Family Therapy, The Podcast

In this episode, we explore a poignant moment between sisters Jasmine and Gladys as Jasmine undertakes a significant move to Georgia, both geographically and emotionally. This conversation illuminates the challenges and rewards of choosing one's own well-being, dealing with grief, embracing support, and growing in unfamiliar spaces. Gladys shares her insights as the supportive big sister, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and self-compassion. As Jasmine navigates this new chapter, she reflects on the complexities of longing for familiarity while striving for peace and growth. The session offers relatable insights into the human experience of change, self-acceptance, and the courage it takes to rebuild one's life.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Jasmine shares her journey of setting healthy boundaries with her father, highlighting the struggles and growth it entails. By learning to pause and not react aggressively, Jasmine experiences a newfound peace but is challenged by familiar tensions. The discussion centers on understanding the true purpose of boundaries, not to change others, but to protect one's own well-being and healing. The conversation underscores the importance of aligning personal goals with actions, even when it involves difficult interactions with loved ones. Listeners are encouraged to focus on their own growth and integrity, rather than expecting others to change, in order to foster healthier relationships. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we explore the evolving relationship between Elijah and his Uncle Chris. The session begins with both sharing their hopes for building trust and understanding each other better. Chris expresses a desire to unify the family and become a key connector, while Elijah admits to uncertainty but shows openness to understanding. Despite a technical issue causing Elijah to drop off, Chris continues to discuss his plans for reconnecting the family through consistent communication and leadership, inspired by traditional family roles like 'Big Mama.' The episode highlights the importance of ongoing commitment, small consistent actions, and the willingness to take responsibility in family relationships. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Gladys and Elijah open up to one another about their hopes for growth, resolution, and deeper love in their relationship. Both speak candidly about their desire for honesty and understanding within their family. Elijah expresses his confusion about certain family conflicts and concerns, yearning for accountability and clarity. Through their stories, you'll witness a mother's unwavering pride in her son's boldness and kindness, as well as Elijah's reflections on his mother's nurturing influence. Their shared moments reveal the profound connections between them and their hopes for a healed, harmonious future. Discover the significance of consistency, the joy of cooking, and the importance of self-care and service to others in their lives. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this session, Jasmine, Elijah, and Gladys discuss the importance of open communication within families to truly understand each other without blame or silencing.  Elijah raises profound questions about love and its complexity in familial interactions. The discussion moves towards how to maintain transparency and understand historical family trauma without taking things personally. The group also explores the idea of speaking their truth with care, even when responses might be offensive or triggering. This leads to a deeper understanding of boundaries and healthy love. The conversation serves as a reminder that real growth and healing come from aligning one's communication with their true self, and centers around balancing honesty with compassion. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

WHO IS JASMINE? Jasmine shares her hopes of managing her boundaries and healing through saying 'no' to others. She reflects on her transformation from reacting aggressively to choosing calm responses, igniting her healing journey. Jasmine explores how she knows she is on her healing path by feeling healthier and maintaining positive changes in her life. Through an engaging conversation, Jasmine expresses her desire to build a supportive village, move to Atlanta, and maintain the changes she’s manifesting in her life. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone learning to set boundaries and striving for a healthier future. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

WHO IS CHRIS? From being separated at a young age after his mother's tragic death to the struggles of growing up in foster care, Chris opens up about his life experiences and the importance of therapy in his healing process. Chris expresses how understanding his siblings' perspectives could transform his relationships and help him become a better father and grandfather. He emphasizes the value of truth, acceptance, and passing down positive life lessons to future generations. Keep listening to learn more about Chris's journey and gain inspiration from his pursuit of inner peace and happiness. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... Family Therapy! WHO'S ALL HERE? Jasmine, along with her siblings Chris and Gladys, and her nephew Elijah, embark on a transformative journey of family healing through therapy. Led by licensed psychotherapist Elliott Connie, this session, we learn more about each person who agreed to participate and who did not. Discover how consistency, cooking, and a shared love of service play pivotal roles in their paths to personal growth and familial connection. Experience the power of vulnerability, honesty, and hope as this unique family works together to create a better future. Perfect for anyone seeking tools and support for their own healing journey. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your Life  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

