares how beauty professionals can start feeling empowered and confident with money—without the guilt, shame, or outdated budgeting advice.If you’ve ever thought, “I make good money, but I’m still living paycheck to paycheck,” this conversation is for you.
In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down the 5 biggest money myths that keep stylists financially stuck—like believing you just need to make more money, that budgeting means restriction, or that it’s “too late” to turn things around.hairstylist money mindset, salon owner budgeting, hairstylist financial freedom, hairstylist debt payoff, hairstylist coaching
Hairstylists and salon owners—does it feel like every time you start a budget, something knocks you off track? From broken tools to last-minute cancellations, it’s easy to believe “it’s always something.”In this episode, Misty Jayne shares how a $20 parking ticket almost derailed her debt-free journey and the mindset shift that helped her pay off $48K in two years.Perfect for hairstylists and salon owners ready to stop living paycheck to paycheck and finally create a money plan that works.
In this episode, Misty sits down with Corey Gray of Hairdustry to share his life-changing experience with Hair Aid in Cambodia. Corey opens up about teaching haircutting skills to people living in critical poverty, the power of community support, and how hairstylists can create ripple effects of impact far beyond the salon.Whether you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or beauty industry professional, this conversation will inspire you to see how your skills can change lives—not only behind the chair but across the globe.
Hairstylists, are you wasting energy on the wrong things? In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down three triggers that keep stylists stuck: AI hair pictures, clients complaining about salon prices, and judging how other stylists run their business.
As a hairstylist or salon owner, your story is your greatest asset. In this episode Misty Jayne, talks about why your mess is your message—and how sharing it can attract the right clients, grow your confidence, and deepen connections in the beauty industry. Forget perfection; authenticity is what inspires and sells. hairstylist podcast, salon owner tips, hairstylist confidence, beauty business growth
Want to work with Misty? Click hereAre you a hairstylist or salon owner stuck in constant learning mode but not seeing real change? In this Starting Messy episode, Misty Jayne shares why personal development overload is holding you back—and how to finally take action.Learn the difference between learning vs. fixing, why confidence comes from doing, and how to quiet the noise so you can trust yourself and grow your salon business with clarity.hairstylist podcast, salon owner tips, hairstylist growth, salon business podcast, hairstylist mindset
Ready to Master Your Mess? Click here In this episode, Misty Jayne shares why money is only the symptom and how to create real success by setting boundaries, pricing with confidence, and regulating your nervous system.If you’re ready to feel wealthy without burning out behind the chair, this one’s for you.hairstylist money mindset, salon owner financial freedom, hairstylist burnout, hairstylist coach
Hairstylists and salon owners — ever feel guilty for not being busy?Misty Jayne unpacks the invisible pressure beauty pros put on themselves to hustle 24/7. Learn how to spot performative productivity, release the “shoulds,” and build a business that includes rest, ease, and actual freedom.hairstylist burnout, salon owner mindset, beauty professional pressure, people-pleasing stylist, rest is productive
Want more from Misty? Click hereHairstylists and salon owners — if you’re saying “yes” to keep clients happy but feel burned out, resentful, or drained… this episode is your wake-up call.Misty Jayne breaks down how people pleasing leads to broken boundaries, low energy, and inconsistent service. You’ll learn 4 practical strategies to protect your peace, set clear boundaries, and still give incredible client experiences — without sacrificing yourself.