WHO IS GLADYS? In this session of Family Therapy, Elliott Connie works with Gladys, who shares her emotional struggle and hopes to mend her relationship with her son, Elijah. After court battles, misunderstandings, and a damaging altercation, both mother and son have experienced significant pain and distance. Despite these challenges, there remains an unbroken bond, exemplified when Elijah reached out to his mother during a moment of deep despair. The therapy session aims to help Gladys reconnect with Elijah by focusing on the present and letting go of past anger and resentment. Elliott encourages Gladys to get to know her son as he is today, as this could pave the way for healing. The session closes with a powerful message about the importance of choosing healing and creating a space for connection, urging listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the emotions that may be hindering them. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

WHO IS ELIJAH? Elijah explores his past traumas and seeks clarity on his role within his family. He discusses his hopes for healing, understanding his family dynamics, and avoiding repeating past mistakes with future generations. Elijah also shares his love for working with kids and his dream of becoming a storyteller and writer. Throughout the discussion, Elijah delves into the impact of family conflicts and his aspiration to break the cycle of anger and violence. Join us on this emotional journey as Elijah reflects on his personal growth, aspirations, and the importance of self-recognition in his path to healing. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome back to Family Therapy! Before we dive into the sessions with this Season's family, we catch up with last season's family—Jay, David, and Freddy—to see how they've been progressing. During their last sessions, we tackled issues concerning lack of confidence, adjusting to co-parenting, and personal growth. Today, we hear about David's journey back to faith with his baptism and his new role supporting special education students. Jay shares her commitment to a healthier lifestyle and her pride in her children's achievements. Both express a strong desire to move forward by living separately, emphasizing the need for personal peace and better co-parenting. Elliott encourages them to replace resentment with appreciation to create a better environment for their kids, even before they transition to separate living spaces. It's a heartfelt check-in that underscores their continuous effort and the slow, steady progress they are making. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Read: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this bonus episode of Family Therapy, host Elliott Connie guides listeners through a series of questions to help them adopt a new way of thinking and create the life they want. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on the things in life that are improving and shifting from asking unproductive questions to asking useful ones. Connie shares examples of how asking positive 'what if' questions can lead to action and increased hope. He also discusses the significance of being outcome-led, making small intentional changes, and discovering one's purpose. The episode encourages listeners to pay attention to the positive shifts in their lives. Thank you for listening to Season One of Family Therapy.  Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The final session of Family Therapy focuses on forgiveness and personal growth. Each family member reflects on the impact of therapy and their hopes for the future. The conversation explores the power of positive thinking, focusing on accomplishments, and letting go of past mistakes. It emphasizes the importance of self-belief and recognizing one's own greatness. The session ends with the family members sharing their final thoughts and expressing gratitude for the healing journey they have been on.  Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The conversation covers two main themes: the impact of police violence on the Black community and the importance of breaking generational trauma within a family. Elliott's opening statement focuses on the traumatic experiences of witnessing police brutality and the fear and trauma it instills in the Black community. The second theme explores the desire to heal and reconnect within a family that has been plagued by generational trauma, estrangement, and inconsistency. This week's session highlights Jay and Freddie and the importance of forgiveness, understanding, and building strong family bonds for future generations. Freddie shares his journey of personal transformation and how he found strength through faith. They discuss the challenges of breaking generational trauma and the importance of recognizing and embracing change.  Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week’s session highlights a conversation with Freddie after making his first attempts to contact his estranged son. Although his son was not interested in speaking with him Freddie shares what he learned from his efforts. He plans to continue trying and believes that being persistent will eventually lead to a stronger relationship. Elliott shares his perspective and emphasizes the importance of allowing someone to apologize and heal. He encourages Freddie's son to listen to his father's attempts at reconciliation and consider the possibility of healing and growth in their relationship. Join Us Live for BIPOC Mental Health Awareness Month! Celebrate BIPOC Mental Health Awareness Month with us! On Wednesday, July 17th, Elliott Connie will host a special live event on The Black Effect’s Instagram, featuring guided conversations on mental health within BIPOC communities. To participate, send a DM to @BlackEffect to confirm your spot. Don’t miss this chance to experience therapy in a new way! Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's episode begins with thoughts on the importance of mental health in BIPOC communities and how the current political climate affects mental health. The fear and anxiety caused by political changes and the rollback of rights are highlighted. The conversation then transitions to a therapy session with Jay and David, where they discuss the future of their relationship. They explore topics such as their shared vision, co-parenting, and the possibility of marriage. The importance of being mission-driven and having clear goals is emphasized. Jay and David explore the idea of marriage and how it would change their dynamic. Jay expresses her desire for David to show her that he is serious about their future together, while David acknowledges the need for behavior changes and stability.  The episode ends with Elliott expounding on how solution-brief therapy affects brain chemistry and the importance of recognizing patterns and making intentional changes. Join Us Live for BIPOC Mental Health Awareness Month! Celebrate BIPOC Mental Health Awareness Month with us! On Wednesday, July 17th, Elliott Connie will host a special live event on The Black Effect’s Instagram, featuring guided conversations on mental health within BIPOC communities. To participate, send a DM to @BlackEffect to confirm your spot. Don’t miss this chance to experience therapy in a new way! Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this conversation, the principal themes discussed are the importance of finding a therapist who understands one's cultural background, the dynamics of gender roles in relationships, the need for self-care and self-love, the role of trust in therapy, and overcoming obstacles and achieving goals. Elliott and Jay discuss the importance of giving oneself grace and focusing on one's accomplishments rather than flaws. They explore the impact of negative thoughts and the need to shift focus to positive aspects of life. They also emphasize the importance of setting boundaries to protect one's energy and mental health. The episode concludes with a question for listeners to reflect on their achievements and traits that have led to their success. Giving power to the positive evidence available to counter doubt or negative thinking. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your Life Upcoming Event: SFBT 2-Day Intensive Live Training – 2024 Anaheim, CaliforniaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode explores the importance of men expressing their emotions and the need for safe spaces to do so. It also delves into the four different styles of attachment and how they impact adult relationships.  This week’s session highlights a heartfelt discussion with Jay and Freddie that includes the impact of drug addiction and the importance of grace and accountability. It’s a beautiful conversation of forgiveness, understanding, and learning new things about one another.  Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your Life Upcoming Event: SFBT 2-Day Intensive Live Training – 2024 Anaheim, CaliforniaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The conversation highlights each family member and the importance of prioritizing discomfort and making decisions aligning with the person one wants to be. It emphasizes the need for self-reflection and distinguishing between self-reflection and judgment.  We also explore the importance of visualization and focusing on future goals to direct the ideal outcome for our lives. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640 Listen: Family Therapy, The Podcast Pre-Order: Change Your Questions, Change Your Life Upcoming Event: SFBT 2-Day Intensive Live Training – 2024 Anaheim, CaliforniaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we will be focusing on Jay and Freddie and the challenges they have ahead.  Freddie opens up about his past addictions and the fear of reconnecting with his nine children. While Jay is learning how her childhood has affected her positive outlook on life and her self-value. Jay discusses her current state of well-being, describing it as neutral. She struggles to recognize and embrace positive experiences, often perceiving them as neutral. Elliott challenges her to shift her perspective and notice the positive changes in her life. They discuss the importance of focusing on the good and choosing to be excited about positive experiences. Jay reflects on her role as a mother and the pride she feels for her children. Elliott encourages her to extend the same focus on the good to herself and others in her life. They explore the impact of shifting perspectives and choosing to focus on the positive. Freddie reflects on his contentment in life and the challenges he faces in maintaining relationships with his children. He explores ways to show love and care to his kids through little gestures and spending quality time with them. Fredrick shares his personal journey of transformation and overcoming addiction. Elliott encourages Fredrick to take accountability and make amends, emphasizing the need for persistence and consistency. They conclude by discussing the healing process and the potential for personal growth. Learn More: ElliottConnie.com Connect: @ElliottSpeaks Text: 972.426.2640See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.